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Congratulations on your decision to finally part ways. Navigating the ups and downs of a of a long term committed relationship takes perseverance and a certain kind of faith. I hope your latest decision to finally go separate ways is coupled with a choice to manage conflict with empathy and courage, and creating a good foundation for your beloved Son, King Andre.
Also, I applaud the dedication to your child. Your desire to prioritize him and his well-being says a lot about you guys character. Parenting is a hard job, often thankless, and I know that your young son, King Andre might not be grateful for your commitment to him when he gets older.
Its normal to Divorce your loved one but it’s reasonable when you do it in a more matured way while you avoid Social Media Drama, According to research, I discovered that one of the most persistent myths of divorce is that “kids always lose out”.
When the whole Social Media Drama Started, I felt its a planned strategy to get Tonto Dikeh Back to Spotlight or an avenue for Churchill to get more Popular as he always wanted but Please whether you’re remaining married or divorcing or divorced, you must set rule to manage and protect your child from your strained relationship meanwhile Nigerians are tired of seeing those STD, Drug Abuse and so many other stories.
Please Dear Churchill and Tonto Dikeh Please stop accepting fake and stupid advice from people who don’t love the future of your dear son, Andre Churchill. I will be glad if you both can forgive each other and stop all this social media dramas in order to make your dear son future brighter..''
By Dom Barcity.
Mind your business Dom
ReplyDeleteThey're divorced now people should stop being meddlesome.
Write Buhari a memo instead.
Unfortunately most people don't mind their business in naija
DeleteWhen they bring their business to the public, it's nobody's fault if people begin to trash it for them.
DeleteYea its high time we forget these people and focus on the main issue which is where our president is and he is going to come back.
DeleteNo one gives a fuck about these two anymore. They should disapper already!!!
ReplyDeleteWell said. I pray it is well received by them.
ReplyDeleteI hope they'll listen.
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Unforgiveness has done many damages on the marriages of this generation.May God have mercy.
ReplyDeleteTell them
ReplyDeleteDom Barcity,
Tell them.
Will they listen,two overgrown attention seeking babies.
ReplyDeleteWho is this person taking Panadol on another person's headache?...
ReplyDeleteIs your own life perfect?..
What's your business with how two adults live their lives?..
Are you jobless?...
Gerraahia mehn!..
😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteBut Queen the Auntcle makes sense.
LE leave talk.
DeleteIf them no hear their family members own, perhaps they might just have a moment of sober reflection having read this from a total stranger.
The Barcity dude or babe made so much sense.
The drama is really in bad taste. Enough.
Open letter on point
ReplyDeleteGood effort but will enter one of Tontos ear and go out from the other. Na today!
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DeleteChai i shouldn't be laughing o🤣
Gbam!
DeleteShe will soon dance to this letter.
I just tire for Tonto these days honestly
Lols
ReplyDeleteBeautiful advice
Af they ya?
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing like divorce here coz they weren't even legally married. They were just fucking each other and king Andre was born. The fucker (Churchill) and the fuckee (Tonto) should vanish coz they're both assholes!!!
ReplyDeleteKwakwakwakwa fucker and fuckee no be small
DeleteBut why are u shouting
Delete*In Galore's voice*
😂😂
Lol....but this is the truth. They were never legally married. I think they both new the relationship had no future, so they didn't want to make it legal.
DeleteThey were not married in the court but they were traditionally married which is legal.
DeleteThey we really legally married. Traditional marriage is a very legal marriage.
DeleteHian.
Mrs T please continue from where you stopped yesterday. People don't even know their customs and traditions anymore. And they have villages
How can traditional marriage be legal? Hear yourself, dem go court or e dey inside writing.
DeleteIf you do traditional marriage, the woman has 10 children for you, you can take another woman to court afterwards and she becomes the legal wife.
Tonto and Church-hill were never married, they should save us all this brouhaha.
We are tired of these 2 insane people.
But they know all these things you highlighted abi you too wan trend?
ReplyDeleteNawa 4 u Sha!👎
DeleteOK oo
ReplyDeleteThey are not children, make them continue with their nonsense
ReplyDeletePreach it!
ReplyDeleteiff the laik...
ReplyDeleteThis writeup be like say na only Churchill you dey talk to, Tonto should move on already, she should stop concuring to those orubebeb's comments biko.
ReplyDeleteYou have time to advise o.
ReplyDeleteR they stupid? Can't they think? Tonto has to say the Churchill touches his mother inappropriately??? I mean who does that? And she has a son for him o. Something are better left unsaid o.
Wish them all the best
Jasmine, what if she is right? (that's if she wrote that)
DeleteOr u are not aware such things exist???
Anybody believing Tonto should believe a tortoise.
DeleteJasmine, yes you hate Tonto, we get it but stop taking this issue personal,ewu.
Delete@Don Barcity....wehdonsah!!
ReplyDelete*Dom
ReplyDeleteThey should all give it a rest
ReplyDeleteThats the point. Nobody is siding any of them.. The point is that dey are saying too much on instagram especially Tonto. Even if they want to separate,they should do so silently.all ds talk is not necessary. Internet never forgets,their son will grow to read all ds
ReplyDeleteEach party wants to appear good and clear his/her name. Instead of them to keep it on the down low and move on.
DeleteAt the end of the day , no one cares, people are only gist hungry.
I pray they adhere to it.
ReplyDeletehahahahahaha The Queen, stop shouting hahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteThey married for the wrong reasons
ReplyDeleteLet's stop giving them the attention they seek.
ReplyDeleteHope they listen
ReplyDeleteNice letter to them both seriously they both like social media too much, so I don't think they will listen.
ReplyDeleteWhatever rocks their boat jare. There are too many things to think about than two adult babies.
ReplyDeleteI share the same sentiments. I feel constrained commenting on this issue because I those who truly knew what transpired to cause the breakdown of a marriage are, the husband, the wife and God. From my experience as a legal practitioner, I know things are never quite what they seem when it comes to marriage, ergo, caution should be applied when commenting on such matters.
ReplyDeleteI read some comments by people who felt Tonto was being judged unfairly for quitting the marriage. They felt she deserves plaudits rather than excoriation, because the average Nigeria woman would rather die than leave a bad marriage. Clearly, I can't speak for everyone but it appears the anger and harsh criticisms are directed at the way and manner the whole issue was handled. For me, it's not about leaving the marriage. I used the "D" word sparingly, I don't encourage divorce but I acknowledge it and would endorse it as a last resort, if life, limb or sanity are/is at stake. In Tonto and Churchill's case, they should have handled it better, more stealth and privacy was needed.
Even if you are married to a beast, a monster with subhuman proclivities with the temperament to match, if that "unholy" union produced a child, when it ends, celebrate if you must but do it in private and preferably alone between you and God. No matter how you look at it, it may call for celebration for you but not your child. For the sake of the innocent child, self restraint is key. Tone it down several notches. The events leading to the final dissolution of the marriage was disturbingly theatrical, much to the entertainment of many. From cryptic messages to interviews, to accusations and counter-accusations to cross-dressing, to leaked messages and all that jazz! *phew!* One could barely keep up.
Alas! It's finally over (hopefully). What's done is done and cannot be undone. I hope both parents keep a low profile for now, because of their son and find a way to parent effectively even if it comes at the cost of their egos. For now, their son comes first. The good thing with hot topics is, there are ALWAYS going to be more "breaking news". If they can lay low, before a couple of months, some other individual or individuals will be the traffic blazer for social media. I wish both parties inner peace and better luck next time.
Nice memo,i hope both of them especially Tonto listen to this and takes this seriously.
ReplyDeleteI hardly open any post on Tonto because there's a lot I want to say but alas typing epistles isn't one of my strong suits. Not like she gives two hoots anyway. So lemme keep walking 🚶🚶🏃
ReplyDeleteToasted bread is all I want.😁😁😁😁
ReplyDeleteMr writer please mind your own business and stop writing epistle about another man's life.
ReplyDeleteDon't see Churchill as the problem i hope Tontolet read and accept this memo
ReplyDeleteChai!!! I remember when tonto marriage ceremony cause traffic that year for rumuokwuta junction wey make me go one presentation late. Nw see wetin don dabaru. Aaaah!! Her marriage was short lived. It serves as a lesson to women to stop praising there spouse on social media instead do it private at the comfort of your home with sacred confidentiality. The marriage no even reach 2 years sef. Celebrity marriage na wa. One lesson i learnt on marriage in general is, if u are not mature in mind u are nt ready 2 be with someone in a relationship period. Tonto wasn't mature in mind and she saw just the surface as well as churchill.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm make them hear oooh
ReplyDeleteE don do abeg! Marriage failed, life goes on! Some of us have been there and never made noise about it, we simply moved on ...
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