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WICKED AND IRRESPONSIBLE HUSBAND

Dear Stella,
Thank you for this platform. I've been a silent BV for over 3years now though I hardly comment. Below is my chronicle + BVs pls accommodate my gbagauns.


I got married 2years ago to my horseband. My marriage produced a Son (My only gain). Other than this, It’s has been so far full of violence, lies, infidelity in the highest order and deceit. Before we got married, he lied about his previous relationship, financial status, his family background, his educational background etc. which I found out after our wedding. 

He brought different women (intimate girlfriends) to our matrimonial home (I’ve caught him twice) and when I complained about his serial cheating, he beats me up. He extorted money from me fraudulently; He sold one of the buses I bought for business purpose; He doesn’t provide money for the welfare of our Son and I when I complained, he lied that he had not been paid for months (He works with state govt); He sex starved me for over a year – part of this period his mother came visiting and he made her sleep on the same bed with me for 5 month (3months Omugwo + 2months extra stay);

 He tried to lure my cousin to be intimate with him (He confessed to me himself when he thought my cousin will disclose it to me but she never did); He made me to be suicidal during my pregnancy days (He abused me emotionally by accusing me that I trapped him with pregnancy when he wasn’t ready and that he would run away if I give birth to a baby girl).



I endured all the issues stated above hoping that he’ll change one day and things would get better but unfortunately, things got worse. Towards the end of October, We sat down to discuss the way forward and after thinking critically of what he has put me through in the marriage and I realised how my life has been on a halt for the period we’ve been together and how my finances has reduced to almost nothing (I had no money to run my personal business as my expenses was far more than my income and the Company where I work is affected by recession so there was work days reduction as well as salary)

 I decided that we end the marriage since I’m no longer attracted to him and he wasn’t showing any signs of supporting me financially. Upon telling him this, he beat me up again and took a knife to kill me. I managed to run out of the house that day with my son trapped on my back.

In November (Some days after he tried to kill me), He asked his elder sister to come live with us and when she came, she slept on the same bed with me till late January this year when she left my house to overseas

When I had my son, he lied to me that his salary was withheld by his boss for more than 6 months (I later found out it was a lie when I saw him Skye Bank statement of account showing consecutive monthly deposit of his salaries) which made me to pay all the bills charged in the hospital (He even made profit out of the money I gave him it as he was able to produce receipt of only delivery fees and medical items bought).

 I was solely responsible in my child’s up keep from him birth till June 2016 after a serious disagreement we had due to his irresponsibility to his son. He managed to start buying only diapers which he did up till January 2017 (He skipped buying sometimes and I helped him out). The only time he has bought food for his son was just once in January 2017.


He moved out of the house temporarily in December, 2016 and permanently in January this year to his girlfriend who happened to be his elder sister’s friend (I found out about the girlfriend recently) because he believed I used diabolic means to charm him to marry me. He lavished the lady’s money until money was no longer forthcoming. He then left the lady and made away with the lady’s car (He deceitfully registered the said car in his name), The lady managed to collect his car after she went to report him at his place of work, upon returning the car key to her, he beats her up and even attempted to kill her with a sharp object.

 This led to his arrest by the Nigerian Police. He was later bailed the next day by his friend while the girlfriend had sent him packing out of her house.

Am I wrong to seek for divorce, restraining order and child support from the court?

I need to move on before he gives me AIDS.


Stels pls use your red pen I need it badly.

After all what you just narrated you are still asking if you are wrong?please pack yourself out of that Situationship,thats not marriage at all ooooo.Save yourself now because you might not be lucky the next time....I am even surprised you went back after he chased you with a knife.