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Tuesday, May 02, 2017

This Is For Women -Must Know!

I agree with number 5-10..I know some will disagree but the side effects of going against them/it, is greater than the advantages!!!
Beautiful advice and whoever penned them down should catch a kiss from me!




97 comments:

  1. Hmmm it sha should not fly around and bring a baby home..God help we ladies.

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    1. In other words, don't be clingy!

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    2. I agree with that..... A Man truly know were his heart belongs.... If he decides to chase other girls.... Give him a condom and always reminds him that HIV is real.....

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    3. I let mine fly, today we have a baby with a crazy woman who does jazz and my kids are both Ill,hes broke and bitter,im taking care of my kids alone and worse,his family hates me for no reason and Im just wondering what to do with this marriage.

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  2. Don't have much time for 1-4 bcos 5-10 takes all of my time.

    ProudTeamSnoop....it is not ur snoop abeg

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    1. Yes, I am proudly team snoop, not because I suspect him of away match but I got to know his financial power through bank alerts so I know when to increase my demands. This babe gotta look fly always! My salary is not enough

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    2. Yes oooo...I snoop abeg...if not for snooping....

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  3. i repeat ..dont touch my phone..lol#sipsMoetnChandon#

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  4. Somehow I agree with all...

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    1. Me and my hubby are proudly team snoop, we even exchange phones. He says babe give me your phone and I say after you give me yours.he checks my WhatsApp and BBM. I check his social media accts. We are cool like that. I look over snooping and I chat with random guys but my hubby will never know despite his snooping. I chat only o

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    2. I touch my love's phone once in a while. He leaves it for me but I don't touch it.

      Life isn't about rules but understanding

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  5. Sometimes checking phones help o,so u know where u belong, but as a married woman checking a hubby, s phone is risky sha, snooping helps when one is still single, cos when u are married and u catch your hubby cheating una must settle cos u can't just leave cos of cheating,its not easy.By the way,since yesterday all my married exes are calling me, wetin happen?una don tire for una wives? una leave me go marry now una don dey find me again dey profess love.hian

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    1. Press ignore button on all, they want to try out okafor's lae on you # shine ur eyes babe

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    2. Them never tire for their wives them just want gbensh based on coca cola babe when u be

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  6. Hmmmm..... so true but the rules are so hard to follow

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  7. Foolish broke ass boy. Your mate dey box collect N8 billion, you are here fighting for yeye freedom. Who una freedom epp?

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    1. Lmao.....you is not nice...

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    2. Serena Williams na ur mate o, she de run for court earning millions annually, make u de der de wait for babalawo wey go locate boxer for u

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  8. If it is Anthony that won N8 billion, i will follow him to the ring self. If he lost, i will look for him spiritually.

    But you, i go dash you to the birds looking for lizards to wack

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  9. Lol.. @search for it and if it refuse to be found, nne let go

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  10. OK. Some ,if not most is right, the best thing is to have an open relationship, make him feel jealous, make sure you are hot always, don't chase away all your friends cos of a guy or marriage, you will need them later.above all pray for a godly man,you will have none or less drama.

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  11. I guess freedom here is subjective, what sort of freedom? Is the woman entitled to the same "freedom"? you can use your hubby's phone for other things nah, haba! What's all this leave his phone alone thing?

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  12. This was me like 2 years ago...
    But this is called settling!!
    The best thing that happened to me was moving to the states 2 years ago, mehn I found out we were just existing and not living back home.
    Why will you be in a committed relationship and can't check your partner's phone?
    "Committed " is the key word.
    If you are so scared of what you will find then why are you still there?
    The other points are based on individuals
    Ladies, if you start a new relationship and you are putting your all and have nothing to hide, make it clear that his phone is also your phone and vice versa. A man that wants to build something serious with you will stay. Nothing like yeye privacy...
    I bet peope can't boldly say this because they have one or two to hide... lol

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    1. Exactly! ๐Ÿ‘

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    2. Right on point...you can't tell akata not to check your phone.

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  13. I agree with the write up. A woman has to show independence. You cannot act like your life and destiny is dependent on him. You will scare him away. I have never been one to go through a man's phones. It doesn't cross my mind at all at all.
    Have your friends and let him have his own and do things that don't involve him sometimes. Gumgum ca n be irritating and annoying just like a clingy baby.

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  14. Lol @ awon chewing gum gals

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  15. Lol @ awon chewing gum gals

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  16. So why should I suffer my head to keep a man in the first place when they are like bird? Because a bird is always a bird and it can choose to fly away without returning anytime it likes.

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  17. I know Stella will support 5 to 10. Cos u are team no snoop.

    Me I agree from 1 to 4.

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  18. Ododo oro but as a man, I see no reason why my wife can't check my phone now.




    Mc pinky

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  19. 100% accurate.

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  20. Lol.

    The average Nigerian woman wildest dreams...'How to catch a man, keep him and protect him from side chicks' SMH.


    MISS Jacobs.

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    1. Nne ehh I tire o. Let reverse be the case now shooo

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    2. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ if only they were like me. Im usually to absorbed in myself to be focused on someone else. Infact if youre not ready to give me attention just port out cos i won't even have time to remember you exist. Even if i like you sef..... i cant be bothered. But the day i smell a rat, ANY rat i just send text that its over. If i dont really like you i just stop picking calls. Shikena. Explain what? To who? *hiss* I dont know why Nigerian women give men and side chics so much time, energy and focus. Don't you have anything else going for you?

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  21. I was on my lane jejely when my husband was brought home by his coleague that he was having a fever in the office.oga was very febrile, his friend handed me his phones as he was too sick to even stand upright.naso phone entet my hand o

    I give am panadil and he slept groaning once in a while,i was d dutiful wife tepidsponging him to reliev him
    I now heard beep,phone lighted up and i saw a strip of message 'sweety hope u r feeling better'
    I opnd d phone o n read d whole message that sweety make sure u take ur meds o
    I just typed a reply " u dont have to worry,i got well as soon as i saw my btful wifey, u know she is a medical doctor,she has takn cate of me wella
    Oga woke up much later to see his phone in my hand,my face gloomy like kilode so i told him ur sidechick is askin how u r doin
    See how his eyes clear,fever disappeared, i broke down in tears and i became d patient while he became d doctor, swearing he is faithful that d gal has been on his neck but he no de giv am face blabla

    Longstoryshort that is my #howibecameasnooper story

    Watchout for next episode

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    1. Hahaha.. Are you for real?
      The way this men ji asa nmadu isi digodi wuuu

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    2. Hmmmmmmmmm............. I dey follow ur story.

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    3. You broke down in tears? Lol. Wrong move. See relationships and marriage are like Chess games, you have to play it well!

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    4. Next time he will hide it better. I pray a next time doesn't happen sha

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    5. You dey wish for part 2 ni, nawa

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    6. You broke down in tears? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ wawwu! Emotional wife. i will just pack my bags before he wakes up. He will see pictures of me in zanzibar with credit alerts on his credit card, posing with any available muscle man i can find. On my social media handle. Cry for who? Them never born the man ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  22. Honestly, after flying the bird will come back home. Na wa O, men so una be BIRDS?

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  23. I am so guilty of no 5. Always looking for what I don't know. May God deliver me as I know it's d fastest way to kill a relationship

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    1. Yea..it is but depends on the attitude of the guy too...snooping been saving gals since 19gbogboro...

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  24. Smiles.

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  25. All of them are true but 5- 10 is so on point.Let the birdie bird fly, if it doesn't come back then let it go, you won't be needing it anymore.

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  26. Dear lady..

    Why don't you just tell us not to bother getting into relationships then? Like seriously? No touch his phones? I should let him fly? And probably come back to me with thousands of infections right?

    You are such a CLOWN!!!
    #Bye Felicia ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹

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    1. I'm telling you!!!

      I will check phone o
      It saved my life many times especially in my last relationship...
      I don't even check my Le boo's phone always,but once I carry it just don't give me any side eyes๐Ÿ˜’

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    2. Abi oh...
      Make e dey fly upandan go bring "jombo" come house๐Ÿ˜’

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    3. The author of this post must be booless

      Let him fly meaning... Let him sleep around and bring home stray children and diseases for you to care for.

      K. XOXO MYSTERY

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  27. And another kiss from me.๐Ÿ’‹.

    Basically, in a relationship or marriage where fidelity is paramount, it wouldn't be necessary, but if otherwise, your instinct would lead; except there's a speck in your eyes too.
    If you don't understand; watch "why did I get married 1& too(2).

    In other news.. Can Kcee stop singing?, Can he stop trying to make music? Every attempt is a flop, unless he's got a light bulb in the offing, I suggests he gives up biko.

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  28. Lol at the repetition of leave his phone. As long as he leaves mine then we are good.

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    1. My point exactly. I don't want any selfishness. Don't do what you can't tolerate. The most important rule of the game.

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  29. If the bird does not come back, search for it . Lmao . Mumu talk

    There should be commitment in a relationship if not what's the point?

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  30. Shebi its the one u'll free and flow well with for God knows how long, Next thing u'll see is a shocking divorce order filled on your behalf. Men matter tire me.

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  31. Pls simply say 6 not 10, cos 5-9 are same thing.
    Nne, none of the above mentioned can keep a man.
    They shld keep flying around till they contact sexually transmitted demons/diseases baa. OK try. But if d reverse shld b d case, they'll start beating/crying fowl. It's ok kwantinue.

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  32. Na so! I'd be sleeping on a bicycle and he would cheat and bring all the diseases in this world to me because I yam forming freedom giver. He has turned to bird that flies. If He is not with me then he should fly away as the bird that he is. But if he is with me then we are in it together. mmttchheeew.

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  33. Lol...to whom it may concern.

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  34. LMAO @ leave his phone 'alonu' (my own appellation of alone)....
    Bia leave his phone alonu !!! Ongini?

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  35. As long as he stayed away from mine.... I am ready to stay far from his too

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  36. I pray i don't snoop o, I don't even trust my shadow nowadays not to talk of an African man,most of whom ve gotten a PHD in cheating.I pretend as if I don't know his phones exist,that way he won't ve any reason to password it, then bam!...na me and the phones during his shower time๐Ÿ˜Ž...Amen to snooping๐Ÿ™Œ

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  37. Leave which phone alone.
    There was this guy I once dated that made me believe he was an angel and I in turn sang it as a hymn that phones are private and I can never touch even my gfs phone or bf.Guyman just free himself and left phone password free. One day my spirit directed me to check his phone.lo and behold oga was busy doing philantrophy to different girls.sending credit,crediting their accounts and sponsoring their outings and i was there doing wife material.
    I locked up and didn't even ask him,pretended that all was well.Omo the following day I started tasking him big time and sake of say I rarely asked,he was more than ready to give.With the most innocent of faces and outrageous sums i milked him eh till i met someone else.We are no longer together but I doubt if he is yet to recover from the shock after I told him every.

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    1. Outrageous sums I hope 500k and above???? Not from 20-40k

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    2. Sharp babe....no time....

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  38. So this my friend tells me never to check a man's phone bla bla bla.Meanwhile I know too well that her husband is cheating. last week I went to visit her and her husband forgot his phone at home.The phone rang for sometime but she refused picking. I went in and brought the phone to her to silence it cos of her sleeping baby.It was her husband's so called social mummy that called and just when she decided to pick the call ended.Next she saw on the screen was a msg from this woman telling him not to come with condoms that shebi he knows how much she hates it and that hope he knows that he is leaving her place by 10pm and so should better start a quarell with his wife so he will use that as an excuse to not return early.And this is a woman that is old enough to give birth to him o say she's in her early 60's.Hian?
    Na there I tell her say I dey come say I get appointment. I do not want to involve myself in their ish that's y I have refused giving her any advice o.
    Ignorance is bliss till a man brings you diseases and a pregnant side chick

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    1. Are you for real?!!!!!!! What!!!

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    2. Lmaoooooo ooooooooooo leave them with their 'I won't snoop' 'I cannot snoop.' 'I trust my man'

      Even a snake is more trustworthy. At least a snake, you know will bite you.

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    3. I always thought my Yoruba demon was innocent too until I checked his phone, and found him chatting up several girls, one of them was a prostitute. I got goosebumps, I could have caught STDs , this is a guy that is "allergic" to condoms. He got my antennas up when he started going to toilet with his phone, keeping it under his pillow when he sleeps. Around the house he will keep it in his boxers pocket. If my private part is not private, your phone should not be private.

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  39. My dear beautiful ladies don't mind these epistles it does not work every man. Just pray for God to give your own man period!

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  40. You can't touch ordinary phone
    but he can touch , squeeze and press your bobbi anyhow and sample your punani abi?

    Mtcheeeew .. dont touch his phone my ass. as a matter of fact it is our phone . lubbish

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  41. Totally agree with this write up, men always knows where their heart belong, just bcos his dating you does not mean you should turn fbi/CIA agent. Every man needs space. What will be will be

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  42. Aunty na lie oo.let him fly until he brings HIV home abi?na so my Aunty dey suffer am now.

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  43. Hmmmm, what did I get after all d freedom I gave him? Gonorrhoea!!! I'm done with man matter abeg!

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  44. Some men are animals! My two cent . How dare the man? I give my life and all and you and up cheating. One thing is I don't check my husband's phone he hasn't given me a reason to buy the day I will find out like I always say I will kill both of them since we are not in an open marriage. .My opinion. Okay bye

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  45. Stella,
    I am proudly #teamsnoop��

    Snooping has really done more good then harm for me personally.

    It's better you are prepared for the outcome like the boys scout motto than be surprised out of your wits depending how ugly the surprise is.

    Some married man are something else oooo, if you have a good man, hold on tight to him

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  46. Am a man and a team snoop member. Don't agree with 5 - 10. If number10 is give him his space then I would have agreed. We all need our little space once in a while. The leave his phone I don't agree. I have always say it's babe that are or see themselves as liability that your man will say don't touch my phone cause it's private. And your body that he browse is public abi? Once a relationship is getting serious then be ready to share the contents of that phone. What are you hiding. Your bank alerts? If I don't trust my wife with my money I won't marry her. A lot of babes see relationships as a means of making ends meet and a lot of guys too lie about their financial status just to get between your legs. A man that can't tell you what he earns, who he chats with and what's on his phone will surely disrespect,use and insult you. TRUST is the key ..... a lot of people discover how fake they are when they have already sealed the marriage deal. Abeg I don't even have a password on my phone but she has and I know it cause its for security reasons. I don't need it cause no one dares touch my phone...except my wife and children cause I keep very sharp eyes on them. So if a man says my phone is private and I need my freedom then you have a public toilet cause that's the only place that you can't even go with your wife cause you have it separated by male /female gender signs and you can pick up infections for free and can't sue so you got your freedom. Abu?

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  47. I have my boyfriends Facebook on my phone.

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  48. Hmmmm na wa oooh. Just spread my legs and read comments

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  49. I am team snoop all day everyday. If you are in a relationship, please snoop. my previous relationship dude was sleeping with underage girls and I dumped his ass. I promised not to snoop again in my next relationship as I was so desperate to settle down. but mehn no be me, I just recently found out that my now boyfriend whilst in a relationship with me he was busy reconciling with his ex, and now planning marriage, when I confronted him, he said he is only loyal to himself and neither of us. I said Wehdon sir, he claimed nothing like that will happen that he's just lying to her. He even made me feel guilty for checking his phone saying I could kill him if I can go to through the stress of snooping on him. I said bye bye to the relationship.

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