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Mistakes, Failures, Insult, Frustration and Rejection are part of Growth and Progress..
ReplyDeleteNobody ever achieved anything Worthwhile without facing these 5 things in Life, So never let anything change your determination and always remain focus cos your success is near....
Happy Sunday everyone
HBD dear
DeleteAge with grace
Happy boiday Isaacson
DeleteHappy Sunday Sharon
DeleteIt's not my bday yet
Isaacson dearie, it's remain "focused"☺
DeleteNice one
DeleteOlumofin you are very wrong!These does not apply to every man.In fact I'm happy when I see my wife make progress as she will be there to take care of some of the needs of home front.
ReplyDeleteSo bcos she will be there to take care of some of the needs of the home front that's why you don't feel threatened?
DeleteInteresting..
Exactly, why does he always ask questions for stupid men. A man who meets a succesful woman and can't handle her has himself to blame. He cant blame anyone for him not being man enough. It takes a real man to be with and love those women. So oga jolo stop asking mumu questions
DeleteMen should answer the questions.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha! World people for you jare. We are just insatiable! Brb to read comments biko
ReplyDeleteNot really a turn off, the guys in turn will ask for iphones,rent,money for biz, it's vice versa.
ReplyDeleteMany want this kind of successful women for a change jare.
DeleteBecause men are children who cant make up their fucking minds about what they want..
ReplyDeleteConfused gender, i still love em tho, lol
Not all,
ReplyDeleteSome men are but it all has to do with
1)their upbringing(family)
2)their opinion to life
3)how successful they are.
4)d lady's character
Read up n understand d 4 points urself
I'm not doppelganger dt hv all d strength in d world to type
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Because such men always want to subject women to be below them at all times.
ReplyDeleteThey want to remain a mini god to women.
You ask for, dem cuss you
You work for it yourself, they call you names.
Namsense.
I am not threatened by a successful lady.
ReplyDeleteWe all have various aspects in life we should be responsible for.
No woman can shake me.. Either materialistically or over-successfullically😉😉 (oyinboTohbadt)
My Ola I trust you nah!...
DeleteYour mama born you well!...
For me, I won't marry a working woman, I would rather she learnt a skill and I set her up. I work in one of the IOCS, and damn, the single n very rich women there are passed around from one expat,director,contractor,customer, bed to the other, I've had my share but when I'm ready, a fresh grad is it, they are loose mehn, not all but, majority, when guys sit at the polo house, they regale on their sexcapades.
ReplyDeleteYour mentality though!...
DeleteWhat made you think that the woman you want to set up won't be passed around?...
Will you be following her around?...
Na wah to you bros!...
I raise my ✋ ✋ ✋ for your self controlling attitude, above all, I pity the lady that will marry you, in fact she will write many chronicles, just introduce her to this blog
Delete*Larry was here*
It depends on how you conduct yourself. Are u saying that there are no independent,Godfearing single women? Is there vacancy?
DeleteLol, many fresh grads and even secondary school students these days have more body count than those women you are talking about. Plus your so called fresh wife can be fucking the whole neighborhood while you are at work. You better marry for the right reasons or you will cry hot tears
DeleteThat's what my uncle said until the village girls he brought and trained has made him have partial stroke 😂😂 That's what Azu Orakwe did until 'small' Chinwe showed him hot pepper in this Lekki. He's yet to recover. Biko contunu with your fixated mentality. Who am I to advice you? Hunh?
DeleteNaaa starry, she will never be subjected to a place where she'll write chronicles, I know what I want, a lady I can proudly show off, she's gonna enjoy so far I breathe. Again, even if my prospective wife is passed around, once I meet her, I expect her to stop, if she doesn't, be gone. For now we are all sowing our wild oats until we meet to part no more.
DeleteChikito you're hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂@partial stroke!!!!!
DeleteAs a self made woman by Gods grace I appreciate you for knowing you are not able to handle a woman who is not dependent on you. Women like me need men who are sure of themselves. I married one and we push each other. My daughter will be 18 and her father pushes her to not be the woman that a man can control. A lot of her friends are this way but I am sure you will find your own afterall, water dey find im level.
DeleteMe too I need answers
ReplyDeleteMEN= confused human beings!
Yes o, DAT was Hw my ex got jealous of my successful business that he went to do jazz for my success to dwindle, I went to church and I was told through prophecy that he had already planned on using me for money rituals too, I was stunned, dis is somebody I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I was willing to share everything with him, to think he was still having sex with me while planning evil is something I still don't understand, till today I still feel betrayed. Some men are not worth it
ReplyDeleteTo think you were gebnshing and praying and God still answered. Oooh! What a merciful God we serve 🙌🏽
DeleteChikito, He's indeed merciful gaskia.
DeleteI can't even stand a man that has certain way of reasoning.
ReplyDeleteI once met a man that one of the first things he told me is,he is not any woman's ATM.
And the stupid guy expected me to be his cook,cleaner and sex partner. I too told him im not any man's maid.
I don't even have a problem cooking for a guy but believe me he has to be worth it.
Your head is there...
DeleteThere is nothing when a woman is more successful than a man, but our naija women misbehave when they are,they use success not to want play their role of a woman again,they carry plate,they want you carry spoon,they sweep house,they want you to clean the table.abegi I pray God to let me be more successful than my wife o bcos you cant really rely on a suceesful woman without receiving insult.
ReplyDeleteIs dere anything wrong in helping ur wife? Guess couple are help mate, isn't it?
DeleteIs dere anything wrong in helping ur wife? Guess couple are help mate, isn't it?
DeleteLazy men everywhere.
DeleteMen don't only feel threatened, they are also very jealous and bitter especially if they are not as successful as women. As if it's the women's fault that they are not successful.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the man,these days most men are attracted to successful ladies, if you have nothing 'good' doing, OYO is your case.
ReplyDeleteLike genny, rita D., osas igbins, mimi of medlinboss,dumbor,chinye... of NNpc, etc, why are they still rich n single if men are attracted to dem like honey?
DeleteStephanie linus, omotola, omoni oboli, dakore, Ngozi......that works in shell etc are successful and married.
Delete@Becky, all the successful married women you mentioned with the exception of Stephanie Linus were already married or in a relationship before they became successful. You can't ditch your spouse because you became successful after many years of the spouse being the main bread winner.
DeleteIn the case of Stephanie Linus, I am not sure if she was more successful than her husband before they got together. If she was, I can bet you it was a family matchmaking where the influence of the family prevailed or he comes from either a wealthy or influential family.
For Dakore Akande, she married into a wealthy family. So I'm not sure why you mentioned her. Successful career women generally do not marry someone who has less than them unless they were already in a relationship where the man had more but the woman later became more successful.
@joro,how do you eat with this massive unkempt irungbon?
ReplyDeleteGosh,its looks so irritating.
And who told you that men feel threatened by successful ladies? Next time do your research very well before jumping into conclusion. Most men these days are looking for ready made ladies to marry. They don't wanna settle down for a nobody. Once they realized no sisi gum your body they easily take off.
Only a selfish man will feel threatened and this can also happen if the woman keeps rubbing it on his face.
ReplyDeleteNot all men are like that.
The interesting part is that us men don't acknowledge these feelings — we know better than to admit to feeling hurt by a girlfriend's success or men seem to "automatically interpret a partner’s success as their own (relative) failure. I think its somehow natural because a man's masculinity is founded in his ability to solve problems and save the day.the antidote is to work hard(er)...
ReplyDeletePhew! @King Ese Thanks for saying it as it is. Men know but they won't admit. Total waste of time trying to let them. Abeg me I have small sha but I go still collect person own join. And If I smell a bruised ego without reason I give arms length cos that's the gateway to emotional and physical abuse.
DeleteNice reply you have there king Eze.
DeleteIt's natural in men to feel threatened by a woman's success because it is built in them to be the provider, protector and teacher. When a woman gets this by herself and it's as if he is doing nothing, his ego begins to drop because he is no longer in charge and men like to be in charge.
This book by Myles Munroe explains it all "Understanding power and purpose of men"
Sorry I have to perch under your comment
And this happens when the woman is far more successful than the man
DeleteEvery mallam to him own kettle. Anyone who feels threatened by my brains, look,my money isn't good enough for me..
ReplyDeleteA case of some men not knowing what they want. But i also do know that there are men-a few, who still respect successful women.
ReplyDeleteThe ego thing disturbs them too much. Imagine a guy that refuses to enter a lady's car because he feels too proud to allow her drive him and prefers to walk instead.
ReplyDeleteMen like that will keep trying to subdue or suppress the woman or compete with her. A real man should be happy with his woman's progress and even encourage her to get higher.
Men don't know what they want!...
ReplyDeleteWomen should stop telling their men how much they earn...
For instance,If you earn 50k monthly,tell him you earn 15k!...
Make sure you tax your man!...
If you don't tax him,he will start spending it else where (to another babe off course)...
How I wish every babe will be as me!...
My queen am really working with your principle. I will never tell any guy am dating how much I earn. God forbid. I will collect and collect from him even if I earn 10x than him.
DeleteWho independent Lady EPP? If I hear.....
You are a correct babe intelligentsia!!...
DeleteHe already knows the answer, he even mentioned it Ego!
ReplyDeleteBiko Arsenal is playing man u today, may we not fall hands like always Amen
Only a man will low self esteem will be threatened by a successful and independent woman. You should be happy your woman is out there breaking grounds.
ReplyDeleteSome men don't just know what they want; they want to have their cake and eat it.
With*
DeleteStella do Rumour has it on patoranking nahhh.. haba no dey dull gan. Your ears ain't on ground again?.
ReplyDeleteAbeg what is the rumour
DeletePls ola text me ur akant no.
ReplyDeleteContact stellz
DeleteBecause most women who empower themselves and are successful, don't know how to behave with the success. Especially if the success comes after a while in the relationship.
ReplyDeleteAs much as you have a point there are exceptions. When a woman's husband upgrades status, she understands and starts treating him accordingly. When a man's wife does same, him no go gree say the woman don upgrade. He starts picking on her unnecessarily and trying to pull her back to where she's running from.
DeleteWhat is this talk of women cant behave. Men have money and behave like dogs in heat, is misbehaving just for men. A good woman is a good woman. Stop looking to control an adult. Lazy men.
DeleteSome will rob you to be successful sef. Their inferiority complex is outstanding. Giggolos
ReplyDeleteIam trying to start up a fashion line, I don't know where or how to begin ,can anyone please put me through
ReplyDeleteAn independent, financially stable, career minded women turn me on a great deal. I am not intimidated by them instead I like to know what makes them tick. Neither do I despise those who aren't any of the above. But women that are taller than me kinda intimidate me. Funny thing I'm 6ft. But taller women intimidate me. Lol
ReplyDeleteLol, some men naturally feel threatened by women success
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Delete♬♬♬♪♪♪Your problem de for your height ohhh...
your problem is a problem
this problem is your problem
the boys them sha we go solve am
we go join am together and solve am♪♪♪♫
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Same here. Women generalize a lot.. Super annoying.
Delete#Nothing is permanent. Make peace with this*
ReplyDeleteWho is a successful woman that don't need a loyal man? Scared of successful women makes you less of a man. Men, love that successful woman and make your one and only woman. Women are really making it these days. God help us all.
ReplyDeleteMen are not intimidated by successful women. It is the successful career woman that walks around with a chip on her shoulder. There belief is that if I am successful, why can't the man be just as successful as they are. So they look down on any man who is not on the same level or have more than them.
ReplyDeleteWomen generally are attracted to money and power. When a successful woman has both, they keep searching for men who at the very least are on the same level as they are or have more. So for a lower earning man to successfully date or be married to a successful woman, it's either she became successful after they were already in a relationship or there was a family influence where they were matched up by family members.
This is why you see so many unmarried successful women.
Nna free that matter. Me i cant stand a lazy man or a man who cant hustle his way up. If i dey wake up dey rack brain day and night, why cant he? Duuh!!
DeleteNonsense. Successful women are burdens. The ones that claim success use it as extortion tools. I have dated women who drive fancy cars but expected me to buy tires or assist in fixing the cars when they broke down. They have this sense of "a beg borrow me N1m for blablabla" acting of it is a chicken change. Yes. Chicken change they don't have. Successful women mantra is a mirage. There are only just a handful of them. Most of them are poor pretending to be successful.
ReplyDeleteWhen men wake up to the reality of this day, know that their masculinity does not lie in their pocket, and stop trying to control everybody but their penises, they will realize that women hustle pass them these days. Our men are too busy looking for who will let them trample on them, meanwhile the women are not slowing down. Borders are opening, the Internet has made the world smaller and Nigerian men are still looking for who to control. Wait till you start looking around for wives
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