Juliet is spitting fire in this advice and she has every reason to....
Violence is never a choice anyone should make!! ‘Why Didn’t You Just Leave?’ A question we are all quick to ask but we should never be the judge until we hear Domestic Violence Survivors Explain Why It’s Never That Simple!!!
80% of women experience violence in relationships around the world and its growing rapidly; We need to speak up and lend our voices as much as we can to encourage these Victims to speak up early enough to avoid a nasty fate, keeping quiet and thinking that He/She will change is not the solution!
Also; When a gun is present in a domestic violence situation, it increases the risk of homicide for women by 500 percent.
#domesticviolence shame unto every so-called celebrity that is actually tweeting and snapping while mocking any thing concerning another woman's well being that is out there in the news...
Don't forget Karma is a real bitch; be careful what you wish for others. #sayNotodomesticviolence Thank God there are authorities in place nowadays to do the needful and deal with these maniacs!
Violence is not an excuse and should never be a choice no matter what!''
Well said. DV is a no no and shouldn't be encouraged. If u are shading anyone passing through an ish, remember that what goes around comes around. No one ever prayed for a toxic relationship.
ReplyDeleteOn point.... Madam adviser
ReplyDeleteIt is never that simple but when the men kill their wives will it be simple for them or when the children learn how to be violent from how their father treat their mother,pls there is no excuse for domestic violence,it is either you walk away or report him to the necessary authority.
ReplyDeleteHave you been a victim before?. If NO you better shut up before life throws that challenge your way. People always think they got it all figured out until they are given the test.
DeleteAnonymous pele oooo,I know the God that I serve will never make me a victim so you that is a victim continue being a victim until you die a victim.
DeleteYeah true....till one wears the shoe...
ReplyDeleteGeorgina Onuoha also wrote about this DV
Word! Thank you J. Ibrahim.
ReplyDeleteIf marriage is that bad? Mastubate please and leave long story.
ReplyDeleteJuliet has spoken, whose next? Come n take 🎤
ReplyDeleteWhat is all this news about Domestic Violence everywhere? How did we end up like this?? What is actually the cause of all this? We never heard much of this during our fathers/parents yet they stayed happily in their marriage. Lord please remove any spirit of conflict in my family by the time I'm married, give me a submissive and faithful wife whom I'll love and adore till death do us apart. Amen.
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U didn't add he should give you wisdom to handle any ishh, in order not to ever raise your hand against your wife.
DeleteOur parents stayed but not happily.
DeleteAnon 9.39am, thank you oh. Stayed happily indeed, my father used to beat my mother right before us. Elastic in those days, the women were ready to die in the marriage and didn't want to leave because of the children so they accepted the beating in good faith.
DeleteThe women of this generation are wiser and are refusing to accept such package as part of marriage.
The day my husband tried stunts with me, he didn't hit me but he was so aggressive. I told everyone that materred in our lives from priests to his parents to some people he respects.
Though I agree some women push their men to the wall but beating her is never the solution.She is your partner not slave.
DV will always thrive when a partner is psychologically and financiallyrics dependent on their spouse. You will be surprised at how many financially secured women are been abused by their partners everyday because they feel the need that covering of marriage to be socially acceptable in the society and hence they continue sticking to ban abusive marriage. These women are lions in their field of practice bt cats in their homes because they dnt want people to say "Oh she has money and that is why is not submissive hence the husband had to lay his hands on her"...DV is a psychopathic disease eating fast our generation and only we can help ourselves by speaking against it continuously
DeleteI follow you wonder tooooo. Amen to your prayer. Lool
DeleteLols...it is well my Sandy.
DeleteIf some of our parents were having this type of problem... I'm sure some of us won't have been birthed.
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Word..... She is so on point on this one
ReplyDeleteAnd she's shading who exactly?
ReplyDeleteIts just an advice
DeletePreach sister Preach. Ok, we don hear. But her hips in that gown is the real deal. Hips don't lie #shakirashakira
ReplyDeleteGood girl
ReplyDeleteHahaha.. she is referring to Churchhills side chic Roseline..its all good sha
ReplyDeleteDecoder..
DeleteShey na startimes be your own?
No..Ola 'poverty' let's just call it an educated guess from Rosaines post yesterday..
DeleteYou wrote my mind Roseline mallu should shut that her stinking mouth.
DeleteHabiakwa..advisers of the universe. The truth remains nobody can help any DV victim until he/she decides to take a walk . it's as simple as that. When some of them were offered help, they turned it down claiming they love their partners, not until when the panel beating becomes unbearable before they will speak up
ReplyDeleteNigerian women love that "Mrs" title more than the air they breath.
And some of them are ashamed of leaving bcos they've insulted nonsense out of the single ladies and single mothers around them calling them of sorts of names. So, when the sh*t hit the ceiling they find it very difficult to leave. Take for example one popular blog visitor that coined the word "gwegwe" for single ladies on this blog. She was so rude to the unmarried ones. What happened at last, she had problem with her husband and was sent packing after series of panel beating. That was how she disappeared from SDK blog till today bcos of shame. But before she was sent packing nko,she received beating tire,but refused to leave bcos of shame.
Life is fragile, let's walk with caution.
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DeleteI want to plant a wet kiss on your lips right now especially for that last line.
DeleteMaybe she should stick to this kindda talk, watched one of her movies and i said to myself acting is not for this one.
ReplyDeleteWomen who suffers DV should take a cue from that j lo's movie I think its Maid in Manhattan or something, she plan keep for the guy
The movie is called "enough".
DeleteD movie is "Enough" I think
DeleteEnough(the movies name)
DeleteThat's the movie, thanks *Anonymouses*
DeleteGod bless you Juliet!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm.....May God heal all women going tru this in Jesus name.
ReplyDeletethe rate husbands beat their wives these days is alarming.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you on this Juliet . It's not easy for the victims to leave easily if children are involved....
ReplyDeleteIf they can't leave because of their children, they should at least keep their private lives private. Not after slaying on Instagram,defending the beast of a man who violates you, you then come out with a swollen eye and expect pity.
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