She quoted someone, saying "there's nothing like cheating because you do not own anybody".
She also said "the husband and wife do not own each other, honesty is the key word". "When people cheat, it's all about what they want. What I find funny is the assumption that only men have the right to cheat, that's not true. Both men and women have the propensity to cheat".
"However, the society punishes the women more. Things have changed, feminism and all. Now, the consequences of a man cheating in his marriage are now higher. In Western societies where the woman gets half of the man's properties after divorce, men tend to cheat less."
"Women now cheat more because the consequences are no longer dire. They do not cast them aside like it was done in the past. What I am trying to say is that being in a marriage does not mean you both own each other. When you make your partner feel owned, that gives rise for pretense.
They won't be able to express how they feel. Men are made to believe that sex is an entitlement that could be gotten from any woman. I hope a time comes when men feel belittled to have s3x with just anyone".
" It is not natural that only men should cheat. It is natural that both men and women should desire to have s3x. Can we all just get away from the idea of cheating and see s3x as something we do as part of our emotional well-being? Let's start seeing relationships as something that makes us become better beings by being with the other person. Problems will come and we'll deal with them as we progress. Once again, you cannot cheat because you do not own me"
She just continued with beating about the bush....
''Aunty''Funmi still havent forgotten how nice you were to me...Still got mad love for you 'crazy' woman!..I know you will read this..*Blows kiss*
She also said "the husband and wife do not own each other, honesty is the key word". "When people cheat, it's all about what they want. What I find funny is the assumption that only men have the right to cheat, that's not true. Both men and women have the propensity to cheat".
"However, the society punishes the women more. Things have changed, feminism and all. Now, the consequences of a man cheating in his marriage are now higher. In Western societies where the woman gets half of the man's properties after divorce, men tend to cheat less."
"Women now cheat more because the consequences are no longer dire. They do not cast them aside like it was done in the past. What I am trying to say is that being in a marriage does not mean you both own each other. When you make your partner feel owned, that gives rise for pretense.
They won't be able to express how they feel. Men are made to believe that sex is an entitlement that could be gotten from any woman. I hope a time comes when men feel belittled to have s3x with just anyone".
" It is not natural that only men should cheat. It is natural that both men and women should desire to have s3x. Can we all just get away from the idea of cheating and see s3x as something we do as part of our emotional well-being? Let's start seeing relationships as something that makes us become better beings by being with the other person. Problems will come and we'll deal with them as we progress. Once again, you cannot cheat because you do not own me"
She just continued with beating about the bush....
''Aunty''Funmi still havent forgotten how nice you were to me...Still got mad love for you 'crazy' woman!..I know you will read this..*Blows kiss*
Funmi iyanda......she is bold like that
ReplyDeletePlease lawyers. What is the take on law on a situation where you discover that your child is not from DH. Amidst divorce where the man wants to have the child. Meanwhile DH was a divorcee but never told the wife and hence used bachelor in the marriage registry.
DeleteSuch a bad advice for young women and men Funmi Iyanda!...who do you think you are to give this useless piece of shit advice?..what about the men who don't cheat?,guess what?..their wives just read this and have made up their minds to cheat!..worry little, Their sins are on your head and you have your creator to answer to.
DeleteGbam!!!
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ReplyDeleteLet the cheating begin!😂
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ReplyDeleteMmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteI saw the video this morning,its all good but what is bad is bad.
ReplyDeleteI wish the benefit that goes with the western law when one is divorced can be applied here in Nigeria,I think there would have been less divorce cases,so the men can learn their lessons
ReplyDeleteNa today? Men n women cheat, openly n codedly. It's when u r caught you'll b called an ashewo!
ReplyDeleteWe read it on here everytime.
*singing* Fuck I fuck, why u too dey like to fuck alone e ooo!
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Deletewhat the fuck do u mean what is bad is bad? do men have the birthright to cheat? a man has no more rights than a woman....if you cheat as a man just know that your wife too is liable to cheat period....if i bring fidelity to the table then my man must if not if e tire me i will cheat to make myself happy....if we are both tired then let every one answer dia papa name
ReplyDeleteAbeg Aunty Funmi get offsprings? Na Africa we dey Aunty we neva migrate to River Jordan island o.
ReplyDeleteIn the end,its still a man's world.
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ReplyDeleteFunmi is such a damaged girl. Like her late female lover she's also a Buddhist.
ReplyDeleteWow, tufiakwa!
DeleteWhether men cheat or women cheat, adultery(and fornication) is still wrong in the sight of God.My 2cents.
ReplyDeleteI love funmi scatter ,i just cant call her aunty ,i just love to call her funmi .😍😍😍😍
ReplyDeleteThat's y I like uk oo, though men still cheat but they suffer during a divorce, it's a woman's country
ReplyDeleteAunty wehdone ma cheat on
ReplyDeleteOld age is affecting this one... anyway she's passing a passionate message we already know to her tribe to continue their cheating ways.
ReplyDeletePls you leave tribe out of it.
DeleteAbout that no one owns anyone part i would say NO... I own my hubby and he owns me starting from the day he put a ring on it 👋 and that I put a ring around his pipi. I own dat pipi forever and ever till death do us apart. If he tries to cheat may pipi not rise up ijn. I gat mad love for my property.
ReplyDeleteGbam.... Abeg tell them o. The two shall become one. Who says no one owns the other. They both own each other once they sign the dotted lines. Abeg leave Funmi Iyanda alone. When the fail in an aspect of life they start justifying what is not. Young ones it's how you lay your beds that's how you will lie on it. If you think your husband is public property or has no owner so shall it be but if you know and you are sure he is yours then he is your damn property and don't let any marriage frustrated person tell you otherwise. Am a married man of almost 20yrs. I confidently say I own my wife and she owns me 150%....cause of the lovely children she has given me. Cheating is NOT acceptable both ways cause marriage and relationships are built,maintained and sustained on TRUST !!!
DeleteLol....
DeleteLol @ chameleon kuku kill me
DeleteWell, that's her opinion. We are trying to manage the spread of HIV here.
ReplyDeleteThis woman sef...that's how she made a rubbish statement during the BBN brouhaha that people hate TBOSS because they want to be like her. That people hate what they wish to be like. Keep fucking anyhow cos u can, HIV and STDs are real!
ReplyDeleteSee this old woman.
ReplyDeleteAfter paying a woman's brideprice and marrying in the presence of God you go to SM to say nonsense. This is how these people stay justifying their failures by trying to stir up controversy.
See, a man owns his wife just as the wife owns her husband. If in doubt ask your bible.
Even your village gods know that one.
If she has sense let her try marring more than one husbands at same time and lets see.
When a man and woman stand in the presence of GOD to take their wedding vows, they now own each other!
ReplyDeleteCheating is not a sole right of a man or woman! Just that women are more at the receiving end than men! Hence, women are more cautious. If not for pregnancy and society shaming, men for see shege in the hands of women! Men fear this, thus, so much law and scriptural doctrines to suppress women!
BTW, is it not with women, men cheat with sef? Both single and married? What an irony!
Y'all should mind who you listen to. Just listen to what this woman that calls herself the "chief witch" of Naija is saying. Don't take it lightly that she boldly calls herself a "witch", it's not a joke, witches abound and have their religion and sects in the UK.
ReplyDeleteThe bible tells you in 1Corinthians 7:4 that your body belongs to your husband and your husband's body belongs to you. You both have AUTHORITY over each other's body. Then some woman, who is best an atheist, will come to tell you otherwise.
Let's please have discernible spirits and not get carried away with who we think she is.
Yoruba women sha. They don't forbid anything. A Nigeria girl stays abroad for 2months and start forming western feminism. But the westerners will never imitate our own culture. Point of correction Aunty: no western law says only the man's property will be shared in the event of divorce, they share both, men and women. It only happens that the percentage of men richer than women is higher that is why men feel the financial impact more. Now there is something called pre-nupt. You sign agreement whereby each party leaves with only what they brought in. During GEJ erra if we had started kilking muslims just Because boko haram where killing xtians would that have solved the problem? No. Stop advising the African woman to cheat, it remain a cause and a taboo in our land. Let's advise the cheating men to be responsible.not all men cheat anyway.
ReplyDeleteYoruba women sha. They don't forbid anything. A Nigeria girl stays abroad for 2months and start forming western feminism. But the westerners will never imitate our own culture. Point of correction Aunty: no western law says only the man's property will be shared in the event of divorce, they share both, men and women. It only happens that the percentage of men richer than women is higher that is why men feel the financial impact more. Now there is something called pre-nupt. You sign agreement whereby each party leaves with only what they brought in. During GEJ erra if we had started kilking muslims just Because boko haram where killing xtians would that have solved the problem? No. Stop advising the African woman to cheat, it remain a cause and a taboo in our land. Let's advise the cheating men to be responsible.not all men cheat anyway.
ReplyDeleteUna no go teach the public better thing, mtcheeww
ReplyDeleteWetin Funmi go talk before?
ReplyDeleteDidn't she cheat with a married man- Segun Odegbami?
A cheat will always be a cheat. And always trying to justify their actions.