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WHEN BIRTHING FEMALE CHILDREN IS A CRIME

Good day Mrs Stella,pls i want my story to be a chronicle and if
approved,let me know when u will post it.As a youth,i was a member of a Pentecostal church and a choir member when i was introduced to my husband by a church member,we courted for a few years before marriage,i was still in school then,so after my service year we got married,that was after doing HIV test,genotype,pregnancy test and blood group,all the test result were okay.although during our courtship i noticed some bad altitude which i foolishly ignored and was putting the church member that introduced us into consideration
not knowing that i have my own life to live.

Now the marriage is 12 years with 3 daughters,i am 40 years while hubby is 53 years old,it has been hell.when my second daughter was 5yrs,she was diagnosed to be SS(sickler),it was a big blow to me,my whole world almost crumbled but
after i was properly educated over her condition i have been trying my best to give her the proper care.i even went to the lab the test was carried out in my state,the lab attendant no longer work there,the owner of the lab said he does not know what went wrong.

Now after 12 years of marriage my husband want me out of the house that i have female children for him and that he is tired of the marriage.he nags constantly,my presence irritates him,apart from paying the kids school fees,every other expenses falls on me with a salary of less than thirty thousand naira as a civil servant,that before the middle of month the salary is finished and i start borrowing.

To be truthful,nothing gives me joy anymore apart from my kids,sometimes when i look around me and see the situation of things i feel like dying. A friend advised me to report the case at ministry of women affair.

 Please my fellow bvs is it the right thing to do,as i always
report him to family members who will always tell me not to worry that they will talk to him but yet i see no changes,the church member who introduced him to me is late.

Please advice me, i really want to move on with my life but i lack the strength and courage to do so.i am tired of the constant quarrelling,which sometimes lead to pushing,we live
like total stranger,if i greet him he wont answer,if he manage to
answer,he will hum it.

I have been putting my best to make things work out but hubby is not satisfied,i want a peaceful home but do not know what to do again.please advice me.

Thank you.

Is it very very dicey and difficult handling someone who has the kind of mentality your husband does,especially when he doesn't know that he is the one responsible for whatever child you birth.