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LIAR FROM SINGLES MINGLES.

Hi Stellz!
First, I'll love to commend you and appreciate your humanitarian and passionate style of blogging. Your blogosphere is an amazing,interesting, funny and crazy home for all, (even to some insane and not so friendly peeps). May God continually bless and protect your family and all the BeeVees.

I've been a fan of your blog for years, I comment once in a blue moon as Arcadian Guy and my day is never complete without IHN (In House News) and EEI (Educative, Entertaining and Inspirational) posts.

So..... As a shy, timid and gentle Yoruba angel that I "is" now.....

Lol!, I participated in last year's Single and Mingle (October
Edition) and I met some amazing people. I won't mention names but Klitomania knows herself..... Lol! I made friends and fell in love with a lady.... Miss S. She's an intelligent and talented lady who understands life and relationship goals. We met 2 months after and clicked immediately, my friends told me I had won a lottery with her.

The chemistry was superb, we'll have a cooking competition and have friends over to judge our culinary skills. She brought me out of my shell and practically made me an extrovert. A month later we took it a step further and made love. Stellz, it was heavenly. We never could get enough of each other afterwards, in her car, my crib, her kitchen, her office desk..... It was that adventurous.


I told her about my marriage intentions and she told me to take it slow that she wasn't going to pressure me. I agreed and everything was going smoothly until last month when my cousin came back from school and we got gisting. 

She asked about my love life and I told her about Miss S and showed her a picture of her. To my surprise, she mentioned
her name and told me she was married to her friend's brother because she attended the wedding. I was in shock but didn't believe her. She called her friend who confirmed it by sending a picture.


I saw her the next week and carefully and sensitively tabled the
question to her, she denied at first but after I showed her the
picture I got as evidence, she started crying and admitted it.

Apparently, she got married and wasn't enjoying the marriage because her husband is always travelling and doesn't want kids for now, telling me how much she'll love to continue what we have. This is someone I dreamt of starting a life with.


I feel used and deceived. Still in shock, but I'll have to move on. I blame myself for been blind to some signs that might have showed up. I so wanted to announce to you our wedding date. I am hurting and I don't know if I can take another heartbreak. It's really painful and I'm emotionally down. Gradually slipping back into my old shell and I don't want that as it is beginning to affect my work and relationship with my peeps.

How do i forget her and move on?

 I am trying to move on but my reserved nature is an
hindrance as I am still hurting. I am trying to concentrate more on work but something would always remind me of her. I need a major distraction.

Feel free to post my mail so people can learn. I'll welcome friends that can get me out of this low state as i don't like it myself.

Thanks a lot.

Ok let me add your email address for new friends...My Dear,please move,ISH happens!
lovelyarcadian@gmail.com