STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SERIAL HEARTBREAK
Hi Stella,
I hope you are well, dear bvs God bless you all. Stella please i need urgent help for a friend and i am very positive bvs will suggest something that can help.
Ok, so the story goes like this, i will start by introducing my friend, she is from Zimbabwe, she is extremely beautiful and curvy (if you guys have seen South African girls just imagine this girl like that) she has a Masters degree in a Chemical Engineering from one of the best University in the world,. If this girl speaks in public ehn you'll bow down and worship God, she is very intelligent. Very fashionable, also God fearing, so soft spoken and humble to a fault.
The problem now is that this girl has never been in a relationship for more than a month, guys pick her and drop her like she's trash and the tricky thing is most of these guys will chase her for years and months but when she finally bulges they will just break up with her.
My friend has attempted suicide 2 times, especially how one of the guys dumped her and got married to the next girl within 4 months. As if that wasn't enough she met another guy that seemed better, he chased her like he was gonna die as soon as she agreed, he dumped her in two weeks, in fact the guy threw her a big birthday dinner, we were all happy that this is it, you wont believe that the next day after the birthday she never heard from him again and she tried so hard to contact him, this guy went quiet from then till date, now he's engaged.
We all cried, she attempted suicide again but thank God it failed. After the suicide failed she fasted for 3 months till 6 every damn day for the guy to come back, the next thing we saw on social media was his engagement.
Late last year, this very nice guy saw her, chased her, begged me to speak to her, begged everyone possible just to get her cause truthfully she is very appealing in all ramifications. she agreed to date him this year April around Easter cause the guy went over and beyond to prove that he is different from the other guys (she even explained why she was resisting him and she further explained that she can't take any more heartbreak, because she has resorted to being single for life) but this guy no gree o. Anyhoo this guy broke up with her yesterday again. I was like whaaattttt?!!!!?
The weird thing is she doesn't even sleep with them though she said they perform oral sex on each other, every single one of them (she goes down on them and they return the favor too).
The naija in me is being superstitious to think this is spiritual but maybe it is not, but all the guys exit almost the same way. They are usually so brutal with her, could this be something spiritual?
Bvs please help us out, in our circle of friends she is the oldest one and she is the only unmarried one. I will go with her to Nigeria if need be.
Late last year, this very nice guy saw her, chased her, begged me to speak to her, begged everyone possible just to get her cause truthfully she is very appealing in all ramifications. she agreed to date him this year April around Easter cause the guy went over and beyond to prove that he is different from the other guys (she even explained why she was resisting him and she further explained that she can't take any more heartbreak, because she has resorted to being single for life) but this guy no gree o. Anyhoo this guy broke up with her yesterday again. I was like whaaattttt?!!!!?
The weird thing is she doesn't even sleep with them though she said they perform oral sex on each other, every single one of them (she goes down on them and they return the favor too).
The naija in me is being superstitious to think this is spiritual but maybe it is not, but all the guys exit almost the same way. They are usually so brutal with her, could this be something spiritual?
Bvs please help us out, in our circle of friends she is the oldest one and she is the only unmarried one. I will go with her to Nigeria if need be.
*This is serious oooooooh*
Probably being given incubus/succubus demon as a child or she has a terrible character. My money is on the former.
ReplyDeleteAre the guys Nigerians or her fellow Zimbabweans.
DeleteThings happen ooo, i was asking a girl out sometime ago when one night like that i was attacked by women all tying white wrapper with canes flogging me as i flogged them back it was a serious battle, they were warning me to leave their princess alone, while this battle was going on i saw her in one corner crying on the floor, i thank God i could fight them off but i never asked her out again i began to avoid her like a plague. i bet if she does not know who she is in the spirit world she would be asking this same question this poster is asking now, i got married seven years ago and i still see her around as a single woman, the other one was one other girl I was dating, I came home from one Sunday service and I met her crying seriously and I was worried because she refused to say anything for a long time until she opened up and told me that her people came to beat her up spiritually because she did something wrong to them na so I sit down they look am, needless to say I ended it stylishly. You need to pray yourself out of this bondage like someone suggested get a copy of prayer rain and command the morning and pray like you have never prayed before, anyway that's what i did then and still doing because one should never cease to pray.
Delete@ernie I believe u bro, my cousin tried to seek my friend hand in marriage same thing exactly same thing happened to him that makes him flee..... Guy man run pass house my bro said including her joined them to flog him in his dream..... He still talk about it till date! My own experience was that anytime I have a heart to heart talk about finding a solution or I advise her to change church or go to mountain of fire believe me I always experience setback in business or bad dream,I was advise to stop that she knows her problem. Now I only pray for her.
DeleteIf only she can come to phc,i would have loved to take her to my prophetess...she won't even spend a dime and she will be delivered!!!
DeleteI have seen worse cases,no be new tin...
I'm in the same situation. I'm tired of praying. Pls anybody with a solution, pls drop info, I will contact you.
DeleteKidnapper!!!
DeleteAbeg help me, for over 3 years man never toast,I found out recently its a generational curse that it happens am the unlucky one that will not get married but can have kids and vice versa for my sister. I have prayed and fasted, prophet have eaten my money but yet no solution. Plz help me, I don't mind travelling all the way.
DeleteTell your friend to relocate to mfm prayer city. She should not leave until spirit husbands or mammy water them don finish for her body.
Delete@ Ernie did you tell the girl or you just ran away?
Tell your friend to read the book "SIN IN THE HOUSE -a revelation of the blood covenant". It is on amazon.com. There is electronic copy too.
ReplyDeleteSay wat!
DeleteSay wat!
DeleteShe should stop giving Oral sex ,let's see how it's goes .....
DeleteAnd also check her vagina ...you never know
Prayerful, fasted for 3 months, then didn't hesitate to perform oral sex.... e dakun o! I am not understanding
ReplyDeleteLmao!
DeleteLMAO!!!
DeleteRotf
DeleteWhen a girl thinks she is "too beautiful" that's what happens.
ReplyDeleteThe beauty is just in her head
What about character?
That is what matters to most men
Everything is not about beauty and brain. Her attitude nko?
DeleteAnon 15:05...for christ sakes leave character abeg! There is something really faulty about her foundation spiritually ( if that post up there is true). She needs spiritual intercession ASAP. Even girls with really unreasonable character hold relationships for years! Haba! Something is terribly wrong...maybe a wicked spiritual husband. Queen n boss come in here, ds is ur speciality. Advice d babe Pronto abeg.
Delete@anon16:35,you are Right!
DeleteIf it was character then most of these terrible ladies around would never have been married... Character makes them all run within a MONTH??? Kilode? Does she breathe fire?!!
DeleteYour friend may not be picking them well.
Deletepls can i have ur number?
DeleteThe foundation of your friend's father's house is really faulty. She will never get married unless she goes to see a very strong man of God to deliver her from every ancestral spirit that dont want her to get married.
ReplyDeleteShe is good for chopping and not for marraige. Zimbabwe dem sabi do juju na. Let her look for a strong man of God to free her from these curses following her.
her spirit husband dikwa very strong. She knows what is wrong with her but she is pretending.
Wawuu
DeleteYour friend needs spiritual cleanings,though not her fault.Even those guys involved don't really knows why they left her if you should asked them. She should go for cleanings
ReplyDeleteVery spiritual
DeleteHamm maybe she can try asking one of them that she still talk with to know the problem. Maybe there is something she is doing that is scaring them away. Let her take it to God and she should stop any intimacy with any other man she will meet.
ReplyDeleteoluwa lole se
ReplyDeleteIf it's not her attitude, it's probably spiritual.
ReplyDeleteWhere's queen and boss and the tea drinker? These are the people that will help solve her problem, this is zimbabwe Spiritual Attack (ZSA)
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Oluwa mi o
ReplyDeleteGo with her to Nigeria? How does that come in? Stop being dramatic, let her do a little soul searching. what reasons do they give for breaking up?
ReplyDelete@nobi they never give reasons cause there's non. My best friend lost her virginity at the age of 27 if she see the guy today she won't even recognize him because immediately she left that night that was the day she saw or heard from him last!
DeleteWot if she has bad breath or smelling pussy since dey perform oral sex only and dey run? Have we tot of dat.. I have a friend with same problem but she doesn't know she smells n isn't willing to lean so the guys leave immediately after sex.. if it's not dat den we can conclude it's spiritual..
DeleteYou're friend is beautiful and hot. A lot of guys will definitely want to jump on that.
ReplyDeleteShe is intelligent and well read. A lot of guys will want to be close to her.
Once they get close to her even after chasing and begging for so long they break up with her. You guys may not want to believe this but your friend is the problem.
She may need to examine her character. The way she relates with these guys could be a huge turn off. As unserious as this may sound she should also stop with the oral sex because the guys may not like the taste or smell of her vajayjay or she gives head in a way they may find terrible and scary.
She should try to contact one or two of them and beg them for the real reasons for the break up. This will shed more light on the issue as she may discover the general reason for the breakup.
She may have been too needy or just all up in their faces in a way they find choking and suffocating.
Also I know heart break is devastating but suicide is never the way. She should take a deep breath, focus on her career and when any new toaster comes she should take it easy. Take it slow and abstain from oral sex.
True tht!
DeleteMost guys don't like giving head so it may be a factor.she may also have a weird character
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DeleteReally? They don't? In my experience, guys looove to give head. like they don't even mind if I return the favor. I'm always puzzled when I hear they don't.
DeleteOh well, maybe it's just me.
I would v said she's giving in to sex buh since you're sure she's not, Jesus take over!
ReplyDeleteAfrican men and successful women don't jive.
ReplyDeleteShe probably comes off as independent and I can do all things by myself person.
So they are the problem not her. Let her continue to be herself because truth is those men are immature and are insecure. They probably don't think she can be tamed or kept, so they enjoy the idea of having her even if it's just for a moment with or without sex yes men are intimidated.
Most African men can't deal with a women who Is MADE then plus you said she is gorgeous.
A man mature enough will come along and all her beauty and qualifications won't intimidate him instead he would be inspired and push her to strive for more.
She should also allow men be men just in case she is the type who doesn't think a man should do stuff for her because she can afford them. Men like to feel like "men". You have your money but let him use his to care for you if he is willing to, don't say oh I can handle it and just want you for you.
They can't stand it and run off to the next needy girl who wants to be taken care of.
I will disagree wit u on dis one, it is not all about been intimated with her success or something, character/attitude has a lot to play here, I am in such a situation right now, with the gal I am seeing,she told me all of the men she have met have disappointed her, nd I told I will not be the same, at the end I am falling into leaving her too, not bcos I don't love her,but when a woman or person only think about her self,nd even told me she does not care how I feel, that have made me to think if I am dis desperate as a guy or doing me a huge favour for staying with me ,she insult me at every opportunity she have, and u think should stay bcos she told me other left, until u are in the shoes pls don't judge much, nd stop coming with the intimidation talk. Back to the poster what is her friend doing as per attitude nd character ego nd all,that is what kill relationship than any other thing. Nobody is afraid of a successful woman if any guys does not me,bcos I always want my wife to be independent of me nd I am ready to support her to achieve her dreams. Thanks
DeleteMy dear not all men hate successful ladies,I agree with you that they dislike independent ladies, no matter how successful a lady is , she needs a man to do things for her,when u say they dont like to live with successful ladies, that's not true, men like successful ladies as a matter of fact , then tgey support, who wants a failure as a wife or a liability, most of my successful friends are married.
Delete@anon 15:37, you sound upset though or which one is "don't judge much and stop with the intimideation talk" did I say the same thing yesterday or I'm missing something.
DeleteYou promised your girl you won't leave her but you already planned to do the same because you were more in a hurry to discredit the other men who left her instead of understanding her and not jumping into a relationship with her.
Permit me to ask, have you discussed her attitude with her? Have you told her how it hurts you? She probably does not know she has a bad attitude but leaving her is the only option and except you've done all these and no improvement then I hold my peace.
@chickyclassly me, I said MOST African men and added immature and insecure men are the one's who are intimidated.
My dear chickyclassy mee, I would have told is girlfriend that wrote this or maybe she did, but did it indirectly, I am the who wrote who above u, she got it wrong, some wen character has noting to write home about,in my case is not the love is there, but the attitude, is what we are having issues on right, nd I cannot take it anymore, a woman who will respect u think are opinion is final nd all, nd honest with u, any character or attitude that a man or woman shows in her marriage had been there from the start, at one point u will begin to think if this is what u want to put up for the rest of your life, I think that is the place I find my self now, doppelganger don't talk about success when is not the issue here. Thanks
Delete@doppelganger I have discussed all of these with her, the funny is that she does not want to accept that she has an issue,bcos that is the only way we can find solution to it, all she thinks is me my self and I, maybe I will send my own chronicle maybe that will
DeleteI try as much to talk with her, nd also to create an environment where she will be able to relax, the reason I said don't judge is bcos, sometimes u cannot really express it all until u are in it but self.
DeleteAm sure her pussy stinks like a dead fish,this has nothing to do with spiritual problem.
ReplyDeleteLols....chai you are bad. And your name is even Angel....Devil big pass you. Lols
DeletePlease poster tell your friend to contact me...her problem is over.
#DontQuoteMe
For sure yoz smells top, takes one to know one.
DeleteShe is from the marine world and she married a marine husband too!...
ReplyDeleteThey gave her beauty,intelligent,succesfull career etc...
But will never give her a husband or kids!...
I noticed that most South Africans both men and women are having these problem!...
I see most of them in my church!...
She need a serious deliverance from a good man of God!...
Not every pastor can deliver her type of ogbanje!...
She is a confirmed Ezenwanyi ndi mmiri!...
Confirm
DeleteHahahaha @ezenwanyi ndi mmiri.
DeleteMay Jesus fix this
I can predict ur comments most times.
DeleteNo be only marine husband,na submarine sugar daddy😂
.....or settle the spirit husband in the river continuously. How strong are men of God these days?
DeleteThis comment made me laugh 😂 too..
DeleteSooooo busy this period tho I am late😂 not so busy not to read ya comment on this issue. I ain't surprise you're %1001 right ....
DeleteI will give two example on this issue , my mum second house help who will now see as our eldest sister was facing same pro many years ago , she finally got married after so many deliverance but was unable to concieve.... Trust the people around her to go extra mile to help , she was told that there something she will do to kill her marine kids that if she kill one she will birth one child in real world!After so many sacrifice she was able to conceive once ,she was advice to do same thing again she refuse and claim born again and she's now a member of deeper life till date na one son she get thankfully his son is married with kids now!
Second one is my best friend, she's so beautiful, light skin,fashionista, and earn good as well
Oops I mistakenly publish my first comment hope it gt posted!
DeleteMy best friend too fine, she was my friend right from childhood till date and she's aStrong believer of God! Few years after i got married my mum called her that she's getting older , she's pretty,educated, that dis is not ordinary anymore (any man that date her run away after few weeks)my mum said she will love to help her as her own daughter so they can seek solution to her prob, she said no pro DAT she won't do anything traditional except church, my mum said no pro, took her out after 2days she ran away that she's only 31 that with her faith she believe God will hep her ,,,, she's 43 years old now, all her siblings are married even waiting for grandkids sef she's still single and searching without bf! She newly completed her second house oooo very successful babe...... The thing that pained me most is that for the past 26 years she refuse to change church! I don hook her up tire same pro mehnnn i gave up.God please help my friend.... @poster your friend problem is from marine world she needs spiritual help not from some hungry men of God or native docs ooooo tell her to seek real help from real men of God!
My sister inlaw went for deliverance and was told by the pastor that she is the ezenwanyi nmiri. Someone from the marine kingdom handed over to her. The man of God told her she's a python on the marine kingdom... The manifestation during deliverance was really scary...
DeleteWhen they were praying for her, a little girl of about 12 years was also manifesting like a python.( they both came from the same river)
If you see the babe... Tall, pretty, curvy and very intelligent!!!
Before then, many men of God were always telling her about marrying and re-marrying... My hand dey pain me abeg!!!
Chief chief.I too love you.Agbala nwanyi.
DeleteYou are right on the money i have a zim friend that is from the marine world her name is marina in real life thats the name her dad gave her o and in the dream i saw she is from the very dirty water God revealed it to me. Those zim girls are possed oooo omo i run from her sharply.
DeleteLet her go & settle her spiritual husband, else she will turn to full time Lesbian with time.
DeleteShe should fast and pray and read the New Testament; seek God herself.
ReplyDeleteDo not listen to anybody that will be inviting you to seek "god of men" in their respective churches.
Those "pastors" will complicate issues. Some of them can't control themselves once they see a "beautiful girl".
Note: the "quotes"
Bless u
DeletePoster swallow this comment and digest it
What about the prayer wey she dey pray before!? OK Una bye bye...I don try!
DeleteWhat do I know...it may be spiritual, maybe she smells down there? *just saying*
ReplyDeleteShe needs to stay away from any further relationship for now, ask God for forgiveness, go for counseling, pray seriously and commit all to God's hands. Her own man will come at the perfect time.
What I was thinking too. If she had or sex with all of them and they left after jumping through hoops to be with her, maybe she needs to see a gym or something.
DeleteIn queen... voice she should go and settle her spiritual husband..
ReplyDeleteHer issue is very spiritual from how you told it. She needs to go for deliverance in a bible believing church. Note that I didn't say fake prophets who will compound her problems. My emphasis is bible believing. I'd suggest MFM prayer city that's if she is in Nigeria or anyone of their branches close to her abode.
@poster where are you base?i can help out! Her case is nothing before God....
ReplyDeleteContact me.
Her pussy stinks period
ReplyDeleteShut up
DeleteI agree. She needs to see a doctor. Her pussy must stink. Maybe an infection.
DeleteHave u fucked her b4?
DeleteThey perform oral sex, after that dey break up....hmmmmm sure say fish no dey there?
ReplyDeleteJust asking!
Lol
DeleteWhy do girls perform orals so fast like that tho
Poster steer clear of men for now,move closer to God (excluding orals),fast and pray AMD wait on God.
My cousin is almost 25yrs,got a banging body and had sex just once when she was twenty,she never dated since then.
Nothings wrong with her ,she's just so scared of heartbreaks considering the kinda hell I've been through .
It is well with all of us o jare
Haahahahhaahahhahaha...blackberry oohhh u don start
DeleteHaahahaaa, thought same too.
DeleteHahahaha at "you sure say fish no dey there? Abeg hapum aka this hot afternoon.
DeleteExactly what I thought, maybe smelly Vjay but then again, Men hate desperate ladies,it could be another reason, they smell desperation one a lady becomes desparate, to them its desparation, to us its love and its a turn off to them in most cases,even if u love a man , have dignity ans respect yourself,most ladies once they are in love, they fall yakata,they start calling and sending so many messages, it makes a lot of ladies look desperate, men love ladies with worth, dignity,I was with a friend one day, his phone kept ringing over and over, he looked at his phone and said "ohhh this babe again"i was wondering why a girl would call over and over,just a call and a guy that cherishes u will return it,so many ladies are too despartae, we all fall in love and do silly things don't we? I used to be like that till I became wiser and suitors came in droves,Doppel you spoke of successful ladies , hell no, successful ladies still marry, infact men don't like a liabity, this must be the reasons or reason
DeleteOh typosss
DeleteTake her for deliverance in a good ministry. She needs deliverance.
ReplyDeleteThis is spiritual. Na wa o. Since I "underwent" deliverance, my life has never been the same again. My testimony is loading....
Most time when you realize somethings in your life aren't going as planned, go for deliverance, you must be possessed before undergoing deliverance
Must not
DeleteLoud it, tell them! Some people need to wake up from sleep! Believe it or not things like this are happening and its spiritual.
DeleteI think her something has offensive odour
ReplyDeleteShe needs prayers. God will surely perfect His will in her.
ReplyDeleteFix it lord
ReplyDeleteMaybe she don gbensh gbensh too much in the past and her something don dey loose and unattractive
ReplyDeleteIt's nothing spiritual. This is from experience . I've lived with a Zim girl for 3yrs and a few of them are my friends. 1. Zim girls or most southern African girls are dirty And lazy. Stella I mean very lazy when being compared to naija girls.and if these guys are naija guys, forget it they wouldn't want anything serious just a fling and the pussy so she's not giving them, no need to stay cos seriously they have nothing else to offer. Well, most of them. 2. They drink like fish, these girls wouldn't stop till they get drunk and embarrass themselves . And spend recklessly 3. They don't know how to cook. 4. Cos they're lazy, they're dirty and don't have very high personal hygiene. ( do u know they don't shave ? Like never ) I had to teach my friends how to and they said their mothers never taught them that didn't know it was a thing . Thankfully I taught my friends all these and one of them is married to a naija guy.
ReplyDeletePoster take this advice. My friend told me about this character prevalent in women from southern africa,kenya most east african countries too. Let her make adjustment and she would see the difference. Everything is not spiritual.
DeleteThe company u keep says a lot about you. Your friends are dirty, so are u.
DeleteMaybe she used to release too much water when they want to go down on her
ReplyDeleteLMAO....... Kuku kill me.
DeleteHahahaha Peace Maker oooh!!
DeleteYou will kill me one day with your unguarded albeit hilarious comments I swear.
There's a dead rat in ur / her pussy .
ReplyDeleteMe am going home for proper deliverance... Spirit husband is very real.
ReplyDeleteToo real but there's nothing too difficult for God to do(that's if u seek help!
DeleteHow about her Middle Voltage? Hope no odor?
ReplyDeleteEven if odour dey, no be people dey marry those with body odour? Some men love it wen it smells like rotten fish .
DeletePukes
DeleteThis one big oo. could it be that she is being overly demanding? you said one of the guys organized a big birthday party for her even thou they dated for two weeks, did he do so willingly or she demanded for it? Asking a guy to organize a big party for you in less than two weeks of dating is just somehow, I confuse Abeg. God will help her oo
ReplyDeleteMy dear when u are big u meet big people who do big things! Big birthday ain't shit!
DeleteHmmm....Something sure smells fishy.
ReplyDeleteLol.....
(formerly known as Karmaisabitch)
Something smells fishy..... aquarium..#holdslaughther
DeleteIf any of you guys who are friends with her friends with any of her exs? Perhaps, you can ask what happened and why he left her. There is a circle here.
ReplyDeleteLife is Spiritual no doubt but before accusing the Spirits lets also check the physical.
ReplyDeleteCould it be she does or says something that turns them off? Could it be they are just there for the sex and when they don't get it they bounce? Could it be the guy who will stay is yet to come?
Power must change hands ti take over!
Hmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteYour friend needs to go to either CLAM or MFM. She needs deliverance.
I'm not one to jump to that conclusions easily but I can see a pattern here.
What is her family dynamics like? Is she from a broken home.
I have an acquaitance who starting from her grandma,mum,aunties etc they marry have one child,the marriage scatters until they marry a 2nd husband then they stay. Her grandma,mum and aunties are all in their 2nd husbands house.
When it was time for her to marry they had to do all forms of deliverance.
I also know another family 6 girls with the youngest being 33. Out of the 6 only 3 got married. And even the 3married are all divorcees now. Not a single one is happily married.
Marriage is far more deeper than both parties loving each other.
Some people have ancestral curses they need to break before embarking on marriage. Even while dating and looking into marriage there are certain psalms and prayer points she needs. She needs MFM prayer rain all the prayer points are there. Incase she can't come down.
She shld also be careful about meeting just any pastor.
This world is much more than the physical. She may not be doing anything wrong with these guys; but something is working against her becos as you said she seems calm,hard-working and beautiful.
She needs to also do some soul searching. Marriage is much more than if you are beautiful. It is pure grace.
Then all this oral sex she's just deceiving herself.it's still sex.
hmm this is actually serious o..
ReplyDeletepls dnt get me wrong cos im not the type to make snide remarks at pples downfall but are u sure this hasn't got to do with hygiene issues?
cos it seems as s0on as they get close and more intimate, they run. Just wondering..even after begging and begging to date her
if not that, then its def spiritual...
Hmm Dear Poster: She may have to seek spiritual help and secondly, why does she have to make them beg and plead for so long before she gives them a chance..In as much as men are hunters, they still dont like to chase for too long because even if you finally agree, the steam would have wared off. Secondly, having brains and beauty is not all a man needs..how is her character..Yes she may have a good character to you but how about the men she meets..Does she carry her with dignity or she is the type that if she finally agrees to the man on the 1st date she quickly has sex with him and give him a mindblowing blowjob and then nothing else to offer..
ReplyDeleteSweet heart, Real Men need a vacumm to be filled and a full package..she been a very good speaker and all does not guarantee that she will establish great relationhips with men
So she needs first seek spiritual cleansing and see a pyschologist as well..But I believe it is more of herself, she needs to work on herself and let her not lose herself because of men , its not worth it..She will definitely get a man that will cherish her so much.let her be calm and suicide is never an option..
please house,were can person see evening lesson, around maza maza, festac or even mill two,a sister need to sharply her brain
ReplyDeleteSpiritual husband, pursuing any man from getting close to her, your friend need strong 💪 man of God to deliver her
ReplyDeleteThis one dikwa serious..........I can't think of anything than that maybe her character is what is chasing the men away when they finally get close to her........and hope she's not one of this too demanding girls.
ReplyDeleteOr she should check her background, does she have sisters that are having same issue, then it could be spiritual
And hope its not mouth or body odour that's making all those men to run away.....You should be able to observe that if that's the case.....
ReplyDeleteOne way you could help your friend is, try meeting up with one of the guys she has dated before and ask them to sincerely tell you why the relationship did not work out with your friend, since she has dated many ask as many as you could reach. If you can get at least 3 of her former boyfriends to tell you a rymed story then you can start from there. Forget any goddamn church and babalawo house and face fact first. Just n honest opinion.
Deleteooh please be honest with ur story. this lady did her masters in my school... thats havard. who doesnt know she is a high class escort. someone who can travel to naija and oda african countries in a split of second and come back as if she enter maruwa go her backyard.
ReplyDeleteshe is pretty i give that 2her but she is also wild,lets face facts. just one conversation with her, she will mention all d high and mighty in d world she knows. pls who wants dat kindda girl 4a wife?
biko tell ur friend to learn to seal her mouth. ehhn her boast no be here too. we know u fly first class in every international trip u attend when " big madam" calls u... but keep all dat to urself it shouldnt be public notice.
my opinion,ask her to work on herself as in her mouth. keep some acts private and these men will stick and get to know who she really is.
i am not judging u... i even admire u. to be candid i respect d fact that her social life doesnt affect herstudies, i pray to be that smart.
Gbam.... Seriously if you are talking about the same person which I think you are then now we know. People come with chronicles and leaving the key information. It means all her so called boyfriends are clients and from what you have said who wants to marry a woman shares are on the international stock exchange market. She needs to humble herself,change her ways and stop bragging about her escapades.
DeleteHehehe, I trust SDK BVs, someone must know her.
DeleteEhn ehn...... Pls tell us more.
DeleteChoi! Dikwa risky!
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DeleteSorry dear you got the wrong person, my friend isn't in Harvard o. She's not an escort, she won't date someone that is 5 years older she's that principled. Her parents are rich too and give her the best life. All these guys are a year or 2 older than her.. so boo you got the wrong girl
DeleteAnonymous 19.56 a year or two older is too young. Maybe she should start from there. 4 years upward sis.a better match. Its not about principle. Its science women are.more mature than men at that stage.
DeleteI think she stinks down there she should better go for medical check up or it's possible she has a spiritual husband that has vowed not to allow her settle down or maybe she is well too experience in the blow job matter and it's scaring men away from her. I think all she needs is prayers.
ReplyDeleteYou poster, reach out nicely to each of her Ex and try to understand why they backed out.
ReplyDeleteIt may be spiritual, it may be desparation,it may be smelly Vjay, men don't dig desparate ladies, they love lasies that love themselves more, ladies that respect themselves, she should read the book, Why men marry bitches,it may help her, we were created to love easily, we are too fragile, but the ability to have self control and know our worth is the main thing.
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Deletehahahahahahah Ezenwanyi ndi nmiri chai Queen true true you be case.
ReplyDeleteBlackberry chai you say fish dey there. Me i dey suspect snake self. She fit be snake pikin
peace maker o! #dead# LMAOooooo
ReplyDelete3 things she should check
ReplyDeleteHer attitude
Personal hygiene
She needs serious deliverance
To me, I think it has to do with her social life/attitude. Some beauty with brains chics are not lucky with men. SHe should get busy with her career and pray more. Its only God that can help you.
You have summarised everything. Btw, those who are not that educated get married, those who are dirty both men and women get married, those with bad attitudes get married. I don't want to believe she has all these off qualities? Hmmmm, but the very worst is the spiritual aspect because with all the others there is still hope. But if she is going to seek Jesus, it should be for real and not because she wants a man. On the other hand, if she wants to knack pigeon or go the other spiritual way, I can't advise her ooo, that will be her decision and anything that follows her from that will be on her...
DeleteThings happen ooo, i was asking a girl out sometime ago when one night like that i was attacked by women all tying white wrapper with canes flogging me as i flogged them back it was a serious battle, they were warning me to leave their princess alone, while this battle was going on i saw her in one corner crying on the floor, i thank God i could fight them off but i never asked her out again i began to avoid her like a plague. i bet if she does not know who she is in the spirit world she would be asking this same question this poster is asking now, i got married seven years ago and i still see her around as a single woman, the other one was one other girl I was dating, I came home from one Sunday service and I met her crying seriously and I was worried because she refused to say anything for a long time until she opened up and told me that her people came to beat her up spiritually because she did something wrong to them na so I sit down they look am, needless to say I ended it stylishly. You need to pray yourself out of this bondage like someone suggested get a copy of prayer rain and command the morning and pray like you have never prayed before, anyway that's what i did then and still doing because one should never cease to pray.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, this is spiritual and needs ministry like Liberation City or SCOAN. If Stella will post this. I recommend Liberation City.
ReplyDeletePlz same thing is happening to me, its spiritual husband thing. Let her try as much not to have any sexual relationship at all with them. Then she should go for thorough deliverance. This spiritual husband thing is real ooo. She should also try to always pray in the midnight, very important.
ReplyDeleteThe devil is a liar!!!
ReplyDeleteYou said they do oral, could it be that she stinks down there? Tell here to see a doctor asap.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing that some people will claim spirit husband doesn't exist. The people struggling with this stuff will never say it doesn't exist.
ReplyDeleteIf you have gotten pregnant before in the dream and delivered and breast fed the babies, you won't say spirit husband and children don't exist.
When you see yourself married in the dream complete with rings and house and even wedding pictures, you won't say spirit husband doesn't exist.
If you have a man that takes different forms and sleeps with you anyhow in the dream and you wake up sore from sleep, you won't say spirit husband doesn't exist.
If you face attacks anytime you try to break those covenants you no go talk trash.
If you have seen yourself manifesting as a snake and you see snakes all the time, you no go talk say spirit husband no exist.
If you see people enter the enter the water in the dream all the time and
If you have ever seen the water world in the sleep and all your group people there eating and playing you won't say this things don't exist.
If you have ever slept and seen semen inside you or beside you when you wake up, you won't say they don't exist.
See, if you have never experienced this stuff, then you cannot understand.
It's a big battle. And I know I shall overcome and marry soon. As I grow in Christ, their influence reduces and there's less oppression. Men now propose to me unlike before when it was terrible. Sex in the dream and masturbation in the dream has reduced all to the glory of God.
Please send in your chronicle
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DeleteThis is very serious *hangs mouth open*
This is indeed serious.
ReplyDeleteThis is my fate.Since,i stopped thinking of marriage, sex.My career and finance has improved drastically.I have accepted it as destiny.I have gone for delivarance tire. I have visited Chief church,traditional.My dear, who nor go nor know.No fish pussy, very tight, homely. Abegi!
ReplyDeleteThis case is a spiritual one.
ReplyDeleteI believe it's spiritual, but the truth is, no matter the kind church she goes to, no matter who the man of God is, she will never be delivered unless she has faith. I'm not a very spiritual person, but based on my personal experience, I know this much...faith is what works. I know of someone who had a similar problem. she didn't go to any pastor. I don't really know the particular location, all I know is, she got water flowing directly out of a rock and she prayed and fasted for fourty days, 6am-6pm. She drank a little water everytime she prays and breaks her fast. After the whole thing, the guys that left her in the pas started coming back to ask for her hand in marriage. I wouldn't say it's the character of the lady cause the woman I'm talking about has a lovely character, and she's also beautiful. Even her married exes that she saw after she got married apologized to her for the way they treated her cause every single one of them beat her up constantly before they broke up with her...Faith is what works. She can see a man of God, but she will only be delivered if she has faith
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