Monday In House News

It's a beautiful new day to start all over again.....

In case anyone has been trying my phones,I put them off.....#needsomequiettimealone #toomanycallseeeh

Have a great day all!

Mnena and Hilda Tughgba COVER IHN
Good day Stella of Life, my love for you e no get part 2. I have been a silent BV since 2014 and I can say you are doing a great job here. Hope my sister and I qualify for face of IHN? Between I bake and she is a make-up artist, please Abuja, Nassarawa and Benue BV you can patronise us. lolavita211@gmail.com
Thank you Stella and God bless you.

Wehdone!


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AFOLABI OLUREMI ON IHN

Good day Stella, how are your boyfriends doing? I am BV bravitudenaturals and I want to be face of IHN. 

Regards to all the drama queens on the blog,also regards to chikito,atheist,kidjo,krix,James/peacemaker,Kevin, bloglord,iPhie,emjay ,ola wealth,Isaacson ,ideato, villager,tgw,Oluyomi, mama Nnuku,doppelganger,and many more I can't remember.

 I sell organic products such as coconut oil,sheabutter,beeswaxblacksoap honey cinnamon turmeric carrot oil,cocoa butter and many more currently have sales going on.Call/whatsapp 08132617478, or email bravitudenaturals@gmail.com
Thank you so much Stella you are the best!


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VACANCY

1. Restaurant Manager
BSc in any field
Minimum 6 years experience  in the hospitality Industry, 3 years minimum in a Supervisory role
Supervisory or Management role in a Restaurant will be a major advantage.

2. Restaurant Supervisor
BSc or HND in any field
Minimum of 3 year experience in a the hospitality Industry. 
Experience in a food outlet will be an advantage. 

CVs to be sent to nativetray@gmail.com. Thank you.



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VACANCY

Please we are looking to employ immediately. Company name; Smoothie Express Limited.

Customer Care Representative - Must be a Bachelors degree holder of any course; 25years and under; no previous experience needed; Must be able to speak fluently; Must be ready to work diligently.

Applicants must reside in Lagos and prefers should live within a good proximity to Victoria Island.

Interested candidates should please send their CVs to smoothieexpressltd@gmail.com.

Please call Zenith on 07068681868 for any clarification.


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WEDDING DRESS NEEDED

I need a wedding dress to buy at an affordable price pls. Its been a while i visited the blog and i checked now hoping to see a wedding dress post,today being Saturday but i guess there hasn't been such posts in a long while.

 I am size 12 i think. Ball or Mermaid Style pls. Affordability is key pls,no outrageous prices,i am not breaking the bank for my wedding pls,lol. I can be reached on myopendoorsarehere@gmail.com.
You can attach pictures please when you mail. Location is Lagos.


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VACANCY


A fast growing private Nursery, Primary and Secondary Schools established in 2016 in GRA, Benin City requires the services of experienced academic and non-academic candidates to fill the following positions


Teachers in all subjects 

*Mathematics     *English Language      *Chemistry     *Computer     *Physics      *Biology

*Government *Geography      *French*Edo Language


Minimum qualifications for the above positions
Minimum of NCE, B.Ed, BSc. Ed, BA. Ed or BSc in any discipline
Higher qualifications will be an added advantage
Fresh graduates are also strongly encouraged to apply as they will be trained.
Applicant must demonstrate skills and relevant work experience
Good communication and excellent interpersonal skills

- Applicants must be willing to stay at Amagba/Ugbor/Obeh, G.R.A., Benin City


Interested and qualified applicants should indicate the position they are applying for as subject of their application and forward their complete resume and application letter NOT LATER THAN Friday, May 5, 2017 to highergroundla@yahoo.com




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SERIOUS LADY WANTED FOR MARRIAGE.
Hello SDK,

Am a tall dark male of 34, from delta state, works in Lagos and am in search of serious lady ready for marriage  must reside in Lagos and also working ....
Interested person can reach me on WhatsApp 08021488904 ....  Serious persons only
Thanks 



I asked him why he was looking for love via my blog and his response was

''I have looked through your blog and feel I could send in my information also just like others ..


Plus I have being through a lot of bad relationships and wanna get settled as soon as possible 


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GIVEAWAY WITH A PLEA

Hello madam korkus,I want to thank you for the platform of the free in house news you did sometimes back.Because that was what exposed my online store to people all over the country am very grateful.


Am giving out the jean attached to show my appreciation.The jean is a size 28(lepa) to any lagos Bv and pick up is on Lagos island.I also want to appeal to blog visitor who has an idea on where fairly used mannequin is sold or has one for sale(female) as am opening my store soon and I need them to display clothings.

The price of new ones na ghen ghen and have spent a lot already. Any one interested in helping out should send call or WhatsApp 08134294631 .For the giveaway please send a text message or DM @glam_collections5.Thank you

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MOVING ITEMS/VACANCY

Hello Stella! Hello BVs!
Please I need someone, a transporter, who would help me move some household items from Anambra to Lagos this weekend. They're not heavy or many as the heaviest item there is a small fridge, no mattress or cushion or any of such.
Please anyone with a useful information can call or text 08183638830.

Also, we are looking to recruit a driver who has a very vast knowledge of Lagos and it's road network/landmarks. 
Interested persons in ‎should send a text to 08183638830.
Thanks Stella for using your platform. 
Much love.

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WEBSITE DESIGNER NEEDED
Hi Stella. I run an NGO called Women Supporting Women Nigeria and I must confess that I am inspired by your blog. It epitomises how we can mentor and lend support to women in our community.
We are in need of a website designer. Send us a mail at wswnigeria@gmail.com 
Thank you!

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MATERIAL GIVEAWAY WINNERS

I'm sorry I couldn't reply all the text messages, mails or answer all the calls as they were many. 

The people I picked are; 

Nkiru
Nneka
Taye
Chinasa
Kelvin 
Jaustina
Kate. 

Pls contact me tomorrow to pick up the materials, and the ones that want theirs way billed will pay for it. 

Thanks...
For your cakes, pastries and deserts you can contact me on 08039250458 and 08050369170. 
Instagram: @adasbakes_
Twitter: adasbakes_
Facebook: ADA's Bakes. 

Thanks...

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OMG!!!
Hi Stella, l don't know where the story fits in, Please help me post. Thank you. * Parents Pls have time for your children and be careful of those who live with you* 
Copied post! Parents pls be watchful!!!!

I received a long mail from an unknown elderly woman yesterday night and it was so touching. She requested I put it up here for everyone to read and learn from.

Kindly read it below.

Hello madam,

I wake up in pain everyday and wish everyday and I pray the next time I open my eyes,  I should find myself in the world beyond and not here on earth.

I came across your different posts yesterday and felt I could share my secret with you and may be if I did,  my story may help one or two parents who read your posts.

I got married at the age of 24years to my husband who was a medical practitioner just like I was.  We both focused on our careers and of course were both successful in all we did but not in our parenting our own flesh and blood.

We had two children, Kunle the first and Tola the second. Kunle was a very inquisitive boy and asked questions on everything. He even had a nick name "the examiner". His father and I got tired of his questions that we started locking up the door to our bedroom once we came back from work. How I wish I knew better, how I wish I read those posts of yours then.

By the time Kunle was four years old, he was much more intelligent than his colleagues and he was so lively,  you would never have a dull moment with him.  He loved his sister so much and we were always proud of him. His father and I were so sure Kunle was also going to become a medical doctor just like we were.

We loved our children so much and had plans to give then the best of everything although we were always busy and were not always at home because of the nature of our job.  This made us   hire a nanny and we also had one of my brothers in-law with us.

On day,  I came back from work very tired  and my son ran into my room with me and asked,  
"why do you always close your door anytime you and daddy are in the room?"

"Do you like kissing my daddy?"

"why don't you kiss me too?"

I got so upset with him that I beat him severely and reported him to his teacher the next day.  We believed some of his friends were already exposed and may be watched bad movies at home.  By the end of that term, we withdrew Kunle and Tola from the school.

We did not allow him and his sister watch the television at home and also stopped them from visiting their friends and neighbours.  We did all this to preserve our children's sanity but hardly did we know what was happening right under our roof.

Some two years later,  I got home unusually early to pick up a document. I noticed the door was not shut and everywhere was quiet.  I sneaked in to give my children a playful surprise when I realised that their uncle and nanny were in the sitting alongside with my children watching pornography. I hate remembering that day.  Not only were they watching pornography, but they were all naked,  practicing what they were watching.

I drove out the nanny and my brother in-law but the seed was already planted. When I was crying,  my six year old son came to me and said, mummy why are you crying,  uncle and aunty are only teaching us how to be good mummy and daddy. I was shocked as I never even knew that this had been going on for over two years and my children had be indoctrinated into this messy life style at their tender ages. 

We never realized the impact  this had had on their lives until we caught both of them having sexual intercourse on uncountable occasions. Tola and Kunle did not only continue with this but became obsessed with each other.

Their father and I kept this as our "little secret" as we were well known in our carrier. We tried correcting them in love with tears streaming down our faces whenever we caught them in the act. They promised us they were going to change. We had had done two abortions for our daughter, since we could not face the stigma of incest.

On a fateful day, Tola walked up to her father and I and told us she was pregnant for Kunle again. Her father insisted on an abortion as usual but this time we lost our twenty year old daughter in the process. Kunle on learning Tola had died never spoke to neither his father nor I again. He eventually left home. 

Three months after he left home,  we received a call from an hospital telling us our son was in a terrible state in their ICU. When we got there,  Kunle was lying unconscious.  He had poisoned himself.

Finally, he got conscious and we were so happy, he looked at us as we sat by he bedside and told us how much he hated us for killing his sister. We pleaded with him and apologized. 
We got to the hospital the next day to see his corpse,  he had suffocated himself by removing his oxygen mask.

I am now 74 years old and a widow, my husband could not forgive himself and died of depression three years ago. I regret my years of ignorance everyday. I wish I could start afresh.

I have never opened up my family "little secret" up till today. I don't know if my story can be of help to other parents, I am tired of carrying this burden without telling a soul.


This is a shocking story if it is true and if not,I am impressed with whoever made this up!!!
The message is so clear!

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LOOKING FOR A ROOM TO RENT BECOS
 OF WICKEDNESS


Stella pls help me post this rant on ur blog. I don't have friends so this blog is the only place i bare my mind. God bless u for this
platform.


My husband is a business man. He was living comfortably. He married meNwhen i just gained admission into the university. He saw me through school.

He has a cousin brother who he sees as a father figure in lagos. When this his cousin brother and his family were having financial problem,,he sold off everything he had. To pay house rent was a big problem so i asked my husband to bring them in. (We were living in two bedroom flat).
I was still schooling outside lagos  so I'm not always around.

They stayed in one room while i moved my things to my hubby's room.(We share kitchen)
We accord them much respects.(the husband is older than my husband and the wife is older than me).

As time went on, I noticed something about the woman, she is
unfriendly and dirty. They could mess up the whole house, she just don't care. I will be sweeping and cleaning without complaining. (I swore to make her feel comfortable so that she won't feel that I'm acting up cos they are having financial problem).

 I treat her kids like mine.(2 and 3+yrs).

To God be the glory, we lived peacefully with them for one year and 8months.My husband's business started crumbling, we started experiencing difficulties that my husband could not meet up with the house rent (250k). he told his brother but he said he don't have money to support.

To cut the long story short. The landlord gave us quite notice.

After 2months, According to my hubby,(i was in school then)  he came home one day and his brother's few properties were gone but they were still around. When he asked, his brother told him that they have found accommodation(3bedroom flat) and they are gradually taking their things there.

***Well.................... We moved in with them. I became like a
stranger. The woman shouts at me like a child. Complains about
everything i do. Reminds me of how my husband didn't contribute a dime in paying the rent. Any time I'm watching t.v, she will just come and switch it off or change station.


The husband too was giving us attitudes so my hubby confronted him. He told my husband that they are sick and tired of having us around..
That he needs his space. He asked my husband if he is a fool, why is he waiting for them to throw us about before we will read the hand writing on the wall....................!

This is 3months of our stay with them. Upon all the things that has been happening in that house, I swear it... I am quiet type. I hate shouting. I never for one day talked back at her. I endured everything. Instead i will walk away..(thats always my style).

She don't feed us. I only enter the kitchen to sweep and wash plates...
Almost everything in that house is ours. The chairs, kitchen utensils,television, dvd and cd, stabilizer, freezer, mattress,  generator,etc.. but i have never for once bragged about it nor make reference to that, even when she shouts at me for sleeping in the couch insideparlour.

I kept asking myself why the heart of man can be so wicked.
How can people be this ungrateful.

Presently we have decided that i move down to Enugu state  (someone promised to employ me there) while he stay back in lagos and try some more..

Pls Stella permit me to ask this  plssss.

Pls BVs, is their anyone that has a room or room and parlour to rentin Enugu state? At a cheaper price?  Pls help a sister. No money for agent and agreement oo.

Pls contact me through Rossycollen@gmail.com.
(no phone number cos my phone is bad)
I can't wait to live that house.
There is nothing lik freedom..

*** May u never eat from the table to the floor (from grace to grass)  Amen.
Thank u.

Well no matter how wicked the couple were,they are not the reason for the condition you and your hubby find yourselves in...please dont blame anyone.

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I GOT THE JOB
Hello Stella , 

Trust this mail meets you well.

Thank you so much for the good work you are doing. I applied for a job through your blog and I am so happy to inform you that I got the job. And I resumed today. 

Thank you so much and God bless you.


Congrats darling!

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