''Good day Stella
Please hide my email address. I have been a bv for 3 years now but I have never commented (a silent bv).
Please Stella and my fellow bvs I need to reach out to my boyfriend of 6 years whom I have offended.
Over the years anger management has caused serious issues between us and several times I have promised to change but halfway, I always fall. Recently I caused us to have a big problem and he has made up his mind to end the relationship.
Please baby if you are seeing this, I need you to give me one last chance. I am different now because I have learnt the greatest lesson of my life. Its either anger ruins me or I ruin it, which I have done.
I am done with it!
It has no control over me anymore. There is a more conscious effort on my part to deal with it because I have tasted the consequences of my action. Please Ify, I promise you things will be different now.I want to make up for all I put you through these past years.
I want to show you a better me and this time around I am for real. Please believe me.
Bv's please help tell Ify I am sorry and I am willing to prove to him that I am better. Please my love, we can do this. I am sorry!''
*WOW!!!....I dont know how bad your anger issues were but if you have realised you have a problem and are willing to work on it,that's a positive.
Ify,please gve her one last try..Everyone deserve a 'second' chance at love.Please,please,please!
This is so shameful!...
ReplyDeleteSee how a girl is begging a nigga that has not paid her bride price to take her back...
Poster,you are a disgrace to women!...
Is this nigga the only man in the whole world?abi guys no dey ask you out?...
It's only an ugly,FAT babe that can do this!..
Shame on you!,,
Tueh!...
Queen and boss I hope no sane man has taken up the punishment of being your man
DeleteAs sad as it may be, most times anger issues don't just go away because you are sober now.
DeleteIt's best to be with someone who doesn't bring out the wolf in you.
Best still, take time and work on yourself na. If after some time Ify sees that he loves you as much as you love him he will help you too.
Don't you think you are a little bit hard on her, remember it is a matter of the heart.
Delete@ I am the Queen. You are not only judgmental and stupid , but also very ignorant and is a pity that in 2017 someone is still as ignorant as you are. Saying that I AM SORRY" is not about being desperate but about taking responsibility for your action. Whoever offended the other person should aoikigtand BTW just out of curiosity since you are Miss perfect, haven't you ever said I'm sorry before? You are a Sexist with no brain and.need to grow up before you are being left behind
Delete@ I am the Queen. You are not only judgmental and stupid , but also very ignorant and is a pity that in 2017 someone is still as ignorant as you are. Saying that I AM SORRY" is not about being desperate but about taking responsibility for your action. Whoever offended the other person should aoikigtand BTW just out of curiosity since you are Miss perfect, haven't you ever said I'm sorry before? You are a Sexist with no brain and.need to grow up before you are being left behind
DeleteQueen Queen Abeg free her jor, na her beg, her fat and her ugly.
DeleteMeanwhile I thought it was just forgiveness she was asking for.
What if he is seeing another lady now ?
Atleast this shows you don't have pride .
Some many ladies do and it hinders alot of things from coming their way.
You think every apology is sincere? I had a guy I kept going back to when I'm bored or lonely. He'd take me back and I'll run away again when I find someone better. Until one day when he refused to take me back. I called his friends and even went to him, feigned tears and knelt down begging. It wasn't love it was me realising that my mumu back up boyfriend is actually gone. He was my back up plan for when all else fails. When I saw he meant it, I moved on the following week, in fact Up until now, I don't think of him. I see him.and don't act like I know him...he's nothing to me.
DeleteNot every apology is sincere, trust me.
Queen stooopeeet naw. ..
DeleteAh ah
Somborri can't be in love again kwa?
This bitch craves for attention too much. Your comments are soo lame and childish. Please grow up. Foolish dirty girl
DeleteEnter your reply...u r very stupid what makes u tink dah she iz ugly n fat r u beta dan sme thick or fat gurls in dis world aby u tink being slim gves confidence plz go look 4 ur self esteem kuz u hv none
DeleteFor once I agree with queen. You can apologize for getting uncontrollably angry but which one is give me one more chance?
DeleteQueen might sound silly but to an extent shes right. How can u just wakeup n run 2 a SM platform to tender an apology 2 a man. How many times ve made so much effort 2 apoligise 2 ur creator 4 all ur sins including this one. Saying sorry is cool but going all out like this is foolishness.
Deleteif u don't deal with ur weakness, ur weaknesses will deal with u.. Dr D K Olukoya
DeleteIfy please forgive her
ReplyDeleteIfy,forgive her...But DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!She needs to be with someone else to either appreciate you,or realise that you are bad for her.
DeleteWish I had done this a long time ago.
She will keep taking you for granted.She needs to have a different experience with someone else.Only then will she learn to appreciate what she has/had or wonder what she was doing with you in the first place.
DeleteThere is nothing to forgive here, because Ify is part of the problem! A hot blooded woman like this requires consistent and effective nacking to keep her sane and calm. This so called Ify is obviously not up to the task so he should leave her for someone more manly. What sort of man even allows people call him Ify sef?
DeleteYou hit the nail on the head
DeleteIfy, forgive her biko. But poster u didn't tell us what u did wrong nau.
DeleteHahahaha anon 18:33 ve killed me. Ify is an abbre na.
DeleteAs a be, I will apologize on your behalf,but I don't know about being a better person.
ReplyDeleteplease Ify forgive her and give her last chance.
Poster, you left out a lot of details so how can we plead with Ify to take you back when we do not know what you did?
DeleteDo you hit him?
Do you embarrass him in the presence of people?
Do you use derogatory words on him?
If you did any of the above I'm sorry to say that you need to let him be and work on yourself. Im sure you are remorseful for what you did but you cannot change over night. That is just the sad truth.
If the table were turned we all would be advicing you to leave him and find someone who knows your worth.
But if your anger issue has not gone to that extent then Ify if you are reading this, please give her another chance. It takes a contrite heart to come out publicly and apologise like this. Remember that God forgives us every minute of the day for sinful acts we don't even acknowledge sometimes. So if someone is truly remorseful for hurting us, we do not have a choice but to forgive.
Oke chance!
ReplyDeleteLetter na this bv go be first to tell a married woman to LEAVE. Ndi soro okwu onum esona omumem. Hypocrites!!
Babe u no just sabi English,so even as u fat abi big reach u don't know the difference between later and letter.Mehn.
DeleteGet help soon . I hope you are not a teacher in any school?
It's either you are from Anambra or Enugu. na real WA.
Anon 16:40, na dis korrect babe you dey call fat? Na him be say person wey slim for your eyes na only bone go remain for him body.
DeleteNaija dj,the things you people call 'beautiful' and 'correct' on this blog though.
DeleteSassy me sef tire. I give up.
DeleteIfy gbaharazie inu nwokeoma
ReplyDelete6 years of dating is enough for one to have anger management issues and constantly unleash the dragon.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahhahahahahhah
DeleteI tell you. The man should tell me one reason why this girl should not be angry.
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahaha. Bvs no good.
DeleteGo and take care of yourself first. Ify if you are reading this don't go back. You do her an injustice if you take her back when she hasn't changed. If you change you will meet the partner God has ordained for you. That person will be more understanding when you fall again. Chances are it will repeat itself but you have to be with someone who is more accepting of your flaws and ready to work with you on it. We are all flawed. Some of us have better control.
ReplyDeleteTamunomiete
Gbam gbammer gbammest!!
DeleteSpot on!
Ify please where art thou? This is my no...
DeleteIfy come to me baby, I'm not hot hot tempered 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃.
ReplyDeleteOn a serious note, forgive her....
"To hen is human but to forgif is divide".
I have beginning to suspect u re the villager. The way you write #to hen is human but to forgif is divide nawao
DeleteAMAWBIA UGBO OGIRIGA
JESUS IS LORD
ADA ZION
Hahaha, ada I'm not o.
DeleteWhat if he's found another girl that he's more in love with,should he ditch her and come back to u?its a good thing u have fought that spirit of anger but I'm afraid,u have lost him dear!wait on God this time for a HUSBAND,and he ll surely make it happen!thank you
ReplyDeleteIfy Bobo please forgive her.
ReplyDeleteMadam sign up for anger management classes. You can contact me if you want. Cheers
ReplyDeleteTonto Dikes sister. I hope you have truly learnt your lesson. We women sometimes feel we have the right to assualt our partners verbally and sometimes physically and feel because they are men they should take it and not react. Imagine a woman telling her husband shut up, useless man and all manner of names.
ReplyDelete6yrs relationship; perhaps it's your attitude that is giving him 2nd thoughts on proposing.
Oga ify please forgive her and give her one last chance. I'm sure the silence you've given her has made her brain to factory reset.
hmmmm
ReplyDeleteYou've been dating for six years. If ify loved you,he would have wifed you since. God is trying to deliver you from THE RING BEARER STATUS,but you are struggling to still be a RING BEARER!
ReplyDeleteHow about God is trying to deliver ify?
Deleteify pls run for your dear life.
ReplyDeleteHope u don't break things bin his Hus?
ReplyDeleteHope u don't use knife or bottle on him?
Hopevu don't fight everybody around him?
If so pls u need help
Abeg ify forgive her and help her.
You have never commented in 3yeaes and you want us to comment on your post. Ok....continue 🚶
DeleteAwww Ivy please o,help her overcome this,the next person might have a worse trait sir,please o Biko!
ReplyDeleteEveryone deserve a second chance which I agreed with but why waiting this long to work on your but,how sure are we that want to beg that you now have better control over your hanger well Mr Wify let's give her benefit of dought and I pray she change for real.
ReplyDeleteGive us ifys number to plead for you if you are seriously serious
ReplyDeleteLmao thief like you
DeleteYou want to divert Ify abi?
Please Ify give her another chance.
ReplyDeleteNot to shit on her parade but I can bet if tables were turned, all ye prophets of doom on here will offer advices from the pit of hell for her to run for her life before the guy kills her.
ReplyDeleteAnon God bless you
DeleteSeriously
Exactly, ify please run for your life
DeleteThnk u. Run nor dey hard 'us' type.
DeleteNa so, especially these days ladies use knives freely to open up men's stomach with lame excuse.
DeleteIfy if you love her forgive and help her deal with the anger issue,the most important thing is that she has accepted she has anger issue which the first part towards working on it.
ReplyDeletePoster
ReplyDeleteYou have anger issue and you want me to beg Ify to go back to you so that you will kill him with domestic violence.
Ify, if you can't deal abeg move on and find a good girl that will not kill you with domestic violence.
BTW, is Ify not female pet name?
Nop,not a female pet name.Is Ifeanyi a female name???
DeleteIfy can be Ifeanyichukwu, Ifediora,Ifechukwu etc
DeleteHope you no sound our Ify? Cos I dey suspect this ur anger ish apology
ReplyDeleteIfy please give her a second chance. Noone is perfect.
ReplyDelete*I love innocent Ojukwu Osuagwuh with my entire heart😍😍💓*
Ify please give her a second chance. Noone is perfect.
ReplyDelete*I love innocent Ojukwu Osuagwuh with my entire heart😍😍💓*
I would have said this is Eka sorrow but she doesn't have a steady boyfriend, just some temporary fuckmates and fuckable exes..
ReplyDeleteIkwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa
Oya come and reply me with your blog ID and anonymous goat mode, you know say I no send you, stupid child.
Ify, forgive this girl o, she is changed now and she loves you....
Please don't kill yourself coz of eka, nobody will take care of your child if u are no more.
DeleteYou sound so stupid!
DeleteBuhahahaha Becky bet Y?
DeleteOoooooh! Does the Ify read comments from this blog? If not, it's a wasted efforts!
ReplyDeleteEyah!
ReplyDeleteIfy please forgive her, she's really sorry, She'll change.
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Ify she love you forgive her she said she is now a change person with so much love that you people have share for the past years I think you guys were meant for each other forgive her and also give a chance to prove to you ify you can even help her out by advising her on how to put a stop to it thank you ify for accepting the apology
ReplyDeleteBla bla blah
DeleteIfy bobo afu nwoke afu ogologo imi ya
ReplyDeleteWhy are you angry that she brought it here as if we've seen you before.
Please don't be angry with her anymore inugo, even God himself hasn't gotten tired of forgiving our sins
Nna biko gbahara
Sit her down and have a one on one talk, make your rules and watch her one last time
I can't wait to read your makeup story
Goodluck
How did you know he is dimkpa and has ogonogo imi? You be winch
DeleteHow did u know he is angry she brought it here?😳
DeleteIt's a good thing that she has realised her mistakes and is ready to make amends, Ify forgive her inugo....
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Nna run for your life abeg..... This very part no go funny i swear.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Dating for six years? He reached for babe to have anger issues abeg, put a ring on it ify or shoo away
ReplyDelete*I'm angry*
Ify, Ify, Ify, how many times did I call you? Please, forgive her. She said she has changed. Give her the benefit of doubt and take her back. Biko!
ReplyDeleteWhat a wawu.
ReplyDeleteIfy bobo afu nwoke afu ogologo imi ya
ReplyDeleteWhy are you angry that she brought it here as if we've seen you before.
Please don't be angry with her anymore inugo, even God himself hasn't gotten tired of forgiving our sins
Nna biko gbahara
Sit her down and have a one on one talk, make your rules and watch her one last time
I can't wait to read your makeup story
Goodluck
The guy won't marry you. You are only wasting your own time.
ReplyDeleteTell her, six years kwa ....
DeleteShe's had 6yrs to change. She's never gonna change only find more creative ways to apologise.
ReplyDeleteKeep walking, Ify.
MISS Jacobs
You are right, 6 fucking years. Wow!
DeleteHe put with you for six years and you could not change. How will be believe you now?
ReplyDeleteIfy you know her well, if her anger issue is not life threatening, forgive her but if it is, pls keep looking forward, don't look bad.
ReplyDeletePoster pray very well about this anger spirit, it does a lots of harm to marriage, ify please forgive her and give her another chance
ReplyDeleteIfy, please give her a chance to set things straight. 6 years is a lot for you two. Please make it count. Best wishes.
ReplyDelete6years of anger issue. E reach to run. Make e no go kill Ify before his time. For him to take a walk it must be a serious something. It's difficult to change someone.
ReplyDeleteI just hope this Ify is not a female and we are all here giving advice to lesbians!
ReplyDeleteDidn't u read where she wrote her boyfriend? What's ur obsession with lesbians
Delete😂😂😂
DeleteLol
DeleteI am the poster. I want to appreciate everyone of you for your comments. To answer some questions here, I am not a violent person. Someone called me Tonto Dike's sister, I am not anywhere near Tonto and will never be. I neither fight him, destroy properties nor carry weapons to inflict harm, I am not like that. We usually do not have physical altercations. I trust and love him for who he is but it is my insecurities that actually spur me to be angry at him for some things he does, but I am not violent. I just want him to know I am sorry, I am better and i want to make it up to him for all the years he stood by me despite all we went through. We have been through thick and thin together, I just need one last chance to show him that things can be different. No more insecurities leading to anger because I have learnt my lesson and i'm better.
ReplyDeleteDoes h want to marry you. Ask him because six years is more than enough time to marry and have children
Deletedeal with ur weakness
DeleteSo how are we sure the insecurity would not rear it's head on of these days and it would now generate into breaking bottle.
DeleteIfy abeg forgive o, but if you can't deal don't go back.
I am the poster. I want to appreciate everyone of you for your comments. To answer some questions here, I am not a violent person. Someone called me Tonto Dike's sister, I am not anywhere near Tonto and will never be. I neither fight him, destroy properties nor carry weapons to inflict harm, I am not like that. We usually do not have physical altercations. I trust and love him for who he is but it is my insecurities that actually spur me to be angry at him for some things he does, but I am not violent. I just want him to know I am sorry, I am better and i want to make it up to him for all the years he stood by me despite all we went through. We have been through thick and thin together, I just need one last chance to show him that things can be different. No more insecurities leading to anger because I have learnt my lesson and i'm better.
ReplyDeleteU sha get plenty power. Better go get busy.
DeleteCan I stay with u for anoda 6yrs and decide if we can get engaged? Ify
DeleteIfy nwokeoma pls forgive her if she is not violent.
ReplyDeletePlease poster don't be silly, if ure still feeling insecure after 6years with a man, shouldnt that tell u the relationship should be in the dustbin.
ReplyDeleteWhen people come for Queen and boss, it's comments like the poster's that make me realise Linda is bloody smart and can see through people she hasn't even met. Why the bloody hell would u be begging a man uve been with for 6yrs on a blog? Girl u need to use your brain, men aren't scarce. Wtf!!!
Thank you boo, 6 years and no trust, na one day the thing go just come?
DeleteIfy bobo, biko zi e nu. Ngwa nne go and prepare nkwobi and serve him with undiluted palm wine. This is the food we use in appeasing the "gods". Babe,go and anger no more. Send in your wedding invitation to SDKB. 6years e Te ka
ReplyDeleteIfy bobo, biko zi e nu. Ngwa nne go and prepare nkwobi and serve him with undiluted palm wine. This is the food we use in appeasing the "gods". Babe,go and anger no more. Send in your wedding invitation to SDKB. 6years e Te ka
ReplyDeleteIfy Nwanne,pls run as if there is no tomorrow,she has secret evil plan to take her revenge on you.
ReplyDeleteBe wise don't give her any reason to come close to you. Thank God you survived this,and give your testimony
Now for you poster to result to coming open to blow to apologies shows there is a fundamental communication problem with your relationship. Secondly if you are or have insecurities of 6yrs; those things that triggers it must be dealt with first. It may be baggage you are Carring meaning u v to deal with urself first and leave relationship and if it's with the guy and 6yrs it's still there, and you are taking blame then you are setting yourself up for failure. Marriages fail due to unresolved issues like this. You as a person is beginning to have self doubt . Pls go seek emotional healing first cos you must reach out to yourself first. Ur relationship is sick from my diagnosis. 6yrs is enough 2 establish a communication pattern .you are being EMOTIONALLY ABUSED without knowing. Speak to God openly and prayerfully seek ur marital future. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteI see 2 things with your relationship: No communication and LOW SELF ESTEEM which is as a result of an unnoticed EMOTIONALLY ABUSE leading to YOUR INSECURITIES. Are these gonna leave with your public apology? NO! It will only reduce your worth. If after 6yrs u don't have an agreed and mastered communication mode, then you are just in a relationship with yourself! It's a relationship because the two ppl involved can speak to themselves. You have to deal with the root cause of your insecurities: from your past relationships, family experiences or from the guy's antecedents. May be ify has been serially unfaithful and you never death with it so it piled up in your brain leading to your angry outburst. Either ways, be honest with yourself and have a conversation with yourself, deal with the underlying cause b4 you say I do. Build yourself confidence , men love confident women. Be a value addition lady and know that you are God's best.
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