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WHY DOES LOVE HURT?

Hi Stella, Got few questions to ask you; why does love hurt? 

Why do you fall in love with someone and for that person to turn his/her back on u? What's the point of doing all your best to please he/she and he/she ends up leaving you for another woman or man?

 To cut the long story short, I met this Beautiful Dark Skinned Woman on IG, loved her genuinely, played a good role in her life cause she had no father. Showered her with love, showed her to my mom, told everyone about my newly found love and I was happy showing her on IG, cause I loved her and I still do. 

Later found out she dated someone I knew way back, but still didn't care cause love is what matters, it conquers all. The so called Ex later found I was dating this woman and he started sending me Msges, threatening to deal with me if I don't leave his woman alone. There was a day I went to the girl's house and I met this dude, he asked me what I was doing here (Girl'sHouse) he rented for her?

 He came out and started hitting and pushing me, people gathered, held us and I left. I still never gave up on our love, loved her more cause she told everyone that same day that she was in love with me and not the other dude. 

Few days ago, this woman called me that she wanted to see me urgently. Left work on time and when I got to her house, saw her, talked briefly later now played me a recorded convo her Ex had with another dude. The dude was saying I told him how I would go to the girl's house and s3x her, said all kinda nasty things...some really crazy things if you know what I mean😩. She started crying 😩 😭 The next thing she said was 'I'm done' it's over!!! And left.

 I have tried talking to her but she keeps telling me that her mind is made. I love this woman, Stella. What do i do now?? 

This woman means everything to me. Now, if I send her an SMS or call her she does not reply or call back. Please, could you help me share a msg that I sent to her on your blog? Cause I know she visits your blog a lot. I'll copy and send you the msg. Thanks and may the Good Lord continue to bless you


THE MESSAGE TO HER

''I gave up everything for u, to love u, respect u and treat u like a queen cuz I loved u and I still do. I never tot I wld love again...told God that u came at the ryt time to ease my pain, to make me feel fulfilled cause u are Painkiller. 

And I made a promise to God never to leave u and to always adore u and treat u special. The question is, why did u have to be nice to me only to leave me? U cooked for me, washed my clothes, loved the same music, sexed me good and allowed me to show u to the world that ur my woman cause I was proud of what I had? Why put me to love u this much to turn ur back at me? This hurts me badly? 

Can't get u off my head.

 Typing this msg and shedding tears just to ease my hurt. I have never cried or fought over a woman but God knows that I love u. What am I supposed to tell the world now? That it didn't workout or that I just can't keep any woman? Do u think I deserve all of these? My Painkiller, why?? 

I remember when u posted sometin on IG same month we met, about 'True Love meeting u at ur mess and not ur best. Someone sticking around no matter how hard shit gets, that they really love u? Tot that post was for me, I never left u, never give a fcuk abt what people tot abt us. 

All I wanted was ur love...didn't ask for much. These days I can't sleep well no more, turning and tossing, waking up middle of the nyt thinking abt u. This is 3:10am thinking abt u and reading my bible. Asking myself over and over again, if sometin is wrong with me? Why can't any woman just love me for me, am I that bad? 

Now the more I listen to the songs on my fone, the more ur tots strt spinning in my head...they all remind me of u, how we used to sing them together. Why re u tearing me apart? Why??


*I think she was looking for a way to break up with you and thats what she did...She is probably with the other guy....I dont think she loved you,she just needed your shoulder to cry on and has probably gone back to the ex...

I know it is difficult,especially as she might be reading this but please MOVE ON...you have cried enough and questioned God enough....Love shouldnt bring pain,if it does,it aint yours...Please move.

And Babe if you are reading this,please do the righ thing by telling him the truth of why you broke up with him to help him find closure.