Hmmmm na wah!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WILLING TO BE SECOND WIFE.
When she was in school she met this guy..she was young and naïve he was single then they got close and she fell in love with him after sometime he got married she got upset when she found out and kept her distance he kept asking her for forgiveness she eventually forgave him.
Their relationship continued and it was off and on for years.They were both in different states. He helped her secure a job at the state he works and where she works is close to his own office so they go to work and back from work together. His family do not stay in the same state with him, they only visit and he visits them too.
They became very close and he got her to be exclusive with him. She had a relationship that was not leading anywhere and others that was just there and she eventually dropped all of them.
The man is in his late 40s and she will be 30 next year. He says he wants to marry her and she is worried that her father will disown her and her mother will have a heart attack that she wants to be a second wife.
They are both in love with each other, they have known each other for a couple of years now and have been through a lot together. She says he is better than all the guys she have met. His wife knew about her but did not know they were still in contact. You can imagine when she discovered again when she went through his phone, she saw pictures and messages between them and all hell broke loose. She threated to get my friend disgraced and all her family members laid threats on my friend, she will find her out and beat her up..she posted lots of things online to embarrass my friend and reached out to people that know my friend to warn her. She also swore that she will use her last drop of blood to deal with my friend if she does not leave her husband alone.
No marriage is a bed of roses...the man and his wife have issues off and on and she has a temper. The man still insists that he will marry my friend.That she will relocate abroad and all. My friend is madly inlove with him...now she is worried that
- What if he ends up not marrying her and just keeping her cos his family is not around so she serves the need he wants.
- She might have to leave her job and she is scared of that
- She is getting old what if he eventually does not marry her and she has locked up on dating anybody and have driven the ones that showed any form of interest in her.
Kindly advice please and bvs please easy on the acrid comments. Nobody gains points by been overly insultive and insensitive....danke für deine Zeit
Is this your friend's chronicles or yours? Well, all I'll say is "if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you"
ReplyDeleteAre these her only fears?
DeleteWhat if the other wise kills her? She should fear that one more
The babe is a fool. Allowing the man to be chopping her pussy. If he liked her, he would have married her instead. She is a stupid side chic and soon them go pour her acid
DeleteVery stupid why does she think shes better than the wife. The man is using her. She better wakeup from that slumber.
DeleteThis ain't good. Poster abi na poster's friend, run!🏃
DeleteI don't like commenting on stupid chronicles like this, I have nothing but insults for this poster. I hate foolish desperate women.
DeleteSome people just walk around with cotton wool in their heads.
DeleteDo unto others what u want them to do unto u. It's so obvious u r d mechanic servicing another woman's husband. Forgetting that men will promise anything he just to get in your panties. First class mumu. So what if u don't get married???? Is marriage a guarantee that u will make heaven??? If husband is not coming divert all d energy u r wasting on another woman's property to building yourself to be a better woman. Oprah no get 2 heads o. Ode chronicle.
Chikito the runs! Na you be this? Just asking
DeletePoster just tell d man u r pregnant n u r kipping d baby, den will c true luv, u will c he luvs u 4rom d depth of his heart.
DeletePoster just tell us it's you we won't cuss you out
DeletePoster,I know this chronicle is yours....
ReplyDeleteSee,leave another woman's husband!,..
I don't know why old single women like snatching people's husband!...
You said you are 30 years abi?...na 50 you go soon clock if you don't leave this man alone!...
If I were the wife,I would just pour acid on that your wrinkled face!...
No oh. She says shes 30 next year so she's 29.
DeleteI'm sad for you. Isnt it here we saw agbani marry at 35? Shebi toke rushed and married at 29 to a wrong guy, so where is it all now? I dont even have an issue with you being second wife because its your headache not mine, and when the repercussions of your actions come you will bear them alone. I have a problem with people like you who put roadblock where there is none. At 29 you've subjected yourself to being a second wife because of fear of being without a man in future. How you wan even take see better man when all your focus is on someone's husband? Abeg go and sleep you never know wetin dey do you. You think that man is perfect abi? Because una dey play hide and seek. Wait until you enter house. *hiss*
Poster the man is just using u..."been thru a lot with a married man"...shameless girl
DeleteWhy are u and ur friend making it look as if the wife is insane???
DeleteWhy is ur friend bent on breaking another woman's home???
whether ur friend likes it or not, she is trespassing on another woman's territory and wife is only trying to defend it. If she gets an acid bath from the wife, she shouldn't blame anybody o.
Tell her to look for another man biko. He isn't the only man alive.
Chikito u just said my mind. Please madam poster leave that unhealthy relationship if the guy loved u that much he would have wifed u. He's very selfish n wants to have his cake n eat it. He's only wasting ur time n if u insist on being a 2nd wife, get ready for the consequences including his having a 3rd wife.
DeleteSmh!
ReplyDeleteAm a married man and this is my humble advice and opinion. I have said it times without number that a babe has no business with an EX or else the will continue from where they foolishly stopped in a reckless manner. It's always easy for an EX to come back and just appreciate you a little more cause the perfect person he left you for is not also a saint. Your friend allowed her Ex to start comparing her with his wife and because the pressure of marriage has not set in with your friend he feels his wife is now a trouble maker. Your friend is wasting her time cause the moment he marries her he will start acting up and giving excuses and regrets. Men like that can't face realities that marriage comes with challenges. All of you shouting her about being a second wife are shallow minded and trust me if you look around you see more second wives all over the place. The problem with our society is we like to pretend a lot. My own stand is men should come out truthfully if they want a second wife even before they embark on it. We are Africans and whether we like it or not it's part of our culture and DNA. Am not a polygamist o......my parents have been married for 56years and am also married for 16 years and don't and will not take a second wife cause I was not raised to do so. But the truth is some are brought up that way. Your is not a second wife material she is a frustration rebound. The guy will still dump her. She should just move on. She is still young to get her man.
DeleteYour friend is not serious, his wife is mad and has temper issues yet that is who he chose over your friend, that alone should tell her something, she loves being a side hen, and just like this uncle above have told you, by the time they ger married she will turn to a mad wife also and he will need another side chic. Your friend isn't even yet a gwegs yet and she's chasing other men away for a second hand man nawa .... Very dull child, yeye child
DeleteU just said all I wanted to
DeleteMumu poster smh
DeleteI am gobsmacked! He loves you consumingly and he could not wife you?
ReplyDeleteSomebori wake me up.
Lmao @ love you consumingly
DeleteSugar are you minding her. At the age of 29 she has turned herself into a desperate slut. The man knows she is cheap that is why he is deceiving her and she thinks the man is inlove with her. Even if the man marry her, he will still be cheating or even bring in a 3rd wife. Poster tell your friends to go and look for a single guy. She should stop hurting the man's wife. I pray the wife bath her with acid. Poster tell your friends the truth.
Delete*Pours hot water on you*
DeleteOya, wake up
Young girls leave married men alone. Don't scatter person home so that God will not scatter urs
ReplyDeletewill they listen?
DeleteImagine this sleeping with a married man and wanting to even be second wife. I pity u poster, by the time the man is through with u, he will drop u like a used pad.
My dear they won't hear. The man might end up marrying other women after making her a 2nd wife. What do you expect from a man who can't be Faithful to his first wife? The man will keep cheating till the day he will die
DeleteUr frnd is a goat...in short ur frnd,u,the man, and the wife..all of u are goat...u read this blog everyday u can't advise ur frnd...ur frnds case is in hellfire..nonsense
ReplyDeleteHow is the wife a goat? smfh
DeleteWho said it's the friend? Poster is the said friend who is she deceiving? Foolish thing. He loves you yet wifed another over you and is still stringing you along? You "is" the most foolish dumb as a dumbbell side hen (to call you side chick na upgrade) I have ever seen.
DeleteDon't go and better your life, advance your career, be a boss babe and have solid investments and see men who will see you as a valuable asset by their side line up and beg for your hand in marriage; mba don't do that...tie your umbilical cord to him and watch him waste your life until you clock 50 years alone, lonely as hell and miserable that is when your eyes will open. His wife has not even started, wait until she adds prayers or babalawo to the mix then you will know that khaki no be leather.
....all of you are goat?you just declared ..WAR!NUCLEAR MISSILES...ON TARGET!
DeleteYou and your friend are wicked.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that the man knew her before he met his wife but didn't marry her says a lot about her.
How can you as a friend not slap some sense into your friends head for even continuing the relationship with the man after his wedding.
I don't pray for friends like you who won't bring me back to reality when I'm going crazy.
She is madly in love with another woman's husband? Really? Uwa m mebi.
The man has issues with his wife, every couple have their issues and that is why they say marriage isn't a bed of roses. There are instances where couples have issues to the point of getting a divorce but somehow they still find their way back and build their home.
Your friend is a termite and if I were the man's wife I will not fight her but take her to God and I will leave that useless man too who has refused to honour and respect the marriage.
What nonsense! He is even telling stories that his wife has a temper. Didn't he know this before he married her? The thing between your friends legs is still hanging in between his teeth. When he is done having his fill, he will crawl back to beg his wife while your friend will still remain unmarried.
She should leave someone's husband alone.
Save Yourself some energy babe. The chronicle belongs to her. Just a cover up. She fears insult and criticism but doesn't fear another woman's husband.
DeleteKidjo!!!
DeleteIs not by force to get married, what if the man's wife carries out her treats, she won't be alive to enjoy the marriage. Your friend should leave the man alone.
ReplyDeleteShe should marry him if he has enough money to take care of d family comfortably. Why is d wife threatening thunder and brimstone? Is the hubby a child? She must be d troublesome type that don't allow their dh to hv rest of mind at home, every time quarrel,No wonder he want marry another wife.
ReplyDeleteNo wonder you said it's your friend's chronicles. The man did not find her good enough to marry when he was still single, he married a complete marriage material lady and set your friend aside as his sex machine. He won't ever marry her, once he's done eating the good part of her, he will dump her for another young lady. Sorry to say this, you/your friend have no iota of class, dating someone who chose another lady to marry while you're still dating,SMH for you
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
"She also swore that she will use her last drop of blood to deal with my friend if she does not leave her husband alone."
ReplyDelete"I am not understanding oooooo
The sidefowl will not live to marry her husband simple.
DeletePls tell your friend to leave someones husband. God will give her her own. If the man truly loves her and he and his wife have been having issues he would have divorced her
ReplyDeleteAbi o. Some girls no dey think at all.
DeleteToday is easter ,so I will be nice. He didn't find her good enough as a wife earlier and you think now it's going to make his life more complicated, he will marry you? You are just his side hen,that marriage promise is just to get you to 'open up' so he can put shafts in holes.... flee woman .fleee!
ReplyDeleteThey were never in love
ReplyDelete"Never together"
They were IN LUST with each other's body
Will your friend want another woman near her husband?
Oh, she was providing his needs: you mean "servicing his lusts" for breast and vagina?
ACID, ACID, ACID; that's the smell I perceive here!
She should leave the man alone. The loved her, he would have married her then. Make the man wife no knack pigeon for her head oh.
ReplyDeletePoster Chukwu kpo gi na your thief of a friend okwu. Criminals! Shameless whores. The reason I have to include you is because she's your friend and they say show me your friend...
ReplyDeleteShe should watch out for acid bath. Ndi ikpu oko! A small girl of 29yrs is already calling her self old, instead of her to concentrate on her career and wait for the right man she's busy stealing another woman's husband. Will God forgive her? Chineke buo unu ncha onu! Ndi ori ndi ori.
I pray the man realizes his foolishness and go back to his wife leaving the idiot to die of a miserable death. Ndi ojoo! Dunno why some people are simply heartless. Evil children
Did i hear you saying a small girl of 29? People like you who look for every opportunity to call someone gwegs on this blog..*hiss*
DeleteFan this matter pain you o. Jiri ya nwayoo nne
DeleteYour anger is hilarious 😂 😂 😂
DeleteThose curses mehn, but you have a valid point.
I like the point you addressed calling ones self old just at such age.
Poster you obviously support your friends foolishness and are looking for validation.
May you two receive sense
*Co-hiss*
DeleteTake it easy with the curses Abeg. Not necessary.
DeleteI wonder o. Ppl they call gwegs.
DeleteDon't mind her, I don't even know how old is she to call a 29 year old a small girl
Delete*Larry was here*
Chikito weldone 4 this comment.
DeleteFan biko take it easy marriage is not a do or die affair.
DeleteFan biko take it easy marriage is not a do or die affair.
DeleteFan biko take it easy marriage is not a do or die affair.
DeleteWait! Tell me u dont already know wats coming? U dare bring such story here? Ure finished. Mk i go mk eba i dey come.
ReplyDeleteTell your friend to borow sense! Or is it you? Lol
ReplyDeleteShe is not old,if she opens her mind to other people, I'm sure she'll find someone else to love.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand if she wants to deal with the issues that will plague her as 2nd wife,that's her choice.
What type of advice are you looking for? Surely you must know your friend is wrong and should have left a MARRIED man alone. Home wrecker.
ReplyDeleteReal home wrecker, after giving birth her eyes will open then the man will move back to his wife.
DeleteAbi when the pussy will slack and breast will fall she will know the difference between plantain chips and kpekere. Once he marries her he will no longer find her intriguing and exciting she will now be a burden he will now be calculating how to share the money into two. From Brazilian hair and small rent to second house, school fees etc. Then one day he will go for deliverance and say he was jazzed hes going back to his first wife. I laugh.
Delete"They were together?"
ReplyDeleteReally?
Is it a fellow woman writing this?
What piece of advice do you need?
For someone to validate adultery and shamelessness?
If you the poster will like another woman to "be providing the needs of your husband in another state . . ." then advice your friend to keep in this disgraceful path of hers.
You've talked about dad disowning her, mom having heart attack . . . what about God and how he will feel; how about eternity? Oh you forgot that one entirely?
That is quite miopic; to think only about this life and that's all.
Your friend is on a macabre dance and you are playing the flute of shame and beating the drums of death!
I like the way you write. Wish to know you.
DeleteNice one @Anonymous 15:20
DeleteThis poster will need some valium to sleep tonight after reading comments .
DeleteMadam old at 29, I got married at 35. There is nothing like marrying your own. The peace of my mind that comes with it is indescribable.
Don't say you were not warned. Those whom the gods want to destroy ........biko finish it.
Stupid girl with fish brain. Let me tell you exactly what will happen in future. The man's wife will become a better person and the hubby will see it, she will use that to seduce her hubby and the man will forgive her. They would become lovers once again. And you? The man will discard you without a second thought.
ReplyDeleteOh lord! Please don't give me a foolhardy as a daughter in Jesus name Amen!
Go and have your friend head checked out, I do be surprise if there is brain in it.
ReplyDeleteShe is damn desperate..tueh!
ReplyDeleteShe wanys to snatch someone's husband?u gat to be kidding me mehn.A family friend tried it,the woman gave her a serious sickness,she lost her job and still the man dumped her just few months after the wedding and reunited with the wife.Up till date,that my family friend hasn't remarried cos I know that woman cursed of jazzed her.
Lmao..
DeleteThe one my sister gisted me this weekend. The wife left the house for them. The side chic took in and was walking down the stairs one day when she felt a sharp pain. Next thing she was on the ground. Lost the baby and has a stroke then the man's true color came out. One day after he has dealt with her, she called her sister to come and pick her up cos she couldnt anymore. The next weekend she accompanied her sister to a wedding just to get her mind straight. Who did she see? The ex wife, re-married to a guy far better than the one she was struggling and that one even saw her on a wheelchair and hugged her, chatted with her Until she didnt know when she broke down in tears apologizing there and then. Make she go marry the man nau.... *hiss*
*or*
DeleteWhy do some girls think with only their vagina?
ReplyDeleteSo she was "providing the (sexual) needs . . ." of another woman's husband
And you are writing in to ask us not to bring "acrid" comments?
Or you simply wanted to tell us that you know a word called "acrid?" Congrats vocab woman.
Well let me remind you that the synonym to that word is "acid" and you know what it is used for; what this kind of aggrieved wife use it for!
😂😂 na the acrid pain you?
DeleteWe know say na you stop pretending that is your friend.
ReplyDeleteConcentrated sulfuric acid is corrosive; chem 101.
ReplyDeleteTell her and that if the woman goes the prayers or diabolical route, she's a goner. Either way she's done for.
DeletePlease, let your friend leave the man alone. First he left her and got married, and next thing he is all over her again. Hnmmm, it's obvious he is using her because his family is not around. Have your friend paused to wonder what would have happened if he was living with his family? Has she ever wondered if she was 'the other woman'? How would she feel? Am not an advocate for 'marry quick quick' but in this case, I will say time is running out on her on finding her life partner. She should relocate, and not be afraid, God will give her a good and better job. She should leave another woman's husband alone and face her own life and find her own husband. And lastly, she shouldn't forget that karma has everybody's address.
ReplyDeleteLady poster, this "friend" of yours is you.Stop loving someone's husband. If he loved you that much na you him for marry.
ReplyDeleteLady let go off another woman's horseband. There are so many single guys out there, find your own man, ekwucham ooo
ReplyDeleteThe reason your friend haven't seen any other man she likes so much is because she has refused to fully open up to any man. She is in her 30s yes but that doesn't mean she should settle for less and be a second wife. What happens if she agrees to marry him ans go abroad and the man ends up liking another woman. Pls remind your friend that man is selfish and sacrifices shouldn't be made for him.
ReplyDeleteUr friend abi na u has low self esteem, she is d reason why d man is having issues with his wife.plS let her back off form d family. Women always presenting themselves so cheap to men. Imagine considering being second wife when d man is not Dangote, even at dat nko? mitchewwwww. Just negodu iberibe chronicle
ReplyDeleteYour friend needs to get her head checked ASAP... Eehhhhh chineke God!!!!!! How do women think these days????? Damn!!!! Even Eve will be disappointed
ReplyDeleteI tire o, her mentality is shocking. Second wife in 2017 something is wrong somewhere.
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ReplyDeleteMarriage is to be honored by all, and husbands and wives must be faithful to each other. God will judge those who are immoral and those who commit adultery. GNT
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Heb. 13:4 KJV
The wife should take it easy so the hubby don't divorce her the same way Ahmed Musa divorced his wife. I don't understand why some women are very selfish and unaccommodating.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious let me read comments but second wife? No no
ReplyDeleteKeep your distance from somebody's husband.
ReplyDeleteTell your friend to google "MOVE ON"
ReplyDeletethe man loves her yet he went ahead to marry another woman
F**k they've been through a lot.. If they were meant to be.. He would have married her.. Obviously that "they've been through" a lot means nothing to the guy because if it did he wouldn't have married another woman.
Finally, tell your friend (that's if it's not you) to leave another woman's husband! Go and find your own.
My dear tell ur friend to run for her life she should never marry him. Is obvious he is using her since his family is not with him. Ur friend should not be home breaker. She even aware he is married this your friend don't know what she wants. Or poster re u sure your not the one.
ReplyDeleteAMAWBIA UGBO OGIRIGA
JESUS IS LORD
Your friend isnt a serious person at all. At 30, she de blab like this and desperate?? Tell her not to try going into that marriage pls for the sake of her sanity. Men can blab for africa. Once shes fooled into that marriage, everything will definitely 'shange' and her eyes will clear. Love ko, love ni!
ReplyDeleteShe hasn't even clocked 30. I wonder at her desparation! Maybe its the guys D GAME
DeleteYour friend is a FOOLISH GOAT! May a married man waste the lives of my enemies this way! Wow! What stupidity.
ReplyDeleteit'll be good for your friend to break all ties with the man.
ReplyDeleteBabe,run o ...marriage is by force no b ticket to make heavn...n what makes u tink he will not see another n marry....
ReplyDeleteI will say how will your friend feel if tables are turned around.Since is a noble act why is she worried or scared she should go ahead na.The more we loose empathy we behave worse than animals without feeling you are hurting the person involved.
ReplyDeleteI will say how will your friend feel if tables are turned around.Since is a noble act why is she worried or scared she should go ahead na.The more we loose empathy we behave worse than animals without feeling you are hurting the person involved.
ReplyDeleteOla Wealth, happy birthday to you. IWULL'N'P. More more money to your bank account. May God bless your new age. Age gracefully my man.
ReplyDeleteBeloved happy fake birthday. I will wish the main one of 24th. Enjoy.
Poster tell your friend to hold her chest, let her have a deep breath and say it is well.
Amen!...
DeletePls n pls she should leave dat man and his family alone.... let her look unto God for her husband moreover she is not getting any younger, I feel he is just wasting her time and being a 2nd wife Jeezz is dat one wife sef nt even an option pls flee oo be4 u get disgraced n old without husband cuz u have sent away those interested in u over one married man like dat, and start giving ur parents sickness upandan.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that he got married is reason enough for her to back off. Why continue to fall in love with a man that is not responsible enough to remain true to his marriage? And you want to chook ur head and marry that kind of man and become a second wife. Pls show some respect for yourself and untangle yourself abeg. You are in love...u better use your head along with your heart. You need peace in marriage and not dodging arrows from everywhere. Leave another woman's husband and your man will find u.
ReplyDeleteI don't get this rush. I'm 2 ti be thirty this year. Among all my set girls there are not more than 30 married. Our classes went from a-f I'm with at least 25 people boy and girls per class. So why the panic and rush?? When I see dem girls I don't think they re gehs they are all still hit and their time will come an which one is second wife?
DeleteYour friends other relationship has not worked out bcos she is still dating this guy. The mans marriage has issues because he is sharing his love and attention between her and his wife. Something they did not bargain for when they married.
First of the man is even too old in his forties. What kind if wedding does she want to do where all the man's first live and attention he has showered upon his first kids? Its now the empty pot he will scrape for her. She wants to live abroad abi? She should prepare to be lonely. Only her and her kidsbthe.man will visit once a while. The family will never accept her she will always be no 2 in their eyes. Also when she goes against her parents now if anything should happen she will have nobody ti stand for her.
What if as she's abroad his wife decides by pack and relocate to his state? Their love will be rekindled and she will be the one that is far away. Also the stress if two families affect men a lot oh. He is eating like a bachelor since his wife is not there. one day what if the guy slumps and die?
As a young fresh 29 year old she should find a good guy from a better family with good prospects so they can build thier life together. A fresh start. That's hw you will enjoy your marriage my dear. You people can live life in peace . if he wanted her he would have married her she is wasting b her own time with her own hand.
Poster, this is not a story about your friend. This is your personal story.
ReplyDeleteGerrrahe u will be paid in your own coin soon. Just marry him already and den do ur sorrow chronicles alone , when it comes down on you later.
Poster, this is not a story about your friend. This is your personal story.
ReplyDeleteGerrrahe u will be paid in your own coin soon. Just marry him already and den do ur sorrow chronicles alone , when it comes down on you later.
Hmmmmm..
ReplyDeleteEyiso similenu otunboyosi.
Poster,tell your friend to wait for her own husband oooooo,I know its not easy waiting bcos you don't even know when the Mr right will come knocking. But that doesn't give her the right to break another woman's marriage bcos of desperation. Let her wait ooooo.... Her's will certainly come bcos the bible says though the vision may tarry but trust me its must surely come to pass.
Let her free herself from that bondage ,that's situationship not relationship, no matter the pressure Nigerians put on the single spinsters out there calling them all sort of names,that should not make them throw dignity and value away and start chasing after peoples husband jealousy.
That's my shawara for your friend, he that has ears let him what they spirit is saying.
I hope she listen and not end up with acid bath scar..
@ Intelligence this is the first time I gbadun your comment on this blog.poster,its ain't your friend ,its you. You better run and while running never look back.that acid bath ish is so fucking real. I was almost bathed with an acid while serving in portharcot but God save me. One useless off shore guy that was begging me to date him and he was spending on me like never before, I sha know somethings are fishy about this rich guy . I never knew he was married to a mixed race woman and they've got two beautiful kids,only for this woman to show up in my place of primary assignment with a jar of acid..oboii see running, I never knew I could run that fast. Her friend told me keep running while she excused herself to get the acid from her car after our pleasant greetings. Na God of Pastor Eneche save me that day o
DeleteSo,poster don't take the wife's threat for a joke. Some women have got no chill. They will go any length to get rid of any threat that wanna storm their home. Learn from muah and runnnnnnnnn.
Poster u or ur friend should leave that man alone. She is just 29yrs, she should move on with her life.
ReplyDeleteTell ur frnd 2 leave someone's husband alone!Haba wat is it wit young ladies and married men these days? She shuld leave dat man and God will give her someone 2 love her more dan dat married man...U think God is blind?...She's in love wit dat man dats why none of her relationships are working out 4 good...Wen she leave dat man, God will definitely give her a good husband!.
ReplyDelete#Anything in life that we don’t accept will simply make trouble for us until we make peace with it*
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't the guy marry her when they 1st met?
ReplyDeleteWho told her 29 is old and she can't find another man?
Leave another woman's husband alone, Hmmm some ladies can go to any length just to keep their man. you don't know what the wife is capable of.
You haven't even married him, yet there is so much drama already. Is that the kind of home you want to go to? No peace at all. Secondly you are just 30 for crying out loud and already worried that you are getting old. Marriage isn't an achievement but companionship. Focus on yourself, begin to seek for another job and start planning a way out of the relationship.If you don't leave how would you find your own man? You have low esteem issues and need to work on that
ReplyDeleteEeya
ReplyDeleteAt 30 see how a grown woman is wasting away with a married man with hope that he would marry her as a second wife
Life indeed is a pot of beans.
Stupid girl and husband snatcher. Leave another woman's husband alone.
ReplyDeleteMost of the time some of these men drumming second wife have no intention of marrying you. Your story is similar to a friend's experience. He was stringing her along after he married for two years and promising marriage and telling her how he doesn't love his wife, yet the wife kept having more babies. We tried talking to her and she wouldn't listen. At some point, i told her that when he brings up the marriage talk again she should tell him her family is ready to meet his, thats how we realized he wasn't ready for wife two, then she borrowed sense and left the relationship
ReplyDeleteThank u. Guy is using marriage to tie her down so he can keep gbenshing.
Deleteur Frnd is seeking our consent befr breaking anoda woman's home? hw many marriages do u see dis days dt don't face challenges d fact dt dis marriage is going tru one of dose ups nd downs does not give ur friend d right to come in nd brk a union made by God. fr Pete sake is dt man d only one on earth? tell ur Frnd she has already sinned by sleeping with a married man let her not annoy God Nd man further by marrying dis man and she had beta open her hrt to oda good men out dia cos if dis man was good in d first place he wouldn't hv gone bk to his vomit(ur Frnd). and if she decides to go ahead with it let her remember dt d cane d man used to flog his first wife will b used on her too dt is if d first wife let's her liv in peace sef
ReplyDeleteAt 30yrs of age your friend is getting old? What manner of women exist these days bikonu, so cos the man told your friend he's having issues with the wife she's willing to be his 2nd? Doesn't your friend wish herself well, what makes her think she can't meet a single guy to get married to. Pls tell that friend of yours to leave someone else's husband alone, even if the married man doesn't have sense and has decided to let his penis do the thinking for him, your friend should borrow herself sense and walk away. That he's having issues with his wife (which might even be a lie) is no excuse for her, she should leave the man to go and make peace with his wife.
ReplyDeleteStella y are u quiet? this is simple all she need is a manual reset slap
ReplyDeleteWant to be a second wife really?
ReplyDeleteShit happens I nearly forgot
ReplyDeleteA married man and a single girl gone through alot! Really?
ReplyDeleteOne thing is certain in life second wife ish will never end. Your friend should be ready for the problems of life. Let her do that which pleases her.
This same way advised my friend I even picked a fight with her to let the married man go she refused. Today after two beautiful children she is seriously regretting. I waited, got married at forty to a single guy with the feat of God she dey jealous me.a beg I can't shout
ReplyDeleteEyaaaahhhhhh @ 40?? 😮 Jesu! 🙆 my aunt got married at 40 and mehhhn shes balling oh but local international. Her agaracha younger sis who got 'lucky' and married at 28 to a wealthy guy back then don hear am hot esp in recent times. Not even DV or anything diabolic, side chic and money matters - as babe wey eye dey strong that time. Me I've seen too much in life to let such things bother me.
Delete*both local and international (i meant)
DeleteChai that pepperred snail really enter
I can relate with your story. Enjoy your marriage and let your friend choke in her foolishness
DeleteThis same way advised my friend I even picked a fight with her to let the married man go she refused. Today after two beautiful children she is seriously regretting. I waited, got married at forty to a single guy with the feat of God she dey jealous me.a beg I can't shout
ReplyDeleteA second wife really? SMH
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ReplyDeletePoster the man didn't marry you when he was single cos you lie alot nd can sleep with anything that looks long and dangling
ReplyDeletelove u my ass
Since you don't want acrid comments,why did you bring the issue here? What were you expecting? A ta on the back of your friend?
ReplyDeleteShe is causing another woman pain so whether she likes it or not,she will pay for it. She can find love again,please beg and advice your friend to leave the man and move on. 29years is not too old.
Why would you discard all your lovers just for a married man that will never leave his wife for you or you think becos you are his ex "yimu"Let try to turn the table around and see what we will get.
ReplyDeleteOne day he will still leave u for someone else.
ReplyDeleteTell her. She's just wasting her time. Very stupid dirty love with no future.
DeleteLeave another woman's man biko. Must you steal your fellow woman joy bcos of pwick that Is everywhere. That prick is already owned....go look for yours elsewhere. Till death do them apart.
ReplyDeleteLeave another woman's man biko. Must you steal your fellow woman joy bcos of pwick that Is everywhere. That prick is already owned....go look for yours elsewhere. Till death do them apart.
ReplyDelete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
ReplyDeleteLOUD IT
DeleteMy dear u see that man so,mark my words he will never marry ur friend! He is just helping her waste her time.if he really loved her why leave her to marry someone else?ur friend is foolish!
ReplyDeleteAnd if at all he marries her and relocate her shey she knows Oga will still look for Someone else to fill the space.she should start buying bullet proof vest.
ReplyDelete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
ReplyDeleteOoohh.... but why you shouting? My ear dey pain me 😑
DeleteOya kuku take 📣
DeleteWahala deh for katanga!
DeleteShe is causing another woman pains, heaviness,tears, sorrow. If she does not repent and leave that man Jehovah respond with heavy judgment to her either in the area of marriage, life, health, career or children. Whatever way the judgement will come sooner or Later on in life. Leave that man and repent.
ReplyDeleteThis girl recieve sense this easter season. You are wasting precious time with this monster lover. He is a destiny waster and killer. Let go so you can meet someone single and better.
ReplyDeletePoster this is your chronicles, you better break up with that man before you end up a gwegs for life. That man will not marry you, why didn't he marry you before he married his wife if he truly loves you? You better leave another woman's husband before she does something terrible to you. God will make that man disappoint you because you and a stupid man want to destroy God's institution of marriage.
ReplyDeleteI don't mind spending 5 hrs to my village. Then you can comee and marry my husband when you start smelling like a dead meat and my husband start collapsing whenever he is naked in front of any woman. I no sabi talk bt I sabi do the work wey my mouth no fit talk. I no get time for time.
ReplyDeleteLMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
DeleteI don't mind spending 5 hrs to my village. Then you can comee and marry my husband when you start smelling like a dead meat and my husband start collapsing whenever he is naked in front of any woman. I no sabi talk bt I sabi do the work wey my mouth no fit talk. I no get time for time.
ReplyDeleteMarry him but please don't complain when he marries wife number 3 and 4. Because someone like him has them waiting
ReplyDeletewhat God has joined together,let no man put asunder!
ReplyDeletewhat God has joined together,let no man put asunder!
ReplyDeletePoster ,u and your friend are one and the same.For u to even send this in shows u dont see anything wrong in frolicking with a married man.Its bad enough u are sharing his bed,its worse that u are considering taking up his home as a second wife.
ReplyDeleteListen carefully, if u were all that to him,he should have "wifed" u.
He is only there for the cookie.
Assisting u to get a job is just a way of getting u to feel free with him like he has done u a FAVOUR therefore to gratify him ,u date him and sleep with him too.
Bitter truth is,the guy will get u pregnant,u end up a baby mama .He will never marry you.
You are 30,so bloody what???..Are u that old???..man don finish???Why would u even chase prospective suitors away??what for??
My dear,until a man puts a ring on it and weds u ,he has no exclusive rights over u.You have every right to date other people.
Its not late. Quit that toxic relatio ship. Renew your mindset.Go out ,make friends ,mingle with the opposite sex..u will find a nice guy who will love you without reservations.
Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness. If u rush in at 30,u might rush out at 35.
Lose grip of every desperation.Men can sense a desperate lady from afar.Be yourself and let your new man (cos I know u are gonna meet him soon)appreciate u for who u are.
Good luck as u do the right thing.
Nothin good comes out of a rotten lizard
ReplyDeleteIt was disrespect and lack of love tgat made him not marry her when he was single
The devil now has fooled her into thinking he has changed
Her foolishness is wearing short knicker and boxing gloves
Hmmmmmm. Hving sex with a married man only in the nam that u knw him b4 he gt married. My dear I advise you us ur brain. D question u should ask ur sf if dis man luvs u as he claims why did he lv ur 4 his future wife. Answer is, he luved his wife more den u dats why he married her. So my dear is beta u 4gt everything abt dis man and beta still go apologise to his wife so dat if she had layed any curse on u, let her 4giv u. Go for confession (optional)
ReplyDeleteFoolish girls falling in love with married men. My lady better go and look for your own husband before you turn 40.
ReplyDeleteUnaa doh ooo,you people have time to be advicing some idiots thats have refused to grow sense,i read the chronicle in the afternoon and jump and passed, Waited till now to read comments so i'ld laugh ma f**king ass out and yes the comments really cracked me up.I'm sure this poster is just trying to make bvs angry and it worked.Are they trying to say they don't read chronicles here?Abeg let me come and be going,i'll come back lera to read more comments and laugh more.chai bvs,unaa vex gaan see curse hahahahahahahahahaha
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ReplyDeletePoster i know it's your story, please live another person husband alone, if he love you so much then why didn't he wife you, instead he picked somebody else you here talking about love, you had better live him and pray for your own to come
ReplyDeleteI had a man I loved so much when I was much younger. In fact he was my first and our love was incredible. He left me for greener pastures, I was willing to wait but he asked me to move on which I respected his reasons. He got married to a foreigner and had a kid with her.
ReplyDeleteI felt bad but I prayed about it and God blessed me with a wonderful man. I stumbled upon his contact recently and I had a long talk with him.
He has separated with the wife and he apologised for what he did. I just laughed and told him to move on cos I will not break my marriage to be with him.
He is not relenting but I will not disobey God cos of vanity.
Tell your friend to move on but if she wants to break a happy home, God doesn't like someone who sows a seed of discord among brethern(family).
She go just buy market wey no be her own.
Are you sure you are not 'Mobola. One stupid girl I know dating a married man. Be it unto you as you do to others
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ReplyDeleteSome women think backwards this days!!....he's married,he is using you!,he isn't leaving his wife for you or anytime soon!!!....there are millions of men in Nigeria to choose from.Why him?.
ReplyDeleteGo get yourself together,I am not even 29 yet but my sense of reasoning is way belongs yours