What would you do if you saw something you shouldn't have seen as concerns............
Let me rephrase -If you caught your friend's husband OR wife cheating,would you tell? what would be your reason for doing so?..If your friend told you that your wife OR husband was cheating with proof,how would you see that friend after the whistle blowing?
This should be interesting cos I know we have stories of people who have done these things,it would be nice if they told us what they suffered as a result of blowing the whistle.
I caught my cousin's bf/unofficial fiance cheating and I spilled to her, she defended him and I had to face my front. They later broke up, didn't ask why, just kept facing my front, but I heard rumours and they were dirty😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeletePipi don't try that again o
DeleteSome girls can be so stupid in love....dem go turn u to enemy I swear
Never did it befr and will never do it
LMAO. Face ur front
DeleteI won't tell him/her
DeleteI swear, almost became the extended family's progressive enemy. Before dem turn me to prayer point. I normally do not spill, but the situation was so bad that I couldn't hold it any longer.
DeleteWhat's my own? Me sef go face front. You can't convince a girl that is madly in love. They'd take you as enemy for life
DeleteStella something big, serious and dangerous is happening in federal government schools that needs attention from everyone before it escalates. New principals have been posted from the ministry while the old principals have refused to vacate. One old principal went as far as calling the police to come and pick up the new principal. Another locked up the school gates and refused entry for the principals. There are protests in some schools now because of the old cargos refuse to vacate office
DeleteWhat's my biz? Y shd I b a bearer of bad news Nah, every man cheats, she shd prep her heart for that, am not gonna do it for her, but if I shd meet him walking out in an obvious FUCK situation and I know he saw me, dude my respect for u drops there, am gonna b giving him attitude until whenever but to spill? No way! Am no RAT
DeleteIf i catch my friend's husband cheating, i will not tell my friend i will act as if i don't know what's going on.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't want to be the person that ruined their marriage.
When it comes to marriage, one has to be very careful before they tag you busy body.
I won't tell and I won't appreciate anyone telling me. People should learn to mind dre business.
DeleteThis scenario just happened to me less than 6hrs ago,and am so not telling anyone....
DeleteI will just face front abeg
ReplyDeleteOr give her subtle hints, so she can find out by herself
I won't try it. At the end of the day they will make up and the wife eould tell her hubby who told her then I would become the enemy of the state
ReplyDeleteU too get sense
DeleteI once caught my neighbour's husband with a lady in one cafe in lekki.. They were kissing, necking, and stuff.
ReplyDeleteMy neighbour is a lawyer, fair,with an ok face and a nice bod.the lady I saw her husband with is plump and dark with a very very pretty face. Her husband doesn't have a type.
What's my own? Can't tell on nobody for anything..its something everyone should have to figure out for themselves.
Exactly my dear
DeleteBut the man is shameless, how could he have been so intimate in public with another woman knowing that someone who knows the wife could bump into him
DeleteLol @ husband does'nt have type..lol
DeleteHmmmm I won't tell directly unless she sees same, I might them add my own to buttress her point
ReplyDeleteNo add ur own until u confirm say dem don break up and she don move on cos if u add ur own,dem fit still date back
DeleteI used to have a friend then at school, the guy she was dating is confirm Yoruba demon, she knew we all knew but didn't tell her afterall na she decid to turn blind eye, and we did same for her.
ReplyDeleteMy YD brothers are everywhere sha😂 but y'all can't do without them😒😂
DeleteI can never tell my friends when I see their husband cheating!,,.
ReplyDeleteI won't be the one breaking up a family abeg...
Afteral,I'm not perfect!,..i dey do my own..
Thank you!......be facing your front ooooo....until he gives me STD........world pipu
DeleteLol ......no mind me shaa.
Husband and wife matter, I no dey put mouth.
DeleteLol @ I dey do my own. Keep confusing people ooo.
DeleteI caught her having sex a day to her wedding. The groom was our family friend. I was confused as I didn't know what to do. She knelt down, cried her eyes out and begged me not to tell her husband. Her excuse: 'David is a one minute man, I just wanted to have a good fuck before saying yes, I do. Please don't tell him' SMH!
ReplyDeleteU no kon join the fuckery?
DeleteU fall hand
How u won take believe say that man wey u catch am with no be one minute man like David
U for at least sample am to ascertain she was telling the truth 😒😂
Eh, sample wetin? U nor well o.
DeleteNo I won't. Because I love my friends and thier happiness is also mine. I won't do anything that will hurt thier feelings and instead of being tag as a bad friend, let them find out themselves. I can only advise them, if I'm told. Whistleblowing don't work in all aspects.
ReplyDeleteI knew my elder sister's hubby was playing away game with one of our former old mama youngy neighbor,though I never caught them on the act but other neighbors confirmed the relationship, besides Bros was a politician so most babes that came around had there own motive .I was much younger then but I did not tell my sis, wetin I for gain?. Bros was a loving father and husband plus he was the one paying my fees, could not imagine a broken home cuz of one desperate chick.i heard babe later got married but her boo no send her package, it seems karma took note of her new address.
ReplyDeleteU are a very smart girl 👌
DeleteHmmm first I will make sure the man knows that I know. Then as for my friend..I will only spill or give suggestive clues when she raises concerns of her husband's infidelity.
ReplyDeleteIf you're d guy on a black shirt,trousers n a black cap,tall in height n fair in complexion that asked for a dance N I twerked for @ midas arena last night,#weldonsah. I was so tripping for u n danced sexually with just U and at d end u couldn't even ask for my contact. U just left just like that without a word. I've been sad abt this. Drop ur contact if u see this please
ReplyDeleteWe ve noticed you
DeleteLeave this one its when someone will drop their contact now and use this one for ritual, we won't now hear the last of it.
DeleteI know exactly who that is. My ex boyfriend. Maybe you were not fine enough!
DeleteI will not tell on a friend.
ReplyDeleteThe most I'll do is to leave subtle innuendos to that friend that would make her put on her radar and the final decision will be hers.
I have never blown a whistle or anyone
I love my privacy , I treat people the way I love to be treated
I won't want same to be done to me
Mind your damn business
What if she's got such a thick brain and your innuendos do not even register in her brain?
DeleteThat was how I blew whistle on a guy way back in Sch
ReplyDeleteThis guy was a confirmed flirt . He sleeps with anything in skirt and to think he was a broke ass and also a dundi.
He was stayed in same house with my friend.
There was this day he brought a babe home as usual and straight up into his room. Before we knew it,the babe was actually "shouting" due do d excitement from the "do".
The thing vex me considering d fact dt this guy had a "faithful" babe.
I went ahead and rang this babe. I told her to hurry up as we wanted to show her something.
Babe said she was on her way.
This babe delayed herself until the side chick left. The side chick left through d front while she came through d back.
Upon her arrival,seeing her face made me want to knock her head for not coming earlier. She inquired abt wat we wanted to show her but i told her d person dt brought d item had left.
The guy knew instantly want I almost did and gave me one side eye. Eating concern me?
I latter still told her Sha latter latter anyways.
The guy and d babe dated up until graduation. I and d guy were same set she was after us.
Even after graduation,they were still waxing strong until d guy entered Europe. This babe decided to go and follow an already married man(the guy is legally married in court and all)
This babe enter before we knw it,she had a son for him. The guy bought her a car and opened a boutique for her. Last last,the guy (married man) took her and the son to the US and asked her to find her way as he would never leave his wife
Eya
DeleteThis one is though.
ReplyDeleteYou tell, marriage may head for the rocks
You don't tell, u start feeling guilty especially if DV is involved.
I don't want to be in dis kain situation abeg
I will never tell my friend directly but I will give hints to raise your suspicions and increase your investigations...
ReplyDeleteEg...my guy my guy,so you and ur babe go chill for that hotel which day u feel say me I nor go know abi...una just dey play love anyhow for public...dude will b like me?? I be like ooh sorry I feel say Na u or ur babe,but I sure say Na ur babe or maybe them just resemble😄😄😄😄😄
Shut up small boy
DeleteI won't oo.. cos the result is not usually funny and it never Favors the whistle blower cos they will still use you and make up... whenever LOVE is involve between two ADULTS kindly stay clear!
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, my piece of mind to the 'Married women'. Zip your mouth as regards to your husbands faithfulness and 'Bestness'.. this people ain't Loyal(not all for sure)...Cos you will cringe at their ACT. Including the Preachers/Brethren/Pastors...
That is how a pastor friend of mine keep sex-charting some girls on social media and asking them for a night stand..and I couldn't believe my eyes when they were sending me the proof... and the wife will be drooling around social media of her husbands "Bestness" and singing him praise and worship... marriage that is less than a year.
My point is zip your mouth girl! A wise woman will just reply you ***He hasn't given me any reason to think otherwise*** when you ask about her trust for her husband. But all this social media marriage...You will only be fooling yourself and be entertaining people with your PRAISE and WORSHIP. Bye
Can/will NEVER try that. Reason being they must reconcile and see you as a bad egg instead. So facing your front and minding your biz is da best biko.
ReplyDeleteI will only meet the person in a conducive environment and tell him/her to stop that act but won't tell.
ReplyDeleteI won't even confront the person. What if someone else spills to the wife/husband? He/she would surely suspect you and might even want to harm you.
DeleteBvs pls send in your wnb,syb,omugwo chronicle it's bin a while anyone posted any omugwo chronicle.also meeting.these one the folder is empty it's weekend am home u guys should post something for us to read
ReplyDeleteI can never tell at all. Ah
ReplyDeleteI won't tell oh, I learnt my lesson in 100 level when my friends bf was asking my roomie out, went to open my big mouth, and my friend never spoke to me again till 400 level. I'm now practising Uche face your work style.
ReplyDeleteDo to others as you will like them to do unto you.
ReplyDeleteStella do you read minds? This issue has been troubling me for days now. My friend's husband brings small girls home once she leaves for work.
ReplyDeleteIt really pains me because she is the breadwinner. What should I do?
Hmmmm Iv seen my friends husband at a club before in lekki with a chick looking like a runs girl, bleached with tattoo. He then spotted me with my friends. He came over with the girl and introduced her as his "colleague". I just laughed because I know that girl isn't no colleague and that's the same girl Iv seen with him in his car before.
ReplyDeleteThe wife travels a lot, she was away in US then for like a year to go give birth.
Off course I won't tell her. Wetin concern me. Before she talk say because I never marry. I want to break her home.
I also have an auntys husband who came on to me and wanted to sleep with me. Was telling me he will take care of me, buy me a car. I didn't tell the aunty, I just stopped going to her house since that incident. I saw her recently with her husband at a function. And she was saying I don't come over again, why? The expression on her husbands face was priceless. Since that incidence, the man just dey fear me. Grown man of 50yrs that has no shame.
A man can FORGIVE his wife's INFIDELITY but he can NEVER forgive the person that informs him.
ReplyDeleteNever. Every mallam with him kettle abeg.
ReplyDeleteNo I won't. Because when they settle their issue [they always do] you'd be the enemy.
ReplyDeleteWell this is my short story back in uni days i and my girlfriend used to have boyfriends so onetime she travelled, my boyfriend and hers decided to hang out guess what, the guy bought this fine girl around, she is beautiful, well whats my own after the hanging out, i still see this girl around. Later my gf came back seriously i was in confuse state if i should tell her what i saw, well i face front, one day she came to room with roof my boyfriend was cheating on me. Well i told her own boyfriend also cheated on her when she went home. Finally i broke up with the guy, she still continued with relationship till graduation. My point is not everyone can handling whistle blower.
ReplyDeleteWetin concern fish with raincoat? Na to minds my bisness o! Abeg I no fit put asunder for person marriage! Especially d married couples! Na who no de sin? Abeg mk person face d one wey de do am for front biko! Dis recession no kukuma de let person see road sef! De wld both be fine last last! No be me dem go use settle biko!
ReplyDeleteWetin concern fish with raincoat? Na to minds my bisness o! Abeg I no fit put asunder for person marriage! Especially d married couples! Na who no de sin? Abeg mk person face d one wey de do am for front biko! Dis recession no kukuma de let person see road sef! De wld both be fine last last! No be me dem go use settle biko!
ReplyDeletePastor's daughter. #wehdon mah.
DeleteIt all depends! My cousin was sleeping with one of his staff, unknown to him, the girl is a mermaid! I had to tell his wife and that saved his marriage and business! Till today, my cousin is so faithful and fearful! He almost lost his manhood! Thank God for His grace!
ReplyDeleteMermaid? Please come back and give us full gist. How do mermaids look like?
DeleteMermaid? As in?
DeleteAs in mami water.lol
DeleteThats how one of my friends boyfriend was asking me out while they were still dating... My friend that puts his picture on her dp every blessed day... I warned him but never told her. Until recently she came to my house, i asked about him, she told me they broke up almost 4 months ago... Thats when I now told her
ReplyDeleteWetin concern fish and rain coat? Abeg e no concern me jare. Even if i see him fucking another girl by the road side i will jump dem pass and go my way.
ReplyDelete*hangs leg on the wall*
Why go anon in d first place?
DeleteMy thot exactly....
DeleteIf I catch my friend's husband cheating I will tell her because I care an love her. If I keep quite then I don't care about her. if my friend sees my husband cheating, my friend should tell me because if i find out later that she know about it and didn't tell me, I will start seeing her as a bad friend. I will even love that friend more and I will see her as a sister. You can't claim to love ur friend and I see that partners cheating and u don't tell them. That is like fooling them and it is not fair.
ReplyDeletePick up a book and read, u r a nosey friend Amebo
DeleteI honestly would not let my friend know unless it's someone that I am extremely close to. As for someone telling me, I would definitely love to know from a dear friend. I would never see it as her trying to break my home but rather save me from the unknown
ReplyDeleteI tried it once, I told my friend about her boy friend, the guy came to me and asked if I'm was in support of their relationship, he then concluded that I should learn to mind my business.I guess my friend spilled.The guy messed my frd up but I moved on ooo,I never got close to her till date.
ReplyDeleteIf I have proof I will let the person know.
ReplyDeleteOne nice girl i used to know, she had a heart of gold and was beautiful inside out. She got married after university as a virgin to a guy everyone thought was nice but started his serial cheating after their "I do's".
She had her first child who started getting sick but the hospital couldn't find what was wrong with the child, the child died. Months later the girl also started getting sick, only to find she had full blown AIDS.
Her husband was HIV positive for a number of years but kept it a secret and took his meds in secret. It was too late for the girl as by the time it was discovered that she was sick, it was full blown AIDS. If her friends who knew what her husband was said something, it could have saved her and maybe she could have just remained as HIV positive.
The guy is still alive today
No church accept "I do" without HIV test or consent from both parties. Except na yahoo church. Anglican and Catholics no dey play with am
DeleteWhat if all the tests are done and the man catch am after marriage. Testing before does not guarantee negative for life if they are unfaithful. I have a friend that has a test kit at home every week, she go test the man, this was after she forgave him first time for cheating. Anytime he says no ,she no go let am touch her. I told her she was living in bondage, she said, na so for now until she get the liver to carry her children run go US...
DeleteEyaaaah... I feel for her. Is she still alive? This is why I always tell my close friends or family members husband cheating before it is too late and vice verse. I will hate any of my friends if she sees my man cheating and she doesn't tell me.
DeleteI know a priest who sleeps with girls who are from a poor background. He 'adopts' them, helps them, they dress like postulants (pre rev sisters) but sleep with him every night. It's like a harem. They infect themselves with STDs and treat themselves. The Bishops are silent if you tell them cos they are all involved. Na poverty cause am.
ReplyDeleteAnother one does his like a special agent. Some of the girls are married now but really depressed. There are few rev father's living a really holy life. Some are practicing new age pyschics, while others are gays, but all are very hidden inside their vestments. A lot of the victims are messed up mentally. I won't mention names but know this is happening and protect your boys and girls from being too close to any priest or pastor or whatever they choose to be called. Many agents out there. I go whistle blow till I send pictures.
Don't mind them. Na only pastors tory dem go dey make mouth out..don't know who told me them u can only serve God if u don't marry
DeleteI live in Europe. Our parish priest be sticking out his huge dick when I go for counseling. I fled. Couldn't tell mum. Mum worships him. Nobody will believe I have seen his dick. I stopped going to that church with family. I am always 'sick' every Sunday. Now in Uni. I don't want the drama of investigations etc.
ReplyDeleteThey should have girlfriends. They are sexually active and very deprived.
hmmm.....my elder cousin's fiance now husband came to knock on my door at midnight to tell me jargoons ....while his wife(my cousin) was sleeping 2 rooms from mine in the same house.
ReplyDeletedude has lost his ranking ooo...i cnt tell my cousin cos wedding plans was already on the way b4 them go say na me scatter them.i call him by his name oo...no more uncle jide.till date he cant look me in the eye.
useless man
My cousin fingered me as a little girl. I remember hating him so much. How can you tell your mother somebody touched you somewhere. The flogging for even saying it. I hated sex for a looooong time. Didn't want to talk about it,know about it or do it. I was traumatised.
ReplyDeleteI'm grateful I married a man who connects with me emotionally. I wouldn't let him touch me. Until he told me his own uncle molested him at 7yrs old.I then opened up my emotional wound. That became our bond. We became committed to healing each other. We protect our kids like Lions!!!!
If I mention my cousin's name, heads will roll. Best to throw this particular whistle away....
In Abuja, there is this married woman hooking up with other married women and single girls. I know someone very active in church living this lifestyle. Her husband cheats on her and she cheats on him. She likes robust ladies well endowed. She is known to be generous. She will hook you up. She approached me, invited me to her house as per same department to help with planning surprise birthday for a friend. I innocently went ooo. Next thing she claims to have serious connection to an ex Vice President and I can be a billionaire overnight if I can cooperate. I dey wonder cooperate with what???...Next thing she don change into almost nothing, drinking and dancing, at first, I think say na dream. I was baffled. Kolo !!! Next thing she pounced on me. I hit her with my shoes and fled. She has a mark (wound)on her face, na me give am. I reported her, but because she is so wealthy, nobody took me serious. She say na my words against her,say nobody will believe me..I am sure she knows herself by now. You will be exposed. You have the opportunity to stop now or face being exposed. This is very common in Abuja. I told my husband and we have stopped going to that church.
ReplyDeleteWhistle blowing warning 101.
You could have spilled the church under anon na. Choi!
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