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Monday, March 27, 2017

Depression/Suicide - All You Need To Know...

This was sent in by a UK based Nigerian Doctor and it is a must read....





''My own contribution towards the sad news regarding the recently reported completed suicide by the 36 year old medical doctor who jumped into the lagoon in Lagos is to briefly highlight some of the risk factors to suicide and also discuss the depression which is the commonest risk factor. By risk factor here I mean the factors that increase your likelihood of committing suicide.


It is always sad when a loved one takes their live even after euthanasia. A few times I have been asked by patients to advise them on how to achieve euthanasia but due to my faith and morality I always declined. These patients were quite elderly, oyibo suffering from terminal illnesses that caused them so much suffering and disabilities. 

Ordinarily their request appeared justified but since euthanasia is illegal where I ply my trade and it's against my belief I always declined. For those that don't know, euthanasia is a medically assisted suicide also referred to as mercy killing.

Back to suicide , the common risk factors are as follows
* depression ( most common )

* severe anxiety

* acute stress due to any reason including marital breakdown, job losses etc

* severe adjustment reaction

* drug and alcohol abuse

* side effect of certain prescribed medication eg certain anti- depressants

* psychotic illnesses eg schizophrenia

* other mental illness like mania and personality disorders

* Suffering from serious physical illnesses

* previous suicide attempt and family history of suicide

* Cultural and religious beliefs

* Lack of supportive social cycle

*** Several other reasons


Being that depression is the major risk factor of deliberate self harm, attempted and completed suicide, let me briefly highlight some salient points about depression.


The most symptoms of depression are as follows :
* Feeling low in mood for most of the time for at least 2 weeks. We all feel low and sad from time to time but for it to be significant this has to go on for most of the time for up to 2 weeks.

* Loss or lack of pleasure or reduced pleasure in doing things especially things that you used to enjoy and again this has to be most of the time for up to 2 weeks ( known as anhedonia)

The above 2 are the most cardinal symptoms. Other associated symptoms are

* Getting tired so easily

* Poor sleep or sleeping too much

* Poor appetite or over eating

* Poor sex drive/libido

* Erectile dysfunction

* Lack of concentration that doing common things like watching
 TV or reading newspaper is a chore
*Poor self hygiene

* Poor or reduced motivation

* Speaking in very low tone and volume that you are hardly audible
* Moving or walking so slowly that you appear very sluggish

* You may also speak or walk a lot faster than usual

* Feeling that you have let yourself, family or friends down

* Feeling that life is no longer worth living that you may feel like hurting or killing yourself

* You may also start hearing voices telling you that you are useless, dirty, failure or even telling you to harm or kill yourself.

* There are other minor symptoms that time and space won't allow me to enumerate here.

Please if you or a loved one has a few of these symptoms, they are likely to be suffering from depression and must seek help urgently . There are available ways to help them.
These may be

* Counselling and other forms of psychotherapy including cognitive- behavioural therapy CBT. This may be the only treatment they require especially in reactive depression where the stressful event is known.

* They could need medications known as antidepressants . Most of them especially the newer ones SSRI and SNRI work if taken regularly at approximately same time for several months. It may take a couple of weeks before the benefits are noticeable. I can assure you that they do work.

* You may also require both psychotherapy and anti-depressants

* If you are hearing voices or displaying some psychotic tendencies, anti-psychotics like Seroquel , Olanzapine may be added.

* In very severe cases of depression or in psychotic depression like above where immediate response is required, you may receive shock treatment known as electro-convulsive therapy ECT. This is hardly administered these days but it works. Personally when I was a senior trainee in psychiatry In the UK I administered that treatment on several hopeless cases and I saw them transform overnight.

So seek for help as soon as possible'',

Thank you

Dr Chin Akano
UK.


52 comments:

  1. Thank you so much for bringing this Stella. God bless you Dr. Akano

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    1. I know I need help but then I'd rather just kip kwayet... I know I'm overly anxious and think negative, its just not my fault, I try to read every positive meme and joke but then again, I slip far into my web of pain once in a while....

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    2. I will come back for it, definitely!

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    3. I think I exhibit some of the symptoms up there but I just believe with God by my side nothing is in possible.its like my own depression sometimes is as a result of lack of fund,feeling all hope is lost.thank you for sharing this with us.Have been waiting for this post since Stella made mention of it on morning spontaneous.

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  2. Chai. That doctor that died is from my place ooo.

    Please ooo people should seek help fast ooo.

    This is spirit of depression ooo and you know it has to be cured fast

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    1. So who that one that is circulating a video that he did not die?

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    2. Blame his death on that his deeper life cult mother.
      These are very dangerous set of people, hypocrites & stigmatizing.
      Obviously he was severely damaged & broke as a result of being born to the wrong parents or into the wrong kind of family.

      So many live a good life & have dignity no matter their sickness, physical conditions or social & economic status, but without undue pressures, negative critisms especially from those closest to you & able to open up your vulnerability.

      *run fast from negative friends & family alike if you do want to over come whatever challenges or serious issues in life facing you.
      Stay clear from them so that their words & actions don't touch your life again.

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  3. God will help us all




    *Larry was here*

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  4. I took a long breath after reading this. Thanks Doctor Akano

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  5. Tankio Dr. Anoda hexclusiff draiva intu dipraision are sum SDK beeefeees.

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  6. Thanks to you Stells and Dr Akano.

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  7. Thanks Doc for sharing, depression is real.

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  9. Ok thank u doctor
    So wat happens doctor wen u knw d cos of ur depression(joblessness n homelessness) n u knw gettn dose thngs will cure it n u don't get d cure.ur still jobless n homeless(sleepn on d table).wat do u do?

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    1. Depression is not as a result of joblessness, didn't you read this post?

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    2. Joblessness can lead to depression. Especially when you have bills to pay but they keep turning you down at every interview. You'll despair and sink into yourself.

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    3. You have to let family and friends..people around u know what's going on. Keep friends that are a support group not competition. When things are not going well, dont try to hide face. People might not have much but level with them.

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  10. Now I believe my husband is sucidal,he presents all the symptoms mentioned above,worst is he has shut every1 out,his so bitter,angry,frustrated at people using him. I have an old man toaster ready to give me all d money in the world to help our situation,but it's not for free and me I Can't leave with my conscience If I agree to that, but I know God 'll pick up my call and bless him .

    Am going annoymous because am a known BV before all you trollers come and start saying begging skills And remind me everyday for baring my heart here!!!!
    You can say a word of prayer or pretend you didn't see my conment!!!!

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    1. God will change your story for the best.

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  11. I am just depressed, but I'm fighting it really on my own! Not suicidal.... I know I need help, but these days problems shared isn't solved.... I'll get there soonest! God let my helper locate me. #SUEDS

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  12. may Allah bless you dr.Akano. now i know where this my mood swings are heading to.

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    1. Helo Nortie, eat is whale wit yhu IJN, airmen.

      Soro hendioreth bet fordi nite, joy comet indi moaning.

      God blase yhu and yhua famili reel gud.

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    2. Hi Northie.... Take a deep breathe. It will be well

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    3. Nothie darlg you dey alright. I felt like you when I lost my mum 7 years ago. But God showed he got me and my siblings. She is in a better place. It's well with you 💕💗💞

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    4. Hello Northie.So sorry about ur mummy.May God comfort u and ur family,Amen.

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    5. Jesus take d wheel....it's well wit Ur soul north Dakota Siobhan !

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    6. Sorry about your mum, may the Lord console your family.

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    7. Hey North Dakota, may the lord strengthen you, give you fortitude to bear the loss of ur mum.
      It's not the end of the world u know.
      This too shall pass.

      Krix signing out via iPhone 7+

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  14. Insightful write up,i hope someone reads this and get the help they need. I had my share of depression just two years ago and it wasn't pleasant at all, I desperately wanted to feel loved but I wasn't getting it as I was in a distance relationship ,I broke up and tried dating someone else but It seemed like the world was against me,like nothing was working in my favor, I cldnt tell anyone cos it didn't seem like they ll understand, I was still in Uni and I was staying alone at that time,and whenever I got back from lectures problem ll start, I'll starting crying for no tangible reason, even while with my friends in school I participated less, wore long face,then my menstrual period started seizing, with intense pains o,I went to the hospital Dr said it was hormonal imbalance as nothing showed in the scan I did, I'm just recovering from the weight I lost self, the appetite was absent and the nights were sleepless but when I'm going out I'll dress-up well with my makeup onpoint so no-one wld even know something is wrong , I felt lonely and unloved, the chance to slip out came when my older sister begged me to come help stay with her baby as she was resuming back to work after her maternity leave, then my nephew became my world and i gradually forgot my worries. I got married last Dec and sometimes I still get scared of being all alone, but my husband has been great.

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    1. Am happy for you that you finally got married.I can Relate with that your being lonely and unloved then because I thought am the only one feeling that way now,like everyone has detest you,you are good for nothing and nothing you say its right and I get tired easily as well.like the world should just come to an end.finding it difficult to take my own food sometimes when there is. I don't want my problem shared bvs to be a problem mocked I just feel like pouring little of my burdens to ease my heart.

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  15. Feeling that you have let your family down?
    I feel this most of the time oo.. haa! r my depressed?

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    1. Yes yes yes! You're fucking depressed my dear. Call your Iyaraduwa pastor asap. This is spiritual ooo

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  16. Thanks so much Dr Akano, getting out of mine gradually now. Pls Dr, apart from drugs, are there any types of fruits/vegetables that contains antidepressant? Thanks

    Stella, thanks so much for this, You already know i heart you.

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    1. Why do people say "I heart you"?Please stop it. The heart picture or emoji is used to represent love. It doesn't translate literally. Please say "I love you" instead.
      Thank you.

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  17. Thanks so much Dr Akano, getting out of mine gradually now. Pls Dr, apart from drugs, are there any types of fruits/vegetables that contains antidepressant? Thanks

    Stella, thanks so much for this, You already know i heart you.

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  18. A situation where you felt like nothing is working for you and everything is working against you.., is called what?

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  19. hahahahaha Anon 11:20. Please be anonymous so that they wont use it against you. It is well with you. Dont lose hope and keep asking God Almighty for His help

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  20. 😑😑😑😑

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  21. I have a 1yr old daughter and now pregnant. My husband tries but most times he makes me feel useless. I noticed im never happy now. I cry for no reason. Maybe cos I dont like where I stay. Everytin about de village irritates me. No light, nor water except you buy. I had a better life. Lived in a better place. But i tot love, my own family was all I need. Not thinking of suicide, cant leave my daughter but I feel so worthless, useless. I need a friend

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    1. Sounds more like me writing this, just that am not pregnant..... I don't like where i stay too , everything about this village irritates me . Jan made it a year since we moved here. Be prayerful and very positive, try
      To get something doing deir, maybe learn a skill or something. It will help. I perfectly understand how u feel.

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  22. Anon 13:41 can i be your friend. You must love yourself.

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  23. It's lack of job that causes mine. But wt ds write-up, will pick myself up n clean d house to relieve myself of these worries. Thanks

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  24. This too shall pass , hold on

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  25. Thanks Dr. Most of Your colleagues nowadays in England are just money hungry. My Gp referred me to c a psychiatrist. Booked an appointment she kept rolling her eyes interrupted me while I recounted and called later that she can't help me.
    After all the disappointment from fake men of God, bullying and now a professional ? I just back tracked relocated and faced God. People r evil...
    By God's Grace listen to positive messages and set your boundaries. Words of affirmation and toxic people cut off. Believe in your worth. For example some people try to throw their achievement at me. I just cut off from them. Comparison is the theieve of joy.

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