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EVIL FATHER. 

Stella, u are a blessing to this generation. U may not know it but this platform has changed and saved the lives of many peoples which am one. Keep me anonymous please. My story is a long one, I decided to put this up cos am at a cross road now and I know that after sharing this my head will get clear. Please pardon my rough English bvs, I only need your advises not to fault my English. 

I am 20 yrs old, a secondary school dropout. I have 3 siblings, all depending on me because we lost our mother 8years ago and our father doesn't seem to care about us, the first year after our mom passed on dad started selling moms properties one after the other, her sewing machines, hollandis wrappers, those fine basins with cover, breakable plates etc. 

he practically sold all in the name of borrowing money with them to pay our fees cos he was he was out of job then. He went to our maternal home told lies several times just to get money from them. All these money he gives out to different women he brings home. Some of them becomes madam overnight and start locking up the kitchen and my sibs will come crying to me as young as I was.

 I had to resort to selling pure water, groundnut, minerals name it to feed my sibs, of cos dad will go search out the money I keep to buy alchohol, cigarettes ,threaten to throw me out if I refuse to give him the money which he spends on his ladies friends. When we complain to dad about what his ladies friends are doing he asks us to respect them. Stella I suffered to the point that I started drinking this local gin called kai kai to help me sleep without thinking.

 I had friends that tried setting me up with men, i got involved with one and took in, I almost died when aborting the baby and I vowed never to go that path again. It still hunts me. I couldn't further my education even with a very good result. My moms people refused to help as well as all our family friends cos of dads ways. He use to warn them to stay off his family whenever they rendered help to us. Especially since they always advising him to change his ways. He got a job in a state far from us, and he left promising to make things right with his new job that pays well. 

For over a year he didn't reach out to us, changed his lines. There was no way I could get him, till a neighbour of ours also got a job in the same company. That was how we got to re connect with our dad. By this time the landlord was already threatning us to leave his house cos we are owing him for over 3years(remember he wasn't working for sometime) he took me to the ruler of the town to make a formal complaint that he was going to move us out. I pleaded with him.

 God so kind we got reconnected with dad that same time and he asked me
To come see him, I forgot to mention that we became a like a football in our street. Anything that got missing, people will come into our house to search for it.

 My brothers were been beaten everywhere. No one to step in and talk for us. So I went to see him and he made me stay for over 3 months which wasn't the plan, (my younger ones were all alone this time) according to him he has no money but was taking care of a woman I met IN HIS HOUSE WITH 4 KIDS that's not his own. 

Well I stayed cos I didn't have transport to go back. There's this guy I met there that became my friend,( he's married, complicated according to him and he's willing to help me out in any way so long as I agree to date him,) told him everything and he said he's known ma dad for sometime that my dad never mentioned that he has kids. He helped me with some money and I came back to meet the remaining of our properties outside. 

Landlord threw them out. Now I have 4 options, should I pack our stuffs to d village with my younger ones, dad doesn't have a house in d village but rooms are cheap... 

Or should I accept my married friend proposal and date him for him to help me? What about his wife? Or give my siblings out to people as househelps while I find my way here in the city cos I want to go back to school and I can't do that in the village.

 Lastly I could sell off the remaining stuffs here which are not much and start up a business while my sibs are with me. Seem like a great idea to me,Issue there is accommodation, where will we stay? I reached my dad to tell him what's happened and he said he doesn't care, I should do whatever I deem fit .
Please Stella use your pen, I don't have any friends to advice me. Help me with your pen. As a mother will advice her daughter. Please.

This is not a plea for help so no one should come for her cussing or ask for account details.I will also not give out her contact details or account info either here or on email

...ONLY ADVICE IS NEEDED.