STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
THE FEAR OF MEETING WITH AN EX...
Hi, Mrs Stella, how are you? Love you and the good work you're doing with your blog. I am rooting for you!
My name is B and I have been married for 1yr 6months. By the grace of God ,* marriage has been fun although we have the usual couple squabbles. We are Ttc and I have been diagnosed with PCOS and currently undergoing treatment.
My husband has been a major blessing to me. I have my own business and we both drive good cars so to an extent, we are comfortable young couples. I am a devoted christian and I love God wholeheartedly. Due to this recession I made a very poor financial judgement that cost me lots of money in my business.
I've been depressed about this money loss because I'm in a very tight spot financially. My husband gives me money and everything I need but lately he's been complaining that I've not been able to support myself or do little things and it hurts me to always go back to him everytime I have a need to meet so I got a loan from the bank and servicing has been difficult.
I went to see my parents last week and I stumbled across my diary from when I was in university. In it, I saw the contact of an old time sugar daddy (let's call him Mr. G) I had when I was in school. Due to the pressure on me to service another loan next week and my business is not yielding so much, I was tempted to call Mr. G and amazingly he picked up and was elated to hear from me. Surprisingly it happened that he was on his way back to Nigeria and he'll be spending a couple of days.
Now the problem is, he has asked me to meet up with him for drinks and all and I'm sure he'd definitely want to help me. I have no intentions of having sex with him o. God forbid I cheat on my husband but I feel so guilty and weak.
If I ask my husband, he will oblige me but he helped me out so much that I'm ashamed to ask him for help again.
Bvs, please dont judge me I just want objective opinions.
What should i do?
Should I go see him?
Am I committing adultery? I'm so confused.
*I dont understand,why are women always so scared to meet with their ex'?Does that mean you cannot do business with an ex?keep an ex as a friend?ah ah..Every time fear fear fear!!!..IS S§X FOOD????must it happen?
If you know you are weak then dont see him,cos you already sound like you will part your thighs...
Talk to your husband to help you out since he has the money,there is no need to be ashamed and if you keep ending up losing money then stop doing business totally!
Talk to your husband to help you out since he has the money,there is no need to be ashamed and if you keep ending up losing money then stop doing business totally!
The fear of Okafor's law. Plesse an ex is an ex, and if you can't hold yourself then don't meet him up
ReplyDeleteMMM chopped your money so Okafors law is setting in.me as long as my hubby get the though i will never tire of asking him o.shebi i am his responsibility now.ah ah
DeletePG18
DeleteNa you find sugar daddy number call em,na you still they ask if to go see em or not. Why dint you ask us first before looking for em number to call em? I guess the call went like this sugar daddy: hello
Fucking wife: hello
Sugar daddy: how you?
Fucking wife: nice, its been long and you done fashy my side.
Sugar daddy: ur married now na
Fucking wife: it doesnt mean you cant call me time to time
The rest we all know.
ASHAWO WAS 1's A VIRGIN
Okafor's law is about to happen!
DeleteTo you all he is not an ex, she said sugar daddy, meaning money for hand back for ground. I'm disappointed with Stella advise , are you saying she should go and meet him, mind you she won't inform her husband what if he sees them together at the hotel bar, trust will start to shake .. Remember one's debé is always debé. I'm 90% she if the sugar daddy offer double what she need she will close eye open honey pot.
DeletePoor financial judgement?? MMM readily comes to mind
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteU may be right
Hahaha.. MMM has started working again ooo
DeleteFan mumu Emmanuel, MMM has started working again???? Have you received the life savings you invested last year? Don't receive sense yet. I can see you borrowing money to invest again since you don't have any money again on your own.
Delete21:37, calm down. Can't you see its a sarcastic statement?
DeleteWho else is getting tired of reading the same storyline from these single but married women of late?
ReplyDeleteLater you people will stay awake to cuss single ladies. Forgetting marriage just increased your prostitution-drive.
Omodiok Quicksilver, ma Abasi, @ increasing prostitution drive 😂😂😂😂
DeleteI just tire. All of them wanting to go back to ex or have gone back to ex or wants to gbensh an ex. Yet they all come to curse and swear at singles. I don't trust any married woman even if you are my sister. Una too do, you are married yet your eyes are still roaming like a randy bachelor. Hian
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DeleteQuickie ure not alone. This married women 've overtaken d men. What rubbish. 4 once ill ve 2 agree wit Stella. Quit doing biz mbok.
DeleteQuickie ure not alone. This married women 've overtaken d men. What rubbish. 4 once ill ve 2 agree wit Stella. Quit doing biz mbok.
DeleteI tire too!
DeleteLater they will send chronicles to sdk about their marriage. FOOLS!
@ quickie . Your mouth!
DeleteLove your ordacity though
🙌🙌I dey with you
Delete***audacity***
DeleteGosh Sabonfida, I hope the way you handle English is not the way you dispense drugs. So so bombs everywhere. It's 'audacity' nne, inugo?
DeleteAh this OKAFOR'S LAW about to happen again ooh. The woman knows why she is scared to meet him.. She knows deep within herself, something might happen!
ReplyDeleteMadam I beg you to jump and pass this temptation! You know deep within yourself that if you go meet Mr G something might happen, so better respect yourself and stay in your home ooh. Block him and then delete his contact forever!!!
Swallow your pride and beg your hubby if you have to, hopefully he will help you out financially with what you need for your business and the loan! Don't use your hand and invite the devil into your home madam.
Unless pussy dey scratch you and you need some...then you are absolutely free to go meet him!
Nothing kwoncern me if you get caught
This okafor's law is a very good law o. Stella don't be offended but food is food and sex is sex, sex is not food and food is not sex. I know say those oyinbo people no sabi shag well sha, so the thing fit make nigga woman lose some appetite though.
DeleteNice advice Stella!! Ah ah ogini?
ReplyDeleteWhen u said ex I think say na bf. Sigh if it's pay master there is nothing to be afraid of na! U weren't knacking him out of love.
DeleteNo need to meet with him sef, tell him u are out of town n broke or u hv a problem make him help u, when he sends d money den switch off! Block his numbers and move on.
If u choose to have drinks, do d same thing ask for d cash, promise a later rendezvous den disappear.
Better yet face ur husband cos this one time u choose to look outside may jst be your downfall as per dem catch u!
iyanga dey sleep...trouble dey go wake am
ReplyDeleteLol. So driving good cars is an indication of success?
ReplyDeleteI judged you, you are nothing but a prostitute in hibernating mode.
DeleteYou said you love God, how ? You all quick to call God in your chronicle but can't do His will.
My prayer for you is to get caught so you can be sent out straight to the street.
Imagine a very fresh marriage that's not up to two years and you are thinking of meeting up with your old sugar daddy.
You re nothing but a cheat. Useless girl.
Abi o. Very empty headed woman. Many rich people drive something that won't expose them.
DeleteAnd later this lady will come her crying that one young girl is dating her husband when she would have forgotten what she did with different sugar daddies. Well, we've been told that **** will never retire, why did you call him in the first place? God will help you o
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
All this female friends inviting me to join fin, is it by force? I am not interested biko. Fin post just flooding my timeline, pissed much, mtcheewww.
ReplyDeleteStupid yeye fin where all the do is judge and curse men and in-laws but telling a member the truth is forbidden. I had to leave the yeye group when it was obvious that I was always having problems with them for saying the truth. I prefer forums like this where they hit the nail in the head. Smelling fin.
DeleteI like Fin. That was where a blogger was copying and pasting stories in her blog, misleading people that mails were sent to her. It was later discovered and finisters were warned not to share stories from there. I am a quiet visitor and some of the posters need their brains reseted after reading their stories.
DeleteYou left or they banned you? I had an argument with one of the Administrators because I told a member the truth, she said I wasn't showing empathy. I asked the stupid shediot to define empathy. Next she hit me with a ban. Not that I care anyway.... Lol. That group is too sad and depressing.
DeleteThe women there will make u hate men.
DeleteGroup for divorcees and unlovable women. They encourage themselves by abusing and black painting the men who left their sad asses.
Delete😂😂😂😂 u bitches are liars...Fin is a wonderful group and ure just depressed u got banned...kiss Lola's ass...she's doing a great job...fin rocks
DeleteSeriously? You have no intention of sleeping with him but somehow of all old acquaintances to stumble on it was this man?
ReplyDelete"Much amaze, much nice ma"
This us how you let the devil in. And while I understand where your husband is coming from, I will also blame you for taking a loan especially at this time where interest rates are quite high and you know having a bad loan will forever affect you especially if you ever need anything and your name is traced to a bank where your loan went bad.
I will tell you now to not meet with this man. Men like that even prefer married women and the devil does not do anything nice for free. He would give with the left hand and collect with the right. Nothing is free even in Freetown, imagine your husband meeting up with an ex for drinks or starting up a business.
Your financial crisis should be faced together as a couple, that's why two becomes one. Let your husband know and promise him you won't fail him again. Now is time to pray for the setback you are facing to be gone not running to the devil please
STOP IT before it's too late,
You called him sugar daddy not microfinance bank or daddy Jesus.
Going to see this ur sugar daddy is risky ohhh Bur then u gotta do it,just an innocent hang out ohhh notin more ask for help nd start going home.
ReplyDeleteInnocent hang out you say?
DeleteI hope you will be cool to see your husband having an innocent hang out with his married ex.
Most of you can't stand what you dish out here online.
What will b innocent about a married woman hanging out with her EX SUGAR DADDY?
DeleteAnother married hoe advicing her colleague. Una plenty i swear! Married women are now hoes
DeleteThe red pain just stated my mind,if u have fears you will open ur legs don't go but I really do not see anything wrong in going to see an ex but please meet in a public place and open sef.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong in constantly collecting money from your husband!...
ReplyDeleteMy sister,don't be scared or shy in asking him for money whenever you need it!...
Me I dey tax my husband wella!,..
He calls me "naija police"...
What is the need of him making money if not for you his family?...
You can Go and see your ex!..
You can even gbensh him and clean mouth if the money is worth it...
Most married women do it!...so it's nothing new!...
This one na foolish talk from a shameless otele o. I don't blame you, If to say na real social media like Facebook wey dem dey see who dey yarn korokoro, I know say you for no fit expose matured sstupidity like this there! Curse no dey even do you anything for body, you for don change your animalistic ways. Begibegi. Not your fault. Na man with small prick naim you marry that's why your callousness.
DeleteLol, gbensh him and clean mouth😂
DeleteQueen ha ba
DeleteBad advise
DeleteAre u kidding me😠.its obvious u do the same.is a pity ur hubby doesn't knw.how can u stoop so low?
DeleteAshewo bastard.
DeleteAshewo bastard.
DeleteMadam, you don't have to go. What if you'd not seen the diary?
ReplyDeletePlease open up to your hubby. He's not going to bite you.
And don't forget that the walls have ears. Even if you don't sleep with him, and words get to your hubby that you were seen with a man in 'angle 90, you know the rest right?
So please close that door.
Wise advice 👍👍👍
DeleteTheres a huge difference between sugar daddy and ex oh. With one you r forming love,the other is just a maga. So she might end up sleeping with him. Madam poster only meet with him if only you are sure you can get him to help you without sleeping with you
ReplyDeleteOoh. So it's cool for a married woman to go seek for help from her former sugar daddy ?
DeleteYou guys can't stop to amazed me, you all have traces of ashy in you. Meeting with him alone is cheating in case they don't know.
Most girls actually end up falling in love with their sugar daddies especially if d affair lasted a while. Dnt get it twisted.
DeleteMadam poster.. Very simple, u are weak.. Dont bother going to see the man cuz u might end up giving up to sex.. U know
ReplyDeleteTalk to ur man n beside, u need to sit back nd think of what u can do. If u are not good t doing business pls get a job and work on ur salary.
Mc pinky
All this female friends inviting me to join fin, is it by force? I am not interested biko. Fin post just flooding my timeline, pissed much, mtcheewww.
ReplyDeleteO su mi, seriously I try not to comment. I commented once and all I got was that the wasn't nice, this that. Their usual various posters they were going to report me to Admin. But u read some post in the group as And you realise this person needs to be told the truth. Well FIN is not for.me I guess. Don't get me wrong, I like the concept and the idea of it but some posts are just mehnnn
DeletePlsssss and plsss dont go and see him. Shikina! Talk to ur hubby he will understand.
ReplyDeleteIt is better for you to meet your husband since you are not sure of yourself Forget all your husband will say he will attend to you cos he might just be upset with your demand. Use your head not your breast
ReplyDeleteThank you. What's stop her from going back to her husband ?
DeleteMeeting with her sugar daddy is nothing but cheating and shes not gonna stop once she start.
If you meet him poster, I pray your husband caught you and you get thrown out from the window.
Plsssss and plsss dont go and see him. Shikina! Talk to ur hubby he will understand.
ReplyDeleteWhy do I have this feeling you did MMM and GHW with your money?
ReplyDeleteIt's a very strong feeling!
It's better you chop shit from your husband and have inner peace than to see your ex that will make you to loose her inner peace. In other word don't ask for help from your ex!
ReplyDeleteShe knows this already my dear. She is just looking for approval, fortunately/unfortunately for her, the qween and twat of this blog has given her the go-ahead; that most of them in her family do it.
DeleteIf I may add, madam poster, if you do it and they gbab you, your image don enter black book for life o; and to think that you haven't even born for the husband sef..... mtcheeew!!!
Okafor's law in place I guess...
ReplyDeletePlease post Dino melaye's video trending online
ReplyDeleteWell, if u ain't emotionally mature to get married, pls don't.
ReplyDeleteWhat's d chronicle here,u mismanaged funds n made d poor guy tired, his money don't grow on trees! Instead of u to face chineke and ur treatment, u r feeling scared to meet up ur aristo cos u know ur pants will be soaked with cum, kai, where r all these married women from? Hahahahahaa uwaleeeeekeeeee!
😅😂😁 @ soak with cum. U nor well I swear.
DeleteAlright. It seems u borrowed money from d banks to MMM. Madam Go and meet ur ex ,if ask for xes,give it to him as long as d money he will give u is enough to solve ur financial problems but insist he use CD bcoz of HIV. Help urself. No free money in Nigeria now.
ReplyDeleteTerrible advice
DeleteStella, your RED PEN is apt..... Very correct!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy should a husband complain about taking care of a wife's EVERY NEED??? But you give him sex when he wants, food when he wants, respect because that's the life source of NIGERIAN MEN! Yet he still wants you to provide for yourself????? Wow.
ReplyDeleteSharap your twat. Make the husband dey pump money give his wife make she dey squander everything for Ponzi schemes and keep coming for more?! Your head like bicycle tire. Shebi the man na central bank of Africa?!!!
DeleteHusband taking care of his wife is not for payment of sex Is commitment, cos if want sex three times everyday From different ladies he will get it even from more beautiful women & even spend less money as he has spend on his wife, madam poster u fuck up by managing ur fund provided for bizness, taking loan without letting ur husband knw , now u want to add it by going to fuck an Aristotle ex, all these crime committed by you alone & u are here asking stupid questions, it's not by force to do bizness, get skill, or go look for job, don't put ur self in an unnecessary hasel becos of money that u don't even contribute in ur home I doesn't worth it, be @ home clear ur heads, rest for a yr or 2 come up with something meaningful like skill, it's Better for you b4 u go fuck another man carry belle wey no be ur husband's give am Or even STD. Pls calm down, rest @ home abit.
DeleteI don't understand this part too o. He is getting tired of maintaining you so it's only house rents he wants to be paying but he expects you to be serving and servicing him. Some men sha. Na dem type wife deh end up wiv sugar daddy wey know how to appreciate services.
DeleteShe does not enjoy the sex also? If that be the case, he should visit brothels and pay for sex! Nonsense!
DeleteDear poster, I think you have a dirty mind or you still have feelings for that Ex because I don't see how someone suggests meeting up for a drink and you suddenly don't trust yourself.
ReplyDeleteIt's not cheating if you are in contact with an Ex. It becomes cheating when you discuss topics that you can't discuss in front of your spouse or when you start deleting messages and call logs. If it's a transparent relationship, that's ok.
My advice, don't collect money from your Ex, that will be an insult to your husband. Go back to your husband, he is your other half and there shouldn't be any shame there. Maybe the line of business you're into isn't for you. See if you can change and what needs to be done to yield profit.
If you are meeting up with you Ex, tell your husband because I'm sure it's an innocent meeting if not, mbok flee.
Tell husband that she used to have sugar daddy. This one is not just an ex oh. Husband can tolerate ex but sugar daddy? Common dont kid like that.my husband knew my ex but no mention sugar daddy at all. Who want admit that life style.
DeleteMadam blog owner, I will suggest you stop using that red pen. It does more harm than good.
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DeleteImagine, she can do business with her ex but if her husband do business with his ex that become a crime against humanity. All of them Voltron will come out to shreds the man to pieces.
I'm so pissed.
.....and u suddenly forgot her name?
DeleteBlog owner? Imagine
DeleteI flow with nwunye Korkus on this one....
ReplyDeletePoster why are you so nervous? Abi your way nor pure? If business is not your calling then seek for job, I won't advice you to see your ex sugar daddy cause I'm sure you will hang leg on the window like Pastor's daughter.
#DontQuoteMe
Once a soldier always a soldier. When you were an undergraduate, you were having sugar daddy now you are married you still want free money. Bad habits die hard. Sadly enough when they advise you people you will ask "is it your whatever......" Godliness and contentment is great gain. Later you all start playing the victim game abi? You make light of common sense and logic. Advice yourself madam.
DeleteMaybe the reason why you can't ask your husband is because he doesn't understand your financial situation. Or maybe you are too extravagant. You are scared of meeting with your ex for drinks because in your heart you know he will ask for more and you might be foolish enough to agree. Please stay in your house and make do with what you have. Stop showing off to friends and family.
ReplyDeleteDalu nwannem for helping tell her, most women in Lagos, Abuja & PH are so extravance that's why they squander money unnessacary, when you don't spend like them they term u stingy.
DeleteStella you just said what was on my mind,poster just take stella's advice
ReplyDeleteYou feeling this way means you feel you're not doing the right thing by meeting him cos anything can happen as you've already said you're weak.
ReplyDeleteBe transparent with this whole thing and tell your hubby but if you can't be open to your hubby about this, abeg stay your house cos you are "weak"
Asking your hubby for money shouldn't make you feel shy, is he not your better half? Also learn to manage how you spend or invest money.
And let me add that young couples should know that the devil does not relax after you are married. You need to consistently pray to keep him out that's why it's important to marry someone who believes in God just as much as you.
ReplyDeleteYou both are doing well according to your story and you're comfortable. Suddenly, your business is suffering and your husband who should be a pillar and support is complaining which is understandable because times are hard but you on the other hand you're making irrational decisions.
Did you seek counsel from your husband or someone more experienced before taking a loan?
Now you want to ask for help, you didn't go to God or your husband but your first look out is a "sugar daddy", do you see how it sounds? Do you see how the devil is luring you in one step at a time? Fight it by first talking to your husband.
Find out also your business is having hiccups and restrategize, pray together about it because anything that affects you affects him too that's why you're family.
The devil doesn't want the children of God to have happy homes, so he attacks it through the weakest link.
Tell him to assist you in anyway he can and assure him that you'd do things right to ensure you make profit instead of losing money.
Do not hook up with any sugar daddy. You're married now and apart from God and husband, the people you should turn to is family.
End of.
Dont have an advice to give to you than to advice you to stick by stella's advice.
ReplyDeleteYou don advice yourself finish? Mtsheew
DeleteStella,Okafor's theory is real! Meet an an ex for a drink or a hang out? before you flick a switch,e Don enter! What you will hear is "deeper,baby hit me harder"........ smiling.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteMadam he is ur hubby so go n talk to him... he will definitely help u.. forget ur sugar daddy n focus on ur marriage... but I beg u send me ur sugar daddy's number abeg help a sister
ReplyDeleteHahahaha. Maybe he won't like your specs! Desperado. Na children like una dey make men like us dey reject daughters!!
DeleteU Don craze finish. Lol
Deletemiyake y u dey mind am, from her name u will know she is fat and shapeless trolling to shed excess weight oloriburuku omo ale jati jati
DeleteLoool... toyosi e go dey alright... yes I am fat n shapeless... but make I ask u ooo is it ur fat or shapeless? Oya find another cuss Becos dis one don old
DeleteWhy sugar daddy?is your husband broke? Why can't you ask your hubby, what's the essence of marriage if he can't support you when you're down. Poster you sound greedy. Na mmm you do wey carry your money. Stop bank loans and close the business down while you brainstorm on the next course of action. Don't go and see that man!nigerian husbands are not forgiving. Don't start what you obviously can't finish.
ReplyDeleteThe husband has helped severally she is very extravance with ashebi & show off she doesn't knw how to handle a bizness, even if that man give her 500million she will squander it & ask for more, let her go learn skill & make money without capital.
DeleteSince ur dh is tired of giving ur money. Tell ur ex ur problem if he a responsible man he will help u without asking u for xes.It is only a useless man that will want to gbensh a married woman. But if he insist on gbenshing ,just allow okafor s law to take course but protect urself.
ReplyDeleteTaah...this is not peacemaker
DeleteGod bless you,Fuck you. I have been amazed at his comments so far...got me wondering if I was reading the blog Id wrongly.
DeleteGood to know someone else noticed.
This can't be peacemaker abeg! Lol
My ex is my supplier😃..he buys my goods abroad (cos he lives there)and send to me. He and hubby communicates most times when I'm not available.its no biggy for me or hubby.strictly business. And we've been doing business for 5 years. We even started doing business after we broke and I was married sef..
ReplyDeleteThis one is not just ex, he was a sugar daddy. They are two different thing. They man was older and married and she was fucking him for money. So she will still fuck him for money again,forget marriage.
DeleteLol @ isoko man wife. Me I don't fight with my exes. I just give them space for a while and pop-up later. Why would I make him an enemy when we still need each others help in nearest future? See now, your ex is helping you with business. And if my husband helps an ex it's no biggie to me. All join for charity.
DeleteIt is because your husband is seeing money and he is abroad. If it was the other way round, will you be comfortable with his ex?
DeleteNa you be husband for your house now. Shebi you don knack am pigeon forge head.
DeleteNo rational thinking husband will allow his wife having anything to do with her ex, unless he's fucking someone somewhere and you are just a furniture in his house.
Anon 18:57 is right abroad and money involvement. Of course hubby will be fine with it
DeleteIf you must meet with him,I think your husband should know..otherwise forgerrabourit😃.
ReplyDeleteStella she is not meeting him for business, she wanna meet him so he could help.
ReplyDeleteFirstly i see no reason why you think ur husband shld be tired of giving you. If u think u've been over demanding then dont demand.
In your words 'i am a devoted christian' so you were into runs when you were in school, now u are married , u still called ur sugar daddy for help.
A sugar daddy who you spent most of ur school life sleeping with. Sum1 who slept with you for money. Now u are married and u still called him for help(sex) indeed you are a christian.
So when u meet him, he will just shake ur hands and hand over money to you. The way he has been doing b4. #wehdone ma.
Lol......
DeleteAs much as you hate to hear the truth, you are just a greedy proud being.
DeleteAssuming you hear that your hubby's ex,who is now married but facing difficulty is meeting up your hubby for help,how will you feel?
Do unto others as you want them to do to you.
Nevertheless,I hope you know that the powers of your father are trying to disgrace you out of marriage. You have pcos,let's look at it spiritually,what if your delay in conception is as a result of sleeping with an occultic man who could be your ex when you were single?
Take your time and think about how to make that house a home,when you make it a home,your problem will become hubby's problem.
Stop behaving like you are in a competition with him,you are his wife and the weaker vessel. Be humble enough to accept it.
Tell him your problem,be humble enough to accept his complaints but strong enough to manipulate him to live up to his responsibility.
As in!
Delete#wehdone ma
MrsBee
Don't mind the idiot! She thinks she is talking to children? Devoted Christain my ass! He will give you money just like that because you gave him money to keep for you? Even in Freetown, there is no free food! Married prostitute! Squandered your business money on clothes and jewelries, invested in MMM, now you are saying rubbish about your husband? Looking for excuse and validation to go and see your sugar daddy for money! Go! By the time he steals your husband's glory through you, your finances will become worst. God please don't let any of my brothers and sons meet this type of girl! Tufiakwa! Sdk do post.
DeleteWhy are you ashamed to ask your hubby for money. He's supposed to take care of you na.My hubby was getting too comfortable with me buying my stuff myself. Not that it was a problem for me.One day I playfully told him I need money for my powder, and he was like ah ah powder,since when? I told since now o..since then,I playfully tell him o boy I need lipstick o,or my pad is finished o..for God's sake,he's your husband..abi husband Na only to fuck? If you need money,ask him..na your right..😃😁
ReplyDeleteMadam me self am a devoted Christian
ReplyDeleteYou said sugar daddy that simple means he's old and married. So now you want to go collect from another woman's husband? Surely he's going to sleep with you because it's somehow hard to quench and old flame especially if he was good to you. So while at it, let your conscience guide you. What if your husbands' ex contacts him, met with him and probably do the do with him and you got to know about it? What will be your reaction? Put yourself in his shoe and count your teeth with your tongue. He's your husband, why won't he help you? What if you're not working? Ask him nicely, your marriage is still too young to indulge in such act abeg. Fear God madam.
ReplyDeleteHelp me tell the idiot!
DeleteIt is okay for her to steal from another married woman when she cannot manage her own money! Why not sell your car and put the money into your business? Oniranu!
You're having doubts which automatically means you aren't supposed to meet up with this ex sugar daddy of yours. It is not until you sleep with the dude before you consider it adultery..Cheating is a thing of the mind. Ask your husband for money and learn to make good financial decisions biko.
ReplyDeleteThe day I find out my hubby met with his ex for drinks for whatever reason without telling me, that day wahala go plenty for two of us. Meeting with a man that your hubby isn't aware of is a big no. I lost my job after my maternity leave. I have had to cut down my expenditures well, my hubby gives me most of what I need but at a point I began to feel uncomfortable asking him. I am still job hunting but until I get a job he would keep footing my bills despite how uncomfortable it is for me. That is marriage o. For better for worse. God forbid that I go to meet an ex for help, let alone a married one.
ReplyDeleteWhats there to be uncomfortable about husband providing for his family? I married my husband when i didnt have something doing and he has been providing for the family. I work now and shoulder my personal expenses and a little of the kids too. About to put to bed and will not be having income for a couple of months. No i dont feel uncomfortable about anything.we went shopping for baby things and i paid for panties and nightgown i added. Others i throwaway face.my dear, i dont feel anyhow biko. I have some money saved up but its for personal emergency and not for family upkeep.
DeleteBabe don't mind all this people asking you to not go see him. After all their advise which of them asked you to send your account number. That's how they will all be here claiming holier than thou. Go joor, demand money from him and pray he gives you but my dear if he asks to lick or eat from cookie jar abeg RUN. Some idiot above was talking bad about married women, just wait till you get there and that's if you ever get there. So because I'm married I should not collect oshonfree money if I see the opportunity, ori yin o pe.
ReplyDeleteMarried not mumu, bride not child, chop and clean mouth.
Another married prostitute! Is anything free in Freetown? Why should i ask for her bank account? Who sent her to mismanage her business? GERROUT! And you stupid women will be cussing single ladies and cheating men? IDIOTS!
DeleteAshewo.
DeleteI don't buy this idea of going to see ur sugar daddy at all. Ur hubby never told u he was tired of helping out,he only complained because he is only human and even u would that too. As a married woman,i don't understand why u would sit with an ex discussing anything. If the sugar daddy is kind ebough,let him know ur predicament over the phone and be rest assured u will get an alert in no time. Don't go to him....
ReplyDeleteStella you typed my thoughts exactly. I think the problem is we aren't always sure of ourselves. An ex can connect you for business or job or give you loan. Meet him at a public place and catch up. If you don't trust yourself, sit down. If hes the type that is extremely Randy with no screws in his brain, sit down.
ReplyDeleteC'mon my Chikito, if he's not Randy he wouldn't have been a sugar daddy to start with!
DeleteMrsBee
Make I see my wife with one ex, if she no go leave that day.
DeleteMarried woman hanging out with ex, what for ?
You guys are jokers I swear
You have a point @Mrs bee
DeleteDo not go and see him and never you Contact him again.
ReplyDeleteWowzer! You mean a man who had slept with you in the past won't find you attractive anymore? Being married is good enough to want to update himself on how that place now looks! Ex is a no, if I wasn't good enough to be married to an ex then you ain't good enough to hang on as a friend.
ReplyDeletePoster, look for help elsewhere. Your husband is your best bet still, just make sure you don't fail him this time.
MrsBee
Some say if you want to dine with the devil use a long spoon... Mine is better dont dine with the Devil at all.
ReplyDeleteForget that sugar daddy of yours delete and block his line. You have a good husband speak to him about your loan he will help you out.
Stupid woman..
ReplyDeleteI just hope its not my husband you were planning to see. Cos any ex that will leave their husband to corner mine be it for financial or emotional gain. Make holy ghost fire fire them. I could stomach single girls who knows their boundaries. That was how one called my husband's phone after he has left. I was still back in Nigeria then. I never for the life of me know he has been communicating with them. She was like I'm sorry but knew your husband way back.heard he is in Nigeria. I said yes but he has left. She apologized again for what i dont know.we are here now, he chats sometimes them and they are always begging for money. I see their whatapp sometimes.
ReplyDeleteGo and chain that your hubby o.
DeleteHoly Ghost fire will fire your husband too who keeps open communication with them. You must really think his hands are clean on the issue. E go shock you say e dey steady western union. Be using holy ghost fire because you don't want to come to terms with reality.
DeleteImagine your reaction if you find out your husband's ex is still in his life! Of all smart and brilliant people in this world to do business with, you choose an ex.
ReplyDeleteI hear una
MrsBee
God bless you woman. I hope all the girls telling her to go have innocent hang out will say same if the table turn. Ashewo oshi
DeleteI tire for her long throat
DeleteDon't mind the nicompoo! What they cannot condone from others they do! Thunder fire you there! Olosho!
DeleteYou are still in the business of making irrational decisions . Looks like the devil wants to disgrace you finally
ReplyDeleteTell her pls
DeleteWhatever rocks her boat.
ReplyDeletePoster, what makes you think the money from your sugar daddy will solve your problems when the one your husband was providing didnt. You will soon add another sugar daddy and go full circle and will still remain in financial quagmire added with pricking conscience. You better talk to your husband and involve him in at least in advice part of managing your business.
ReplyDeleteGod bless your home.
DeleteIle e o no daru lagbara Oluwa.Amin.
First of all you are reckless with money. No man wants a woman who cant manage resources. Tho i feel your husband is being a little hard on you. As for your SD just avoid him to avoid story that tickles the bum bum and if you dont wan to end up in the single girls club lol. Be wise dont ruin ya marriage .
ReplyDelete*hlotw*
Chai MMM has caused lots of problems. Go and see your sugar daddy and let him know what you want.
ReplyDeleteDon't open tohtoh oo being the first visit. Find out what he can do.
Wear Jeans trouser with padlock if you know trust yourself
😂😂 @MMM you know those were my thoughts too. Jeez men...
Deletemy dear,you can see him but not in a hotel or any place private
ReplyDeleteMadam you and your husband are one as the bible says (remember you said you are a devoted christian). Just ask your husband if you should go and see Mr. G. That should answer all your questions.
ReplyDeleteFor your conscience to be disturbing you shows how guilty the hang out is. Ashawo why contact another woman's husband? If you are a true Christian you will know how to flee from all appearances of evil, not using your hand to call temptation to yourself. I believe you travelled home just to get your diary to contact him. If you sleep with that man, your husband will find out and divorce your whorish ass. You want to continue your runs as a married woman, yeye!
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