What!!!...
Who is doing this and what are the results?..Is this what being a humble wife means?.
*I am sorry but I cannot submit my Salary to a man who earns his own money..Infact I no fit but i can lend money not submit..Is there anywhere this is mentioned in the Bible?If yes,please quote with Bible passages.
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Tuesday, February 28, 2017
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That pastor must be high on drugs, why should I give my husband my salary, is he my creator.
ReplyDeleteAs if the toto that is being submitted is not enough😂😂
Delete*hiss*
Hahahahahahaha! I will never submit my salary to my husband. Can give him a token out of it when i am paid and can also assist in the home front.
DeleteI will submit in the bedroom and still submit my salary.
Will never do that besides that's not how to show you are a good wife.
We will submit our brains n senses too. The pastor chop cray
DeleteArrant nonsense!
DeleteSo the pastor have sense to say they should remove their tithe first abi?
Mtchewwww.
But u still won't give yur creator. God does not need cash
DeleteI will not summit my salary to my husband
DeleteIf he's in need I can help
I will not sumit salary because my mum n siblings may need my help n i'll not like telling my husband, so dat tomorrow e no go say my family dey disturb ham for money **lol**
All I will say is
DeleteThe NAY sayers win this time overwhelmingly.
I give my salary to my husband sha since we got married. He provides everything I need and more. Personally I see nothing wrong with it
DeleteThis na serious matter o
DeleteI know a close friend who did this for many years. She would hand hee salary over to her husband, and the guy wouldn't give her a dime,not even money for sanitary towel during her monthly period. He would tell her 'go and buy rose tissue instead, I have other important things to do with the money'. The guy even knew her salary payment date, and about that time, he would start asking if they haven't paid salary. One time like that, she was hungry, so she took N1000 out of the money to buy food, the idiot counted the money and discovered it was less N1000, when she explained that she took out a thousand to eat, the beat her silly.
DeleteThank God she is free now.
@bitcoin lady that's good its working for you but a woman should always learn to save for a rainy day. You must have something for yourself. It is important you have independence. Na wa
DeleteAny person wey dey do this kian thing should contact me for prize. Prize for being the biggest fool.
DeleteMadam Bitcoin continue OK ooo. But pls don't send in any chronicle when the shit hits the fan when it does.
DeleteWe women be misbehaving since time immemorial. Why can't it be the other way round?. If he gives me his salary will the world end? At least I will know the family's income is being used for the moving of the family's ministry to a permanent site.
Inukwa Iberibe.
The pastor is a hypocrite why will she remove her tithe from the money, she for kukuma summit everything nah
DeleteOkokobioko!!!
ReplyDelete😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
DeleteReally okokobioko
Taralalan !!!
DeleteThe man should be submitting his own to me.
ReplyDeleteAbii.
DeleteAbi o. I don't mind accepting his.
DeleteGbam
DeleteStella what works for A can't work for B,it favour some people but for me,I can't do it o the man use jazzz abi na wetin. I can lend or even assist my husband but not giving my salary to him
ReplyDeleteWhen a lady willingly submits probably, she mismanages funds n stuff. Its a different thing, than asking her to submit her salary. If Na by force, I will jejely stop work. Hian
DeleteDont mind the pastor. Oya husband come and collect the salary. Nonsense
ReplyDeleteI watched my mum do that when I was a kid. She would kneel down and give my dad her salary, whereas she didn't even know how much he was receiving till his death. I thought she was a fool then and I still think so now. How pathetic! These people take religion to a whole level.
DeleteIffa hear. That what is happening na.
ReplyDeleteThat's slavery to me. I can only support if need be.
Huh?!!
ReplyDeleteBros, I hope you've left that church?
It's pastors like this that beat their wives black and blue. They'll keep turning the bible upandan till it begins to rotate.
When the bible said 'submit,' it did not say to be a slave, neither did it say to be stupid.
Thank heavens. A lot of women don begin to stand up for their rights.
My parents would train me to university level and past, and then, when I begin to work, after paying my tithes, I'll hand my husband the rest of my salary. Dem no born me well?
Bloody misogynistic chauvinistic dictator, masquerading as a pastor.
Mtchewww!!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Intelligent comment
DeleteI think a woman should keep her money, there are things she will need to do that if she let her husband in, he will discourage her. i also want to say that this will make a lot of men to be very lazy, some take delight in spending the money carelessly cuz they did not work for it. A man is suppose to take care of the woman,but you can only help as a woman when the need arises.
ReplyDelete*spreads mat and Grabs kulikuli*
ReplyDeleteMy mama wey send me go school Na only twice I Don give her my salary. How much more a man wey no even know how many candles I Don born for night. Hmmmmm I Neva see that man yet. I can borrow and maybe forget if it's not much but I can't give no man my salary.
Hmmmmm let the married ladies speak up.
I will read comments.
*hangs leg on the wall*
Is that you in the pix?
DeleteBut u want make im give u cos na u send am go skul. Na only u God make to chop free money
DeleteU no hear say make she commot her tithe first before she submit am to the husband... Loool.. modern day pastor... him no wan play with him tithe
DeleteFor wetin na
ReplyDeleteCapital No, my money is my money and his money is our money. Gbam! Gbamer! Gbamest
ReplyDeleteOne million likes
DeleteThat very very correct @ empress yup shall live long!
DeleteMy money is my money and his money is OUR money. This doesn't mean I won't help out when it is required so no idiot should wank under my comment.
Hahahaha! Correct @Empress! Na so e suppose jare
DeleteWho brought up this nonsense topic sef.
ReplyDeleteSubmit wetin, all the one we've submitted is not enough. Even joint account I don't like. Let each person discuss the bills they want to take care of in the house.
it's a no for me
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
God forbid!
ReplyDeleteAs in very big God forbid.
DeleteI bet they will say she should kneel down and say "nnayi take". Each should have an understanding of their finances. Its part if the things they talk about during marriage counselling and between couples when you are planning to get married. what works for one will not work for another. Go and give one man ur salary and he will use it to carry babes round town.
ReplyDeleteLol at "nnayi take"😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteOmg lwkmd @nnayi take it
Delete😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 @ nnayi take.
DeleteUna no go kill person for this blog
That was exactly what my mum used to do when my dad was still alive. She kneels down and gives him her salary. Na when the man die she know say she dey earn pass am. A very foolish thing if I must add
DeleteA man told me his wife submits her Salary to him monthly... But he shocked me,when he said he gave her all the salaries running into millions after one year to buy plots of land in her name.
ReplyDeleteAnd he kept providing for her and the kids oo..There are some husbands worth submitting to,not all....
How a man treats his wife matters.
But what of emergency. If he dies God forbid, andbfamiky members come and try you. What if he is kidnapped how will she pay d ransom? I know these atebhorrible examples but those are the first two that come mind. You must alwaysnhave something small. Just in case.
DeleteGod bless you.... Am a married man and my wife gives me her salary. It's a blessing to the family as we are both successful in all we do.. And I mean Very successful. So it depends on the man. And for all those causing women who do so and enjoy love,care and blessings from their husbands I guess the get what they wish for. Men that can not be trusted and gold diggers not fit to be called MEN.
DeleteBut anonymous 22:23 I bet you still have a bae outside.. Any woman who those this is just foolish!
DeleteNa lie the man talk. Which land??? Ask the wife and hear the true story
DeleteEye dun see eat as a gud idear tho bet if eat goes down whale wit copples who praktis diss, den gud for dem.....
ReplyDeleteTo me, Eye dun expeckt a wokin clas woman tobi somittin her salarry to her horseband den be axkin im for moni enitime she has needs tobi met.
#My 2saints.
Pls,What are u writing,i can't read out one correct sentence..hian!
DeleteKai! I always skip ur comment
DeleteI love you villager, am a big fan
DeleteNo be only submit na remit I pray na him suppose submit give me as the wife
ReplyDeleteWonderment!
ReplyDeleteSubmit salary kwa?
I will read comments
Let the comments starts coming..
ReplyDeleteNot married yet but soon I will so those married report??
I can assist you should you ask for help but I can't submit my salary to you ooo. Say wetin hapun? My love isn't blind ooo, mine sees well, work with your brain ooo.
ReplyDeleteSubmitting salaries? Huh?
ReplyDeleteDunno about submitting to whoever but I know Of Receiving it😂
That word Salary!
The most romantic word ever!😘
And it's the 28th!
Oya TGW submit your salary as today is 28th
Delete😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
DeleteTGBaibayyy!
No be you again?
Living life more than salary earners.
You better come and submit your salary to me o!
😅😅😅😅😅
😀😀😀😀 TGW yes salary is a very sexy word oh, hahahaha. Did you not notice he said she should remove, his tithe money first before giving the money envelope to her oga at the top.
DeleteHahahhahahaha
DeleteSee as fear catch me as I hear "Coman submit ur salary" 😂
Kisses Darlings!😘
And no,we ain't submitting😂
It's not in the 10 Commandments.
Chai!!!Pastor thief-thief. He said she should remove her tithes before handing the cash over abi? So that his own payment is guaranteed. Nigeria, wake up from this mindless servitude and discipleship to yahoo boy pastors. Women, please pay yourself first, i.e put money in your savings account, then checking account, then spending account. After that, if you and oga have an arrangement for bills due in the house, put down the percentage you are responsible for. For example , in my house, I am responsible for the electric bill and nothing else. I am an old fashioned wife. I cook, clean, provide mission style kpekus, he provide food, clothing and shelter for me and the children. As the virtuous woman that I am, I don't bother him with the expense of fixing my hair or money for tampons.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha....
DeleteLol
DeleteSubmit kwa? and the man will collect it? and join his own?
ReplyDeleteMSCHEW!
Madam stella you get stubborn spirit, are you saying you cant follow simple God's direction? is not the pastor is saying they should do it forever. It pays to be humble, ask lizzy suleman she know better.
ReplyDeleteLOL. Like a "Humbler or Humblee" * In Toyin Abraham's voice"
DeleteDid the Holy Bible tells us to give to our husbands? What did the Holy Bible said about Prov 31 vs 24? Did she give her money to her husband?
Delete"Yimu"
DeleteHahhahaha, submit fire!!! Abegiiii
ReplyDeleteWell, some do that and it works for them. But, times have changed. The heart of man is evil. Give it to some men and they are spoiling your fellow woman silly. I have never given my salary to hubby.. Well he has never mentioned it anyway. Even though he knows how much I earn an it's way higher thank his. We have a certain percentage of our individual money we contribute to the home..
ReplyDeleteMtcheww! Submit salary to my husband my ass....Bullshit!
ReplyDeleteSome pastors will be talking to their wife indirectly in church hissssss
ReplyDeleteHahahaha abi?...
DeleteI can't do this..
DeleteHeaven and earth knows this..
Hahahahhahhaha u r so right der
DeleteI'm not married but when I do, I wont submit any money ooooo, Odiegwu.... Submit kwa??? Hian!!!
ReplyDeleteFor what na???😳😳😳 in this 21st century?? Abeggii!!! Husband don baff??
DeleteNext post please!
Cookie you better pray for a man you give your salary to that will tripple it for you not all this poor, fake, irresponsible men all this frustrated women are talking about. Pray for a man that will add value to your life both financially and emotionally. Is it not this same blog you see women buy branch New cars for their husbands. You think they don't give their money to their husbands..the man gives them back in ten folds. Pray for a MAN not a MUMU!
DeleteThe bible passage says: submit to one another in love out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21)
ReplyDeleteSo both submit to each other and the driving force is love and reverence for Christ.
There should not be; "My own money" in marriage. It should be "our money". Both can decide in courtship to tailor their account to "joint" with "alerts" to each other once it is withdrawn from. Family is a unit not two units.
Please stop all these "my pastor says" and tell us what "the Lord says in his word".
Well said....both submit to each other and then plan spending not wig giving a lazy man her hard earned income
DeleteThis pastor sef, Original sense man. So remove his tithe then give your husband the remaining then turn around and began him for my sweat and hard earned dosh
ReplyDeleteChei women don suffer sha.
Lies lies big fat lie to confuse women and put them in more bondage. Only a gullible woman will accept this
Gbam!...
DeleteThe pastor Na baddo
DeleteWhat does the Word of God say:
ReplyDeleteIf one has chosen above (all men or) ladies to live with "this fellow' as a life partner in love; then love is all about sharing. When one say "my husband's money" or "my money" is it not an anomaly? when one shares everything intimate (including sex); if they can't have funds together; where is the oneness? Hasn't the aim of marriage been defeated? The issue of oneness is in sharing everything. The excuses many give is "I don't trust her to know how much I earn or am worth". If one is a follower of Christ; who did Jesus give "his wallet"; was it not Judas? How much trust did Jesus have for Judas? These are some of the issues that intending spouses should define in courtship.
On a personal note; my husband and I had a common "account" from the moment I accepted to marry him. He decided to put me in charge of every financial spending. He makes contributions and there is no issues about that. There is no account that we have had since marriage that bears one person's name and the mandate is "either to sign". WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT "HIS MONEY" "MY MONEY" hasn't the purpose of marriage been defeated?
Finances usually breeds quarrel among couples and the taste of the pudding is in the eating. Married for more than a decade an NEVER ARGUED is our testimony by the grace of God. When there is concealment of finances, the lady makes demands, suspect the husband of keeping a concubine etc. But when the two are open to each other in the way described above; thee will be no room for mutual suspicion!
A couple we know lived financially apart. The man is reasonably well to do but the wife dared not ask or "take his money". He gave her "handout" of money from time to time; monthly allowances etc. All his businesses were solely in his name. He took ill and his doctor gave him a damning health verdict and he had a surgery fixed. He knew that he may not come out of the theater alive. He quickly summoned his wife and took her to all his accounts and made it Joint and she could sign. Made his kids 'next of kin" in all the accounts and re-registered all his businesses with the wife's name inclusive. Even the financial aspect of the surgery and bills, the wife was in charge. He told her, "If I do not come out of the theater alive, sell all the exotic cars and keep just two" etc. IT WAS NO LONGER AN ISSUE OF THE WIFE TAKING "HIS MONEY"; THE WOMAN WAS IN CHARGE. He confessed certain misdeeds to the lady and they prayed together and he got into the theater. AFTER 9 HOURS OF SURGERY, the news came . . . he survived it! It was this singular experience that changed his attitude towards family finances as concerns his wife. She knew about every penny that dropped or left the "family business" as it became.
Then he said to them, "Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions." (Luke twelve vs. fifteen)
well spoken! anon 15:55. A lot of those commenting arent even married yet so, dont jump into conlusion about what you will or will not do. When you come together as one you are now one unit! you have to do all you can to ensure that your unit makes good progress and not fighting each other as opponents.
DeleteThen he said to them, "Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions." (Luke 12:15)
Lovely
DeleteWell said. Finances has got its own impact in marriage.
DeleteMadam I go of the story land #wehdoneMa
DeleteYou know how some of this pastors confuse people with some messages that isn't valid. Not a good idea submitting ur salary to our husband.me I can't try that.
ReplyDeleteEphesians 5:21
ReplyDeleteSubmit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Read you bibles folks!
To one another u say. It means he will also submit his to me. Trade by barter. You people are the ones that make religions difficult to practice. Two people who have completely different spending patterns cant be submitting money to each other and not have problems. Marriage is supposed to be easy and smooth once there is mutual respect and understanding. It is pastors and human beings like you that manufacture rules from the pit of hell to complicate the marriage institution. I heard this gibberish first from my room mate back in school. I think its a living faith doctrine.So, if I wanna give my parents or my siblings money , I will have to first ask my husband to give me? from my own money ? That I worked for? Balderdash!
DeleteI didn't see any salary submit there o
DeleteOh great Bible quote. Then he(husbandman) should submit his salary to me. Or what do you suggest again?
DeleteNo be only submit,na subject! Kai if i hear! Woni irin pastor kenan,haba! Stella ders no passage in the bible like dat o!
ReplyDeleteYour Pastor is a joker
ReplyDeleteFirst time hearing this tho ..... The only thing I do is that I always explain how business is going to my husband .
ReplyDeleteMay I not be caught doing that in this lifetime and d ones to come
ReplyDeleteYes,i can support d home but will NEVER submit my hard earned salary. Does he even knw d exact amount I earn?
Pastor seriously? 😒
ReplyDeleteJust a thought,proverbs 31woman had her business and made her own money to clothe her household. We were not told she submitted her business money to her husband.
DeleteI need some coffee 🏃🏃🏃☕
Haa pasito wa ko le work. On Sunday my own pastor encouraged women to work and not be depending on husband for something as ordinary sanitary towel money.
ReplyDeleteBut on a serious note I can't and I will not, is not right.
Submit gini? Sey wetin naa. Even our mamas of those days didnt do it. A na m apu ala? Let husbands submit theirs to women. Everything sef. Afterall na we de manage the home.
ReplyDeleteSubmit Tanker!!!....I can help when necessary but to give u my full month sweat???...Akuko ifo
ReplyDeleteThis is exactly what members of Deeper Life church practice. I wonder where they got that doctrine from. My cousin is a victim. She earns more than her husband and yet she dresses so shabbily while her husband is always looking fly. She often has to borrow to even feed her kid because she and her husband live in different cities. Then when the husband comes to visit, she has to painstakingly justify her spending before her can give her to pay her creditors. I taya for dem o, but wetin concern me for anoda person marriage? Me sef dey my husband house, so make I maintain my own lane. What do I even know?
ReplyDeleteThat is not true. You just generalized,and you are wrong. That is exclusive to ur cousin's marriage. Although,i'm no longer a member, I grew up in that church and there is no such doctrine. My husband and I were once members,and we do not practise such. It's unheard of. Pls get your facts right before spewing.
DeleteThat is not true. You just generalized,and you are wrong. That is exclusive to ur cousin's marriage. Although,i'm no longer a member, I grew up in that church and there is no such doctrine. My husband and I were once members,and we do not practise such. It's unheard of. Pls get your facts right before spewing.
DeleteThe pastor is very funny where he says the woman should remove tithe first, so he doesn't trust that the husband will use the money rightfully he might end up using even the tithe.
ReplyDeleteBTW at the moment um home nt working just hustling small jobs while at home, my hubby is working and submits his salary to me every month. I never asked him to do that oo, maybe na so Europe marriages dey work. What's important is we're happy.
Proverbs 31 woman even bought lands sef. she ran her own businesses, and IT WAS BECAUSE OF HER that her husband was known in the gates. End time pastors everywhere, sick lying misleading men who turn what they practice into a doctrine because they want to validate it. Scriptures says submit one to another....it didnt say submit your money, income or earnings one to another!. like the pastor that told a wife whose husband cheated" did he bring her home"? eeerr if he didnt forgive him na, that means na u get the home front!!! imagine oooo. Pause a minute...this is why scriptures says judgement will start from the house of God!
ReplyDeleteSo, I decided to ask my husband this question, his rreply: I don't need your salary, you can assist with Lil things in the house bt use your salary to buy whatever you want.
ReplyDeleteSee pastor sense, why would she remove her tithe money why not give her husband everything.
ReplyDeleteI can spend d whole salary for the family but hand it over to a man?Mo sorry gan
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of my ex husband. He wanted me to be submitting my money to him and i refused on grounds that he is a reckless spender and womanizer. We used to attend winners chapel so his reason for the request was that Mama Oyedepo used to submit her salary to her husband and she should be my example but I refused stating that Mama Oyedepo probably trusts the husband but me I don't trust you on those 2 ground.
ReplyDeleteHe became very hostile so I went to look for one of his mentors who also attends the same church and is close to the Oyedepos. He was the one that helped me solve the problem by asking him if he has ever heard Bishop Oyedepo or his wife say that Bishop was the one who demanded the wife's salary from his wife? When he could not answer, the man then went on to explain that a man only earns such position in the heart of his wife and he should not demand it.
MY EX was pained because was a too-know. Moreover after that day he stopped going to the man coz all his advice then were always against his 419 doctrines. Anyways after a while I packed my things and comot the house sha!!!
Everyone should seek understanding otherwise some Christians or any other religious bigots will just be using your head. My ex husband was a very 419 christain. He knew bible from head to toe and knew everyman of God's personal history but he will so twist it you will be asking what you have been doing in sunday school all these years.
when i got tired I left sha thank God for my life. Me sef go write my own becoming story one day.
Are you now married
DeleteThis reminds me of my ex husband. He wanted me to be submitting my money to him and i refused on grounds that he is a reckless spender and womanizer. We used to attend winners chapel so his reason for the request was that Mama Oyedepo used to submit her salary to her husband and she should be my example but I refused stating that Mama Oyedepo probably trusts the husband but me I don't trust you on those 2 ground.
ReplyDeleteHe became very hostile so I went to look for one of his mentors who also attends the same church and is close to the Oyedepos. He was the one that helped me solve the problem by asking him if he has ever heard Bishop Oyedepo or his wife say that Bishop was the one who demanded the wife's salary from his wife? When he could not answer, the man then went on to explain that a man only earns such position in the heart of his wife and he should not demand it.
MY EX was pained because was a too-know. Moreover after that day he stopped going to the man coz all his advice then were always against his 419 doctrines. Anyways after a while I packed my things and comot the house sha!!!
Everyone should seek understanding otherwise some Christians or any other religious bigots will just be using your head. My ex husband was a very 419 christain. He knew bible from head to toe and knew everyman of God's personal history but he will so twist it you will be asking what you have been doing in sunday school all these years.
when i got tired I left sha thank God for my life. Me sef go write my own becoming story one day.
Tank God u left his sorry ass. ......
DeletePASITOR esi gini, OK ohhh I have heard you
ReplyDeleteWoman are helpers not sole providers or slaves that is what they preach where I worship we help only when its convient not as an obligation
ReplyDeleteNigbati ori mi o gbale... Capital NO.
ReplyDeleteIdiot pastor! Foolish pastor! Ishi aki pastor! Infact pastor gbakwa oku.
ReplyDeleteWhich kain rough play be dat?😤😤😤
ReplyDeleteIf I hear....🙅🙅🙅
Is mercy johnson not feeding and taking care of her husband boy?
ReplyDeleteWhat the.........? Hello hi bye bye
ReplyDeleteMy mom did that on our behalf, so we her daughters do not have to make such silly mistake
ReplyDeleteOdiegwu.
ReplyDeleteThese days i apply wisdom on what i hear from all these pastor's .
My mum submits her salary to my dad,I keep wondering what kind of woman she is, not just her salary plus other business monies.
ReplyDeleteLazy men always twist things to favour them. Why will my hubby be waiting for my salary. We both take care of the home and children and we have no issue. Let the man go work and submit his salary to his wife too.....end time preachers
ReplyDeleteLol, no be only submit
ReplyDeleteIt's a bad Idea. Let the spouse have plans for their joint income. But handing her salary to the husband monthly, Mba!!!!
ReplyDeletePastor from hell
ReplyDeleteWrath of God
DeleteLols
DeletePastor from hell
ReplyDeleteSubmit wetin? I do not try that trash and will never do it, is not written in the Bible. I do not fancy that, does he submit his salary to me? I don't want issue, I will not submit any salary, if that is the only thing that will make me be a good wife I I will remain a bad wife.
ReplyDeleteWhy do you want him to submit his to u?
Delete@ Diamond...you'll need to graduate & get a bf 1st that will also graduate to fiancé and eventually husband before you can have an opinion about this issue.
DeleteWomen and money are like 5&6 .....
ReplyDeleteAna akogheri
ReplyDeleteMrs Dickson
as for me i don not advice women to hand over their whole salary to their husbands. just get a percentage that you both will keep in your joint acc which will be strictly for house upkeep, rent and school fees. then each will have their own personal account. cos as a wife i have my own family i may need to assist from time to time or contribute for stuff. i can not give my full salary to a man, where is my independence na? my sister's husband used to earn less than her but never takes her money ,but then she spends more than half of it in the house to support. now he earns 3 times what she earns and his ATM card is with my sister. she controls his finances. marriage is not a competition but a partnership
ReplyDeleteYou clearly sound like yours is a competition & a game where the person that's trickeir wins the price. When you're married, your immediate family is your priority NOT your brother, sisters & parents. The bible never said a man shall carry his parents & siblings & join with his wife to become one. I'm not saying don't help your siblings & parent but if you're "hiding" money from your spouse in case you need to help them, that's absolutely wrong! Y'all should be able to discuss & agree before you render help to anyone outside your home including parents & siblings. If y'all take each other's family like yours then there's no need for the hide & seek you're playing
DeleteStella,
ReplyDeleteThat one pain you what of me during my first child naming ceremony,after the naming my husband told me to give him the money people gave me cos he is owing some people money u don hear that one before, oga collect everything o him with him sister dey spread money, 500,1000,200,100,50,20 even 5Naira i raise yansh ooo
Chei...Nigerians & twisted priorities! Funny how women can submit pussy & mouth & some nyash sef without inhibitions but you're more worried & willing to risk everything for money. So my question is are you worth more than money or is money worth more than you? Isn't it obvious that some of y'all women have a PRICE & would certainly do anything at that price.
ReplyDeleteSalary na small thing sef when many Nigerian women have submitted their brains to their husbands in the name of submission.
ReplyDeleteThey are just going about empty headed, mindless yes sir zombies who can not think to save their lives.