My Divorce Story 9

Hmmm...

Stellastica nwanyi oma, God bless you,

remember my chronicle in April 2015; the HIV possible lady that
married a negative man. my story is long i cant find the link to the
chronicle, it could have made things easy. I had surgery to remove the
warts which the doctor said it's because of my low immune system then.

thank God my health has been superb since then.

Back to the story, my ex made life hell for me, chai I never knew
someone can treat another person that bad. I held on, willing to make
things work but his mind was made up and he did everything to make me
leave the house. from spending weeks outside not minding what me and
one month baby will eat, I will call and call he won't answer, after
one week he came back with a lady, I didn't ask him cause I knew he
was looking for ways to beat me. 

I packed to the other room with the baby.my mum will send me money to buy food stuff. one day I was spreading cloths outside the lady came out and wanted to spread cloths too, she asked me to remove my cloths we exchanged words shaa, she called me disease infested. Omg my eyes was filled with tears. 

I called my mum and asked her to come take me home that am tired.

He came home that night and I asked to discuss with him telling him to take me
home. the next morning he packed everything and took me back to school.
he never came to visit us for 3 months. i filled for divorce which he
didn't acknowledge. sometimes he sends 5k which i use in buying babys
milk , thanks to my parents they are God sent.

mid lasth year he came for my baby , I reported him to NACA abuja
he was invited for a mediation,they told him he can't take the baby
from me, and he should acknowledge the divorce or I sew him for
bigamy. thank God I was officially divorced June 2016. It has not
been easy . I graduated July 2016 and decided to stay back don't want
to be much a burden to my parents, am learning some hand work and
doing some errand to make a living. 

my story really made me strong I now do things I never believed i can. my baby gives me joy, sometimes when i remember i cry but looking at him gives me reasons to live again, he will clock 2 soon, I pray he will be able to start school
soon. about my ex he remarried and the lady left him, i dont know what
happened.

He came this January looking for me asking me to forgive him
that things are going wrong in his life and "they" said its because of
the way he treated me.

lessons
1 when its too good to be true, its too good to be true.

*I guess he was tired of you...Wickedness beyond belief!