Meeting Point 59

There is always a point of meeting!

Stelalicious, iyalode awon bloggers, i hail thee. It was amazing seeing my SYB on the blog. However, as i promised to send in my MEETING POINT and WEDDING NIGHT BLISS, I deem it fit to make good my promise but of cos, I'll start with the MEETING POINT episode, to be followed by my WNB in a subsequent post.

I read comments on the SYB posted...
*BVs that miss it can read it here: www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2017/02/service-year-boulevard-80.html?m=1.
I'd like to state that i never intended for an escapade story but a report of how my service year was. After all, that is what the SYB is all about. So, let every 'Jujinas' kontinue. With me, things are different now as i have found God and on a daily basis, i strife to please Him.

Well, after service year and the inability of the bank to retain me, i came back to Lagos; hustling things began. In the midst of all these, i found God and among many things, made up my mind to go celibate. Yes! Fornication must not stop me from making heaven. In fact, my life became renewed, i joined my local church workforce and doing things of God brought (and still brings) tremendous joy to me. Lotta beautiful sisters are in my local church but i found 'love' and solace in a colleague at work (my greatest mistake).

So, i spoke with her about us dating. Babe requested to pray about it, even later asked for some time to fast. After a little delay, she said YES. I was elated to say the least and I'd though: 'this is definitely my last bus stop'. Being Christians and workers in same denomination, we agreed on a no-sex relationship (which was what i really wanted). Babe told me she wasn't a virgin. Since, i wasn't too... It shouldn't be a big deal na. After many months, I met with her parents and pastor and we started talking deep about real plans for the future only to realise that madam was gbenshing another colleague. 

To make matters worst, her parents were aware. Although, they denied it initially but it turned out they even encouraged her cos the other guy just came back from 'the abroad' then (their loss jare). Even when I did my MBA in Unilag, as a fine boy that I am(Lol), some babes wanted to give me the cherry so badly but i declined all claiming I have a serious relationship. So, u can imagine how bad and betrayed I felt.

It was a great heartbreak for me and one that destabilized me in the office. I became paranoid in my workplace. I realised that i needed time to heal; as such, i stayed off relationship for well over a year.
Eventually, when it was time to move on, the devil brought some daughters of Eve (some from S&M sef) to make man fall. He succeeded sha but i was quick to reconcile with God.

About two times, i participated in S&M but the ladies i met couldn't give the real commitment i crave for. Some came to my house (I stayed alone in a 3-bedroom flat then) and just wanted to stay as wifey just like that, some came for flings. However, one stood out, though we never met. She was great to speak with and i was always looking forward to chatting and talking with her after work each day. We shared pictures and lotta stories. She's a popular BV (I'll only give her name as Chi... *part of her ID). We spoke everyday and were getting really along. We needed to see physically but I'd professional exams to write then. She couldn't wait and it all died even before it started. 

I prayed and searched for a good woman but none seems to exist until a blessed day, a day i never anticipated for the good the creator had reserved for me. It was a day my prayers was to be answered.

Despite daily striving to please God, i longed for a woman with a coca-cola shape, and that was what i got. I'd given a married colleague a lift, and cos of her, I'd followed a road i wouldn't had followed normally. Shortly after dropping my colleague, as i was driving on, i saw a very pretty and well shaped lady. I offered to give her a ride, she refused even despite all my pleas. I requested for her phone no and at the very moment of giving me, she changed her mind and instead called her bb pin just once and left immediately. I quickly inserted the pin and sent a request, not even sure i got the pin right.

 That marked the beginning of our friendship. Bae had a guy and would only be my friend (which i was kinda okay with). This babe however was too good to be just a friend. Coincidentally, bae was a virgin and not willing to loose it but her guy wanted the cherry by all means. She was ready to let him go b'cos of that. I was ready to wait but wouldn't be a fool a second time. Her then bf wasn't even staying in Lagos. I didn't rush her into talks of a relationship but rather, i showed he loads of care. I would invite her to my house, cook for her, make her feel relaxed and drop her at her house, without even 'touching' her. As God will have it, i was able to warm my way into her heart.

 Bae maintained a no sex relationship all through the close-to-two years we courted before getting married but we played some plays sha (u know... #smiles). And that was one of the best decisions we made during our courtship.
Today, we're married. I must confess that after Jesus, my wife is the next best thing to happened to me. I really do love her with the whole of my heart. As we embark on this journey, may the good Lord journey with us all through... Amen

*Expect the WNB soon


-Bv YB

*WOW...you sabi gist sha..make i go back go read am again.