Hmmm...Are you a man and of the mindset that a good lie helps keep love alive or saying the truth actually does the magic?
Most men are unpredictable and no one can tell when or where their next lies berth...
Men,please explain the meme
Tell me the truth and let me cry, don't comfort me with a lie plsss.
ReplyDeleteI was calling my boyfriend one night and he wasn't picking up. The next day he called back to say he was arrested as a boko haram suspect on Lagos street Gariki. I just knew he was with a woman. Raymond is a rotten liar.
DeleteI was calling my boyfriend one night and he wasn't picking up. The next day he called back to say he was arrested as a boko haram suspect on Lagos street Gariki. I just knew he was with a woman. Raymond is a rotten liar. Thank God you are now an ex.
DeleteAnonymous 12:31 hahahhaha this so funny.. Buh Chai ur boyfriend can lie eeehhh...
DeleteHahahahaha at anonymous 12:31...
DeleteLagos street is a red light district na. Which kain bf be that, yuck! Na wa, na real wa
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DeleteThis killed me with laughter๐๐ฝ♂️
I hit you the truth whenever you want it however you want it, that's if I don't care how you feel...
DeleteAnonymous 12: 31 which Raymond? nimland? Hehehe
DeleteHehehehehe..anon12:31 ur bf na badoski!
DeleteFor me, if u lie to me, it means u don't love me! Period.
It goes both ways. A man can tell u the truth to hurt you, and he can tell u a lie to hurt u too. So the truth and a lie can be told to hurt. Of course in both cases he doesn't love the lady. But to the one he loves he'd tell a lot of lies to comfort her. That's what I think
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ReplyDeleteMen can lie for Africa
And I think, most times, women love to hear men lie... They know these men are lieing... But they just love to hear lies than truth probably
@Galore
You right....some women love to gear lies....
DeleteTruth is better than lie and I find out later..not good atall
DeleteTrue. My cuz would hound yu for the 'truth' until you tell the 'Lie' she wana hear
DeleteHer: is he into me, what do you think ?
Me: No, he isn't .
Her : why do you think so ?
Me: he shows no interest , men go after what they want
Her: maybe he's busy , maybe he forgot, men forget things atimes
Me: he's not that into you
Her : no , he must be busy
Me: True , he must be busy ๐ค
At this point I give up
It's easy to claim "I prefer to hear the truth"
DeleteA higher no of women can't handle the truth
Women are usually moved by what they hear, while men are moved by what they see.
80% women love lies than the truth. Even on this blog, you tell them a candid opinion, they tag you "hater"
How did you think the term "wash" came about?
Men be using women's head to plait dada since 1900
You tell a woman the human hair she bought 150k and fixed with 15k makes her look like an ayamatanga, she go catch winsh follow you despite the fact that it's the truth.
You lie to her that she looks like a goddess and see her blushing, feeling good and screaming "I know right..."
Meanwhile na lie o
Abegi!
Lie when you have to, and be truthful when you have to.
Just observe the situation properly and know which applies.
True talk @Galore.
DeleteSome ladies love to hear the lies
BLOGLORD na your comment I like pass.
DeleteHummmmm
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
I believe everyone loves the truth and no one we love to be lie to. Only the fear of God makes one to be truthful not easy by flesh. Happy Sunday SDK family.
DeleteWaiting to hear from the men.
ReplyDeleteAs a very straightforward person, I prefer to be shocked with the truth, than be shielded with lies.
Hit me with the truth. I'm a human shock absorber, thanks to life and it's different hands.
Some people argue that if you love someone, you'll lie to protect them. I opine that if you love someone, you let them know the truth, no matter how difficult or hurtful it is. I don't see how keeping your partner in the dark about sensitive issues translates to loving them. What if they find out someday, as is always the case? But then, that's my opinion.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Take a hug, WD.
DeleteThis is just perfect. I always ask those that oppose this mindset, "what happens when the person finds out the truth or the truth walks right into their face?"
100likes.
DeleteDo the men even tell the truth?
DeleteAs I started reading I want to reply and got to your post white diamond....u said my mind so no need to type long๐ I am not one of those women who love to hear lies. Am a say it as it is girl...
DeleteTo my own understanding,most men excluding my man lie to the one they love most!...
ReplyDeleteI have all my husband's Mumu button on my palm and he can never lie to me...
Just one look on his face and he will voicing out all the truth in his mouth!...
Don't ask me how I did it,
It is love!...Kikikikikiki
We don't need to ask you how you did it, we already know...'knacking pigeon on his head things'
DeleteHahahahahahahaha
Kikikikikiki queen teach me now
DeleteI follow you laugh sef
Delete*side eyes*
Lol Linda and her cray comments though.
DeleteI hate lies with a passion.
Tell me the truth no matter the gravity of the offense I can forgive you but lie to me no matter how trivial the issue is and watch me take a walk.
Who go ask?
DeleteWe know you nau.
Lmaooo
Happy sunday LE babyyyyy!
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
DeleteLol@Just one look on his face and he will be voicing out all the truth in his mouth!...
Queen Queen, you are the chief and the Boss...
*start...
DeleteHahahahaha at Elixir...
Beeolah,when you are spiritually and mentally ready...lmao
Roseflower,are you sure you can take the truth?...
Hahahahaha I know your type!...
Bloggie same to you dear...
How is the fam?..
Goes both ways sometimes.
ReplyDeleteA man can lie to protect d happiness of someone he loves,d truth could be damaging,(depends on d kinda truth anyway).
A man can also tell d truth to someone he loves n beg for forgiveness.
But bottomline is: a man who lies to you every damn time, HATES YO ARSE.
Hmmm
ReplyDeleteThis lie of a thing can be quiet complicated
Some might say, they lie because they don't wanna hurt you.
But I would prefer you tell me the truth, let me react immediately & later on forget about it & move on, than for you to lie to me, cos the truth will most def come out one day & when it comes out, my reaction will be irreversible.
Sometimes lies help to keep a relationship,
ReplyDeleteSometimes the truth does.
It just depends on the gravity of the matter and the situation given.
Yes ooooo
DeleteBloggie m,swap the sprite with Coke!
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Its tricky and sometimes the truth does not set you free but rather complicate issues the more,yes she might forgive you for being honest but depending on what happened not all girls forgive and forget,she will start doubting you and she might start seeing u in a different eye
ReplyDeleteMe I tend to stay away from things that wil make me lie to her in order not to be caught in a sticky situation
"different eye", lmao! Lol! ๐๐๐
DeleteI concur @ your 1st paragraph.
DeleteLol@ BLOGLORD,
Deletewhat happened to the 2nd paragraph?
Hahahaha
I take side eyes de look the second paragraph @ Chike.
DeleteLOL
Men over to una. We are here to read comments
ReplyDeleteTell me the truth even it hurts that means the man truly love me cos telling lies not hurt me means he will lie that he loves me. I can't stand lies not even the love i have for a man.
ReplyDeleteI believe sometimes people lie to the ones they love because they 'feel' he/she won't be able to handle the truth. But I always ask, are you really keeping this because they can't handle the truth is its just a flimsy excuse to keep your sins under the carpet? I mean, you haven't had any such experience with him/her in the past and you already assume they're unable to act right.
ReplyDeleteI'd rather you tell me the truth that keep it hidden and I get to find out later.
Sometimes we lie to protect the ones we love but If I constantly have to lie to a lady, it means I don't love her. I love honesty/honest people, so why would I lie to the woman I love.
ReplyDeleteYaaayy... Stella bae, I was the one who mentioned u on the post( @graysmooth007) to use this as a topic on your blog hehehehehe. ..now lemme grab my popcorn and drink. Kikikiki
ReplyDeleteMe, I tell lies when it's convenient to lie. My yoruba ex boyfriend no dey ever deserve the truth, cos he will use that truth to frustrate you. Good riddance!!!
ReplyDeleteThe one im dating now gets more truth than lies from me cos he's not a difficult person but I still lie wen I need to lie not cos he would react negatively to the truth but cos I just feel there are some things one shouldn't share in a relationship.
But eka I taught u were married? Correct me pls.
DeleteOr u don join linda eze ministry?
DeleteOshe..una don come again.looking for ways to justify what is bad good...well..if you love me,tell me the truth..as a guy i love to tell my lady the truth all times because it puts me in check and i grow in that conciousness...i feel my partner deserves to know the truth always so if you going to make any decision as regards our relationship,it should be on a good foundation....*you must not agree with me though*
ReplyDeleteMen lie for different reasons.
ReplyDeleteWhen he lies and tells the truth, it doesn't mean he loves one less.
Truth and lies are twins.you use both to achieve a goal.... Good or bad.
I hate lies and liars
ReplyDeleteSay it to my face and Lemme choose how to deal with it. That's my own take
Cant I text or chat you the truth instead? Must it be "to your face"?
DeleteGo ahead and text whatever na.. i no dey shake
DeleteAm here to sell popcorns to those who will comments
ReplyDeleteYes, men tell lies and ladies love lies but . . .
ReplyDeleteIf you want to hear a woman lie, ask the following questions:
Are you a virgin?
Do you like sex?
When last did you have sex?
Have you done an abortion before?
The lies we ladies will tell for the above questions, even lie detectors will be confused
Same reason u stated up there.
DeleteWe tell u lies Bcz we know u guys love lies and that is what ask such Qs for.
Marjorie
Dont ever lie to me!... I don't lie.
ReplyDeleteStells, the truth is, most human beings can't handle the truth though we claim we can. There's something known as the decency of merciful lies, that's what most of us crave subconsciously. The sad truth is, we, ladies are worse. I guess it's because we are more emotional. It takes a lady with a mature and evolved mind to handle brutal honesty.
ReplyDeleteI remember watching an episode of Tyra Banks' talk show on relationships. She had some guys as guests to talk "candidly" about relationships. Out of the 5 guys, only one was honest, the rest were just acting out their scripts effortlessly. They told the audience, majority of which were ladies, and Tyra exactly what they wanted to hear. Guess what? Tyra and her audience were cheering the "players" regardless of the obvious lies but they kept booing the honest guy. As a matter of fact, Tyra was so hostile to him in the most unprofessional way.
I'm not a man but I know telling the truth doesn't necessarily mean a person loves the recipient of the true tale, I think it depends on each individual. As a lady, I would feel insulted if my husband tells me to my face that he's off to see his mistress, I expect a high degree of discretion. I remember a client I had way back when, she used to get super upset that her hubby keeps things from her. She was lost in the fantasy that married couples should have no secrets between them, you know, that picture perfect ideology. I tried in vain to convince her to chill as long as he was honest with things which matter. She kept pressing and pressing and pressing, trying to convince her hubby that he can open up and tell her his secrets. A couple of months later, she told me she was filling for divorce! I was bewildered because I thought her decision was based on her hubby's reluctance to "bare it all". Imagine the wonderment when I found out her decision was based on the fact that he finally opened up to her but she couldn't handle the truth. She had so much resentment for him that she couldn't even bare to sleep in the same room with him.
Most men I know whom love their partners, would rather lose a limb than reveal their shenanigans to them. The fear of losing the one they love makes a lot of people hide certain details. I may be wrong but I feel where the fear of losing someone isn't present, you throw cautious to the winds and tell the truth even when the truth can mess them up big time. I love my hubby with every fibre of my being and I know the feeling is mutual but there are certain questions I would never ask him because I don't want to put him on the spot and I sure as hell wouldn't want to catch him in a lie. So I operate the "ask me no questions and I will tell you no lies" policy in certain areas. Blissful ignorance? Maybe, but it has kept our passion for each other flaming for 17 years, 15 of which have been exciting matrimony.
U r the only one that has said the truth here, if u don't care about loosing someone u love then u can easily tell them the truth. Most women here screaming tell me the truth would rather die than tell thr fiancee how many men they ve slept with.
DeleteThank you so much for this piece!
DeleteGuy_X
May God bless ur wisdom more, more and more. Only u hav made my day already.
DeleteAm officially a fan ronalda๐๐๐
DeleteRonalda my lovely munchkin๐๐๐ *in your voice*
DeleteWhy you do me like this?
I just look forward to when you will decide to drop a comments more.
Oh well,i know how busy the world can be,so i pardon you.
How are you doing?
On this topic though,i will pass.
I cherish my Truth soooo much,datsall.
Nice piece @Ronalda
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I love you ronalda
DeleteThank you der
DeleteStella to be frank with you,as a man any woman I lie is not truely in my heart.Any man that lies to a woman does not love her.Real men don't lie to their woman.That is the bitter truth
ReplyDeleteAssuming I was your wife, u will bare it all and tell me about ur sexcapades?
Deleteso if ure going to neet mistress ur and ur wife sub consciously ask u were ure going, u will consciously tel her i want to o and fvuk my mistress.
DeleteIjora I will gladly tell u.lol
DeleteSexy daddy, u just lie in that ur comment.
Deletecrazy pple on the loose on this blog.
ReplyDeletethe same set of lesbians that say they would never tell a man about their rape/abortion/body count want a man who would sing the truth like an intoxicated bird.
too much BS for me to handle.
too much 4kin BS o handle.. i second u
DeleteLadies, a man lies to you for his selfish interest and never because he wants to protect you. When we can tell you the truth no matter what...it means we respect you.
ReplyDeleteTruth can be tough and most times have consequences but it is a man who has ethics and principles that will tell you the truth. If you are a woman who can not take the truth then work on your esteem and maturity level. If people have to walk on egg shells to make sure you do not overreact then please check yourself.
Summary: When we lie to you, we do not regard you as much and we are equally very selfish.
Hmmmmmm
DeleteHe loves no body
ReplyDeleteMy boyfriend lied about his age... I was very upfront about not wanting to date a man that was my mate sef, not to talk of a man I was older than. He finally came out clean, we are still together and I know that I'd never had dated him if I'd known.
ReplyDeleteWould you want your boyfriend telling you weren't as attractive as his ex? Would you want him telling you he didn't find you sexually attractive? Would you want gf telling you get previous guy smashed her better than you? Abeg! Everyone lies to the one they love. It's just typical
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ReplyDeleteWhy I hate men. They look you in the eyes and lie. Lie about how their parents love you. In the end, they come back with stories of how the patents don't want the union,only to find out they are serious with another woman after wasting your time for over 2 years.
ReplyDeleteSorry I guess if he told u he just wanted to fuck u would not say yes
DeleteYou all can't handle the truth... I don't think u watched that Steve Harvey movie and learn anything from I agree there was a lot rubbish but the basic was there... What do u want a hear.. I see u I like was I see and am married and I walk up to u and say hello lady am married or in a serious relationship but I just want to fuck... If u don't build from scratch don't expect a free finished product... Cheers
ReplyDeleteThe scratch is a misconception. It doesn't guarantee the guy will love the girl any better. How many guys are with their 1st or even 2nd love? Abeg, leave story. Guys just wan fuck and they lie their way through.
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