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Stella dear, kindly post this my chronicle.

I dated a guy for a year and two months. I went out of the relationship when I heard he has a baby mama who is not married. I honestly do not want drama in my marriage because he was talking marriage then.


I moved on and started dating another guy. He learnt of it through my fare weather friends and confronted the guy severally to leave me for him. When he could not win me back, he relocated his baby mama to his base and married her.


I got married two years later to my guy. My phone rang one day and it was a lady on the line. She introduced herself as the wife to the guy and warned me to leave her hubby alone. I told her I stopped talking to her guy more than two years ago. She hang the phone. I tried calling back but she did not pick. Told hubby about it and it caused quarrel in my home. He was angry on how the woman got my number because I have changed my number and location. I swore to him I have not talked or seen the guy since I got married. She called me two times after that with different numbers, but each time I hear her voice, I will cut the phone.


Two months ago, I had a dream two consecutive times on the woman fighting me seriously in my dream. She was pursuing me with different things in my dream and I ran away. I woke up tired and angry. I told my mum about the dream, my younger sister and that my fare weather friend.
My fare weather friend then told me she met the guy in a supermarket early last year, the guy told her his wife went on facebook collected my picture and saved it on her phone. That the wife showed my picture to his mum who then told him about my picture with the wife. That I am the woman disturbing her marriage.


My marriage crashed after four years. I am back to square one. I swear, I do not have anything to do with that guy again. He is my ex and that is where he belongs. I heard they have given birth to more children and doing well for themselves. I don't know this woman. I have not seen her before. I have only heard her voice. I have never in my live planned any negative thing about her. For what.. I was the one that left the relationship. God forbid if I should cause another woman pain in her marriage. 

 I am not a saint but never with a married man. My friends asked me to look for the woman's phone number, call the woman and tell her my dreams and if possible warn her to live me alone. Others said I should confront the man. I am seriously worried. How did I offend this woman...What should I do. Please bare your mind to me.