Most people are pretty obvious with their actions.
I rarely get my hopes up, not because I am a pessimist but because I am a realist.
Actions prove why words mean nothing, from relationships to work, from work to parties.
Intentions that aren't acted upon are just ideas, and ideas without action are just thoughts.
So if that woman you want to be with is messing around, it is because you aren't her priority.
If that guy doesn't call you for two weeks, he doesn't like you as much as you like him.
If that important meeting keeps on getting rescheduled, it means it is not that important to the other party.
If the government fail the people they are supposed to be representing time and time again, it means that they aren't really representing you, or they just aren't bothered.
The people who always text and call to ask how you are, these are the people who care.
The people who email you back straight away and the people who do things to help. These are the people you should invest your time in.
Remember your happiness starts with you.
Not with your relationship.
Not with your friends.
Not with your job.
But with you.
Things outside of you won't fix problems on the inside.
Love yourself properly and people will love you.
Don't echasee after people/Things who are running away, if it is meant to be it will be.
If not, there are plenty more fish in the sea x
Everything is everything #Peace#2017 #GOOD #MORNING MY NEIGHBORS #chkbrs #POKOBAR
OK.. She said it all. Happy Sunday pipo
ReplyDeleteShe is wise....
DeleteWow
DeleteI love this
Hmmmm what's happening with Poko baby? Hope all is well oh
DeleteShe couldn't have said it better
ReplyDeleteSo true...people don't like the truth...no matter how it hurts me it still what it is...love yourself first
ReplyDeleteNice one Tonto.
ReplyDeleteWord!!! Poko baby be making sense. I love maself like kilode... Tankio!
ReplyDeleteNice words of wisdom Tonto!
ReplyDeleteHowever for me, I'm an optimist so I hope..
Yes, I do like to get my hopes up, cos I can live without food or water for sometime, but without hope, I won't last a day.
That's why one of my motto is 'Dum Spiro spero' (while I breathe, I hope)
Carpe diem.
Can I love your comment? We are nothing without hope!
Delete"Dun spiro spero" I like your philosophy.
DeleteTotoh can't spell or is it auto correct, what she wrote people already know but won't change anything
ReplyDeleteThis is very deep. I have learnt to love myself and do things that makes me happy. I have learnt not to attach too much importance to what anyone says to me whether good or bad, i have learnt to be me,i have learnt to live just for me.its not been easy,sometimes i wish i had a man or friends that loves me,respects me but friends has dealt me a heavy blow and i have learnt to rock my own world, man or no man,job or no job,friends or no friends.
ReplyDeleteCan I be your friend?
Delete... Jesus is my worth!
Are u rich, because na only rich people fit be my friend oooh!
DeleteI can be your friend too
DeleteI have nobody I can call my own.
DeleteHello ladies and gents,u don't need a man to complete u when u already have a man in your life, just acknowledge him, Jesus Christ, he said in 1st john 2vs 8 ,a new commandment I give to you, which ting is tru in him and in you, because old things are past, and the true light now shineth.its not easy but all u need do is free ur mind,let go of the past, u can't change that, stop thing about tomorrow, u can't help that, let go and let God in, I'm a living testimony of God's wondrous love, he took God 27 years to change my mind, he was patient and caring, I'll be 28 this year, I graduated with the best result,I'm the first in the history of my family to have a first class honours, I haven't started working yet, I count my blessings every day, I don't have a car, a job, a boy friend and name it, but I tell u 1 thing I have with absolute certainty is God,nobody can help u except God, for years I was withdrawn, lonely, coz of life's challenges, did biz twice, it failed, infact wat ever I tried starting up eventually packs up, but did I kill myself, no? Ist John 2vs 8 is an eye opener
DeleteI'm so in love with your comment. Human beings are so not worth it😐
DeleteErmmmmm Blog fighters Una don't hear?
ReplyDeleteHappy Sunday
Dem *don't* hear my dear.
Deletemarriage and motherhood is really working wonders in Tonto's life. I remember those days when she used to post messages like blac chyna's mum. Using some very annoying slangs and abbreviations.
ReplyDeletei'm telling you, i was impressingly surprise
DeleteYou have impressingly surprise me too
DeleteWise Words!
ReplyDeleteI pray all is well in your home nne... I'm seriously rooting for you guys
Much love
Nice words. Love u Poko
ReplyDeleteNice picture.
ReplyDeleteOk.Good to know.But before I will take preaching serious, she hv to go and settle with the girl she burnt her bags.
ReplyDeleteSweety it's she has,not she have
DeleteGbam!!! Tonto, thank you. Please loud it like a gong !!
ReplyDeleteI love this lady so much.... Happy New Year omalicha Ada rivers.
ReplyDeleteWell said Tonto, well said!
ReplyDelete#2017iwilltestify
Beautiful and smart..God bless your home 100% ..keep glowing..
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ReplyDeleteTonto my crush before before...
ReplyDeleteBut I won't forget the day she and Van Vicker used my bunk in Asaba to shoot movie. Her smoking na another level. Her swag tight!
#DontQuoteMe
Mother hood really changed her. I remember when you could rarely read her writeups on twitter without having a serious migraine. * waves* Hellooo villager. Tonto doesn't write 's' as 'z' now am happy for her..
ReplyDeleteAs in
DeleteLol
DeleteIt's not her write up. She copied it
DeleteLol
DeleteYea. Motherhood really changed her.
DeleteWhether she copied or not she passed a message, u go and copy and also try spreading positive words
DeleteWell said tonto
DeleteWell said. Nice words of wisdom.
ReplyDeleteFocus..... Just focus
ReplyDeleteOn point Tonto!!! To many sycophants that call themselves friends! Or a relationship that is 90 to 10 percent. Most time it is the woman giving 90. That why I try to make myself happy noone or thing can make anyone happy except God!!
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ReplyDeleteWell said Tonto
DeleteGreat words! Very inspiring
ReplyDeleteHmm poke baby gas really changed oo..marriage is good oo
ReplyDeleteNice.
ReplyDeleteMay God continue to bless her marriage so she can continue like this.
Amen.
DeleteWell said Poko baby!
ReplyDeleteShe said it all.
ReplyDeleteMy poko baby thanks but will they ever hear
ReplyDelete#People who cause others pain, are people in a lot of pain......Hurt people hurt people*
ReplyDeleteThat is not exactly true. I'm always unhappy but I don't cause anyone pain because they are not the cause of my problem.
DeleteSo on point Tonto. God bless you and keep your home. If celebrities' marriages are crashing, your own case is different!
ReplyDeleteWaiting for the Queen and boss to come fool her old age here.
ReplyDeleteCopy and paste tinz.
ReplyDeleteMotherhood does not change one's spellings.
But good write up though.
My beautiful Tontolet has spoken ohhhhhh......gbam jare
ReplyDeleteShe's glowing!....North Dakota, you write so well.
ReplyDeleteCopycat! If i hear. Next pls
ReplyDeleteTontolet you have spoken well, weldon good woman, clap for yourself.
ReplyDeleteGod bless your family.
ReplyDeleteDon't be a casualty of self love deficiency.
ReplyDeleteDon't get overdosed with love for someone other than God or yourself.
Love is meeting the other person half way.
If you find that the other person is giving more or you are doing more than your partner, Then you have BO BUSINESS taking each others time.
THE BEAUTY OF LOVE IS IN THE MUTUALITY OF THE CHASE..
Don't be only a taker or only a giver.
Learn to take CALCULATED RISKS in love.
Learn from mistakes but don't let it brand you.
True talk
ReplyDeleteNa so I return from US those years. My cousin say him friend wife know Tonto. He say make I give am money make he go arrange Tonto for me. It has been 3 years since then. The guy no dey even pick my calls. The day I go set eyes on my cousin again, one of us will meet our makers that day. Useless fool.
ReplyDeleteFirst posted by @chakabars on ig 8/2015. Don't know where he got it from. He seems like a cool cat too. Tonto sorta gave him credit. Ok. Back to being an incognito nosy person. ✌️
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