WOW WOW WOW!!!!!...Are you kidding me?
A recent survey reported that 62% of Nigerian women are unfaithful. That's to tell you that it's in the nature of women, most especially Nigerian women to cheat.
Cheating or not is at the discretion of the wife!
If as a man you find a woman who doesn't cheat on you, then you are just lucky. But stop giving yourself unnecessary heartache checking her phones and keeping a prying eye on her.
If your wife cheats on you, it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you. A woman can love and respect you but still cheat on you. It just means that she wants to explore. As long as she still respects you by at least being discreet with her sexcapades, and still plays her roles as a wife, I see no reason why you should get worked up over it. I mean, it's not like the vagina is going to disappear or change in colour and shape.
It is stupidity to divorce your wife just because she cheats on you. How many do you want to marry? The next woman might even be worse.
And remember that according to the Bible, if you decide to divorce your wife for any reason at all, you are expected to remain celibate for life, or till she dies.
I hope God gives our men the wisdom to understand that cheating is NOT enough reason to divorce their wives, or even complain at all.
Stella be shouting wow wow wow like ambulance
ReplyDeleteEveryone wants to trend
DeleteStella, she flipped the coin now....men are forever painting their philandering act as a natural phenomenon, so she decided to give them a taste of their own medicine.....hahahahaha
DeleteI dont like this write up at all, because it might somehow be encouraging some women to be proud they are cheating.I forbid cheating as a woman,God forbid to even think of it at all.
DeleteLol @Enigma
DeleteWomen ti take over.. Hahahaa..
She's being sarcastic na haba
Hahahaha...I think I've seen a male version of this before and she only changed things in favor of women here...
DeleteNot my mum's generation though may be this cultureless generation
DeleteLol the sarcasm.... Read between the lines😃
DeleteCheating man = master key that can open all locks
DeleteCheating woman = useless padlock that all keys open. Something worst than a dustbin. Tueh to all the cheating women on this blog
She just spoke my mind. I love her for this. People especially men tend to think we women don't feel the same way they do.
DeleteWonders shall never end....
ReplyDeleteThe author is trying to turn the tables around. Dont tell me you have not seen this write up for the men.
DeleteThis piece is more of a feminist approach to resisting the prevailing societal discourse that men cheating is okay or that men are polygamous in nature or that women shouldn't divorce a man who cheats.
Guys how do you feel when the table turns? Abeg borrow me laugh. Kikikwakwakikikwakwa
Finally Nkechi's write up is here, her facebook page was on fire when she posted this 2 days ago. Men were jittery from their comments then it dawned on me that men honestly think cheating is exclusive to them. Welcome to Jurassic World lol
DeleteI actually love this! If men could say that are polygamous in nature, then, I think the women would be polygamous in nature too. Afterall, we are all made in one likeness *wicked smile*
DeleteWatcha think guys?
I think its high time we stop making excuses for our wandering dick-men.
DeleteEvery one should now be polygamous its very fair.
This not correct at all. I strongly disagree,,women are not polygamous in nature at all,at all. We are more self controlled in nature.
Delete@yemi 7up u didn't get d message. Coin's flipped on d men.
DeleteLol @comeandbeatme
ReplyDeleteThat means my husband is just lucky cos it is abominable for both husband and wife to cheat. None will go scot free if they cheat. If man does not see you, God sees.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o! Make I read comments.
ReplyDeleteGbam! Hahahaha
ReplyDeleteLol... I think this is Sacarsm oh
DeleteI can relate with this.. . During the day I'm a faithful housewife of two lovely kids but when my partner goes to work and my kids fast asleep, I do leave the house to see my sugar daddy and come back later...😮😮😮
Deletevery true Stella. My friend married side chick came to my house when i got married only to discover that my wife best friend in school is my friend side chick. shame want kill me.
ReplyDeletePheww!!! It took me almost two minutes to understand your comment
DeleteI couldn't.
DeleteNetwork hope you allowed my comment go through.
ReplyDeleteLol @ Stella...
ReplyDeleteNow I see why Toke said you were hysterical on the phone, you can like to dramatise your reaction... Calm down babe😀
The author is trying to turn the tables on men.
The advise she gave up there is exactly what women are told when confronted with their partner's infidelity.
So she's put men on the receiving end and judging from their reactions on her page, they couldn't take it.
Very funny. So men can dish it out but they can't receive the same crap?
Newsflash. The world is evolving and so are the women. Better get ready for more stuff like this cos women are finally awake!
I can tell you, lmao running to her page
DeleteGbam
Delete@Princess, my thoughts exactly. This is exactly what the society tells women who have randy husbands.
DeleteExactly! She's simply flipped the coin and dished out the same advice women receive everyday! But men can't handle it!!!! I agree with her 100%. Afterall they always tell wives that cheating is no excuse to divorce your husband and according to Iyabo Ojo, a man can love you and still cheat. So therefore (in Zebrudiahs voice) a woman can love her husband but still cheat!!! Chikena.
DeleteI think so too.
DeleteU are correct
DeleteI just feel this is sarcasm. She was daring men to talk. I have this exact post but referring to men.
ReplyDeleteYour head dey there...
DeleteThe tables have been turned. Hahahaha.
ReplyDeleteI must trend syndrome ti take over. 😀😀😀
#ThouShallNotCheat
#MyOpinion
Hahahahahahhahahah
ReplyDeleteReverse psychology!!!
This is what the men always say, so she reversed it...
Hahahahahahahahhahaha...
I'm still laughing over yesterdays IHN and today's SP.. Dayum!!!
People will say anything to be relevant... who is dis one again... justifying her cheating habit with dis nonsense... whether male or female, nothing I repeat nothing can justify reason for cheating... but if it happens own up and face d consequences... don't be saying its in our nature to cheat and all that other nonsense
ReplyDeleteI tire oh.
DeleteShe is nkechi bianze, she is studying in UK. She has 2 degree to her name. And she is about bagging her masters . For the record she is a virgin. Thank u.
DeleteOwen abi Wetin.. ur wife or babe might be cheating and you might never find out. How bow dah
DeleteFor the first time a fellow woman is slamming women. Well I don't see anything wrong with the post though. As of this 21St century men and women cheat so if you find a good, humble, smart and loyal one just keep her and consider yourself a lucky nigga. #TeamDon'tSnoop#
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,deep
ReplyDeleteHahaha! I love her guts!
Deletepls don't generalize it. I'm a woman, married but it has never entered my mind to cheat on my husband no matter how things are with us.
ReplyDeleteI hold on knowing that better days are ahead.
#teamfaithful
Epele o
DeleteMe too, kudos to us faithful wives. Our reward from God is thick.
DeleteOf course women can cheat too. They are polygamous in nature. They just choose not to. I understand the message she is trying to pass across
ReplyDeleteHahahahhaaahahaha.
ReplyDeleteShe's simply giving the same reasons men give us for their cheating.
Some people just dont understand sarcasm. She has simply turned the tables around and giving men a dose of the bitter medicine they have been giving women for eons and they are not liking it non 😆😆. I hope men see how stupid they sound when they give these same talk to women.
DeleteYou didn't munch it all, you will see where she wrote that if you do not understand sarcasm stay away. She is just saying what men say to women, turning the table. Please check her Facebook page before you join the band wagon.
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree. Women are polygamous in nature and same goes for the men. It's very rare to find someone who is content with his/her spouse. We always need that "extra" and yes, it's our nature! What matters the most is 'self control', you see that "extra" you desire but you have courage to tell yourself "no". As a woman, there are men you see and you become weak 'instanta' but God has so blessed us that we don't have a 'penis to Stand', so it's easier for us.
ReplyDeleteMen and women are polygamous in nature, some women can control themselves, others can.
ReplyDeleteMen are like dogs, they poop in public, pple see them.
Women are like cats, u don't get to see their shit except for a few careless ones, that's y I pity cheating horseband with career/non wives! Hehehehehehe.
Men r learners!
Coding is top notch!
Yea, women code finish. A woman can be cheatin on her cheatin horseband, find out abt his infidelity, accuse him, catch him red handed and still be coded in her mata...d horseband will neva know. Men, una tink say una smart...
DeleteTrue talk
DeleteI will never support any gender. Cheating is bad and shouldn't be done for any reason, its crazy how people feel its okay to cheat since the other party is cheating, its bad and it should be condemned entirely. Tho its hard being faithful to a cheating bastard or bitch but we all need to find a way to deal with it, I know how to deal with mine.
ReplyDeleteAnd how do you deal with yours? Awon dealers
DeleteHahahaha
DeleteLol at if you don't like it come and beat me.
ReplyDeleteAnything to trend. It's all right. Good luck to her
Lmao!!! Stella, she is just being sarcastic. Check out the post again, same reasons men give.
ReplyDeleteHehehehehe! And most people will miss the message she's trying to pass across. Read btw the lines. Oshey o jare!!!
ReplyDeletePlease who is this Akuya ????.
ReplyDeleteTOO FUNNY, AND ALSO TRUE,BUT ITS MORE FUNNY COS OF THE WAY THE MEN WILL BE CRYING AFTER READING IT. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHH
ReplyDeleteShe was being sarcastic Stella! Those are the typical response women get when they complain of cheating partners so she flipped the script. Not cheating a conscious choice, nobody has the monopoly of foolishness and no gender is predisposed to infidelity .
ReplyDeleteI love you already
DeleteYea 👍
DeleteNkechi is bae! You need to see the way nigerian men where gnashing and grinding their teeth, dragging bear-bear, tearing singlet and boxers, crying blood ontop that post. And the courageous women and some men are sharing on their wall. What is good for the goose.....
ReplyDeleteA guy posted another one yesterday. I make it another comment
Men, it's high time you get to understand that women can also have temper issues, especially our Nigerian women. The fact that your wife/girlfriend slaps you is not enough reason to break out of a relationship or marriage or even make unnecessary fuss upandan.
ReplyDeleteI don't see anything wrong with a woman slapping her man. I mean it could even be an act of correction, to correct you from something you did wrong. So what's wrong with that ?
Remember how your parents beat you orange and violet, does it mean that didn't love you ? Off course no. It was just an act of correction.
More so, even if she hits you with turning garri or any other tool, you should try and understand that maybe a bad day could be the cause or even the devil. It's still not enough to be angry, just try and understand.
Married men, if your wife happens to be violent, don't leave the marriage. Especially when children are involved. Stay because of your children. Remember those children need a father ? And remember also that the Lord considers divorce a very very grave sin ?
So instead of fussing around about an ordinary slap or beating that is laced with good intentions for that matter, go on your knees in prayers. The Bible records that God has the heart of kings in his hands and he controls them do his bidding. So what's the heart of your woman ? God can change it in a second. Instead of leaving pray, pray and pray hard. Don't allow the devil put asunder!
At least she might not even exercising her cheating nature yet. As my dear friend Nkechi Bianze made us to understand that it's inborn in the nature of women to cheat. So any show over anger over her violence might just cause a trigger. Then you buy two casala to yourself. Cheating and violence.
I hope God bequeaths you with the supernatural wisdom and understanding to put this "spirit ministered" post into practice
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DeleteI see what you did there...lol
DeleteHehehehehe i love 😅😅
DeleteKikikikiki
DeleteYou are really funny; sarcastically so.
DeleteHahahaha sarcasm is Bae! Loooove it!
DeleteYea sarcasm is bae
DeleteHahahahhahhaha u r mean
DeleteAnd it was guy that posted it. His name is Victor something.... Facebook has been on fire for days now
DeleteAnother Olodo
ReplyDeleteBunch of attention seekers
Oya comments roll in
ReplyDeleteI believe that discipline is good for both men and women
When you decide not to cheat no matter what the other partner does
That's discipline
Everybody is now an inspirational speaker. Chai
ReplyDeletewetin concern me
Yes naa Stella
ReplyDeleteIf husband cheat one I will cheat ten tyms
she is right. most women married and sing are cheats . YES!!! Before i got married i used to say shit that i will never cheat on my man . when i got married and found my self in mad situationship i had to change that mind set and opened my eyes and i realised MOST women cheats on their husbands or boyfriends.
ReplyDeleteWhat is good for the goose is good for the gander. Two wrongs don't make a right, but if a man is allowed to cheat and not condemned, the woman should not be condemned too
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahaha...
ReplyDeleteI love who ever wrote this!...
You hit the nail on the head!...
Kikikikikikikikiki..and to think that we are too coded about it!...
😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 I know you will dance skelewu on this post
DeleteLmao*i love this woman already*hahahaha*if they can get away with their cheating ass,why cant women do same..*yimu*listen to her @ your own risk....
ReplyDeleteGBAMEST! It's a 2 way thing. Cheating is not acceptable at all but most Naija women don't divorce their men when caught cheating.
ReplyDeleteThis should be applicable both ways
Hahahahah stella see your face. Somebody cannot follow up and play again? This is exactly what I have heard about men all my life and it seem to be normal. Now let's reverse it and see how normal it sounds again
ReplyDeleteBTW I love this lady for doing dis!
Hahahahah stella see your face. Somebody cannot follow up and play again? This is exactly what I have heard about men all my life and it seem to be normal. Now let's reverse it and see how normal it sounds again
ReplyDeleteBTW I love this lady for doing dis!
I LOVEEEEE U Nkechi my sis from another mother, let them cry all they want. One dick kills d pussy, tell them!!! If ur wife is faithful, be extra nice to her cos it takes d grace of God for a woman not to cheat. Nkay my love. #giving it back to d men, what da hell.
ReplyDeleteChaiiii I forgot to go anonymous... YIMU
The poster is just been sarcastic.... She wants men to know not only men have the right to cheat, but women also have the monopoly of cheating. Well said abeg.. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
ReplyDeleteStella what planet did she come from? She should say she is unfaithful to her spouse and not generalize it. Ajalla babe!
ReplyDeleteYinmu
DeleteThat is very true. Last year,I spoke with my girlfriend on phone at about 2.30am her own time (she's abroad). She was in bed and I heard a guy's voice,she excused herself for few minutes, she came back on phone to tell me she was alone even when I didn't ask who was with her. Kikikikiki who is fooling who?
ReplyDeleteIs this a reverse psychology??
ReplyDeleteOh yeah @fab mum
DeleteHahhaha.. That's my girl. That is sarcasm. She just turned the male to female and every body dey on top of the matter. If it were "mere ar polygamous in nature, no body will notice.. mtchew.
ReplyDelete*men are polygamous
Delete*men are polygamous
DeleteIt's obvious this person is being sarcastic. I subscribe to her school of thought though, if men can be 'born' cheaters... why not women too.
ReplyDeleteWhat's good for the goose is good for the gander..
ReplyDeleteIf men feel entitled to cheating like they do, women should feel that way too.
2 can play the game you know LMAO
This is the most daft write up I have read in months...jeeeeeez
ReplyDeleteOf course since you are a keke driver,what should we expect
DeleteThe father of daftness
You are so funny...haha
DeleteMaybe she's being sarcastic
ReplyDeleteHehehehehe.... Na wao is this joblessness?
ReplyDeleteLol. Reverse phsycology. I love this write up in a funny way. Let the male folk know that they don't have the monopoly to cheat alone. But then personally, I believe in faithfulness from both parties in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteCommon Stellz'....lol. It's sarcasm and it's obvious. Apparently giving men a dose of their medicine. That's obviously the line use by cheating men......this got me reeling in laughter
ReplyDeletethis one no serious joor
ReplyDeleteMen hate the thought of a woman cheating and they hate it more if you link cheating to a woman's nature.
ReplyDeleteCan you see how it hurts? Can you see how stupid it sounds when we hear men say it is in their nature to cheat.
Nigerian cheating men starter park is to marry a naive woman. The moment she becomes assertive and even attempt to look at another man through her side eye, they will cry, scream and roll on the floor.
I am sure her facebook comment section will be lit with comment from pained men.
The fact is, a woman no matter how wild her past is, when she gets married and gives birth, she tries to be better for her child. She can only cheat if she is not financially, emotionally and sexually satisfied. No woman wants to watch her child cry of hunger. There are few women who cheat because they crave for something new.
In the olden days, women used to marry plenty husbands. They were not limited to one. Nothing new.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
True king xoxo. I cheated for the first time in 3 years cos of hunger dealing with my child in my presence. Just cos I don't want to increase my body count, I called an old lover n he gave me 25k. I cried so much, and am down with fever now. I know m sick because of the guilt that overwhelmed me. I will be all right. This happened on Saturday.last week.
DeleteDon't cry....shit happens. Be happy
DeleteCome on darling, let me wrap my arms round you.Do anything to put food in your child's stomach won't even judge you. I'm a mother of 3 adorable kids myself and God knows I'll do anything, anything for them. Never been in that situation but God knows I'll do anything to provide for them so don't kill your self over the sacrifice you made for your child and I pray God's blessings, open doors and your helpers to locate you so you won't find yourself in such situations again.Tight hugs😘😘
DeleteLol.... The woman in each sentence, should be replaced with man.
ReplyDeleteIt is obvious that she is just being sarcastic and turning the table on men so they know how it sounds to women when they use this same argument about being polygamous in nature. It is not something that should be interpreted the way she has put it. This is so obvious.
ReplyDeleteIt is a piece laden with sarcasm and I had a good laugh when I read it.
This is just turning the the tables around for men to see how far.
ReplyDeleteWomen cheat on their husbands too,though it is sarcastic, but is quite true
ReplyDeleteShe was just being sarcastic in response to the useless excuse by men for cheating...
ReplyDeleteTo think my grandmother had 4 husband... that woman was not joking . You misbehave ... unto the next. 😂😂😂
I can't try that though.
She was just being sarcastic in response to the useless excuse by men for cheating...
ReplyDeleteTo think my grandmother had 4 husbands...that woman was not joking . You misbehave ... unto the next. 😂😂😂
I can't try that though.
Two can play the game.
ReplyDeleteI love her sarcasm.
Nkechi my husband's cousin is now forming don Jazzy on social media now. Well she is a very intelligent girl sha. Agbor girls are bae
ReplyDeleteYour horseband's cousin or "cousin"?
DeleteIn our fathers and grandfathers generation when they were marrying multiple wives upadan, all these nonsense didnt arise.
ReplyDeleteI wont cheat on my wife o. But if anything makes me do it and she finds out, I wont also tolerate nagging. I would just go ahead and marry the side chick into the house.
maybe that time, all this would stop
Hahahaha my brother do not try it o! One woman is work, then you wan add more wahala on top. For your sanity and peace, no try am
DeleteLeave am. Ode
DeleteHahahaha! It's very obvious this is sarcasm
ReplyDelete#If someone wants to be a part of your life, they will be there. Don't bother saving a spot for someone who won't make an effort to stay*
ReplyDeleteshes being sarcastic since men are always saying its in their nature to cheat
ReplyDeleteEveryone is just squeaking upandan meanwhile I am just here wishing it was true so that there will be no mermaid treatment again + no more partial male gender spending. E go too make sense abeg. Bring the punany and let's shag it to pieces.
ReplyDeleteReverse psychology how? Both parties cheat, it's just unfortunate humans don't accept reality...Let me quote Lucky Dube, White man says it's the black man and the black man says it's the white man. Have you asked yourself who the men cheat with?
ReplyDeleteHave you asked yourself what the men tell these side chicks to get them? Men that can lie for Africa. Mtscheww!
DeleteNkechi carry go joor...
ReplyDeleteNice post. Men should understand that they are not the only ones who are polygamous in nature. African men emphasize on that too much. Mtcheew
ReplyDeleteStella abeg its your responsibility not to take things out of context. That piece was reverse piece the writer used to buttress a fact that advisers should put themselves in a woman's shoes when she gets such feedbacks as counsel for a cheating man. it isn't reality she just reversed the roles. Please report and report well
ReplyDeleteI like love these. my granpa of blessed memory divorce my granma never remarry and was celibate til death.
ReplyDeleteCheated on my hubby with this fine and muscular dude at work. Chai the guy D.. is sweet. Dripping..
ReplyDeleteCheated on my hubby with this fine and muscular dude at work. Chai the guy D.. is sweet. Dripping..
ReplyDeleteThe one that amuses me most is when some men open their months and say women don't have meaningless sex. That emotions have to be involved. Who told u we don't have meaningless sex for just the fun of it? Dindirin men. Lol
ReplyDeleteDidirin abi didirin. Lol!
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