Labour Room Drama 148

This Labour Room drama really really upset me!

Good day Madam Stelz (make I no make mistake call you "aunty") you understand nau.
Now here goes my LRD.

I have three kids but I'll share the LRD of my 3rd child. I took in when my 2nd child was 1 year old, fear and shyness wan finish me eh. when the pregnancy was 3 months gone, I went to a hospital close to my house, after the Dr. checked me, he just said madam please come and evacuate the baby, cos the baby was not growing well. after i heard that kind 'news' , I ran and never went back. fear gripped me that i didn't register for anc till when the preg was 6mnths plus. at the hospital, my edd was given that i was to give birth 18th February 2014. na so o. 

I knew there was something wrong with the baby; she was lying flat, when i complained to the dr. in the private hospital, (i registered in both general and private) he carried out a scan on me and told me the baby was breeched. i cried and prayed to God. a time came, i was told she was too small and i should eat well, so i fired on with food, after like a month, she added some weight.

18th February came, no show. went for normal anc check up, told dr say no show o and my time had past. he just said i should calm, that if by 3rd march, nothing comes up , i should come to the hospital.

March 3rd came, past nothing, went back to Dr. he said, they cannot induce me since my 2nd child was birthed through cs. that i should wait. na so i continue to wait for normal labour to come. 

When i went to the general hospital, they said they didn't have the facilities for cs, that in case i go into normal labour and didn't give birth, they'll do cs so i was given a referral letter to a bigger general hospital. when i got home, i threw the letter in my drawer. ran to church the next day for prayers. you know mfm prayers nau!

Stelz sweetie, na so March take end, nothing o. April came, with my big tommy, i did fasting and prayers. April 5th, i woke up having this mentral-like pains. when i checked myself in the rest room, i saw 'show', since i was not a first timer, i didnt rush to the hospital. i had a monthly prayer programme in the church, so i attended, while in the church, the pains kept coming every 30mns, i signaled the pregnant women pastor, we went out she just prayed and told me to go in and continue with prayers. 

After service, i took myself to a retired nurse's house (this was as a result of the fear of cs) (WOMEN ABEG, DON'T TRY THIS). she induced me to augment the labour. i was in labour, bleeding already, i was already using and changing pads, i was afraid, my women pastor kept calling and praying. 

Our main pastor came and i told him i was now ready for the cs cos the pain eh, no be here. he took me away from there, cos the way i was, was scary, i took a wrong decision. still in pains, i was taken to the general hospital i was initially referred to. 

When we got there, they checked me and the Dr. said after cs, there's no bed for me that we should go to national hospital, my pastor told them they should refer me to Asokoro hospital cos we wont be able to afford national CS bill, that God would grant us favour in Asokoro hospital (my hubby was out of the country then. you mind him, he give me belle finish,come run go white man's country).

 Infact the Dr. scared us. she said that baby had less than 15mns to live, that immediately after the cs they should take the baby to incubator and that she doubts the child would make it. my elder sis was already crying. all i wanted was to be out of the pains i was in.

They reluctanclty gave us referral to asokoro general hospital, when we got there, they told the Dr. that we came for cs, and they were told to prepare me, as they were giving them my details, i just felt that urge to poo, told them, the nurse took me into the labour room, na so i climb, the nurse got confused cos she didnt know what she was seeing. she called the Dr. immediately he checked me he said ah! oya push.. 1,2 and my angel came out very thinning weighing 3kg. infact placenta separated from her, the placenta scattered on her head, just one push, the scattered placenta came out. my baby's skin was already peeled and looking rough. 

The nurses were asking me, which church i attend cos this is a miracle, its very rare for such children to survive.
Throughout the pregnancy, i did 11 scans and she stayed over 11months in the womb.


My hubby wants another child to round up the equation cos i have 2 girls and a boy. but the fear of this last pregnancy eh. anyway i'm warming up with faith cos if i dont do my job, another woman may help me. if she tries????

I didnt laugh,i didnt enjoy this,All i saw was how you tried to apply your Faith in God the wrong way,you are making Jokes becos things went well but please this was very wrong and i am in shock and have nothing else to say.

And instead of you to use your energy in taking care of the ones you have,you are panning another one and I am sure you didnt do proper check up t find out if you have a medical condition that caused your baby growing like that...you want to do another one...

Well done!