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Friday, January 06, 2017

Halima Abubakar Warns Couples To Keep Their Relationship Off The Social Media.

Nollywood actress Halima has become active again on Twitter,days after quitting Instagram...She talks about relationships being brought to the social media and i agree with her 200%.....However all i see is her lovely hairstyle....Lovely photo.






I hope her colleagues in the movie industry read her piece and give us a break with feeding us info on their every minute activity Relationship wise...its been long anyone posted about their day job and how much their industry has grown...

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58 comments:

  1. Lora6 January 2017 at 12:09

    Adupe..ese gan

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    1. I Hold my side6 January 2017 at 13:15

      What's the difference???

      Twitter, Instagram!?

      Dramaqueen.

      IS IT UR MARRIAGE???

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    2. Unknown6 January 2017 at 14:05

      Nice advice

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    3. BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'*6 January 2017 at 14:24

      I thought this lady was quitting social media? Na now I believe say truly you no well..

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    4. Unknown6 January 2017 at 14:27

      Her eyebrow looks so tacky looks like they re about to tear each other up.

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    5. Beth6 January 2017 at 17:21

      I thought she was quitting SM? So she was just leaving Instagram to twitter lmao

      This chic thirsty aswear

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    6. Shantelle's Empire6 January 2017 at 17:38

      Lmao @ bluntIjebu.
      You echoed my thoughts.

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    7. Anonymous6 January 2017 at 22:48

      Instagram kee u

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  2. Jasmine6 January 2017 at 12:10

    Crochet is bae!!!

    So it's no longer instagram, it's now twitter?

    Mtchewww

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  3. Unknown6 January 2017 at 12:10

    Can she just shut he mouth. Oniranu omo kekere

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  4. Unknown6 January 2017 at 12:10

    Hmmmmm.

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  5. Doppelgänger6 January 2017 at 12:12

    Heheheeh watch how they'd ask her to go and marry first.
    I don't know why people see the need to put everything online. Hey my husband bought me new dross.
    Hey my husband did this and that. Yes people will admire and like and say you're enjoying but you have no idea the number of people who will be rooting for that relationship to end.
    Enjoy your marriage alone, no need to announce it. Let people see you and know that yes this one marry well and is enjoying. It's not until you post everything that will make the difference. Almost all the Celebs who expose their family life have had it rough.

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    1. Fan Emmanuel 6 January 2017 at 13:01

      If they didn't post it,how will people know they're having it rosy? You self think am na

      Abeg if you got it,flaunt it!

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    2. Simple6 January 2017 at 13:09

      Always making Sence Girl...*let people see you and knw that you married well and Enjoying** Thank You doppel

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    3. Amaka6 January 2017 at 17:24

      How will people "see" you and know you're enjoying it?

      If you aren't living with them, how can you ever tell for real.

      I just hate all these rules ofdo this, don't do this..let people live their lives...

      How does she like it when she's told to go and marry? Same thing!!! People, married or single,need to be left alone to live their lives.

      These rules never helped anyone.

      Btw, it is pure fallacy to think that because you are not flaunting your marriage, you are enjoying it!

      Doesn't follow at all

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    4. Doppelgänger6 January 2017 at 19:18

      Amaka, English is not that hard. The person or persons I'm speaking to understand. You obviously don't and there is no way I can help you with that.
      I have a friend who is married in fact friends who are married. They do not have social media accounts and are very happy.
      No one is saying don't post or share your joy but limit it. Do not go online and share every damn thing that happens in the privacy of your home.
      Some women go as far as sharing the day they have sex, style, color of pant they wear and some other unnecessary things. It's also very interesting that it's mostly women that do these things and most of it is in a bid to make some other lady envious.
      Yes people are free to do what they want but don't cry when they use the things yout share online against you.
      Those people hailing the pictures will go behind to destroy it because they feel they have a right to enjoy what you're enjoying.

      Lastly, I know a lady who used to be all about her marriage on the Internet. Always posting pictures and sharing even the tiniest details about herself and her husband. Every time she shares a story, guess who gets new followers? Yes, her husband.
      Not her o but her husband and all new followers are always women. She had to stop the sharing.
      Enjoy yourself how you want but let there be a limit biko.
      Not sharing doesn't mean you're enjoying it either but at least you're suffering and smiling alone.
      Enough said!

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    5. Anonymous7 January 2017 at 10:27

      At doppelganger ganger yes.social media should not be for everything. Especially in our society. Birches are thirsty. People just think because they are posting from thier phones it's not that bad. That's like going to the market and shout everybody look at my husbands new hair cut, loom at my new bag, look at my new shoe, look at us. Its weird. I'm married. I post stuff but not that much about my hubby and family life self. I post when ther are milestones ie a friend comes to visit, a birthday , party etc. Otherwise it's just selfie really. Must everyone know your life? Haba

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  6. Anonymous6 January 2017 at 12:12

    Pls they shouldn't go..
    Stella u shldnt hv posted this, so they don't adhere to this advice... We need those juicy details frm them.

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  7. Fan Emmanuel 6 January 2017 at 12:13

    She should go and marry first. Or could it be there's no man that's willing to wife her? Chief of aunty gwemz

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    1. Unknown6 January 2017 at 13:22

      Lol doppelgänger come and see.

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    2. African Barbie6 January 2017 at 13:27

      Kindly shut up, thank you.

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    3. Lora6 January 2017 at 13:38

      Hehehehe...doppel said it!

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    4. Unknown6 January 2017 at 14:07

      Fan Emmanuel repent and give your life to Christ
      Marriage is not for everyone

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    5. Lucile coconut oil,carrot oil and black soap Abuja 070596053206 January 2017 at 16:02

      Lol,Dop said it

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    6. Shantelle's Empire6 January 2017 at 17:41

      Hahaha portable is preaching.
      Laugh want to finish me on this post.

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    7. Jasmine7 January 2017 at 02:04

      Shantelle, e no shock u? Lol.


      Fan, bia, take ur time jor

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  8. Unknown6 January 2017 at 12:15

    Hmm halima who are you indirectly referring to.

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  9. brownsugar6 January 2017 at 12:17

    Nice hair and rainbownet colored face
    Let he who has ears, hear. Every damn info on sm

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  10. Bekee-Bekee6 January 2017 at 12:17

    She should take her own advice.

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  11. ****Bbjac****6 January 2017 at 12:17

    Nice pic

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  12. Iamking Eze6 January 2017 at 12:19

    Advicing on the ills of social meddia when you can't just keep off. Yimu. Wonder why she quit instagram? she can't keep up with the fake life via pictures.

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  13. Rocky 6 January 2017 at 12:28

    She's very right though.. I don't know how people live their life on social media, you'll see something like; First selfie of the year, first dab of the year and so on. Why do people seek validation on social media so much that most times, they end up being fake to meet up with the so called trends

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  14. QUEENAMYLovesAccessBank6 January 2017 at 12:32

    I can never be caught displaying some personal details on sm. Wonder the kind of attention people seek when showing the world some things that should be hidden especially on facebook.

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    1. African Barbie6 January 2017 at 13:32

      Lol, i learnt my lesson once when i started datjng my first boyfriend and was posting his pictures everywhere.... When we broke up, everyone knew and then the amebo questions started... Many of them were even mocking me, asking me questions like i don't see ur boo's picture on ur dp again, hope no problem.. Lol. since then ive learnt to keep my relationship very private, nobody knows if i am dating anyone or not

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  15. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 6 January 2017 at 12:34

    I think 2017 is all about celebs advicing their fellow celebs and non celebs to keep their relationship away from SM..

    We have heard oooooo..
    Who will be the next celeb to preach on the same topic?

    I'm parched.. Need a drink.



    Carpe diem.

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  16. Unknown6 January 2017 at 12:34

    But Stella if they take their marriage problems off social media which other gossip will u post on here? Those kinda gist makes social media interesting. If u are a celebrity ur life will no longer be private.

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  17. Ice Queen6 January 2017 at 12:36

    Halima have turned preacher,issoriat

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  18. Chy 🌹6 January 2017 at 12:43

    Wisdom!!!

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  19. Nessa🍸6 January 2017 at 13:04

    true true true, loud it halima
    bh you are so pretty in this picture

    i have a friend, ever since she got married she no gree us rest. pic of her and her hubby plus pikin up and down sm. i am happy for her bh babe take it easy.

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  20. Anonymous6 January 2017 at 13:07

    Halima is right sha!beht I hope wen she marrys,she wld also take to her own advise o! Cos me feels is becos shs not yet gotten someone dats y shs going on dis preaching spree! Beht I can neva be seen puting any pics of any so called Boo on social media o! Am as discreet as dat!nobody de kukuma know who I date sef! Yes! I no fit shout,cos I no be Awilo! Loool!

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    1. Chikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜6 January 2017 at 14:24

      Thank you oh! My thoughts exactly. When they are single they advice like tommorow. Once they get hooked?? They can't even stick to their own advice. That's how Toke used to talk about unhappy married women until she got married and silently joined the band. I remember one episode on moments with Mo where she spoke about insecure married women bla bla. Little did we know....

      That's how one babe used to tell me that couples should stay off social media and married friends should not avoid single friends. Hehehe. When this girl got married she did WORSE. Trust me nau, I washed her with bleach and omo the day she tried that nonsense with me. No be say the guy even make sense 😏

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  21. Nonye Inspired (James Bond's Girl)6 January 2017 at 13:14

    I love her advice..you can hate the messenger and not the message..there is an OAP that put a very annoying picture with her hubby in bed who is popular as well..which i feel was very unnecessary..I feel she and her husband are trying too hard to show themselves...well said Halima!! well said..

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    1. ellie6 January 2017 at 15:22

      That one is small..wat about a medical doctor woman that displays pictures of she & her husband before /after sex picture. Very inappropriate & uncultured

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  22. Great Pretender6 January 2017 at 13:23

    ok. next??

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  23. Makason6 January 2017 at 13:36

    Loud it dear..

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  24. Anonymous6 January 2017 at 14:55

    As for me Am ok with people flaunting their love lives,love messages on social media cos because I don't know what goes on behind closed doors I don't believe in all I see.Most times those flaunting most of their loved lives are thrones in dysfunctional relationships.

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  25. UgGirl6 January 2017 at 15:55

    Oo Halima,ikuru gbago Instagram,ikuru gbadaa na Twitter!
    Jisike NNE.

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  26. UgGirl6 January 2017 at 15:56

    Oo Halima,ikuru gbago Instagram,ikuru gbadaa na Twitter!
    Jisike NNE.

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  27. UgGirl6 January 2017 at 15:57

    Oo Halima,ikuru gbago Instagram,ikuru gbadaa na Twitter!
    Jisike NNE.

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  28. Ñuriababy6 January 2017 at 18:19

    As me i don't like such pronouncements but if some people thinks is ok, they should ride on and when there is gbese, they should as well bear the blunt that comes with the show off.

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  29. sholetoga6 January 2017 at 21:47

    You're correct jare Halima .Hope they will hear ohhhhhh

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  30. Freddy Krueger7 January 2017 at 00:41

    Please STOP telling people to stop putting their lives on social media. When a child puts his hand in fire then gets burnt, he won't do it again. I don't care. If u like post urself banging your husband, na u sabi. These people were created to entertain people like us. One by one they will bite the dust but not before i am thoroughly entertained.hehehehe

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  31. Anonymous7 January 2017 at 08:29

    I disagree on the 4th comment cos the loved one can kill the love out of callousness and disregard for the other's feeling.

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  32. Deeonebaba7 January 2017 at 16:58

    Gbam! Gbamer!!! Gbamest!!!

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