Na wah oh....Na rea wah!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DESPERATE TO MARRY
I'm one of the regular BVs with blog ID ********* but I'm sending in this with my personal email.
Now the girl here is my friend and neighbour. She's supposed to be in Australia but she's been in Owerri since Xmas with a man and nobody knows.
Shes 28 without brain and wants to kill herself on top man wey no send her. I'm tired of talking, please find attached my conversation with her and share where it fits in maybe her brain will reset by the time BVs advice her.
I have her permission to share this and please blur the guys photo.
Thanks.
*Ugo your friend has low self esteem and needs to get out of that situationship fast....She cannot even force the guy to marry her and if she succeeds,she will run back out.....She even kept begging you to marry her...DESPERATE!
So her family is putting pressure on her to marry?Na wah oh....This is what happens when you push a child.
She probably followed him to Nigeria lying that she wanted to branch home....
Tell your friend to get a brain reset.I will let others advice her...
I have one question, does she live with him? If yes, then hopefully she'd receive the factory reset she needs when he kicks her out of the house.
ReplyDeleteAnd I think this is a big joke anyway.
Mtcheeew... What sort of rada rada is this? I won't waste my time commenting.
DeleteI wonder y most ladies are just too desperate to get married.....they all act as if is a curse to be single.
DeleteI don't really blame them, I blame the society we are in.
Is not about marrying early, is about marrying right.
This is one of the reasons why we have so many bad n unstable marriages.
I must marry syndrome
Are there still girls like this one?
DeleteMadam where's your pride?
Free that guy now
I don't know what to say honestly...She's hell-bent on destroying herself. It's sad though.not only is this a self esteem issue,she has no value for herself/self-worth.
DeletePls buy books from T.D JAKES and read I beg you...
The path you are on...hmmm..it's destructive.you are one of those who'd be in an abusive marriage and still stay put without crying for help.
Marriage shouldn't define you.
It's sad
Madam, just like Ugo said, work on yourself, get a business or learn something like fashion, beauty, catering or anything that you can do to stay on your own.
DeleteSee ehn, lemme tell you the truth, the guy has someone already. He won't marry you, he's just using you to reduce loneliness. I'm sure he's telling his friends how ones gold digger is chasing him upandan. Better receive sense and move on. You're with a guy who doesn't love you, you should even be ashamed of yourself honestly. Devil is using you to play ten ten. Mschew.
If you like stay na, what is eve my own, all I know is that he won't respect you one bit.
Please go ahead and marry him since you lust after him shamelessly. This ain't love. You think it's love? It's not. You are just carried away with his looks(dats if he's fine even) his money(even though he doesn't spend on you. What u think he spends is nothing compared to what he really has, cos e no send u!) and probably the kinda sexing he gives u. He fucks u real good, right? Dazzit!
DeleteSo as I said, go ahead and continue to fantasize being wifey, cos d dude I see here won't even marry you. Your easy going pussy is what he's enjoying. When he's got his feel, I mean when the pussy becomes tough, he won't be ashamed to send u packing.
So go ahead.. if he eventually doesn't mind wifing you up, good luck. But make sure you your chronicles ain't lengthy, cos I rly don't suffer fools gladly and gat no much patience. Cheers,baby.
Portable viv, you're part of the society that makes people desperate. You call 30years old single girls gwegs.
DeleteHey swaggy lafresho, tank u shez part of d society.
DeleteDon't mind her, na even "gwems" she dey call them. Bloody hypocrite
DeleteThank you @Lafresh, i'm surprised that portable mrs married woman viv is making such comment, after calling people gwegs here. Okay now its about marrying right not early abi?
DeleteEnd time desperation
ReplyDeleteHahahaha the girl is funny Hahahahhhhhh.
DeleteNo blame her, no good Man oh, no good man.happy I have someone within family to marry i have been betrothed to.
We love ourself so much... Growing up we have been dating Recently hd my engagement, dude can't wait.
No good husband few good men out there. ladies make the mistake when they r young.
Hook up with your university boyfriend they r the once u would later fall back to.
Those girls who were doing runs following married men in school r still looking for who to marry while the young guys they rejected hv gotten jobs ND r now doing well for themselves.
Now the girls look like gwegwgegwge to them.
It's easier if u had boyfriend in school u stick to.
Count the number of years u have finished dude is made u r still single. U thought he won't make it on time.
This girl may end up marrying him sha she should keep trying.
Real desperation. She should take advice from her friend. He's a guy and spoke from men's perspective.
DeleteIs this even a chronicle? Your friend has made up her mind. It's up to her. You've advised her as a friend. I don't get why her family should be pressuring her.Is she that old? The right man will come of she cools down
ReplyDeleteThis conversation sounds like a joke or a made up something honestly. Because I don't want to believe a girl will be this naive ,foolish and annoying. It's not just possible. I know people are desperate and all that but Biko, e no reach like this..
DeleteFab mum, read the advice you gave the guy from yesterday's chronicle, sound! Pls, when last did Fab dad give u a good licking & thumping? You deserve several rounds a day for the rest of the year! I volunteer o...lol!
DeleteIf only she could see the future and know the kind of big ditch she is digging for herself to fall into...
ReplyDeleteThis conversation sounds like a joke to me though...or maybe that's how she talks.
But if you are for real, go ahead and be ready to write a chronicle to Stella 2 months after your wedding (that's if your fad of a marriage lasts that long).
May God pick her call very soon. I understand how she feels. Its not easy being called names everyday. I just pray God sees her try,even if the guy end up not marrying her,let God show up for her and give someone better.
DeleteSee desperation!...
ReplyDeleteJesu!...
She should knack a pigeon on his head nah if she really want to marry him!...
She sounds naive!...
She no know ihe aruga!...
Yes she should bath with the blood of the white pigeon
DeleteNa real knack pigeon
DeleteHahahahahaha
DeleteUgo, he looks like you...lmao
She is not serious.
You think pigeon is cheap these days? Not everyone can afford pigeon oh. Won't fowl work?
DeleteHahahaha,lmao @Nina, you no well sha.Are pigeons expensive though?
DeleteAs for the chronicle,RIP ENGLISH!!
Hehehe na real pigeon
Deletehahahahaha ife ne me nu wa oo.
ReplyDeleteAbeg no need to advice her jare. Ugo go and marry her or tell her to read chronicles wey plenty here, may be she go get sense
Hmmmmm. This is real@
DeleteLord May I never get to a stage of Desperation for Marriage. Amen.
Until you wear her shoes, you'll know where it pinches.
Not easy. I feel for you dear. May Your Man find u soon
Let her just read chronicles, nobody will tell her to pack her load and run
DeleteI will be in ur church today, hope I will see u there lovemejeje?
DeleteLolo second marriage? Or which other one
DeleteOh...you are male? The person who sent this in?
ReplyDeleteI hope this ain't a way to advertise yourself and cool your ego cos the kain wiring wey some man get odikwa very faulty.
The last part of your comment got me laughing so bad.
DeleteYour friend must be ugly and fat, cos I don't understand why she wants to marry a man who does not love her, tell her I said she's one of the stupid low self-esteem bitch, that make men think they are blessing to women, idiotic girl, u better go and work on your weight before you die untop man matter.
ReplyDeleteChop kiss nnem. Tell her the bitter truth.
DeleteHahahhaahha...Ure always mean..😂😂😂😂
DeleteI say no, do not force yourself
ReplyDeleteChai this is very sad
ReplyDeleteEzinne's self esteem has been completely crushed by God knows who
My dear if you're reading this, please do yourself a big favour and leave that guy right away! He is only using you and once he has had enough... he'll dump you like a big sack of potato
Please pack up your stuff and leave his place. Find a way and go back to Australia... you can either go back to school or find a job. Don't be sooo desperate to get married, else you're going to end up with a monster who'll make your life a living hell.
Ezinne darling your own man is out there somewhere waiting for you, just be patient till he finds you okay? Hugs
Desperado of the highest order! Gosh!!! Human beings are truly different.. Poster, that your friend needs a manual reset. Pls kindly go give her one asap. Thank God for I just can't STOP loving my beaurriful self day by day. My peace of mind matters before any other thing biko. Brb to read comments
ReplyDeleteThe guy don see your friend finish! Tufiakwa!!! Never seen this kinda complete zero self esteem in a long while.
DeleteLoving yourself abi man no gree look your side @ Sandy Neky? This world have finished, see who's advising and claiming self love oooo, chai, Internet eeeeee! You that is the height of desperation? You that jumps upandan on this blog hoping that maybe, just maybe a man will notice you and price your market? You that is old, wrinkled and very ugly?
DeleteAbeg abeg abeg, carry your ugly faced, yammy legged, abacha eating self outta here! Find abacha and palmy joint go, your mates dey there,.......and yes, I refuse to use my id, I no send you!
Abi
DeleteAnon 16:02, there's absolutely nothing wrong in advertising yourself. If you don't advertise yourself, how will you be noticed ? As long as it's done decently. Where the problem lies is when you allow yourself to be used as a rag by another human being just because you want a man.
DeleteUgo, your friend doesn't seem like one that listens to advice, she may have to learn the her lesson the hard way. Just pray for her.
Anon you be fool. See what internet has turned you to.You even had to hide your ID.please reduce your bitterness so you can live long.
DeleteAnnon. Good you noticed her too. I think was a chronic bysexual, looking to recruit her protege's like issacson and the like of ideato.
DeleteShe's a desperate girl @ Sandy. Mrs imaginary haters
The girls mind is made up.
ReplyDeleteSimple. No amount of talk will change her mind. I know her type. She will hang on to that guy and let him continue to use her until the day he will bring his real wife home and ask her to get out! Then where will that leave her? Bitter and more confused. How do you even keep bugging a guy to come see your parents? He will just smell desperation all over you and desperate chicks are a turn off for guys!
DeleteSimple. No amount of talk will change her mind. I know her type. She will hang on to that guy and let him continue to use her until the day he will bring his real wife home and ask her to get out! Then where will that leave her? Bitter and more confused. How do you even keep bugging a guy to come see your parents? He will just smell desperation all over you and desperate chicks are a turn off for guys!
DeleteAwwwww I wish your friend self love and respect.she sounds really nice
ReplyDeleteDs one is just looking for one safe corner to fix herself... She really need epp. Ewu!
ReplyDeleteAll I see is an air head girl desperate for marriage. ( I hate to cuss people but am allergic to stupidity)
ReplyDeleteDon't worry when the guy dumps her, her eyes will clear.How can you be begging a 28yr old to receive sense.
This one is nonsense and ugba mixed together. *long hiss*
This 1 na real way!
ReplyDeleteWah!
DeleteUgo please let her marry him, what's your own sef? You can just change some people's mind, she's desperate and needs to start making babies, let her achieve her aim, don't be a stopping block for her
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
The way some girls pursue marriage like say na ticket to heaven. The truth is not everyone will marry. Madam, work on yourself and the right man will locate you that is if u r destined to marry.
ReplyDeleteWow! I hope she's not fucking him for free and doing wifey things. He's not into her. A man's love for a woman is something that can't be hidden. He'll only use her and go back to his real girlfriend or find someone else! Omg! Desperation at its peak! A man is supposed to chase you! Recession or not! People are getting married everyday, meeting in unusual places, building great relationships. Gosh have some self respect! How can you beg a man for love? How?? Please gather your sense wherever you kept it and zoom off.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahah this girl na psycho laughing @ I have found myself I want to find a man" chisos let her see a psychologist mbok
ReplyDeleteSome girls can be very desperate when it comes to marriage; they even act worst when they are stupidly in love with a guy who doesn't want them.
ReplyDeletePoster, your friend is wasting her precious time with that guy! He doesn't want to wife her, the earlier she received some senses the better for her.
If she forced herself on that guy, she will regret it all her life, even after leaving the marriage (because the marriage will not last, the guy will misuse and maltreat her).
She thinks she's in love with him; but I think she's is infatuated and obsessed with him. She need someone that will love and respect her for who she is. You can't beg a man to marry you because you will keep begging him to stay.
The girl should not send herself to early grave just because she wants to get married. She should face her job, take good care of herself, and she will see suitors lining in queue for her. The time wasted with someone that is not into you is worse than losing millions in cash. That time can never be gotten back.
If she end up with that guy in a loveless marriage, she will regret it forever and she will be sending Stella Dimoko chronicles in few years.
Na wa!! So things like this exist? Sister u better wake up and clean ur eyes cos if u don't, this "fine" brother will use u to see hell and back. You love him accepted! As he doesn't love u obviously, it's time to use the door. It may not be easy but u have to look at the bigger picture. Stay and regret it after three children or leave now and look back later thanking God that u did of course. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteShe should borrow herself brain and free the guy! Ozuo
DeleteYour friend shld please take her time. Why the rush? Marriage is not something you rush into. She should develop herself like you said.
ReplyDeleteI stopped taking the convo seriously when she said she wants to be like Cookie from empire. Did she see cookie begging any man to marry her? Isn't she smart and focused? This your friend is really desperate and she should be careful for he gets seriously scammed and hurt. I am sure its her desperation that is driving men away.
ReplyDeleteChat too long to read.
ReplyDeleteI'm 23,my boyfriend is 31 and not ready to marry till nx yr but I av a lot of suitors coming for me. A guy of 45, I don't love him, but he loves me so much. Av another guys of 37,35,40.i love my boyfriend so much. Advice from pple is to settle with one that is ready now and loves me more.
ReplyDeleteWhere are you rushing to? Is marriage now market that you have to rush to and get back before night falls? You are 23 for Gods' sake calm down give him 2 or 3yrs to put his acts together while you focus on establishing your self then marry at 25 or 26. To think you are even contemplating on consenting to 40-45 is annoying
DeleteTalk to your boyfriend about it and please stop sleeping with him.
DeleteIt's a difference relationship, had Sex jst once with my boyfriend.
DeleteAt age 23 i was still meeting new folks and having fun even i was in a relationship. This is your time to live your life. Marriage is a lifetime commitment.(divorce is not an option. However separation is always an option if things go wrong but you must remain single as long as the other person is alive- according to the bible.) You love your bf so much yet you're thinking about marrying someone else. Hello!!!!! Which yeye love? Do you even consider your own happiness or to be a MRS is important to you? Always put yourself first. And wait till 25 before making any drastic decisions. Your prefrontal cortex is still developing (it helps with decision making. It stops growing at the age of 25. Even at that people still make stupid decisions. Anyway to each his own.
DeleteIf its beacause he looks like ugo that's why u love him more sister ur head needs reset,ugo is ur friend yet u noticed he is engaged that's y u stopped tripping biko com and tell more,he is made and u no fit leave am for this recession,ugo said u left him cause he Neva hammer,hmmm this kind friend ship self.
ReplyDeleteThe guy already knows you are desperate and won't take u serious trust me,why dont u pack your things go back to base,get busy with your life do things to better your life a Man will com when its time,Don't stress yourself over anyone disturbing u to get married so you don't end up regretting it.when a man knows you are desperate he takes advantage of you,no one deserves that. Wait for ur man.
My God!do we still have people like dis...am ashamed as a woman.kai!dis one na yam head ooo..no brain at all bcos if I say fish,e still get sense...if u can drop where to reach you,make we reset that your brain.You are just a COWARD!am sorry..you think marriage is about sex and food?gush!!wonderment!!i tell you won't last 4mnth in his house.am pissed.
ReplyDeleteMy friend was desperate about marriage like this two years ago,she met a guy and got pregnant sharply,guy was in a relationship & only came to chop & clean mouth.They got married after so many street fights,insult & all.Guy isn't in love,treats her like thrash,no respect of any kind,still uses his girlfriend picture as DP.I warned her then but she wouldn't listen cos I am married,all her friends are married so we won't understand how lonely she is.She is licking her wounds right now so my dear ezinne,let him go,Love yourself & a man who will love you for who you are will find you.Dont beg any man to stay with you or marry you,it ain't worth it.Marry your best friend,not a man who will feel he did you a favor by marrying you
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to say but no man, I repeat, no man wants to be hunted down and forced or coerced into marriage. If it ever happens then believe, the marriage is dead on arrival except the lady is willing to take the plenty bullshit that will follow like : cheating, lack of respect, emotional abuse or for the violent guys it turns physical etc. This guy will literally distaste you! The sight of you will upset him enough to want to throw up.
ReplyDeletePlease, I am asking you to run for your dear life. It is clear he doesn't love and you know that much. Except brain ain't working and you are cut out to be a slave for the rest of your life; just run as fast and far your legs can take you.
Are you not 28years old? What is the desperation for exactly? I feel pity for you really bcuz no guy will definitely want to settle for a desperate 28years old.
Listen to your friend abeg u....
Na craze dey worry your friend, na by force?
ReplyDeleteShe's so marriage hungry she wants "anything male", see the way she was even begging you to marry her, that's how she probably begs every male she knows to marry her, hian!
No love, nothing, she just wants to get married?
Na wah!
I don't know what to tell her because she seems fixated on getting married, I suggest you leave her, let experience teach her. She not going to listen anyway.
Love cannot be forced!
SHARONNA
For you big headed friend, a Virgo man can only fall in love with you if you give him space, don't be clingy,be friends with him and stop showering him with too much love, most importantly make sure you are clean like very clean that is so important to a Virgo.walk away from this dude without explanation just ghost him and see him being confused and he would chase you.am telling you this cos am a Virgo and this is how virgos behave if you are judging by zodiac sign it's relative. Don't know how gals kill themselves over men.love yourself first trust me if you find a man who adores you and you feel what real love is?you would hate yourself for running after one crazy dude who doesn't care about you in the first place.that gal already sounds dumb and unintelligent which is the biggest turn off for virgos,Australia my foot.
ReplyDeleteAsin no be small situationship aunty stellz
ReplyDeleteEiya I feel for her o, OMo but that Gee fine oo make I no lie, I see why she dey die like that, ladies wait for me, by the time am 25 ee, na die una dey, I just dey pity all this small ones around, I know say devil wan make I gv them belle, to finally finish up my career, he knows it won't work... Nne do him jazz Abeg
I think I know this guy. He's from Enugu but lives in Australia, he told me he has a son and we used to talk alot on phone and also chat on Facebook. We connected via Facebook and he was even inviting me to Enugu the last time he was in the country but after the case of Cynthia osokugo, I don't see myself trusting anyone from social media, so I stopped talking to him.
ReplyDeleteIf he doesn't love your friend, I think she should walk away. My elder sister got married at 31. The man proposed to her the day they met at MMIA, and she thought it was a joke but he came back 3mths later and they had their introduction and registery, 8mths later, they had their traditional marriage and church wedding. Today, they are blessed with a healthy baby boy.... to think my sis was killing herself untop one barrister matter, that didn't even love her as much.
The truth is, there is a man for every woman, just pray and let the spirit of God guide you. Marriage is not a race and there is no competition in life, as our destinies are different. At the end of the day, age is just a number
Lazy crazy ass b**ch ..borbor we dey side kick and side chick am.. don't leave him o my advice .. e go leave u soon and u r gonna c his wedding pic on fb and since u know dis blog now den send chronicles yourself .. I'm impatiently waiting...
ReplyDeleteNne don't do this to yourself bc of a man. Get a job and get busy. D right man will come. Kisses to u. A man can't love u if u don't first love yourself enough. Discover yourself first and follow your vision. The right man will come running.
ReplyDeleteEzinne use nu sense GI biko, what's all these, NNE grow up please. The guy don't love you and you want it by force, later you will still run to Ugo to disturb him with stories that touch the heart, abeg free the guy and just like Ugo said NNE please find yourself because seriously you are lost
ReplyDeleteWhat i see here is a girl in love with the poster.The other guy is a fake version of her true love who happens to be the poster.If you are into her please let her know.
ReplyDeleteAll the best to your friend
ReplyDeleteLove indeed makes one stupid !
This chronicle get as e be abeg.
ReplyDeleteMake I face front.
That is ehn.. lol
DeleteThis guy will dump you.
ReplyDeleteBut why do girls go to live with a guy who have not paid their bride price?
What does this girl do in Australia; if it is regular paying job, isn't she supposed to be working now?
If it is "irregular"paying job; is it what I think; prosti8ution; could it be why the guy is avoiding her?
Again; is it possible she had aborted for him before; most men will not want to take chances with a girl that had aborted for them or at all.
Wish girls will have sense to resist desperation.
Some people get things others sweat for without having to lift an arm, some girls meet nice men and b4 u say jack they are heading to the alter (same with some men)..even in business,career, normal platonic friendship,just anything u can think of.. now some people are so unlucky or less favoured, they stay hundred years b4 dey get dat dream job/ business.... so u kept on telling her to develop her self, what will you say of a situation of young ladies doing fine in their business or career,they are not begging for money,just to meet a good man who will love them & wife them is like a herculean task,u hear stories like its family problem,they are been bewitched,or whatever, & I know men too who are passing thru such,& u keep saying they lack self esteem ,abeg that is story, I hate to hear words like she/he lacks self worth,or haven't developed themselves ..please! biko stop!! Life is just too unfair, what that girl needs now is pure heartfelt encouragement,& not the gra gra way you are advising her,u are doing it the wrong way,she alrdy knows all you are saying but cant help herself,she needs to be sat down & talked to, even Stella's advice no make sense! It is only the knowledge of Christ & knowing that he can settle you no matter the delay,plus the fact the sometimes life can be that way. If she even makes a mistake let it be,she will learn...some people here will open their rat mouth to cause but they should all chop shit!
ReplyDeleteWish u could see my face while reading. Pack ur stuffs and borrow leg, let him come after u if he cares. What ladies go through all in the name of love, mbok God help us.
ReplyDeleteThis one is a hungry Grl looking for a meal ticket,girl get something doing FAST!!!
ReplyDelete@Ugo d Poster. Dat babe is in love with u not d guy she is claiming to be with...
ReplyDeleteShe wants u to be jealous and ask her out...
U self borrow urself some senseeee
She has her eye on you...
ReplyDeletePls my natural hair sisters help me out. I use dudu osun soap to wash, a live in conditioner thereafter and coconut oil but hair is still strong and elastic plus it's beginning to turn dusty (Infact, that's my major headache now). What do u think is responsible for the dusty look pls? Could it be attributed to the dudu osun soap? I was wondering if I should go back to using shampoo. #whitediamond and others, pls kindly respond. Thanks in anticipation
ReplyDeleteYou need something heavier to add to your hair after putting conditioner e.g. shea butter, cocoa butter etc. Also make your hair is wet when putting it in and try watching some youtube videos on natural hair
DeleteStop using Dudu osun to wash. Even though it is a natural 'shampoo' , it is dries out the hair by stripping it of oils. Use conditioner to wash. Your hair will still be very clean and will be soft.
DeleteAlso, get a bottle, put part oil and part coconut oil ( or whatever oil you wish) spray on the hair EVERY NIGHT and then cover with a silk bonnet ( think cele church kind of hair cover). You hair will retain moisture and get silkier with each passing day.
Mscheew! Going back to IHN to continue my drama
ReplyDeletePlease mummies in the house help me calm my nerves down lol.
ReplyDeleteI will be 20 weeks by Satday and I'm yet to feel my baby kick. This alone scares me and I really can't concentrate. This is the only child that has survived this far out of three. Someone please tell me exactly what I want to hear. I'm super tensed already.
Though my body is changing everyday and I don't feel pains that will make me think otherwise. I read that I will start to feel my baby's movement from 18 weeks and nothing yet.
Please those with experience kindly advise thank you.
One step at a time mama. In few days you will feel your little one's movement. Some babies throw punches while others jab you here and there nothing serious. You on the other hand worry too much and if you keep worrying like this you will end up with high blood pressure which might lead to preclampsia. Calm down. This baby is here to stay. This year is your miracle year. Sending hugs your way .
DeleteCalm down sister. Quickening (the first time a woman feels her baby kick) doesn't happen at the same time for every one. For first time mom's, it's felt at about 20wks, for women who hv delivered before, at about 16weeks. So uve got no cause for alarm. Jst calm down inugo. Baby will kick soon.
DeleteBTW, my natural sisters make una answer me na. I don ask ques above. My hair is dusty, I need a solution. Thanx
Calm down sister. Quickening (the first time a woman feels her baby kick) doesn't happen at the same time for every one. For first time mom's, it's felt at about 20wks, for women who hv delivered before, at about 16weeks. So uve got no cause for alarm. Jst calm down inugo. Baby will kick soon.
DeleteBTW, my natural sisters make una answer me na. I don ask ques above. My hair is dusty, I need a solution. Thanx
I felt the first move at 22 weeks dear. You could also go for a scan to see if the placenta is anterior as that can dull the baby movement
DeleteYour friend is suffering from a crushed self esteem... Haba!..how can a person hate herself so much..you can't force a man to love you,move on!!
ReplyDeleteEzinne let me advice you sisterly, gently pack your things and go back to where you came from with what is left of your self worth. Don't give him any reason, don't call him, if he does, be warm and casual. Make him know you are no longer into him. He may be disturbed and try to find out why the sudden change, peacefully keep an aura of mystery, men love mysterious women. If he is yours, he will come back to kiss your feet and even beg you to marry him. If he is not yours, move on, another, probably better will find you. Eligible men are not scarce, but most are weary of desperate ladies, so they keep off till they find a lady that gives them the chasing thrill. They love challenge, not easy virtues. So Ezinne. step up your game!
ReplyDeleteAbeg she is just pulling conversations with u and having fun, and u took it soo serious. Abeg
ReplyDeleteDon't know what to say jare! This lady don enter one chance o! *Walks away*😑
ReplyDeleteSee what desperation is making girls do. And to think she knows the guy doesn't love her, she is still forcing herself on him. This is what make some guys lie to some girls till the babe will see the guy's wedding pics on fb or Instagra. Mtchweess.
ReplyDeleteNawa ooo I guess the comments are enough to restore u to factory setting. Pls who is involved in GHW? Pls how do I go about it?
ReplyDeletePlease why did you include her picture. Anyone who knows her will recognise her from the watsapp profile pic. Not nice. Please try to remove her face.
ReplyDeleteUgo let her be, i think pple from her village are upon her CASE and she will soon recover once their deed is done.
ReplyDeleteGirl if you can read me run for your life and always let the man love you more.
You will be fine.
V boring chronicle . Desperate ladies round the globe . My eye self come dey pain . To think some ladies are just foolish . Oya na .EZinne go n pay the guy groom price . Reminds me of one ezinne that is also v desperate . Or is this how all ezinnes are wired ? ....
ReplyDeleteEzinne if that is you on the dp,you are too beautiful for this. Don't set your self up for failure. Lots of other guys will die on top your matter. Leave this one the right person will come. Don't die on top this bobo matter. There's someone out there that will kiss the groud you walk on. Don't be foolish.
ReplyDeletemadam Ezinne, just leave the guy alone. if you are staying with him, just pack out and return to your family house and tell them not to boda you with marriage talks. how old are you sef? me wey dey talk to you i am 36 a female not married and not in any relationship, i am a pure Aquarius and i love the fact that i am independent minded. i dont depend on any man,not that i a proud(seems so) but i carry myself with prestige. men will run after you if you re package yourself. raise your head up high, mingle and make friends, dont even mention marriage to any guy you meet. pray too.
ReplyDeleteas for this guy, free him abeg. dont call, dont text. if he does pick after the 2nd call as for text dont reply immediately. he will be wondering whats happening. if he chases you then you know he likes you, if not, babes MOVE ON. LIFE IS MORE THAN JUST BEING MARRIED.
So why aren't guys running after u?
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ReplyDeleteSome of you are just here cussing her out yet you do worst. She is human, sometimes we feel we are stuck with some people but with time we find ourselves back. I am so sure there was a time the guy in question was showing her so much love and she got carried away. The good thing here is that she understands the guy doesnt love, I can guarantee that it won't be long before she finds herself and let go of him. It really hurts to know that her parents are also putting pressures on her.
ReplyDeleteY blur de guy pic leaving the girl's pic open.
ReplyDeleteNot nice sha.
She needs a job not marriage.
I'm sorry to say this, but this girl is a big time mugu
ReplyDeleteI think at the beginning of every chronicle, SYB, Meeting point etc., the writers should specify their gender. I read the whole thing thinking the writer is a lady until I got to the end.
ReplyDeleteIf she refuse to get a brain please you people should let her be, you cannot tell a blind man that is raining, when the ear refuse to listen when you cut off the head the ear too will follow. Leave her alone biko she is not a baby.
ReplyDeleteLike Rolex Chick said, date your university boyfriend, or nysc boyfriend sef. They always turn out nice if only you have patience.
ReplyDeletePoster tell your friend to let go of that guy, love is like respect, it is earned and not forced. What is she doing in Australia? If she is working 3 jobs she will not have time to chase men around. EZINNE GET WELL SOON from that guys d*@k disease.
Ds girl de craze
ReplyDeleteI don't blame her, different path for different folks. It's important we address the problems facing the unmarried on time...men are few, the responsible ones are fewer, even the well to do are scares. All you see are beautiful unmarried ladies and you think there's no problem? The truth be told, most pentecostal churches have programmes for ladies sugar coated in the names ranging from singles, meeting ur spouse etc...when you attend this programmes you will 85% beautiful ladies and 15% guys, so how do you balance the equations? This reality created more gigolo's to prey on women...
ReplyDeleteEzinne you are a fool and a waste of sperm!!! How did you get such a low self esteem? Who did that to you? receive brain IJN. And start by loving yourself. The right guy will surely find you.
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