RIGHT OF REPLY -Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

Hehehehehehheeh this Chronicle is getting so many replies oh..what is going on?

Hello Stella

So this chronicles of BVN you posted day yesterday 

( http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2016/11/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_29.html#more ) made me smile. It sounded so much like something my husband would write/say, even though the facts are not the same and some things have been changed but there are many similarities between our situations.


I thought about it all night and decided to write a reply, in the event that it is from my husband, so he can think about why our sex life is the way it is. Please post it without my email address. Thank you.


My husband and I had sex a few times before we married and it was just there, you know how sex can be after a long time of celibacy, so I didn't think much of the lack of fireworks. In fact the first time we had sex, he practically forced me using his legs and muscles to open my legs and chook his thing inside, pushing my panties aside.


Fast forward to after marriage, we had sex on our wedding night and it was okay too, the euphoria of getting married and all. We honeymooned for like 3 days at a cheap hotel. The honeymoon was just boring. No flowers on the bed, nothing to make it romantic. I just swallowed my disappointment and made the most of the situation. I got pregnant soon after and at a point, I had threatened miscarriage and the doctors ordered pelvic rest and no sex but my husband will not gree. I tried to manage as best as i could, coping with the contractions I get every time we had sex and praying that I carry my baby for the full 9 months. Sometimes I will give my husband blow job, you know, just to avoid the sex so that my baby will not come down. Stella would you believe that when we had misunderstanding, my husband called me ashewo and abused the hell out of me that how can i know how to give a man blow job.


Fast forward to the 8-9th month of the pregnancy, that last one month was the only time I've enjoyed sex as a married woman because the big belle forced us to adopt a different position with me being on top or we sit facing each other. My husband didn't like that position but he had to manage it as doggy had him hitting my cervix which was already low and thus very painful and the missionary style was impossible due to my big pregnancy. Did I mention that the only styles my husband knows is doggy and missionary? Which other styles are there? I don't know oh!!!


After I had my baby, we didn't have sex for 3 months because we had a major misunderstanding after I gave birth and we didn't settle it for like 3 months.


Now to the current reason for the boring sex, Stella, I'm married to someone who can never listen to correction or accept suggestion. I don't want to be x-rated but let me try to explain a bit. My husband is hairy and doesn't shave even down there. I've asked him to shave so many times but he refuses. He is not patient for me to get wet before poking his P plus plenty long hairs inside. He is so hairy that I often get bruised in my vulva from the plenty hair coupled with being dry. When I try to show him how to touch me or where to touch me he will complain that he is not in a classroom receiving lecture. He will just be rubbing outside my laps or dipping his overgrown nails inside me and all those don't turn me on. I try to show him where to touch but he will complain. If I tell him to talk to me while doing the do, he will complain. To suck bobby nko? He will just hang mouth there and when you touch it after he has removed his mouth, it will be very dry. He will wear boxers and just remove the P through the opening in the fly to have sex.


No matter how dry I am, he will just shove it inside, thrust and come and then fall asleep. No cuddling nothing. This has been the case since the beginning of the marriage till now, so its not that my body receptors changed after having a baby. Trying to talk to him about it always causes big issues so I have resolved to let him be. I open the door whenever he wants but since it brings me no pleasure, I can't initiate sex. In fact, when I tried initiating sex shortly after we married, wearing lingerie and all those things, he told me those things don't turn him on and only ashewos are forward for sex.


Being good in bed is very subjective and if your current partner does not think you are good in bed, then you are not good at all. Maybe the previous ones were just faking it but me I will not fake anything again. Do your chicken dance and get up and go. Dazall.


Stella biko hide my address oh. Thank you.