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Thank you for this opportunity and Weldone! You are such a light, God bless you.
My Story
I can not believe I am doing this " I muttered'' as I crawled out of my bed. Looking at the clock, it was 3:25am. I walked to my reading desk, powered my laptop as i juggled down memory lane in an attempt to do justice to Stella question "The Meeting Point"?
You See! In 2007, when I was in my second year at the University and I had just encountered Christ, we were encouraged to write down things we needed from God and we were to be specific. I flipped back to the last page of my church jotter and wrote down everything i needed in my husband. I was very specific that I even included his height and hair style (she laughs). I prayed honestly to God, trusting Him to do as I prayed.
Seven Years Later, I stumbled upon my old church jotter and as I was flipping through the pages I saw all the things I wrote down concerning my husband. I smiled, because I knew God answers prayers. The truth is that I did not know he does pays attention to little details.
You know that African adage that says "what you are looking for in Sokoto is right in your Shokoto" that pretty much explains our story. DH and I were neighbours, we greet when we see, gist a few times.I said ''when we see'' because we rarely see though neighbours. Wooh! this dude is smart and neat(my observations) but trust me, there was nothing more to that. I never saw him in that light, I just knew I had utmost respect for the young man.
Being Neighbours gave me the opportunity to study him closely. I must say His love for God and Humanity is simply contagious. Did I mention he is very disciplined, hmmm! In my own words, I would say "He is a fine gentleman".
Shortly, we became friends and then good friends. We gisted a lot, about our values, similarities, differences, goals and expectations in life. One Saturday Morning as I was cleaning my house, he came in to tell me he was moving out but not until he has told me about his undying love for me. OMG! this same guy I got utmost respect for was saying what to me? (Hehe)
I was perplexed truly.
As a chic, I just smiled(Inside of me I was thrilled), told him I appreciated the fact that we are good friends but he still wants us to be an item that I would get back to him(Winks).
Having trained myself to always double check everything even when I was certain, yet I still asked God for a sign. God and I had a good talk, and through prayers and the word of God He told me it is predestined.
I love my Husband so much and totally grateful to God for everything. Whenever, I tell people I met my hubby in my house, the look on their faces is always priceless. God did it for us, He will do it for you If only you believe.
Two years later, I showed him my book(Old Church Jotter) and he was amazed that he fits in perfectly.
That is my story, I really hope this story will give hope to some girl out there. Stella dear, thank you. Xoxo
Having trained myself to always double check everything even when I was certain, yet I still asked God for a sign. God and I had a good talk, and through prayers and the word of God He told me it is predestined.
I love my Husband so much and totally grateful to God for everything. Whenever, I tell people I met my hubby in my house, the look on their faces is always priceless. God did it for us, He will do it for you If only you believe.
Two years later, I showed him my book(Old Church Jotter) and he was amazed that he fits in perfectly.
That is my story, I really hope this story will give hope to some girl out there. Stella dear, thank you. Xoxo
*WOW!.....Please for the sake of others who might not know and be asking God for a sign....can someone please explain how this asking God and showing signs thing works?
Enter your comment...lovely story. God plz give me my own man na. hv trained myself for a good man. plz help me locate him.
ReplyDeleteIt's not ur job to locate him my dear. Eve didn't find Adam. Your husband will locate u IJN!
Deletehmmmmmm beautiful
ReplyDeleteThe first step to hearing from God is being born again and building your relationship with Him. If you are not familiar with someone you won't recognize his voice when he speaks. Hearing God is steps away from being a Christan or going to church and a step away from being born again
DeleteOta's wifey.. Thanks
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ReplyDeleteAwwwwww..... so sweet feels like telemundo
ReplyDeleteAwwww
ReplyDeleteNeighborhood love. Good thing he moved out if not ona for marry and you move to the next gate lol.
ReplyDeleteI Like.
Hahaha
DeleteIn d other room lol
DeleteBeautiful story
ReplyDeleteI was kinda expecting more than this cos you started it as a story lol
Me too
DeleteI don't understand this story biko. Anyway congratulations.
ReplyDeleteAre you xoxo mystery?
Nice and simple.God bless your home
ReplyDeleteRME!
ReplyDeleteaww,nice.its very good to be specific and not just ask for anything.i had a friend that married her next house neighbor as well.some search far while others just need to look across.
ReplyDeleteGod speaks in a variety of ways. And before marriage, it's always wise to seek the face of God. Just be sure that it is God speaking because Satan too sends signs.
ReplyDeleteSeven ways God speaks to us
Awwwww, Matt. 6:33 & 34 sure works! It will work for me too, amen!
ReplyDelete... Jesus is my worth!
In my dreams, at Times in a trance
ReplyDeleteIdioto,you hearing God how, when with dis ur lies, u're seeing trance Uhmmmmm I raise Beyonce hand for u ooooo. Make u no let God shut dat ur yeyeye eyes 4 una o
DeleteLol @ idioto. I thought I was the only one who thought that... Funny name sha
Deleteall my years i wana know God but it seems.........well,i just need God to direct all my affairs...dear God i know you reading this..please come help me...i cant do it on my own....i need you...i need to know how it feels having a fellowship with you...thats my hope...without you the money...fame....and sucess....are nothing.....i just wana live right....end of rant! by the way...poster your story is so interesting...
ReplyDeleteGood to know
ReplyDeleteLovely story dear
ReplyDeleteNice story...Am looking forward to seeing Stella's question been answered.
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Wow!
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Me too @tee-y
DeleteAwwwwwww I smiled all through
ReplyDeleteCongrats
ReplyDeleteYippeee!! My first Post with my blog ID.
ReplyDeleteNice Story @Poster. I think you should think about writing a book. You write so well.
As regards hearing from God, IMO it depends on your level of relationship with God before then. You can't just wake up one morning and ask someone who you barely speak with to keep an eye on you. You may not understand when he speaks.
So also God, the closer you are to Him, the better you'll understand when He shows you signs through dreams, flashes or visions, advise from people around, pastors and of course your inner man.
Which is why we advocate for a relationship without sex so that your spiritual antenna can be fully tuned and alert to hear from God, and you can withdraw if need be.
I concur. Was as if I was reading one of Achebe s novels. In BTW you write well. Lovely story
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ReplyDeleteGr8 story
ReplyDeleteYea looking forward too to that Stella's question to be answered.
ReplyDeleteGod speaks to people in different way and signs u can easily understand
Deleteabi o, Stella. Me sef wan know
ReplyDeletePresent twice...
ReplyDeleteOn how asking God and showing signs things works, if I start to talk.... E no go end...
Nice one poster!!
ReplyDeletechai where my own husband. i don wait tired, this year don end again. i believe him and will patiently wait for my turn
ReplyDeletePls how do I get a blog ID?
ReplyDeleteHmmm nice story,so many girls overlook little details o,ur next door neighbour may be d one bt u wil jst underrate him,tnk God u didn't poster.
ReplyDeleteThis story is beautiful and simple,God bless your home..
ReplyDeleteI'm answering stella's question, when you ask God for a sign trust me He shall surely give it to you even when you din say it out and you just though about it,He said His thoughts towards us are of an expected end,He is our Father and knows what's best for us,Abraham called Him friend,I call Him Bestie,He is a jealous God,even when you paint your room without asking Him the colour that you should use He doesn't like it,He always gives signs and you will know deep inside you that this is the sign because He does not joke with those that seek His opinion before doing anything,
ReplyDeleteRemember He is God,if you ask for a sign He will surely give you,the sign could even be from something or someone you are not used to just so the sign is clear,Remember He does not make mistakes and wants the best for His children,when it comes to marriage ask God for a sign because marriage is destiny it can make or mar you,you will know when the sign comes even if your Faith is like mustard seed you will know.you will feel it,you will see it in every spoken word even if the person is not talking directly to you until you accept the sign,He will keep communicating because He is the best communicator.
Especially, those that asked for signs before they do anything trust me they don't regret it,they always thank Him later for giving the sign,surely when you always ask for sign for Him before doing anything you 'll live life filled with less mistakes.
If you 're not convinced I'm open for more explanations.
God bless all the bvs and Stella of life.
Lovely story.
ReplyDeleteLove the fact that u av a relationship with God
Lovely story..... I also have some qualities pened down. I tap into your blessings
ReplyDeleteI think it all comes down to having a genuine conviction without reservations that he or she is your life partner and asking for signs and being true to this signs.A good example is a story one of my spiritual sisters told me one time about her friend that was in a dilemma of choosing between three suitors and this sister prayed to God that the chosen of the lord should give her has her birthday gift a pink teddy bear. This request was told to God only so there wasn't any form of expo,lo and behold on her birthday she got a pink teddy bear from one of the suitors and guess what? she didn't really like the guy then but today they are happily married.It should be noted that what works for me is different from what will work for you,just be true to yourself and please don't deceive yourself, no matter how handsome and sweet the guy is, i always say that if he isn't for you would always know.just my point of view i stand to be corrected.
ReplyDeleteNice story
ReplyDeleteGOD pls provide for me a job in the Oil & Gas industry btw now and d end of the first quarter of 2017!
ReplyDeleteNice story..well articulated.
ReplyDeleteNice meeting point..God bless ur home dear.. hearing from God u must v an intimate work with him n trust me other things will fall in place...(just d way a little bby hears d horn of his father's car or mother's footsteps n begins to jump for joy)
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