Meeting Point 37

Hmmmmmm

I wrote to you sometime ago about whether I should go ahead with a registry wedding until there's money for a big white wedding with friends and family. I got a lot of mixed responses, was hoping for your red pen before giving my fiancee a response. Well, we went ahead with plans and the date is 22nd December live in Ibadan...lol. 

I met my fiance for the first time when I was 6 years old. His mum used to sell corn pap in our neighbourhood and my dad loved pap on Saturday mornings. I was sent alone this particular morning and a dog attacked and chased me all the way to their house. I was in tears....and he laughed so hard at me. His elder ones had to escort me home with my pap...lol.

At age 11, we were put in the same class at Sunday school when his family started attending my church. We girls were all spotting budding breasts and trust pubertal boys to torture you with jokes and nicknames. I disliked him and his crew for that and it continued into our university years. 

I would snub him whenever I saw him at our faculty. He did the same after he realised I wasn't giving him face. I knew he liked me but I avoided him coz i didn't want to become a notch on his bedpost for him and his silly childhood friends to make fun of. 

I liked his senior brother and thought I could date him after he graduated. I got on Facebook and silly me added up my fiance instead of his brother...smh. I started flirting, asking questions and being friendly. I had already given him my number before he told me he wasn't his older brother.

I stopped communicating with him after that.. but he never gave up. I even dated another guy, while he kept begging me to give him a chance. This lasted 3 years.
Finally I gave him a chance Last year, after my parents talked to me. It has been great sha, with its ups and downs.

I love him but he loves me more. 

PS Thought I would feel so excited planning my wedding, it feels normal to me. Looking for where to get sexy underwear at affordable rates in Ibadan...we are having sex, very protected sex for the first time after the wedding.. I want him to have a memorable experience.
Thanks for posting. Hope it's not too boring?

*Huh,why protected?