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FALLING FOR AN OLDER WOMAN

Hello Stella, this should come as a chronicle, bit i dont know how it is done. Meanwhile i admire you a lot. Keep up the good work

Hello Stella
I am sending this chronicle to let you know what wahala your SNM program has brought to my life. Okay , I am and ardent SDK follower, 30 years, working in a bluechip company and engaged to a sweet 27 year old banker, who I absolutely adore. My problem started with the last Single and Mingle episode where I linked up with a 40 year old woman (Happily married with 3 kids).

She had actually mentioned that she was married and just needed to make friends. Na im I link up with her thinking that you never know, we can be of help to each other in future. God knows I never had any bad intention. Fast forward, we started chatting and talking on the phone. The woman is so intelligent, so funny and so cool. I didn’t even believe such people could be found on SDK blog. 

Then I suddenly noticed that I had the urge to call her every minute, to hear her voice advising me , to hear her laughing over my jokes and encouraging me to do right by marrying my fiancé asap…I hated it that she was not jealous of my girlfriend and has even suggested talking with her, which I have dodged severally. 

I always got upset whenever she mentioned her husband and kids. Once when I called her, her husband picked up the phone, and Stella you will not believe it, The man called me by my name, and told me that the wife had told him about me, and he hopes they can play a role in my upcoming marriage and that I should work hard to be the best I could. 

I have been so depressed since then, because I had hoped she felt a little something for me. My fiancés calls now seem so childish and immature to me. No depth, meanwhile with this woman I can chat for 1 hour stretch. Indeed the heart is not smart. I never meant for this to happen and often berate my friends who have anything to do with married women. 

Before the hawks start advising and cursing me, I have tried a million times to resist calling her, but in a split of a second, I damn consequences, and once I hear her voice, the excitement that runs through me is unexplainable….mostly not sexual, except a few times. Stella abeg your red pen is needed, though I don’t know what I will hear that I haven’t told myself.

*To cure you finally of this feeling.Go and visit her AT HOME and confess to the husband how you feel.After whatever happens, you will feel better and your brain will reset...And you will lose a genuine friend.

That's all the advice i can think of for now and I am sure you havent told yourself this..LOL