Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE.

WHEN THE EX THREATENS...

Good Day Stella


Nice job you are doing, what made me share my chronicle is because of the Chronicle Of December 8th. Although our situations are different, it was encouraging to hear a man seeking advise. Without wasting your readers time and yours , let me get to the point.


I'm 35yrs and work as a mariner based in Lagos, I spend months away from home/ my country due to the kind of work I do come back for 2 months and leave the country again. 

Most of my time is spent at sea, some of your bloggers who are familiar with this profession will know. I was involved with a girl I was serious about proposed to her and she accepted, before we got engaged I prayed about this and asked God to make her understand the kind of job that I do, that i would not be spending a lot of time with her but will make it up when I'm home. 

We discussed this at length and she agreed and everything was going well. I did everything humanly possible to make sure that she was happy. I would buy her gifts from all the countries I was going to, send her money, skype , phone, bbm , call. We communicated everyday but still I started hearing rumours from friends about the kind of life she was leaving when I was not around. Being the gentleman that I am I refused to listen to anybody wanted to see things for myself. One time a friend who was in Abuja for a weekend saw her at a club with some guys, took pictures and sent them to me. Stella I was shocked, there she was smiling from ear to ear wearing one of the dresses I have bought for her in one of my travels. I asked her about being in Abuja she denied it....I was crushed and my love for her changed.


Fast forward we were on our way to one of the countries and I became seriously ill in the ship (we were in the middle of nowhere). The captain arranged that I be taken to one of the closest countries for medical attention. The nearest country was South Africa and I was airlifted to Cape Town. 

I was discovered that I had appendicitis so they had to operate immediately. While I was there I was sharing the room with one old man, the first day I was there the man's visitors came to see him. One tall beautiful lady came with them and they gisted with the man, I was not paying attention because I could not understand what they were saying, the tall lady came up to my side of the bad and asked me how I was doing and if I was feeling better after the operation. After that day when ever she comes to visit she would also come to my side and bring me some minerals, which i thought was very kind.

I was due to be in hospital for two weeks and the Oyibo food that they were giving me I did not like, I asked her if she knows any Nigerian restaurant around and she promised me to find out. I gave her a list of the food she would buy for me in case she finds one and gave her some money, which she refused and said let her find out first. On that evening when she came to visit her relative she came with my food, boy was I happy and grateful. We became very friendly and I started liking her very well (she was not aware of this) till she came to the hospital with her fiancee and introduced him to me, the guy was not interested in me at all infact I felt he did not like me.


Before I left the hospital to join my crew where they were, we exchanged numbers and I left South Africa. We started chatting everyday I could not keep her out of my mind, her voice, her laughter, hips (come see figure 8) and her overall beauty and pure heart that cared for a stranger. I was so deep in love with her that I invited her to Nigeria for the two months I was going to be home and she accepted as a friend ooo. 

I convinced her that this was the least that I could do for her, for all the care she showed me and she agreed. It was her first time here and the best time of my life since my heartbreak. I was the envy of my friends everybody wanted to know how come, how did I score such a gorgeous lady who has class and poise.....meanwhile they did not know that we were just friends sleeping in separate rooms. My stupid so called girlfriend was so angry and telling everyone who cared to listen what a looser and a cheat I am.

 About 6 months after my SA friends visited my company arranged for us to go on a course to SA Cape Town.....my people the joy I felt was out of this world I felt God was in control of this whole situation. My SA girl was no longer with her fiancee and there I was going to SA again. Before then i have started telling her about my feelings which she refused, saying that she saw me a friend and a brother. 

As soon as I landed in SA things started to change we were spending a lot of time together and she would sleep at my hotel and we made the sweetest love ever. My people are coming to SA this January to ask for my lady's hand in marriage and pay the pride price......I don't wan't to waste anytime before someone else snatches her away from me. She is all that I have ever wanted in a woman and more, intelligent, kind , God fearing and a good heart.


Now my ex Fiancee has heard about this probably from one of my family members and now she is threatening to kill herself or do something bad to my SA babe.....my people did I do anything wrong?. I don't love her again I have told her this and she has told me before she found out about my plans to move on with my life.


Your Red pen is needed here Oooo Stella I don't want to put the love of my life in danger.....


( Excuse typing errors and bad grammar)

*My dear your story na open and close case,i dont know what to say or ask if you are painting her bad to get support from us...I would love t know her own side before i conclude...please send your ex this chronicle if your hands are clean...if you lied she will contact me..lol