One big lesson I've learnt about relationships...the importance of LAUGHTER! Yeah. You've got to always find the need to laugh. Laugh with yourselves. Laugh at yourselves. Laugh at your pain, differences and the fact that one of you can NEVER have an America accent even if you've been coming to America for 20 years! (Don't ask me who). Above all, find the funny in every situation. It doesn't mean you won't have things to fight, stress and cry about...but find the funny in all of it.
Life in itself is hard enough, why complicate it further by always discussing serious issues when it's bed time, after a hard day's work? Jeeeeez! Haven't you noticed that most times couples sit down to talk, it's always about the kids, bills, the broken garage door that needs fixing, work stress, plans for the future or the need to get therapy (now I don't know where that came from ).
Ask yourself, when was the last time you had a good laugh together? I mean a good belly laugh. If it's an Instagram post, a YouTube video, a comedy special on Netflix, the weird neighbor who always struggles with the garbage can when it's trash day...find that funny! If you have to put on your wife's wig and perform a Beyoncé song holding the hairbrush as a microphone...do it and have some fun! (Come to me for lessons).
It's so easy to find the pain and hurt in a situation but if you relax and look closer, you'll find the funny.
People have quizzed me why I can be very silly sometimes. It's simple, HE WHO LAUGHS IS THE ONE WHO LASTS. I intend to last as long as age 120.
Hahaha! Don't expect to see ONLY serious stuff on my social media pages.
Life is serious so I'm not gonna take everything so seriously and miss out on the funny things life has to offer me. I've got God's Love on my side, I have Jesus in my heart and the Holy Spirit always available to guide me...well, I've got no choice but to find the funny in my relationship.
So as you get to bed tonight, find that funny. Tell a dry joke. If he/she doesn't laugh at the joke then you have to laugh at how dry and silly your joke was. Stay blessed people and have a funny week ahead.
#Motivation #RealTalk #DaBishopChronicles #MrAndMrs
He is right but why didn't he put this in action to make his marriage with Doris work?...
ReplyDeleteBoth of them should continue themselves!...
He will still dump Stella the same way other men dumped her!..
No be today nah...
Lekwa ha! 😈
DeleteTrue talk ooo,body dey Stella now when her tenure go expire she go say dem fit snatch man,him never even make her him wife sef yet she wan die on top him matter
DeleteEhhh...Stella,why d oh brother emoticon...
DeleteAll I see is a shameless Stella Ademinokan. Professing love for another woman's husband. He is no longer your business partner as you've always claimed while you were shaking his marriage to Doris, he is now your boo. Clap for yourself ashewo-oshi.
DeleteOk
DeleteNa wah oooooo, I seriously fear Stella. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
DeleteShe destroyed a home to fornicate properly.
Your time "Revenge" will come soon in JESUS mighty name.
Don't mind him. Read ko read ni.
DeleteBye
Something is smelling here😷.
ReplyDeleteSmelling is an understatement na.
DeleteStinking darling ,stinking!
DeleteAs in. It stinks
DeleteYimu
DeleteHaha
DeleteOK,,, marriage expert
ReplyDeleteDaniel that cheats like his life depends on it and stella is too ashamed to walk away.
ReplyDeleteHaaaaaa
DeleteOh la la la
DeleteWhy hasn't he made it official?
ReplyDeleteI follow you 😏😰 Stella.
ReplyDeleteTheir life, their principles, their rules.
Chop knuckle Stella
This Stella Damascus is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteVery Beautiful!
Very Beautiful!!!
DeleteI tell you my darling,her beauty is all I see.
DeleteI wish them well if they have found fulfillment in each other.
How are you and the girls by the way? Sending tons of hugs and kisses to you guys.
She is a fresh faced beauty alright!
DeleteShe's not beautiful. She's just there abeg. His ex wife is very beautiful. Far more than Stella that looks like a short Ms. Piggy
DeleteM good darling. And hope u guys are too.
DeleteThe girls are doing great too. And How's my sonnie?Plant two kisses on his cheeks from me to him. And one sloppy one for u mon Cherie.
Hey baby @ My Beautiful Stranger!
Anon do you care for sugarcane?
DeleteHaba Anon, she's beautiful jor
DeleteThat's a good one, learnt something from it that have been doing be4. Even when all isn't well with me, am still very much happy with my life and have one or two jokes with family laugh away our sorrows and with the hope that all is gonna be well some day.
ReplyDeleteWrong messengers!!!!
ReplyDeleteLMAO 😁
DeleteHate the game not the players darling.
DeleteAtheist, forget the messengers, the message nko?
DeleteLmaooo
DeleteOh well......
ReplyDeleteI love love
ReplyDeleteGbokogboko alainitiju hope she is satisfied
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing like gboko gboko dear, the man must b ready to b snatched.....
DeleteTomorrow if it be their turn so make him stop this marriage tips
ReplyDelete#GODWIN
hahahaha those with pained marraiges will come and talk rubbish about them. Daniel and stella continue enjoyment jare.
ReplyDeleteNo man can be snatched. Afterall stella know your missing mumu buttons. Doris was doing good girl for you when stella is bad ass chicks with bomb pussy.
She may have a bomb pussy but every thing has an end,you lose dem d same way u get them eg brad&jolie
Deleteeh we agree but leave them to enjoy the short time you predict for them at least.
DeleteGood for them. Not everything is as it seems
ReplyDeletePreach!
ReplyDeleteA sense of humour is everything!
Well... not everything, but almost everything! hehehe.
Nice motivation speech.
ReplyDeleteYimu
DeleteHian. Oshisco.
ReplyDeleteThe way they flaunt it on social media is what I don't understand. It's well sha, the most important thing in life is your happiness but pls let it not be at the detriment of others.
ReplyDeletebecause some people carry them as assignment.
DeleteAccept the message,not the messenger.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm. So you know all these before...
ReplyDeleteOkays.. Preach on.
Lmao @ Stella's Side eyes
ReplyDeleteI didn't see marriage anywhere, just saw relationship. He can give advice cos he is a divorcee and in a patnership now, so he has compared and knows better. I feel sorry for Doris tho cos she is still single, I hope she fixes whatever it is and moves on too.
ReplyDeleteI think you made sense
DeleteDoris is happily dating too.
Deletesocial media,everything has to be on social media,you will soon tell us when you make love to your wife,abeggy.
ReplyDeletesocial media,everything has to be on social media,you will soon tell us when you make love to your wife,abeggy.
ReplyDeletesocial media,everything has to be on social media,you will soon tell us when you make love to your wife,abeggy.
ReplyDeleteIs that why you re litering the whole place? Enough already!
DeleteOh well dts a gud one.
ReplyDeleteLets see hw far both of dem go.
One tin is to dish advice anoda is to practice it.
Hahahahahahahahhahahah..... Oponu. See preaching from someone who has failed woefully at marriage. First marriage Don dabaru, second marriage no be real marriage. Stella Dimoko, you better preach to your name sake Stella Damascus, tell her to go hide somewhere and never rear her head outside, ole pwick.
ReplyDeleteI am only gonna stand up for them when I'm sure his ex wife was the one that fcukd up but until then they should gerraramyface.
Oya ooooo, Stella's supporters club, come and hawk pure water under my comment!! E ma lo wa ooooooo!!!
Toorrr.. Exactly
DeleteLol laff wan kill my enemy
Deleteyou get mouth sha.well done
End time tips
ReplyDeleteBut a great tip to last long in marriage.
DeleteI know lots of peeps would scrunch their nose at this beautiful piece..
ReplyDeleteRide on Daniel and Stella!
I did 😩
DeleteNew word learnt
DeleteI won't be writing yimu again
I'll write
*Scrunches nose*
Lemme go and check Google
Wazobia and her boo.
ReplyDeleteTrue words though.
Hmmmmm!
ReplyDeleteHappy for them
ReplyDeleteI love the message though
Missylynn
True talk! life is too hard already, don't make it worse.
ReplyDeleteIgnore the messenger if you like but take the message!
Torr naa dem sabii
ReplyDeleteLaughter is good no doubt but why didn't you try to add it to your previous relationship and see if it won't work.
ReplyDeletehes right though
ReplyDeleteHypocrites.
ReplyDeleteIf you always have the need to tell us how happy you are,then you really ain't happy.... If you knew this much,you shouldn't be divorced.
ReplyDeleteThat's all
DeleteSome women bring out the worst in men while others bring out the best in men.Everyone deserve a chance to be happy. The way you lay your bed so u lie on it.
ReplyDeleteStella and Nuella won big among all nollywood snatchers Association award. From mistress to wife in the same industry without a conscious and they keep making noise.
ReplyDeleteShior
ReplyDeleteIt's alright. . someone once said give me good beginning and a better middle and I will be just fine cos nothing ends happily. Still trying to figure how true this is.
ReplyDeleteGood for him
ReplyDelete🚶🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteI am happy that we are plenty wey no just dig these fake adulterous people
ReplyDeleteObviously Stella is the hustler while Daniel is the... Stella, we know why you carried him to US. You think this will last and woman rights protection will cover you? Are you scared Doris will use his son to get him back... Both of you have sinned greatly against God and man. I only pity you went you get old and he walks away to a younger woman...
ReplyDeleteDoris is still a big threat to her no matter how much she tries to form strong woman. Mshew
DeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmm
This thing get as e be
Happy married life to them sha oh
Side eye from me
Huummm! Do not judge..... They are doing well for themselves. Maturity and understanding is very important in a relationship.
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