The Meeting Point 13

Every story has a meeting point!

Good day Stella.

I am a BV from Ghana and I came across your blog when you posted the TTC Prayer Points. Anyway, let me tell you about how I met my DH (Dear Husband). It's a bit long, pardon me.

I work at a bank in Accra and the company my husband works for has their account domiciled at my branch. In October 2011, I assumed duties as the Administrative Secretary of the branch so my office was just before the branch Manager's office. 

My DH is the Senior Accountant for the company so he was visiting the branch frequently with his boss (Chief accountant).
I liked him the first time I set my eyes on him. He is tall and tough, fair skin, shaves bald and leaves moustache (more like Banky W). OMG, I just wanted this guy to greet me so that I will respond and find a way of turning the greeting into a conversation but lai lai, all he would say before he passed to my boss' office was "hi". 

How can a person turn "hi" into a conversation? I said to myself, this dude is too-known, and rude.

Fast forward to February 2012, DH visited the branch and as usual said "hi" and went to my boss' office. After he left, my boss called me into her office and was beaming with joy, she asked me if DH was not hot and handsome and every woman's dream man? I answered in the affirmative and left her office with a broken heart. My boss was 32 years ,single and searching so I thought DH had proposed to her. I was only 21 years so I said, okay my boss needs a husband more than I do now so let her have him, my own will come.


I stopped paying attention to him and smiling whenever he visited. However, I noticed that anytime he visited, my boss would follow him out and get him to stand at my office and chat with him, then she would ask for my contribution, I cannot find the words to describe how much that upset me.


2 months later, sometime in April 2012, DH came to the branch but there were visitors in my boss' office so he had to wait in my office. After about 5 minutes, he mentioned my name and said, "I want to marry you". I was upset, I insulted him, how dare he say that to me when it was clear that he was dating my boss.

 My boss came out to ask what the noise was about and after I told her, she laughed at me. DH was asking about me from my boss and that was why she asked me if I found him hot. He was 27 years and not dating my boss. My birthday was the following month, he bought me a beautiful cake and we became friends. We got married in March 2014, I was 23.

I thank God for a beautiful and amazing life with him, we are still praying for the fruit of the womb and I'm still doing the TTC prayer points.


Side Note: My boss got married a year after I did and she has given birth to a beautiful baby girl.

*There was no conversation and he just called your name and said he wants to Marry you?what a bold man!..Stay happy....You sabi make Kenke?