Its not easy combining Blogging with parenting (Thank God i have a cleaning and Ironing lady otherwise eeeeh),so i humbly ask to take a few hours off....I will be enabling comments and will resume posting when i am done with whatagatado.
You Ladies that work in Banks and other companies that leave home early Morning and get back at night,HOW DO YOU COPE?..And the men who dont see their kids until it's a no work day?chai!!
I raise Beyonce hands for una in Praise!
Enjoy mami and greetings to the boyfriends
ReplyDeleteWAs i realy thefirst to comment? on an sdk post 💃💃💃
DeleteJHW, im coming for you on in houuse news.
Go on girlfriend!! before you know it they are all grown. Please enjoy them!!!!
DeleteSomething is fishy about the rape victim's story. Does your mum not know you were raped? Does your aunty not know? I'm sorry o but something isn't clear. May you find help.
DeleteTot her mum passed away or something like that
DeleteMotherhood ain't easy meh! I go to bed tired and sometimes with a headache every day. You are excused Stella take all the time you need.
ReplyDeleteAs in I always pat myself on the back.im really trying.all the waking up by 4am,getting both my child n myself ready to leave the house by 6am to getting home by 9pm to my son saying he dsnt understand his homework and needs my help.I'm always so tired.always yawning at work.I'm always thankful when it's Friday. God is good.
DeleteStella Kork it ain't easy at all but we have to build our personality profile too or we gonna be around family just raising kids? Noo Na. Aga Na adobita this mgba nau.
DeleteIn Lagos the best bet is to employ a good driver else you bow to stress related ailments.Due to addition,I employed a second house keeper, a younger one and my Mum in law has been around since June even in my absence, she leaves next weekend which spells wahala and more stress for me.
If you have a good rapport with your employers you work a favourable working plan, today I worked for few hours, had to be in my kiddies school for a programme. And I'll be getting 6 last Fridays free for now so tomorrow I will be home.
There's no shortcut to greatness. We balance it out while keeping our eyes on The Digits. If not you would not be able to give your kids the Quality life your parents gave you which could be painful. I breads feed intermittently at night and will still rise at 5:30 when alarm goes off for morning devotion. Terrible routine.
Women run in special multi tasking software.
Our God is Able.
Xhlrted P
I always laugh when people say don't take house help blablabla AND they want to be as rich as dangote. STELLA ur own good oooo at least u stay at home with them........
ReplyDeleteI laugh too, because am not a trophy wife,cant come and go and kill my self with work,i have them two sef
Deletemotherhood no be moi moi.
ReplyDeletestella you should also ask how we mothers work, care for our kids and also make time to comment on your blog too, lol.
my friend would call me sometimes and ask how i am coping with my boys when she don nearly die with her son, i just smile and tell her say na God o, he is my strength.
i should even be thanking him, coz its not easy to have cute, smart and active boys, very funny boys, they are my complete package.
even though i do miss post sometimes for days i still try to keep up, abeg stella me sef deserve Rihanna hand o.
#proudmumoftwins
Sincerely it's not easy,it's best experienced. You multitask from sunrise till nightfall.
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DeleteMum of twins????? Please pray for me,I want them twins
I raise Rihanna hand for you!!
DeleteAbeg raise it well oooo. Not easy at all. God is great in all our women's lives. He will not leave women alone.
ReplyDeleteAnticipating. Welldone stella darling. Kisses
ReplyDeleteMotherhood not a child's play
ReplyDeleteI see my kids from Monday to Thursday, d rest is a working day for, and dis my boy ehn his wahala no be here! I hail women who hve only boys una dey try.
ReplyDeleteMotherhood is not easy jare. My God bless we mothers. And may we eat the fruits of our labour.
DeleteI am feeling so bad this evening, let me cry small, wipe my tears and unwind with my sdk blog i know that is going to make me feel better. You my blog fam should please put me in your prayers
ReplyDeleteGod Almighty will wipe ur tears
DeleteIt's well with you dear....Nothing is beyound the power of God...if you believe everything is working out for your good.amen.
DeleteIt's well dear.
DeleteIt is well with your soul,sometimes crying is needed to free your mind from burden #e-hugs
DeleteMay God be with you. Wipe your tears and give Him praise.
DeleteTo better days ahead🍷
DeleteCheer up Chidinma.
Is well with chi, just keep on smiling
DeleteThanks sweeties i really appreciate #e-hugs
DeleteI have not gotten to that stage but when I do i am so sure that I am gonna cross it.
ReplyDeleteIt's well with you
DeleteStella you are trying, as a mother I know it's not easy
ReplyDeleteStella D'Kork if we your humble beefees cannot understand with thee, who will? Don't worry just kwantinu your mommy duties. Yes, O ye busy workaholic females who are married and those who have kids, please tell us how una take dey do am?
ReplyDeleteIt's not easy at all. Stella you dey try no be small. Body no be firewood ooo, you truly need rest abeg. Thumbs up to you so far.
ReplyDeleteStella are you the only blogger with children why must you announce it ?hope this is not an indirect shot at another blogger
ReplyDeleteDirty mindset better get rid of it.
DeleteStop raising dust where their is non
DeleteYou are a fool
DeleteWont you shut up? you must misread things.must she act like other bloggers with kids or do they blog under same conditions?
DeleteBy all means, think what you want
DeleteYou get fever???
DeleteYou're a big fool
DeleteAnony 18:24 be reading meaning to everything dere....retard,,,oni jati jati
DeleteOh pls shut up already.If you re so pained then go birth yours or did Stella tied anyone's pussy from birthing kids? She didn't mention names but if you feel she's talking to you or your other blogger so be it.What can you do?Nothing,other than cry and kiss drainage pit.stupid bitch
DeleteNa you sabi
DeleteWerey alert
DeleteReally? Why do you go anon. U r sick in the head
DeleteShut up your stinky mouth idiot!
DeleteShut up your stinky mouth idiot!
DeleteAnonymous 18:24 are u already,everyone have its own style of blogging,what she announce is on her blog not yours,if is an indirect shot on another blogger is non of your business,pls go and get a life,I know you don't even understand what motherhood or even fatherhood is,I hate haters jessss
DeleteOun a ni la ngbe laruge ke.
DeleteWhy would you think like that? Clear your mind of silly things abeg.
DeleteIt's not easy Stells. Take all the time you need. I can relate to what you are saying.
ReplyDeleteMy son wasn't feeling well some days ago and the Yeye work didn't give grant me permission.
Take all the time u need mamacita.. It's high time u showed us a sneak peek of the korkus kids Shaa.
ReplyDeleteyou wish.
DeleteYeah.. Motherhood is not a easy somtin, God bless all mothers out there!
ReplyDeleteMrs korkus, u are excused for som hrs o and don't let us miss u too much b4 u get back here!
This is my greatest heart desire to have my own kids.Oh Lord please remember me.
ReplyDeleteMay your heart desire be granted...amen
DeleteAmen! The Lord shall remember you and you shall wipe no more.
DeleteAjoke get ready for your testimony,bcos the most high,the giver of children have remembered you.
DeleteThe Lord will grant you all your heart desires according to His will in Jesus name amen.
DeleteAunt stella, i follow join raise beyonce hand for our mothers o, i don't know how they do it. I kip wondering how i'll cope when i start my motherhooding. Hubby sef go know watz up cos i lazy small
ReplyDeleteYour request is humbly granted dear! Go on and do what you have to do nne. Love you Stella!
ReplyDeletethe hustle is real stelz.. especially for us bankers that dont have closing time... times like this i think of my mum, she is a nurse and took care of us most of the time as dad had to always be offshore..Mums are just the greatest
ReplyDeleteIs not easy at all ooh.
ReplyDeleteI'm still wondering how I will cope if my second baby arrives.
God will make a way.
What do u do when u are looking for money.i work for white men who curse at me call me namess and over work me like I'm an animal.i leave them for God one day God will show up.just bcos I want to feed my kids
DeleteWhy are you leaving them to God when God has give. You the ability to act. Don't you know your right? Don't you know what is obtainable at your place of work? No policy? Abeg check well. If some white people notice you don't know your right, they will use you.
DeleteIs not easy at all ooh.
ReplyDeleteI'm still wondering how I will cope when my second baby arrives.
God will make a way.
Madam, it should be*when my baby arrives*and not*if*.
DeleteE no easy even for a house wife with no help.
ReplyDeleteWhat of those of us that r full housewives???? Its not easy to take care of ourselves too
ReplyDeleteLOL nothing is easy my dear.
DeleteHousewives work really hard but are hardly acknowledged. Big ups to you Housewives. 🙌🙌🙌
DeleteMother hood duties never ends
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DeleteEyaaa men don't have it easier too...
DeleteIt is not easy at all. I drop my baby with my mum on Sunday evening, picks her up on Friday. I thank God my mom is still there for me. I can't stand day cares after what one has shown me. Its not easy to be a banker.
ReplyDeleteEya thank God for your mom.
DeleteNo wahala carry go
ReplyDeleteIt's not like you post anything by this time anyway so why the announcement?
ReplyDeleteNo wahala dearest stella. Do your thing
ReplyDeleteNo wahala dearest stella. Do your thing
ReplyDeleteHappy thanksgiving day to all American citizens including myself.Bought myself some turkey parts at Blue Cabana,Abuja.Only for one fine dude to come sit near me,Because of him I couldn't finish up properly..i.e chew the bones to pieces.I'm still mad at myself for leaving some flesh on the bones abi make i go back go carry the bones and chop am as I want? Pls I need you guys opinion.
ReplyDeleteHope I'm in anonymous mood before some oversabi decipher and finish me..
Hahahaha it's not too late to go back.
DeleteThe Lord will surely make all mothers and fathers on this blog enjoy their kids...u shall Neva b found wanting when its time for felicitation.
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Mother's re trying.I don't ve any kids now but pray to ve someday..The wahala from my siblings made me realise that it's not easy to first be a mum,then a working mother...may God bless all mothers.
ReplyDeleteYou are excused o jare. Motherhood is a full job. I don't know why we are referred to as weaker vessels. Mums are good multitaskers.
ReplyDeleteBeyoncé's hands for all our working-class mothers.
As in eh!
ReplyDeleteInitially I found it very difficult to cope.
My mum and elder sis them always said don't worry, you will get used to it. It's still tiring joor.
The waking early is still a problem to me maybe because some nights I wake around 1am and may never sleep back till like 4am. When day breaks is when I wanna sleep.
Mothers are awesome people...
ReplyDeleteStress has finished me with no househelp. But thank God I have control over my time.
ReplyDeleteInfact, am having a solo time out tomorrow. I've arranged for them to stay with their friends for some hours after school.
Starting work on Monday with my9 weeks old angel. God help me.
ReplyDeleteI used to be very self centered, but my kids change am for me hahahaha sometimes I no Dey know where phone Dey sef...
ReplyDeleteI live in England and having worked for over 10years, I tell anyone who cares to listen that motherhood is the toughest job I've ever done in my life! Can't wait to go back to work after maternity leave.
ReplyDeleteI'm the cook, cleaner, PA, poo packer etc and still must make time to be a wife! Na wa but nothing we women cannot handle!
Shoutout to all my super women out there Biko
It really isn't easy, I'm just 2 years into it and sometimes I want to go on a looong vacation and don't come back.
ReplyDeleteMy baby will be starting school next January, school runs will now add to my stress *phew* yet at the end of the day when I want some loving from my hubby, all I hear is "I'm tired" we shag not more than 5times every month, sometimes it's less, like this month it's been just twice. Sigh...
Yay first!!
Motherhood is really tough,i didnt feel it much when i was in Naija cos i had a househelp,but this America na on your own oo.My daughter keeps me on my feet all day,wonder what will happen when another baby comes..
ReplyDeleteIts women in Lagos I pity most.With all that traffic,waking up early & coming back tired,cook & still do conjugal duties...una well done oh.May all my fellow BVs in the waiting room have this beautiful experience next year by his grace.
ReplyDeletenot easy oh...i have twin girls who just clocked 2 and they keep me on my toes like crazy....luckily i live close to work and a govt worker so dnt leave home till about 8am. got a ward who lives with and a nanny who comes in daily so that helps but when i come back from work its mummy this mummy that..i cant leave everything to others cos u gotta watch out for your kids and observe them too. spend time with them so u can teach the right things and make corrections where necessary..my hubby helps as often as he can but truth be told, we mothers do the bulk of the work
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