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The story of heartbreak continues... stories like this breaks my heart. E Be like say this thing don turn to season film for this London.
Psheew!!
Today's story is about one beautiful lady in London who happens to be a friend of a friend. Her story may have gone viral too. She met this guy a few years ago in London through a friend and he professed his undying love to her. He insisted he was a single guy and would like to marry this lady. The lady did a background check on him and found him clean and clear, so they started their relationship which eventually led to marriage.
This lady is British and the guy was not. So they decided that they would travel back to Nigeria to have their wedding so that she could file for the guy legally in the U.K.
Their wedding in Nigeria was a big affair, friends from all and sundry trooped in to honour the couple. This lady explained how she met all her husband's relatives in Nigeria and how warmly they all accepted her as their wife. During their wedding celebration in Nigeria, there was this particular child of about 6years of age that was conspicuously dotting around the man.
The new wife noticed the little boy, so she asked her husband who the young boy was. He told her that the boy was his little nephew whom he loved so dearly. He later introduced the boy's mother to his wife as his sister. He told his wife about how the boy's father abandoned him at birth.
After the wedding the couple returned to London to continue with their life. This beautiful lady eventually filed for her husband when they returned and he was approved, he got his residency permit. However, strange things started to happen between this couple. As is always the issue with cases like this, she was the money maker. Although the man had a job that wasn't paying too well.. so he was basically hustling and trying to get on his feet.
One day, this guy came home and told his wife that he would like them to bring his little nephew to London from Nigeria. Remember, this was the little boy that was dotting around them during the wedding. The lady said she didn't object to it because they were the ones sending money home to cater for the boy and his mother in Nigeria, so she thought it wouldn't be a bad idea if they brought him to the UK to better his life.
Hmmmmm.. the story continues..
After a while the little boy joined this couple in the UK and the lady started to look after him like he was her own son. She put him in school. In fact, not many people could tell that he wasn't her biological son. After a few years when the boy turned 8, the man suggested to his wife again that they should bring his sister, (the boy's mother) to the UK from Nigeria. Again, the wife thought it was a good idea, she obliged her husband and they invited the boy's mother from Nigeria to live with them in their home in London. They were all living happily and this lady took good care of her sister in law.
Tatafo was told that soon after the sister in law arrived from Nigeria, she got an apartment and moved out of her brother's house after securing a little job to sustain herself. She also took her son with her. But they remained cordial and would spend weekends at the couple's house from time to time.
Then trouble started...
Wife noticed that her husband was always sleeping out of the house at least twice a week and he couldn't give a satisfactory explanation as to his whereabouts. He became cranky and would get irritable at the slightest provocation. The wife became frustrated.
The revelation..
So one day, as was their practice, the little boy and his mother came to the couple's house for the weekend. All of a sudden, whilst they were all gisting, the boy mistakenly called his uncle, "daddy"... which was strange to the wife because he never used to call him that. But the wife decided to play dumb like she didn't notice. They were all in the living room watching TV when the wife decided that she wanted to go to the grocery store, so she asked the little boy to go with her.. leaving his mother (her sis in law) and her husband at home.
She took the little boy with her to the corner store and they started to gist. She began to quiz the little boy. She promised him a lot of candy and ice cream so the boy was excited. It was during their chat that the little boy revealed certain things, she realised that her husband was always spending a few nights at the so called sister's home every week without her knowledge.. The boy even told this lady that he wasn't allowed to tell her anything, and he asked if he was in trouble. She promised him he wasn't in trouble and they went back home.
Na so kata kata take burst...
This lady went back home angrily to confront her husband and his so called sister.. everything came out during the heated confrontation. It was revealed that the lady from Nigeria was the guy's wife all along and the little boy was their biological son. It was then the London wife realised that she had been used by her husband to bring in his Nigerian wife and son to the U.K.
Hian!!
The mess in this family is still ongoing and nobody knows where it'll end. But she asked the guy out of her house. He was so scared that he had to leave. People are already involved in this case trying to settle it.
Tatafo's overview
Tatafo cannot really blame this lady because there was no way she could have known she was being used by this man. She be "winch"? How could she have suspected that the entire family in Nigeria were all deceiving her? Even the coded wife in Nigeria was part of the elaborate wedding celebration, and she didn't exhibit any negative emotions that could have made her suspect anything. And not even a single family member had the conscience to tell the London wife anything. Wickedness! Psheew!!
Na so this woman take enter one chance. She should just divorce him and move on. Tatafo sympathizes with this pretty lady.
Another HOT GIST is brewing right now in London. Tatafo is sniffing and scooping it all. Will drop it here like it's HOT next week.
Tatafo will be back
Catchya!
*WOW,see wickedness...If the Lady divorces him,she will make things easier for him and his real wife.....Make she go report am to Police..I think what he did is a crime..Emotional scam or so.
The heart of man is desperately wicked.God deliver us from evil doers.
ReplyDeleteEvil man from the pit of hell. Heartless with no conscience. How do you betray and deceive someone like this?
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I can bet my left bum that d NNigerian wife will abandon him soon.
DeleteAll these igbo boys, na their way. Nne sorry o
DeleteHow can I marry a man without seeing the childhood family picture???
DeleteProbably a 40 year old woman, what desperation will make you not ask questions??? The story doesn't say hey had any child together, maybe cos of menopause
DeleteI feel sorry for the little boy who has had to hide his real emotions about his dad. I don't know what the husband and wife were thinking of, deceiving a vulnerable lady. How did they think this all mess will end?
DeleteEwoo wonderful!! This is the height of it.
DeleteHe even used a fellow Nigerian for this their usual pranks. If she reports him to the home office that's the end. They'd revoke his papers for deceit and even deport his ass. Then he'll start crying that she is wicked abi. Idiot
This is a very common scenario abroad. If a lady has papers, never disclose it to ppl. The men who approach u are most likely looking for papers. Do your homework. Investigate the men wella. Browse n Facebook them. Don't fall in love like a desperate fool or they will use and dump u. Many of those men have wives or fiancees in naija
DeleteTatafo ,your stories sometimes en ,so when they got married and the wife filed for the husband,they gave the husband residency permit straight? No leave to remain,no further leave to remain? Hian,make it real pls,resideny is after 5yrs,the wife can curtail(withdraw )the mans visa within the 5yrs probation period,except for domestic violence.
DeleteAnon 03:40 I thought I was the only one who was about saying she should withdraw the visa since it's still under 5 years. She can file a case of deceit and those people don't joke with such. Oh well.... their issues. Me that I'm so paranoid, id have guessed ever since he started rooting for the mum to come.
DeleteOh God!
ReplyDeleteI bet the Nigerian wife will soon leave him and follow London big boys..
DeleteThe heart of man is wicked, see as dey take dis woman's kindness for foolishness
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ReplyDeleteThe evil that men do... Dishonesty, deciet, devilish machinations, demonic display, diabolic... What am I even saying sef?! I'm short of words... Between any man that plans to do this to me/my sister is dying right now iJn, amen! Cuss me or not, I am who I am!
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ReplyDeleteNo need for the prayers, they go after 'rich' women
DeleteLol. Chai anon.
DeleteJesus is ur worth.
DeleteLemme help.u type it since u forgot to in ur anger.
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ReplyDeleteIfe na eme !
the heart of man is wicked... see why I don't love helping people anymore... sometimes you do out of your kind heart and they still think they are smart... am so sorry for the poor girl.... babe, just move on.... I know it ain't easy but you got to move on.... that man is wicked..... I dhey vex.... and the Nigeria wife is also wicked.... no conscience at all...... and you happy doing this to your fellow being... a woman at that....... am pained..
ReplyDeleteExactly. The other lady from Nigeria has no conscience at all, Haba
DeleteIf the husband has no heart you think he will attract. Otherwise?
Deletethe heart of man is wicked... see why I don't love helping people anymore... sometimes you do out of your kind heart and they still think they are smart... am so sorry for the poor girl.... babe, just move on.... I know it ain't easy but you got to move on.... that man is wicked..... I dhey vex.... and the Nigeria wife is also wicked.... no conscience at all...... and you happy doing this to your fellow being... a woman at that....... am pained..
ReplyDeleteThat's very bad.
ReplyDeleteDunno why some pple hurt their fellow human being so easily.
Eyaa..poor widely! I think she shld report also.
ReplyDeleteIn as much as I like naija guys going to hustle abroad , I think if u must marry outside,den do it without hurting any1 ! It isnt fare at all
Fare ?
DeleteWhat an emotional scam. Who no fear man? When man say I'm not married, please check again and again and again.
ReplyDeleteEh en, my ex husband baby nephew turned out to be his biological son lol.
Broke men deceiving rich ladies since 1901
So sorry you had to go thru that dear! I hope you are in a happy place now! Men lie nd deceive women everyday, but the most shocking is when they have the full backing of their families!! Like!! How do their parents join them in deceiving innocent women?! Tufia!
DeleteHow else could she have known? Mshew
Delete#Distance doesn't ruin relationship. Doubts do*
ReplyDeleteEvil schemers! Poor lady
ReplyDeleteThis thing is so common nah.. When this white pple go.learn sef? Why are they such dummy like this.. Weldone tatafo jor
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You are the dummy cos you obviously didn't read it!
DeleteThis thing is so common nah.. When this white pple go.learn sef? Why are they such dummy like this.. Weldone tatafo jor
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Are u a dumb learner? Who tell you say she be white. Read before commenting, dumbo.
DeleteThis is the height of wickedness!!! How can someone be this deceitful? Even his family members and relatives were in support of everything. Nawa...
ReplyDeleteThe 'family' may have been hired.
DeleteWho says all those at d wedding were actually family.
Even if some of them were, d good ones probably stayed away from all d charade.
This story sounds made up.Tatafo u don't need to form stories if u ain't got none.How can little boy mistakenly call him dad?What has he been calling him before?Little ones are not like adults,they can't hold a lie for that long.So through out their marriage,no one in d man's family could leak the story to the wife?*yinmu* to this your story
ReplyDeleteAbeg forget that thing. Things are happening abeg. When it comes to money , some families are ready to keep their son's secret till Jesus comes. After all, non of my ex in-laws told me that the supposed nephew I knew was my ex husband biological son...Not all stories are fake please.
DeleteU b mumu u dint read d story. Wat if the boy called him uncle before?
DeleteActually Tatafo you need to let people know you are lifting stories from Facebook live videos and as such these people cannot be decoded. Only the people sharing these stories in their live videos know the true identities of the parties involved. I know Stella might not post this but please if you must bring gist Tatafo let it be your own exclusive stuff not one that's been overflogged on live chats . Thank you
DeleteU do realise dat d victims can tell more than one person d story? So even if it was posted anywhere doesn't mean d story is xclusv to dat platform. I'm saying dis cos my story has been out before on many blogs n live shows n I told more dan one person. Just saying
DeleteNa wao God help us frm d wicked pple.
ReplyDeleteThe story of yomi fabiyi and his white wife fran
ReplyDeleteEyah, too bad of the guy
ReplyDeleteIs there no happy ending stories in this London tatafo self. Tired of reading man inhumanity to man. At least not all human are evil
ReplyDeleteYou see this abroad men ehn, fear them. And the women that condone their shenanigans for whatever reason,fear and raise Beyonce hand for them cos them dey try.
ReplyDeleteThere is this one I know of. Dude married a white lady and has a nine year old son with her. Then came back and married one naija lady. A banker o. The guy's fb page is overran with his whity wife and son's pics. No trace of naija wife and her three children there. The babe agreed to the coding business so much that she doesn't let anyone connect her to the guy in any way. They are not even friends on Facebook. Guy has been married to abroad wife for 11 years and married to naija own for 6 years. I guess naija babe is waiting for him to divorce abroad wife. In the meantime, she sends him money from naija o, single handedly built the house they live in, in naija
Her cloths are faded and each time you see, you d see she is struggling and I keep wondering why she married the guy in the first place. Abroad you no go, money you no see. The guy has a wandering dick, a certified community penis. The moment he adds you on Facebook, the moment he starts arranging to sleep with you the minute the lands in Nigeria. He is currently screwing two married women I know. Sending them money he makes out of his naija and abroad wife. Some men are just pathetic. And some women, even more so.
At least the naija wife has gained three kids nah...
DeleteSome women are so desperate!...
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DeleteOooh Chim! Some women will jus carry liability on their heads. Oriegwu.
DeleteTooorrr
DeleteThe same exact thing just happened to one Yoruba lady here in US. It was her very good Igbo friend that set her up with her brother in naija. Turned out the brother is married with 2 kids, which was not disclosed. His sister somehow helped the wife in naija and kids entered US and they stayed at her house. After they entered, the husband started complaining to the Yoruba wife that he missed Igbo food and would go to his sister house to eat Igbo food. Then he got his green card and started staying nights at his sister house. Now the Yoruba wife is 50, no kids and the husband refused ivf cos he said all his children must be conceived normal way. After a while, he just vacated the entire marriage and secured a place for him his first wife and two kids.
ReplyDeleteI've been raising Beyonce hand for men since the days of our fore fathers. Very wicked something
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DeleteChineke!!!!
DeleteJesus wept who needs enemies?
DeleteEyahhhhhhhh
DeleteGood for them!
DeleteAs they (matured nigerian older single) women continue to learn the hard way!!!
How can you go and invest your reputation or paper, time and effort to marry somebody who doesn't desire you, deceive and lie to you???
Obviously any woman over 35 yrs to the nigerian man is considered desperate, ugly, useless, undesirable, unlovable, bad, sugar mummy. Even for 75 year old nigerian man, he thinks that way too.
Problem is that many nigerian women suffer today from self hate, lower self esteem, lack of good purpose in life.
The churches they go to are also unhelpful and perpetuating this bad and unhealthy life trend. They keep preaching that the "women must submit" to a man.
But how can you "submit" to someone whose actions and intentions makes you to suffer, humiliating and embarrassing?
Don't they see also bible verses that teach you that a man or husband must honor his wife???
There are so many nigerian orphan children and abandoned youths who will best benefit from a legit adoption and legal status given to them by all these so called older women considered as "Aunt Gwez" or sugar mummy being kicked about by their nigerian men today.
These women should close their legs, shut their heart and not invest their time and attention whatsoever on such men!!!
Rather do honorable things, make a legacy and live a life of good purpose that will tell a better story about life on earth. And most especially, please respect yourself and AGE WITH GRACE & DIGNITY.
Anonymous 22:29 could u pls send me a mail? I will like to be your friend.
DeleteAnon 22:29 Your write up touched me deeply. I am a single matured Nigerian woman and what I have gone through in the hands of men both young and old can be described as hell. Your advise is nice. Recently met a widower that is 10yrs older than me and because I refused to have sex with him, he dumped me. Now I have made up my mind to close my legs until God gives me a better man and I know when He does He shall give me my own children too.
DeleteHmmmm.
ReplyDeleteWicked people everywhere
I feel for d poor lady..
So bad.... The other woman thinks she's smart, I hope the lady report them both to the police. Wicked people.
ReplyDeletesome people are just wicked
ReplyDeleteThe woman should go and report both of them to police.they will be dealt with,what kind of wickedness is this!!!!
ReplyDeleteShe should go and report them.I pray the authority jails them or even deport them. God will punish them
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.
ReplyDeleteWicked people everywhere
I feel for d poor lady..
May the Lord comfort her. It is not so easy to get out of this kind of emotional trauma. The Lord will help you.
ReplyDeleteStreet suuuuureeee... Die ehhh!!That Man fit rob CBN
ReplyDeleteI know d lady
ReplyDeleteShe needs to report the guy to the home office so that he and his family will be deported to Nigeria. He should also be sued for bigamy. Divorcing him will make his plans fall into place.
ReplyDeleteThis woman should continue marrying her husband quietly, as no need to stress yourself! If she really love her husband, as now that she knows, she should leave the deceiving woman to have her position outside, as they continue the marriage the way before she found the truth!
ReplyDeleteAre you for real?? May God deliver us from bad advisers. She will just be miserable for the rest of her life. The best thing to do is to report him to the home office so they can bundle all of them back to Lagos; he has committed bigamy and really, she has nothing to lose.
DeleteSorry to say but the lady is gullible. Was she desperate? These days you have to shine your eyes oh, evil men everywhere. She should have taken the time out to find out about the boy and lady. A lot of my friends have gone through similar problems. One got married to a guy years back, she wrote the home office not to give the guy indefinite stay because he will leave her as soon as he gets it. Till today, the guy is still on visa. Evil men everywhere.
DeleteIs Marriage by force???!!!!!
DeleteMe , ottapiapia dey very cheap. Pure wickedness
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ReplyDeleteNo names yet•
ReplyDeleteE no go better for them. Mark it, they will suffer all the days of their lives.
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