Hi Stella,
This is my LRD.
I had sex for the first time at 16 and got a 9 months + life time present in return.my son.Fast forward a day to my Edd,i went into labour cos I travelled all the way from Lagos to my state a day before.The long journey wasn't easy. I sneaked into the house at night ( I went to hide in Lagos months earlier so that no one will know).
I woke up with this pain- pain like I have never felt before. I screamed and my mum immediately went into kabash mode. My bro was home and he kept rubbing my tummy.If he stops for even one second,I will scream. He also started crying with me.I started bleeding,each step was accompanied with a drop of blood. This went on until 5am.Mum made arrangement and a driver in our neighborhood took me to a private clinic.
Immediately the nurses took me to the labour room.They tried to insert and check ,hand no enter.the nurses were talking among themselves, this one go fit born so? E body no open.my mum started kabashing again.
The doctor came in and checked me and screamed! The baby is coming. They immediately tore my "vjay" I screamed " mummyyyyy"..the nurses told me to shut up.one asked me" your mama send you message?"
I was in pain but I was struggling with the nurses,trying to remove my legs from the stirrups.One of the nurses removed her slippers and started flogging me shouting and asking if I want to kill my baby.They both held my legs open.
Baby popped out after a huge push and the pain ceased immediately. My heart twisted with unexplainable love when I saw this screaming red faced baby. I started crying tears of joy.My mum was allowed in she started rolling on the floor and thanking God as per " Jesus women prayer band things " they drove her out and told her to keep quiet. Lol ..she started begging that she will be quiet.she was laughing ,crying at the same time.She laid hands on my son and prophesied into his life.
We left for home same day. No money to pay for long stay abeg.my boyfriend and his parents denied Responsibility. So everything was on my mum' s head. His mum actually gave me 3k to go and abort when I was 3 months gone. ( he later sent his friend to me that his parents threatened him to deny- good riddance...)
I am glad I had my son.I went to school , graduated with good grades and life is beautiful.A child is a gift from God no matter how he/ she was conceived.Please do not abort. Mums please stop aborting for your daughters.
Thanks to my late mum for standing by me. She was suspended as a deaconess in church,ridiculed by my step mothers and neighbours ,disowned by my dad. She defiled all and stood by me. I will be 35 in a few days and my son is 18 and a level 300 med student. He is like my boyfriend..lol
Bv xaai
*WOOOW...congrats and well done for keeping your Son!
The Lord is good,i bless God for your life and that of your son.May your mother's soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteThat yeye Jesus women!!! She didn't lose anything o jare. I can't even say congrats but well done. You've done so well. May God bless your son. And may mama find eternal rest.
DeleteThis moved me to share a tear
DeleteWe have super mums I thank God for giving me my mum in my next world Nnem oma Will be my mother had the same experience but was 13 my son is 16+ & am 29 though a victim of family friend rape. My mum stopped going to church,women meeting cos of my case. My mum is the best in the world.
DeleteWow. Beautiful
DeleteAwwwwwwww, thank God for you
DeleteAwww, God bless your mum and msy her soul RIP.
DeleteMay God guide and protect your son.
RIP to your mum. God bless you and your son.
DeleteAwww congrats darling.same age i took in tooo😊😊😊😊#rollingeyesforbeevees#🤑
ReplyDeleteWow
ReplyDeleteWoow, woow, just Woow. God bless you and your son poster. Dunno y but am soo moved with your LRD.
ReplyDelete#runouttapost#on the other hand.i have got a samsung A3(2016)for sale
ReplyDeleteHow much is it
DeleteWaooooo I love you already, E-hugs to you. May God make you eat the fruit of your labor, regards to you big boy.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Congrats
ReplyDeleteExpect enough bashing today from those that are saints all cos them never born pikin
Chop knuckle Stella
Chai. Thank God for you ooo. Am happy for you and your boy. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteI pray your late mum will be happy whereever she is knowing her grandson is now a big man.
May God help us to train our daughters well ooo.
I am sure your mum attends Assemblies of God Church, dem sabi suspend people like that.
I so love this story, but why you no come remarry? Has his father come back to claim him?
ReplyDeleteI am getting married soon..
DeleteYes they came when.my son was about 5.. I no gree..
They reached out again recently on social media but I jejely blocked them. I no fit shout.them no ready.. Lol..social media,? Who does that,?
Thank God for you poster, your son will be so proud of you, but I'm afraid, he will soon start disturbing you to let him have access to his dad
DeleteHe knows his story. He is a wise child. If he decides to go and see his dad tomorrow, I have no problem with that.
DeleteWow so touching.... May her soul rest in peace. Abeg ignore them. Good riddance to bad rubbish...
DeleteClaim who?? How?? Why???
DeleteIfa slap them ehn,
Good riddance.
God bless you jare
Lol.thanks Mosi...thanks everyone
DeleteOh my God, what do I have to say here rather than thank God for ur life, am just sharing tears of joy as I type this. The Lord will continue to give you the strength in bringing that boy up in the proper manner. Abeg this kind of lady needs support, how have you being managing. God be praised
ReplyDeleteThanks white berry.God has been faithful.
DeleteWow, your son will wipe your tears. I remember your post about having a son but no money. Think that was last week. I don't understand the reasoning behind your mum been suspended from church. Was she supposed to abort or what reason was she given?
ReplyDeleteNot me dear.I didn't write any post last week.
DeleteI think she was suspended cos as a deaconess, her daughter should nt have a child out of wedlock
God bless you poster, God bless you real good. That your son will continue to make you proud and happy always. Well done. And God bless your mom for believing and trusting in you. May she continue to rest in the Bosom of the Lord, Amen.
Deletethank God for making the right decision.. God continue to grant ur mum eternal rest...biko am feeling heavy in my lower abdomen, especially when I try standing up,am 25weeks pregnant ...my next appointment is 10 of this month.. abeg make una no curse me...lol
ReplyDeleteFeeling pain in ur lower,abdomen is not normal during pregnant especially ur stage,go to d hospital let them check you and make sure ur ok,dnt wait till 10th
DeleteMe too I'm 23 weeks gone. I think in my case it happens when when stand up suddenly.
DeleteDon't wait till 10th please, go and see the doctor OK?
DeleteSo Swt
ReplyDeleteAwww what a sweet story, very touching. But funny as well
ReplyDeleteMay your mom's soul continue to rest in peace..Amen!
Please advice them to stop having unprotected sex to avoid unwanted pregnancy and abortions.
Advise your son well, so he'll never do what his stupid father did to you to another girl.
What is even wrong with people? Who send you? Ekulekwu tablet.
DeleteThanks dear. My son is well.brought up.By God' s grace he will not toe the line of his father.
DeleteAnon 13:57 Amen dear! God bless you both.
DeleteAnon 13:43 you just want to hate abi? Cos I know my comment up there is not insulting in any way..So who send you message?? Onye ashiri
Ehyaaaaaaaaaa I love ur story. Mothers rock. May her blessed soul continue to RIP
ReplyDeleteMay God bless and keep your son.
ReplyDeleteHe will surely be a source of joy to you and not pain.
ReplyDeleteWoowwww......wonderful lrd.
ReplyDeleteOkay
ReplyDeleteawwwwwww
ReplyDeleteCongrats sweety, your story actually brought tears while reading. May your mum's soul continue to RIP
ReplyDeleteStella did I hear you say LRD teaches something? Abeg it teaches MANY THINGS and not just something cos i'm glad I've learnt alot from this segment.
ReplyDelete@ poster, may your mum's soul rest in peace. By the way, thank God for safe delivery, may God judge your bf... It's well.
Awwwwwwwwwww.I hate my mum.she aborted twice for me and my younger sis.
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't you stand up for yourself? Were you drugged? You're even more stupid than your comment sounds. Talking about "I hate my mum". Puleeze! Abortionist
DeleteAs in, you are a serious retard.
DeleteWhy did you have unprotected sex in the first place?
DeleteLearn to take responsibility for your actions!!!
Wow! Nice story!
ReplyDeleteTears rolling down my eyes, God will keep u and ur son strong. Congrats.
ReplyDeleteCongrats o.
ReplyDeleteTouching story. A child is always a blessing either ways.
Jesus woman pikin. Lol, their kabashing is not just here, but always helpful.
God bless and keep u and ur son. Amen.
Awww.Thumbs up for your mum for standing by you..
ReplyDeleteWow wow! I follow you happy o,your mother is a very sweet and strong mother for being by your side because She chose you despite all.
ReplyDeleteCongrats dear and God bless ur mom wherever she is
ReplyDeleteAbeg lemme join Stella and say WOW. Am glad ur mom gave u the support system u needed, May she continue to rip
ReplyDeleteThe awesome love of a mother.
ReplyDeleteThis LRD touched me so much.
Please let your son know all that his late grandma sacrificed to ensure his survival. May her soul RIP.
God bless your mum!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for keeping your son!
God keep and bless your son :D
Wow..You definately had to grow up fast.
ReplyDeleteAww. I love your story. You'll definitely reap the fruits of your labour.
ReplyDeleteWow...what an inspiring story, God bless you, your son and your mom.
ReplyDeleteGod is great and am happy for you
ReplyDeleteAm glad your mum stood by you through the tough times..
Missylynn
Well done for keeping your Son. He will ever be a source of JOY for you I Jesus Name.
ReplyDeleteThis brought tears to my eyes. How many of the so called Christian Mothers can act like this,instead they act other wise.
ReplyDeleteGod bless your Mother.
Beautiful LRD story!
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Chai, I like your courage dear. Your mum is so supportive. Your boy will forever be happy for you.
ReplyDeleteI love your dtory dear. May your mom continue to rest in peace
ReplyDeleteCongrats dear.
ReplyDeleteOh God... you made me teary!!
ReplyDeleteCouldn't help the tears.
I was so scared you would end it like yesterday's LRD poster and you did!
RIP to your mom.
May your son continue being a source of undiluted joy for you.
Chai....
Awww
ReplyDeletewoow
ReplyDeleteyou are very strong o
mothers are wonderful sha
they make us stronger
mothers are the best any time any day
I miss my own mother every day and I mean everyday.
Your mum is a definition of a GOOD MOTHER.
ReplyDeletesure she must have chided you but still loves you as Christ loves us.
Am so moved reading your LRD.
Wish I can have you as a friend cos I love the way you faced life despite all odds and God seeing you through.
Am a lady nd no homo for those that will want to take my comment south.
She was mad at me initially but she forgave me and sent me to Lagos away from prying eyes..
DeleteYou are anon...how do I contact you?
Will send my email to stella and hope she helps reach out to you with it.
DeleteAwwwww. I'm curious, how old is your son's father? Was he a teenager too? And I love your maturity about your son meeting "his people". If it was a daughter it would have been easier to get rid of them for life but as a guy I is stuck with them. 😡
ReplyDeleteMy son' s father is 38+ now. Yes he was a teenager as well but 3 years older, He was in 1 st yr uni while I just finished waec
DeleteWow!so glad u did d rit thg.I pray u enjoy d fruit of your labour,nd may ur moms soul rest In peace
ReplyDeleteWow!so glad u did d rit thg.I pray u enjoy d fruit of your labour,nd may ur moms soul rest In peace
ReplyDeletePoster weldone.may God bless you and your son.
ReplyDeletePoster weldone.may God bless you and your son.
ReplyDeleteDis brought tears to my eyes... I also took in at age 15 i was given herbs to and i birthed d baby i tink it was close to 6months i remeba my water broke, i mid nite i was having pains dou i was in d guy's hox cox my pple drove me out. I birthed d baby but i didnt bother to look at it, i was just happy is out dat i can nw go back home. I regret cox no mother, my aunt was on my neck. I wish i had d mind to keep dat child as my bf beg me then. I regret everytin i have forgiven myself nd i pray God forgives me nd dat baby too.
ReplyDeleteIs your baby daddy married now?
ReplyDeleteAmen
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