Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Na wah....These Chronicles just got me frowning!

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
COOKING BROUHAHA


Hi Stella darling, lol

My fiancé and I live very close to each other. I cook for him or should I say for us everyday cos he eats in my house everyday and I equally cook in his place too.

He came to my place late last night around 10pm when i was in bed expecting me to make Eba for him but I told him to help himself from the pot but he refused. 

The thing is I had told him before now anytime he comes late he should just help himself from the pot. Well last night he threatened to end the relationship, called me wicked, poked and even threatened to hit me. I told him he dared not try it. 

 I also said the cooking I do is out of love not duty as he is yet to pay my bride price so he shouldn't see it as my responsibility. people may say but we have sex everyday, no we hardly have sex cos its wrong. Please Bvs am I wrong? Is he right?

Thanks Stella for the platform.

You cook everyday for your boyfriend?as in everyday?he doesnt take you out to dinner?he doesnt also cook for you or for himself?woooooow

Does he not have hands to serve himself or cook for himself?I hope that you have seen the signs now before you marry and not that later when such demands come up you will start screaming...?

there are women out there who dont mind being at a mans beck and call twenty four seven...if you are not one of such,please do not go further...what you experienced now is a warning sign...he needs a cook and not a wife.please decide on which one you will be before you marry this man.


I am not trying to give bad advice but it is only my kids that will keep me in the kitchen cooking everyday.


#Na wah....#Whatdaheck!! #wifeNOTcook!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CHRONICLES OF A CONFUSED BABY MAMA.


Hi Stella,
I am confused. Love has not been fair to me so SnM was a welcome idea. I am a 35 years old single mum. I look way younger though.
Met someone on snm a few months back,we have gone out twice and he is almost all I want in a man. Bornagain,kind hearted,loves my daughter but dude is BROKE!!!! 

In addition to that,he is inexperienced in gbenshing and confesses that he doesnt last 2 mins. In all his 37 years, dude has done it less than twice. His Wii is also tiny. 

He told me so himself that his ex insulted him calling him a 2 mins tiny Wii guy. He is too honest.

I told him that I don't care much for gbenshing and didn't care about his size.

Na lie. 

size matters to me.Plus I can't imagine showing a grown man the ropes when it comes to it.I really do like him though,very much. He worships me but ain't all broke men loyal?

Finally another issue i have with him is that although he is a graduate, his written and spoken English makes me cringe.

 I have 3 degrees and i love a man that speaks well. He wants me to stop using makeup and wearing trousers soon as we get married. lailai.

I love my trousers and my 3 months of makeup school will not go to waste.when I get angry with him,he won't eat.he will cry and keep begging me.

I have tried to break up with him with style,for where? Dude don chingum me.

I met someone else on a recent snm and dude is fiiiine.

manly.He has all I want except that he is not as spiritual as the first guy but all good .I am head over heels. Dude is also not broke. We clicked like we have known a million years.

Guy wants marriage kiakia. But he is insanely jealous. 

I am confused. I know some will say I should be lucky I found a man cos I am a mum and 35, but I don't want to be unhappy in marriage plus I don suffer for life well well.I don't want to continue suffering in my husbands house.
Stella use white pen write.advice me pls.

Doppelganger,Queen and boss..make una talk abeg.
Thanks.


*I feel really bad for the first guy and how you described him....if he reads this,what you have done is worse than what his ex did...he will recoil into his shell and feel so embarrassed that you brought this here cos he will know hes the one from your description.

Why dont just honestly break it off with him?cos it looks like you have one leg in and one leg out..I feel really bad for him and becos he might be reading this i cannot even go further in other not to dent his emotions.

Your second guy..how far?you check?i hope he doesnt explode in your face?look well and remember when choosing a partner that in old age gbenshing will wear out and it is companionship that will matter more.I hope i made sense?If not,please ignore mine and read others.