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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

HOOKING HIM WITH PREGNANCY

Thanks Stella for this platform. Please hide my ID.

I've been dating this guy for two years now, we started living together like a year and a half ago. A year after we started dating he lost his job, hmmmmm there's nothing I didn't hear finish. He said I'm the cause of it, that ever since he started dating me nothing good has happened for him, his parents and siblings have warned him that I'm not for him but he didn't listen and now see what has happened. 

He can't even tell them(he still hasn't told them till now). I went for mfm deliverance,I kept calling pastors upon pastors, fasted like what I can't even explain, even went to mountain.

There were times he's asked me to move out and we should end things but I refused.

Mid this year he got a job and the pay is half what he used to earn.

We've been planning on relocating to Canada but when we did the test he didn't get the minimum score even if I did it didn't really help. Now he's thinking I should go first using masters. My issue is he's basing our getting married on if the whole Canadian stuff clicks or if he gets a better job. I'd be 26 in some days time and he's 6 years older than I am.

My friend told me to get pregnant cos time is going before one day he'd throw in the towel and I'm not getting any younger.

I'm super super confused, your advice please. Thanks


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

CONFUSED GWEGS  

Hi Stella,

I am a 35 years old single mum to a beautiful 6 year old daughter.I have been unlucky in love so snm was a great avenue for me to find love. I met Mr A a few months back on snm.

He is 37, born again,tongue speaking ,loves praying and kindhearted. He loves my daughter too always gushes about her.I am not in love with him but I like him a lot and was willing to take the plunge but for some reasons I cannot. He is BROKE.

He can barely make ends meet.His written and spoken English makes me cringe. 

He is a graduate though.He also wants me to stop wearing trousers and any clothes that reveals my shape.He wants me to also stop using makeup.My greatest issue is that he has only had sex about 5 times in all his life. He confessed that he suffers from premature ejaculation and also has a tiny d**k.He told me that his ex broke up with him insulting him that he is a 2 mins man and has a tiny dick.He is also very sensitive and cries without eating whenever we have an issue. 

I am strong willed and can't stand a man that acts like a baby.I have devised several means to break up with him but to no avail.He will cry and then I will feel pity and come back. I tire.We have never had sex and plan to when we get married( if that will ever happen).He has no drive and he is content with his smallness.As it is,if I marry him, I will be saddled with the bills and a big baby.

Met Mr B on a recent snm and my oh my! Dude is fine.He is also 37.I am head over heels in love. My heart beat changes when I am around him.He occupies my every thoughts. He is matured, doesn't cry or whine and he ain't broke! I have kissed him and won't go any further until we get married.He is ready for marriage and doesn't see any reason why we should wait.In his words" even if you study someone for a life time,you can never know everything about that person."

I am not a gold digger,but I have suffered a lot and can't imagine getting married to continue that trend. I didnt wait this long to marry wrong.Some may think that i should be grateful that at 35 with a kid,i should settle with anyone that comes,but I don't think so. Stella please use your white pen.

Doppelganger, Queen and boss, abeg all the elders of the clan,make una talk.


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