Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.....

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

HUNGRY FOR MARRIAGE

Good day Stella. Please help me post this for your bv's advice.
I am in my mid twenties, currently done with schooling. I recently met
this guy in his late thirties. A whooping 13years difference between
us! He is well to do, never been married, claimed his ex dumped him
and got married to another cos she claimed he didnt have money...

He is loving and wants us to settle down ASAP because he is becoming an uncle
gwegs. LOL

On the other hand, my childhood bf wants us to settle down towards end
of next year. Uncle gwegs wants to meet my parents, introduces me to
his people and all that. He is comfortable while my bf is just
starting life although he is from a wealthy background. I love my bf
more but marriage dey hungry me seeing that most of my friends are
either married or getting married. Make una advice me abeg


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WITH ONE IN AMERICA WHILST ANOTHER WAITS IN NIGERIA
Madam Stella

I am an ardent reader of your blog,and i'll say you're doing a great job. I ‎have tapped from Bvs comments in yesterday's chronicle because my story is kinda similar to hers but with a slight difference.

I am 26 years old,and I have been confused for so long about my relationship. I have Mr A, who I dated back when I was very young since I was in SS2,of which the relationship lasted for 3 years. Then, a year later(2009) I met Mr ‎K and we started dating.

Madam stella, i'll say God has really used him to bless me,because when I met him I just graduated from polytechnic for my ND,he was the one who helped process my admission to Uni (of which I never dreamed of), he's been a huge support to me financially, morally and all till date (mind you I have also been a good girl) side eyes.

He travelled out of the country 3 years ago for his masters‎ and things were cool with us,so after a year and half later he called me n told me he'd be getting married for his papers to stay in the US,but it will be in for of arranged marriage. At first I was mad but later thought about it n was ok with it,but some months later I felt his distance n he changed I called him and he said he's trying to focus on the lady for her to his commitments towards the relationship so that she would hasten up with the documents,(of which I didn't believe him) .

Few months later, Mr A showed up and started professing love n asking for forgiveness of which I accepted and I already zeroed my mind about Mr K . I fell in love with Mr A again and hes been cool n committed to the relationship but he is not financially stable as Mr K.

Late last year Mr K started calling me back n kept asking for forgiveness that he's done with d lady and he's gotten what he want and he planning to come home,he came home by January this year and bought me car as New year gift and appreciation of my waiting and enduring in the whole issue, immediately he traveled back he started my travelling processing and thank God everything fell in place I was given the visa and I am here with him and I've not seen any traces of him cheating. 

When I was travelling I told Mr A I was going for my masters(then I wasn't still convinced bout Mr K) and he's still holding on to me coming back to him,i still love him but he isn't still financially ok and hiding under the recession ish to find a good source income .‎

Mr K is a smart and hustler real good and doing all in his power to secure a brighter future for his kids n always beg me to be a good mum to them that I have not problem. Though Mr K has this unromantic attitude of which Mr A has but I think I've made up my mind to go with it Mr K, I'm sure his imperfections can be sorted out.


I don't know how drop Mr A because he's been on my neck and crying all day that he's waiting for me and he even told me when I was travelling that if I was going to meet Mr K, he won't forgive me‎.