CONFUSED VIRGIN
Hello Stella,
I have been a BV for quite a while, and i must confess that you are doing an amazing job, especially for people like us who find it difficult to share our problems.
I am a lady in my early twenties but i am having difficulty in making the right decision. I am a virgin and very playful and caring especially when in a relationship. I met this guy while in school, very handsome and all that we loved ourselves and practically did everything together, we dated for 5 years, we went off and on and eventually i got tired of the whole thing and i broke up with him (before he spoils something for me) though we never had sex.
Stella i finally met another guy whom i also fell in love with, cute, he tells me everything, though he has his shortfalls. He is very serious and is already talking marriage. My concern is this, this guy isn't exactly a romantic kinda guy, he doesn't even know how to kiss nor know where to touch a lady and is also small down there. Me ex (who is very big down there and very romantic ) is pressuring me, he wants to come back.
My boyfriend is talking marriage and i am still a virgin hence i do not know if he can do the job in the bedroom and i do not want to cheat on my husband.
Please what do you suggest i do?
1. should i return to my ex (He still loves me and wants me back)
2. should i recommend an organ enlargement, if yes, what are the effects on me and would it affect his ego and our relationship. How will i go about it?
3.Should i damn the consequence and sleep with him.
Stella please your red pen is needed, cos i need advice as i am young and very shy discussing my private issues, and this is the only platform that i can comfortably share my story and get constructive advice.
Thanks again Stella.
Please what do you suggest i do?
1. should i return to my ex (He still loves me and wants me back)
2. should i recommend an organ enlargement, if yes, what are the effects on me and would it affect his ego and our relationship. How will i go about it?
3.Should i damn the consequence and sleep with him.
Stella please your red pen is needed, cos i need advice as i am young and very shy discussing my private issues, and this is the only platform that i can comfortably share my story and get constructive advice.
Thanks again Stella.
My Dear,please,let me read comments today cos i dont seem to understand your questions properly.
Please go back to ur Ex.
ReplyDeleteSee question. Hiss!
DeleteMy dear go back to your Ex if he still loves you... # let me go and charge my battery jare# Brb
DeleteU are a virgin but you have seen all dia cucumbers and little carrots. Kontinuuu
DeleteYou are kidding right? A Virgin bothered about sick size? Smack me!!! Seriously the size of a dick is irrelevant in the scheme of things except if you already have a been g vagina opening which is not the case here.
DeleteIf you love your ex,go back to him.Remember though that you can't find a perfect man.
Your virginity is 6/10.
I am 24yrs old, a lawyer and I am still a virgin. I have seen 6dicks and sucked 5. I am very particular about dick size. I have seen extremely big and extremely small. My dear, don't go for small dick ooo. I sucked a small dick once and I almost swallowed it. Am not exaggerating. Small dicks are annoying.
DeleteWondering why am still a virgin after all these escapades? I am just trying to discipline myself. I like money and am hardworking. I get advances from really rich guys and men. I want to remain focused on my career and future goals.
Poster, you can best be described as a virgin in a maternity ward!!! You know what I mean? #winks
DeleteWow just wow. 5 huh! Were you envisioning your goals as you were polishing those rifles?
DeleteLeave both
DeleteKwakwakwakwa anon 18:10 has killed me oooo
DeletePoster go back to your ex, and get ready for the pain, on the wedding night.
Hmmmm. Anon 18:10...that's not a valid reason of you being a Virgin tho..well like you said you are trying to discipline yourself. But you are a very dirty virgin o. ..even me that I'm not one I have sucked just one...you will be shocked at what some Virgins do...5 dicks!!!hian
DeleteYou people think it's by the size yeah??.it will shock you that some are big and cannot use it...sex is more than the size...I can't even imagine being a Virgin...we all know what we want.
DeleteI don't understand. Sex is important but is penis size a determining factor in choosing a partner? Big engine doesn't mean he knows how to use it.
ReplyDeleteWhy did you and your ex break up in the first place? This your virginity you had to carry it on your chest like it's some kind of price.
Go back to your ex na since big eggplant is what is important to you.
I'm sure his eggplant will take away whatever problems you both had while you dated and will encounter when you marry.
Leave the small penis man for the woman that will love and cherish him.
Better get your priorities right.
Chop kiss 😘 😘 😘
DeleteWould love to know whose doppelganger you are.
I look forward to your comment in this section.
Well said doppelganger.
DeleteLol... nne idi very confused.
ReplyDeleteBabe,I will advise you not to return to your ex because he will break the jinx and let go without marrying you, for the serious guy with small kokoro ,that depends on you, if you think you will like it big buy him an organ enlargement and get him set to your taste before using it and if he refuses with the fear of the health consequence, well let him go too and get someone that will fill the gaps, but mind you, you can never find 100% perfect guy,he can have big kokoro and be sharing it like dasuki arms cash or be a broke ass...you have to think we'll....but wait o it seems girls now adays like it big, kilode maybe I will patronise vulcaniser for private inflation one of this days
DeleteFirst you are a secondary virgin. Imagine lol he dsnt know how to kiss or touch a lady lol. And you know the size of their organs. How did you see it? What were you doing with it? You're not a virgin pls. People are now abusing that word. When you know everything and done everything except penetration, you're not a virgin. You can't do half and half. One leg in one leg out
ReplyDeleteAsin eh.lolz
DeleteEnd time virgin. Trump is coming for people like you
DeleteA hymen dt has not been broken is the determinant of virginity or how else is a virginity test done??? U sound so angry that she is a virgin, did she force u to loose _urs?? Hian!
DeleteI tire o! To some ladies, virginity is all about non-penetration. Some ladies have allowed their boyfriends access into their anus all in the name to remain virgins. Ndi uwa!
DeleteSmall dick is a NO NO. He wont satisfy your sexual urge. The bigger the better. Pls continue experimenting until you find the size bigger than a star bottle.
DeleteTrue,u sound o bitter that she is a virgin,u can claim u re a virgin too,we wldnt if u lie or notnif that will mk you feel good,habaaaaa...y evils@xxxtrinity
DeleteDirty Virgins everywhere.please park well.we are no virgin and we love it like that.I have a friend and her own virginity is real. no fingering, no head,no sucking of dick etc but you can't tell me you do all these and still claim you are a virgin...some of you even do more than non Virgins.so who una dey deceive.continuuuu
DeletePls if you will listen;
ReplyDeleteDon't give up your viginity!
Sex isn't food!
Choose carefully and don't always believe what a man tells you.
What the he'll is she keeping the virginity for??? Being a virgin does not guarantee a good marriage. Poster sleep with the 2 guys if u want and u must not marry them, there are so many men out thr. Keep virginity for who biko? Nonsense.
DeleteIt's her choice anony 16:28. Just like she does not have to listen to Nwa Nlecha,she also does not need to adhere to your opinion.
DeleteWhat sex will cause in this life ehn
ReplyDeleteIt is already causing my sister!
DeleteVirgin indeed
ReplyDeleteAnd you know the size of their dicks and if they can use it
You must be one of those virgins that do oral sex and anal, but keep claiming virgin
You're clearly obsessed with a big cassava so go for it
Someone like you would always find one reason or the other to cheat
I see through you.
Tell am
DeleteChi I swear you read my mind! She is so obsessed with big cassava imagine talking about organ enlargement lol
DeleteTrinity, if we talk further they would call us jealous cause we're not virgins
DeleteHahahahahaha
Let her carry her semi virginity go front.
But really re you guys not jealous? Hian..you can be a virgin and feel a man's erection,and you can feel the size kind of,judging judies...oga oo,awon agbaya
DeleteSo because she's a virgin, she has no right to desire big cassava?? I'm trying hard to understand why you guys are bashing the poster. She only needs answers to her questions. Not your opinions on her virginity.
DeleteNa wah for una.
Na wao, u are a virgin and ur bobo tin is very small, did he show u his dick,abeg am out.
ReplyDeleteI'll read comments. Secondary Virgin
ReplyDelete#Recycled Virgin
Lmao
DeleteThis one na University virgin
DeleteR u sure ur a virgin u seem to know the sizes of these men sexual organs. Or maybe u r a secondary virgin. Lol
ReplyDeleteWhy r u pple so stupid? Virginity doesn't mean blindness, it simply means she hasn't had sex, her hymen is yet to be broken.
DeleteAnonymous u r our chief in stupidity. wen u want to yarn dust please kindly do so elsewer n not under my comment . Now flee
DeleteBut u sound stupid,and she only asked if you re stupid...hian,let me ask then,re you a baby?
DeleteHaha Stella is speechless today. Poster no matter d advice we give here, you will still do dat wch is in ur heart.
ReplyDeleteThis kind virgin wey sabi measure size of penis! I fear who no fear you Madam virgin!
ReplyDeleteHaha Stella is speechless today. Poster no matter d advice we give here, you will still do dat wch is in ur heart.
ReplyDeleteBRB.
ReplyDeleteBabyish chronicle..
ReplyDeleteWhen You is ready to settle down your chronicle will have depth.. 0na never start..
Virgin that knows it all
ReplyDeleteVirgin DAT knows big and small.
Delete😂😂😂 She's a 'Noah'
DeleteThe caption cast my mind back to that old movie acted by Monalisa Chinda and Ejike Asiegbu 'Pregnant Virgin' 😂😂
I think say na Susan Patrick, @ Chikito
Deletedunno what to say
ReplyDeleteThis babe ehn, marriage isn't all about sex you know? Your picking of a spouse shouldn't be all about the size of his penis
ReplyDeletePlease stop it, sex is very important in marriage. What shall it profit her after waiting this long and then have a bad sex life forever. Poster please sleep with the two guys and settle with the one that has it all, character and sex wise.
DeleteU just spoke my mind cos me I can't manage small prick oo sex is very impt in marriage biko
DeleteLmao! Wow! I love your advice! She should just throw away the virginity like that, sleep with the two guys all in the name of testing testing, well I didn't say sex wasn't important too, its not just the ultimate
DeleteLol see you too, the lady says she's a virgin and she knows size and shapes, una dey here dey argue
DeleteHow small is his thing... is it like a carrot or like our last index finger.
ReplyDeleteSince you need cassava go for that one now or you want a carrot then you will come and be writing on anonymous post you want to cheat.
Abeg let me enjoy my TRUMP Win jare. So so so happy, i dont know why.
Dis one na Jamb questions o.
ReplyDeleteUhmmmmm,Follow ur heart dear.
@Tee_y
Lols @Stella's red pen. Me too will read comments.
ReplyDeleteMadam why is all ur worries about d size of a man's prick? And u say u r a Virgin?Are u sure ur Toto is not wide like a bucket?
ReplyDeleteI don't know how this will sound but I'll write it anyway. Go for the one that is more romantic. You like romance and the current one isn't giving/doesn't know how to. Chances of cheating on him will be higher if he doesn't know how to "please" you. Virgins girls tend to like sex more to make up for their celibate days especially when the man is damn good.
ReplyDeleteErmmmmmmm...So as a virgin, you have seen the something. Whoa! Girl! You is sharp!..
Meanwhile still keep those sexy legs closed until you say "I do" because I don't want to hear stories that tickles.
Okay. Cheers!
You're just a virgin not because you're pure, just so you can rub it on people's faces that you're a virgin right? Namsense
ReplyDeleteWhat kinda virgin are you that you already know everything about big/small size, good kisser, organ enlargement and all that shit? I bet you've had multiple orgasms too, maybe even done anal sef.. Better go and pop that cherry already make we hear word for here.
Maybe when you don Pop am with your ex with the big dick, your eye go finally clear. Then you can choose the man you will live with...Good character or big dick?? Ciao
Is a virgin supposed to be blind
DeleteWhy do u sound so stupid, poster didn't say she was born again or pure, she is a virgin cos she has not had sex, why are u so pained? Nobody forced you to give it away to ur broke bf, she is proud to be a virgin. Kill urself
DeletePoster, you are stupid. Does virginity mean you are deaf and not enlightened. I am a virgin and I know alot so shut up
DeleteSo much pain Becky devine. Its not ops fault you are no longer a virgin
DeleteIts not about the size or make of the Car,but the skills of the driver... there is more to marriage than what meets the Eyes. I had eather end up with a perfect gentleman with a nipple-like manhood than a mandingo with bad character...
ReplyDeleteWord
DeleteWho virginity epp.*rolls eyes* would advice u sample both of them before you settle for less.but na wa for ur own virginity,already differentiating preeq,it's obvious you would be sexually active.just like. Me
DeleteDat akwaibom chic...*winks*
Choooii
ReplyDeleteAll these chronicles there is God o
Which kain virgin be this?
ReplyDeleteEnd time Virginia
Na ur virginity they worry u.. U are a virgin but u are already weighing dicks.. D answer is clear for u..
ReplyDeleteDo u know I was reading this and forgot she said she's a virgin and in my mind I was thinking hmm this girl will like sex o until i saw virgin again.poster university virgin u mean.u better confess what's really doing u
DeleteSee virgin wey don spoil finish!
ReplyDeleteDo whatever you feel is right and stop asking stupid questions!!!
Hian!!!!!;
ReplyDeleteHow can you be a Virgin and know the sizes and textures of pricks?
I fear this your virginity oh!
Na only penetration remain oh....
You don even sabi the thing pass me Wey don born 4kids Na wah oh!
NNE if u wan fuck,fuck biko
If u don't want,continue with your virginity, but know that being a Virgin is not all about penetration,your mind,soul etc. have to be virgins too.
No you are wrong, being a virgin is all about penetration, Dats how a virginity test is carried out. Because she has seen her boyfriend's dick and kissed him does not take away her virginity. So many jealous bitches on here. Tufia
DeleteOnce a dick has not entered the pussy, she is a virgin. Jealous bitch indeed
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ReplyDeleteMiss virgin,why are yu bothered over big or small dick? Tot u are a virgin? If your new bf disvirgins you, that's what you will enjoy. You are here following people that aren't virgins to compare dicks...
ReplyDeletePlease forget that your first bf,he's an enemy of progress,he's coming back now when he knows u have someone.
Not true... Size matters to all, even virgins
DeleteYou are truly confused. Gbensh the two of them, I'm sure your brain go enter rest after gbenshing. Lol
ReplyDeletechildish chronicles, mmmtchewwww,
ReplyDeleteWhat a stupid n dumb virgin
ReplyDeleteYou are young and shy and a "vargin" and still finding big pendulum. I wish you the best. Better give your life to Christ and know that it is all vanity upon vanity.
ReplyDeleteit's one thing for a man to have big d**k it's another thing for him to be good in bed.. I won't advice you to have s3x now y don't you keep your self and teach him on how to be romantic... my take
ReplyDeleteMadam Virgin..how will you know the difference between a big and small penis eh?..You want to get married instead of you to pray to God to ask for direction concerning real life issues coconcerning real life issues..you are talking about organ enlargement..I have nothing but pity for you
ReplyDeleteI will advice you go back to your Ex since this your current guy is'nt big down there
ReplyDeleteand you feel comfortable around him...
U are confused.if u are not comfortable with someone including his prick,abeg free d guy jor. And face wat u like.
ReplyDeleteVery confusing chronicle
ReplyDeleteVery confusing chronicle
ReplyDeletePlease madam virgin how did you know the sizes of what they have got between their when you have not had sex with them, make una no dey too lie lie for us.
ReplyDeleteTo your question, analyze what is important to you, great sex, big organ or a caring romantic hubby. Hope you know that having a big organ is not a guarantee that he will be great in bed so be guided.
You can't jump from one tree to another but you can from one man to another.
ReplyDeleteMy dear ask God for directions.
ReplyDeleteIt's not by size o, some guys who r very big down there are not always very good in sex if he has a decent size nd u love him u should think about it deeply becos marriage is way deeper than sex .
ReplyDeleteMtcheeew.
ReplyDeleteAkuko mike
Hian,what kind of rubbish is this?
ReplyDeleteMy dear, u really have to make up ur mind on what u want, nobody can make a decision for you and if you are not convinced about any of them, then my advice for you is to move ahead.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, i thought you said you are a virgin, then how come the second guy can't kiss, does not know where to touch a woman. How come u know the sizes of their 'CASAVA'. I am warning you, take time.
Shine ur eyes as you make ur decisions because ur eye no pure ( you don chop the two 'casavas' already if not u no go know their sizes)
Above all, take it to God in prayers.
Poster, you're a confused somebody. It seems you are very sensual, even when you claim to still be a virgin.
ReplyDeleteI am not in the position to tell you who to marry since is about sex. If sex is the number one on your priority list, then you can go with someone with atleast a medium size.
Someone once told me that is not by size, but by tactics
Another person said, that is what those with small penis usually say.
So, it depends on what you want in the bedroom activities.
My dear, u really have to make up ur mind on what u want, nobody can make a decision for you and if you are not convinced about any of them, then my advice for you is to move ahead.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, I thought you said you are a virgin, then how come the second guy can't kiss, does not know where to touch a woman. How come u know the sizes of their 'CASAVA'. I am warning you, take time.
Shine ur eyes as you make ur decisions because ur eye no pure ( you don chop the two 'casavas' already if not u no go know their sizes)
Above all, take it to God in prayers.
Truth is when u get married u won't be viewing sex the way u are viewing it now that u aren't married. It will still be u that will tell your hubby that he's disturbing u with too much sex. Marriage has little to do with that tingling feeling u have when u meet a guy, he's romantic and all. Believe me when the realities of your new status starts setting in, dick size would be the least of your problems. From research we understand that women are the ones that least desire sex in marriages. So make your choice based on someone who is ready. You dated your ex and both of u were off and on...5 years and he didn't say anything? my dear you want to become a gwegs right? Truly there are times u ain't attracted to your wife and feel like going out but what keeps u is the DECISION u made to be with her forever. I know friends of my wife who are practically hitting at me, but staying disciplined as a man takes a lot of sacrifice and commitment. This your ex, if he's chasing to chow the cookie and not concretely saying anything after 5 years, my dear move on.
ReplyDeleteThe most sensible and mature comment here.
DeleteMy brother chop knuckle. 👊
WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteI swear you ve been disvirgin long time ago and stop reserved. How can a virgin be concern about big or small dick. Abeg park well and fuck urself to stuppor
ReplyDeleteAs a virgin dat u is na.. U v not tested any of d koko and u r talking of d length.. Sisi Nene u like fine boys and I hope dey don't give u gbenlo and runaway cos I guess u don't know what u want yes.. U r talking about love but all I read is fantasy.. Pls u don't need my advice ..u know what u want and u can like to go with the other guy to a "fokaniizer" and pump his action..
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand this chronicle but are you really sure you are a virgin? cos if you are, the thought of him penetrating you with his big d*** for the first time would scare the hell outta you but here you are, getting worried over small d***. As for your question on what to do, just give me 5mins let me ask IFA. **mschew.#wetalkingmoneyyoutalkingnonsense.
ReplyDeleteU get sense! Poster is a liar,she is not a virgin!
DeleteFirstly, you seems to still be in love with your ex,go for him,marriage is not beans,in other not to cheat with him when u marry ur current bf,you can't help him enlarge his organ,let him sort himself if he wants to,lady,enjoy your single life first,u need to be ready emotionally, spiritually, financially n other wise before talking about marriage, BTW,he doesn't know how to kiss? u know d size already?what kind of a virgin are u?if u are still a virgin ,pls don't give it up now,u have ce along way. You can even leave the two of them n try someone neutral. All the best
ReplyDeleteFirstly, you seems to still be in love with your ex,go for him,marriage is not beans,in other not to cheat with him when u marry ur current bf,you can't help him enlarge his organ,let him sort himself if he wants to,lady,enjoy your single life first,u need to be ready emotionally, spiritually, financially n other wise before talking about marriage, BTW,he doesn't know how to kiss? u know d size already?what kind of a virgin are u?if u are still a virgin ,pls don't give it up now,u have ce along way. You can even leave the two of them n try someone neutral. All the best
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm stupid chronicle
ReplyDeleteDo you want to marry a gentleman or a penis?
ReplyDeleteThe reason why God created man and woman not to have sex before marriage is because you don't taste the sweetness of sex and begin to compare Mr A and Mr B or Mrs A and Mrs B. Since you claim to b a virgin you can go ahead and marry your new boyfriend because you have never tasted b4.Mrs Ekaite hope you be în church today this one your picking and cutting my calls. Most importantly talk to God for guidance His our father.And one of his answer will be no gbenshing
ReplyDeleteRecycled virgin mtcheew, u kiss, romance and knows how big and small their cassava is
ReplyDeleteDear u are confused. U said u are a Virgin and u know d sizes of their ABUNA.😃😃😃😃. LOL. No b only Virgin na mergin.
ReplyDeleteVirgin that no all size of dick;VIRGIN MY ASS
ReplyDeleteVirgin sef dey find XXL (Extra large) kondos.. ok na
ReplyDeleteThis poster you must be a very stupid girl. I'm super sure your thinking and all the rubbish you listed are based on the nonsense you hear people discussing here. If you are still a virgin as you claim, how come you know how dicks work? How were you able to see your ex's dick and the new guy's dick? How do you know that big one pleasures better?
ReplyDeleteMy God! I really feel disgusted when I hear people discussing size of dicks on this blog. Please all your focus should be on how to have a peaceful, happy, and fulfilled home/ marriage. What sort of nonsense talk about 'dick' is this? Why not think of a better career path and work towards it. Dick this, Dick that all the time on this blog.
This shows that most people just learn nonsense things only from this blog. The good things are dropped behind for their ancestors.
Please have a fun filled time sizing dicks okay? Don't think of how to better your life and be a great woman. Have you even asked yourself what marriage is all about and how prepared are you both psychologically, Mentally, and Emotionally?. Do you think everything about marriage ends in Sex? It goes beyond that smallie.
Even porn stars lose their marriages to other chicks.Ask Amber Rose and the rest Mstchewwwwwwww.
Mother Nature.
go with the guy dat loves u more.about d size of his kini is not about size oo but how to use d kini dat matters
ReplyDeleteLike BVs have said, Marriage is not all about sex and the size of the organ does not determine how good a man is in bed. It is better to choose the man who is serious about you and would treat you well. Since you said you are Virgin, am sure you will enjoy whatever size you have.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing u are interested in here is sex and penis size. U are still very far from the truth.
ReplyDelete'Ngy Dear'
My dear you are not a virgin
ReplyDeleteMy dear,
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not all about sex. Thank God you are a virgin, you have no experience and you won't know the difference. A man's organ grows in size when he is aroused, so even if he is small, during romanc eand sex he will grow as big as u want him to be and satisfy you.
I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE.
What do u understand as romantic? Forget all those Holywood movies and the big mouthed people we have on this blog oh. Reality is totally different. Romantic is a man who will cook for you, wash your undies when u can't, pet you when you're tired etc.. It doesn't necessarily have to do with sex. When a man treats you that way, you fall in love with him over and over everyday.
What you should concern yourself about should be if he is God-fearing, caring, loving, humble etc.
MOST IMPORTANTLY, You have saved yourself till now, why lose your virginity before marriage. Keep it till the wedding night.
God bless you
Virgin my ass....lies from the pit of hell. The thunder that will strike you would come from Donald trump.
ReplyDeleteKe ihe o na ako?
ReplyDeleteLiar liar pants on fire! You claim to be a virgin but have phd in penis sizes and sexual satisfaction. I troway yansh for you. A.k.A #judiciary
ReplyDeleteNwa virgin Pls how did u get to know the sizes of their dick
ReplyDeleteStop deceiving ur self virgin indeed
Who virgin help self
Abeg commot make I pass
Lie lie
She only said she was a virgin.. she didn't add stupidity to the list dear.
DeleteThis is 2016, these images are just a Google away.
People that read lots of romantic novels have very active imagination too, that is if she does read em.
My darling iphie, the images might be online doesn't mean she knows how satisfaction works. Since she claims to be a virgin, :'all or large doesn't matter because she's never 'tasted' it before.. but she sounds like a pro.. like others have stated, secondary pro..
DeleteU under age girl sending nonsense
ReplyDeleteDo u think we have block brain like u
Virgin indeed
All these olosho girls having a problem with her saying she's a virgin. As long as your hymen isn't broken, you remain a virgin. Ignore these girls that started taking dicks in since they were 8.
ReplyDeleteYou must be a secondary virgin too😃😃
DeleteTrinity stop sounding so dumb, it's either u r a virgin or not, nothing like secondary virgin. D girl didn't send u to start fucking before marriage, Urs is even worse, u ve the evidence following u around.
DeleteAnonymous shush it.
DeleteA virgin that her anus has been run through tirelessly? We read their stories here everyday
Spoilt bunch going about with their virgin veil when their anus has tasted all sizes of cassavas
If you've not kissed,seen a dick or even touched it then come and claim virgin to me
But if you've done all of the above, gtfo of my face with that virgin talk.
Dear poster,stop replying pple under "anonymous" U ain't a virgin!!!
DeleteI will advice you go back to your Ex since this your current guy is'nt big down there
ReplyDeleteand you feel comfortable around him...
Childish chronicle, lemme watch Trump on cnn abeg
ReplyDeleteNa wah oo. These bvs sef. No be una they always advise virgins say make them they check d size of the something before marriage to avoid stories that touch? Well, poster, d only thing I get to talk be say, in as much as prick is important to u, don't make it a priority. At least not above gd xter
ReplyDeleteGo to ur ex let him disvirgin u,then sleep with ur present boyfriend n then you would knw who to marry,while ur at it,sleep wf different men also to have a wider variety OK?
ReplyDeleteFacts about our dear virgin poster girl;1. Shes into romance novels, and yes even erotica(we know).2. She masturbates(maybe while fantasizing about how big and hard a dick will feel inside her.. By the way, I heard that can be overrated so don't expect thundering orgasms the first time u do it. 3. She can't have sex so she reads about sex..(thanks to google our very good friend, hence her in depth knowledge of dick sizes and penis enlargement.4. She's probably into soft porn... These r just guesses, I dunno if you r into all these but the only thing I'd say is that ur curiosity will keep eating at u till u do it with your ex. Go with your heart...
Delete#If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough*
ReplyDeleteLike seriously... Am not understanding our ladies anymore. Ur hammering on u being a virgin yet ur weighing sizes dats d best... How sure r u dat ur ex can perform well?? maybe coz his carrot is full ba?? Ya confusion will keep u on hold, better know wat u want nd go for it...
ReplyDeleteClearly, i'm late to the party but i felt led to drop a comment here though your story is not the type i fancy.
ReplyDeleteThank God you sent this story now, it isn't late for you to do right.
I believe you are a virgin, who is trying to be a sharp gal by checking out the sizes of penis of your men. Can't rule out the influence of this blog on that behaviour. You do not want to carry last in your human wisdom and i will not judge you for that.
However, you are making a big mistake gauging the potentials of a future life partner based on Romance,Attraction and size of penis.
Now don't get me wrong, your concerns are not minor at all. However, you are focusing on the NOT MAJOR.
Take this honey, after the God factor, other parameters that will aid a beautiful union is a level of predictability mixed with healthy spontaneity embedded in solid values, ethics and sensitivity.....before sex. Sex is basically to AID bonding(not for bonding) and for procreation. Now you see why i said, you are focusing on the non major.
You are a virgin and there is no space for God in your relationships...big mistake. Applying human sense, you are doing it wrong as well.
You see the term "romantic" has been terribly bastardized.
If you really seek a man who will give you that sweet fuzzy warm feeling you need and the type that would last long... NEVER go for a romantic man, go for a SENSITIVE guy...got you there didn't i?
Take some examples,a romantic guy calls you all day to check on you, sends you sweet texts, opens the car door for you, takes you out, brings gift....all cute.
But a sensitive guy knows not to call you so late just coz he want to hear your voice(romantic) because he knows you need your beauty sleep. He sees your hair all scruffy and old, and knows he needs to take you to a salon and probably buy another pack of weave for later. When you tell him you are hungry, he gets bulk foodstuffs sent to you and not take you to fastfood. In essence, he SEES you, applies himself in a manner that makes you a priority and loves you realistically.
Mr romantic aims to impresw you, goes the extra mile for you, do the extra ordinary to put that smile on your face.
Mr sensitive studies you, your likes and peeves, is proactive in his loving, khows when to stay and when to back out.
Now make no mistake, mr romantic can be sensitive sometimes. But he can't keep up. Sensitive is maturity with a deeper and less energy level. Romance is shallow,hormone driven and a very exertive venture, it will eventually burn out....Ever wonder why they say love is not enough. Romance fades and isn't realistic over time.
Now while romance may not be sensitve, sensitive have every possibility of being very romantic....see the difference.
Romance can be inspired by a lot ranging from true affection to fleeting infatuation. Sensitivity is a lifelong character, bred by decent values, keen observation, selflessness and love.
Is Ex or Mr Penis romantic or sensitive,be sincere to yourself.
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DeleteBest advice from a matured mind.
DeleteBest advice from a matured mindset
DeletePoster, this is an exposé to your situation. Take this!
Deletevirgin kwa? I remember the day I was disflowered, I was very shy didn't even have the mind to look at the guy dick talk more of touching it. I started getting use to touching after I got married.. so sister how come u know the size, the guy open e boxers show you abi you peep when them dey urinate? my sister fear God ooo... you sound like a virgin with an ashawo heart...
ReplyDeleteNow to address your second concern....sexual compatibility.
ReplyDeleteA big penis does not a good sex make.
Good sex is a function of mental state(mood), right environment, incentives like money, previous selfless acts, mood appropriate music, food, recognition of when to relinquish control and, when to listen and learn pleasure spots to better lovemaking experience and enhance bonding.
There are many men with rods of jericho with terrible bedroom mindset and delivery and vice versa and reversa.
So pls, do not base choosing a husband on penile size...silly gamble.
My advise to you, go back to your ex..you love his P and you are fiercely attracted to him
You want a big d**k and romance, nothing to be ashamed of at all. However, go back to your ex as a fresh start, yeah, not to continue from where you stopped before.
Reassess him afresh and properly, evaluate his plans and flaws. Your biggest challenge will be eliminating bias formed by familiarity and attraction, and staying truthful to yourself.
Guage your tolerance range, know the flaws to accept, never underestimate deal breakers. Love with your brain and carry your love microscope along with a realistic checklist of qualities. Carry God along and leave amu alone.
Whatever you do, never part with them cookies....less drama, faster closure, more dignity, less distrust and hate for the male specie when shit hits the fan okay,
Goodluck.
Poster, this right here (Emp Cho's opinion) is some sauce.
DeleteIMO, leave the two, give yourself some time and hopefully someone new comes along who'd tick many of your boxes.
Might I ask why ladies are always bashful toward virgins? If she decides to test the waters without penetration, isn't that her headache? It seems there's some kinda anger towards virgins as if they hurt anyone making their choice. Hian!
My advice is for you to pray fervently and ask God for direction.A big dick and a romantic husband doesnt conclusively mean your marriage will turn out sucessful.Theres how things will be that you will wsh you had gone for the guy with the smaller dick. Also look at other Characteristics. Write down whats important to you in a scale of preference. ..and pls dont tell any guy about penis enlargement o.
ReplyDeleteFor me big dick and romantic husband matters a lot in Marriage.i didn't know this until I gave birth to 2nd child Who was very big at birth and my Veejay became expanded and I don't know if my husband enjoys it anymore because I don't feel him no more.when I had my first child I was stil very tight to an extent that we use KY jelly.if Hubby was big down thr,am sure he will stil be able to fill the place.
ReplyDeleteAm not understanding so virgins aiint allowed to secure their future sex life? mtchew, poster which kind virgin you sef be, seems like your number one priority is their dick size,since they can both get an errection then what's the issue? am not understanding jare
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