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CANADA OR LONDON?

Hello Stella ,may God continue to bless the works of your hand.
Here goes my chronicles , I'm a 31 year old lady ,beautiful ,educated,not fully employed but do some small small contract jobs ,I also have 2 men in my life let's name them X and Y. I've know X for 5years but we've never met in person ,he is from the south south area like me,he's 49 (I like my men a little bit older,so the age is not a problem before BVN's start cussing me)he has a 16 year old daughter but has never been married.

He is well educated ,a Canadian citizen and has a good job.we've been on and off cos he always tells me he will come to Nigeria but always ends up changing his mind,so I had to free him until about 4months ago when we started talking again after almost a year . 

His dad suffered a stroke recently so he is planning to come in January 2017,he plans on staying for 2weeks ,see his dad and me and go back not mentioning anything about seeing my parents cos we discussed that about 2months ago.i really like him.

I've known Y for about 4years ,he is based in London but we've never met,he is 40,from a Muslim family but turned christian 15years ago,he has a job (not so cool job)but he earns well,he is living illegally in the UK and he is very bad with English-speaking and not yet a British citizen .

He has never been married and no kids.When we started talking initially he said he likes me and want me as a wife but I never took him seriously cos he always says some annoying things like ''marry me and I'll changer your life'' .

We met 2weeks ago and I must say the chemistry between us was awesome.He is like the perfect man I've been looking for ,what attracted me to him is his love for God (he knows the word a lot),a worker in church,funny ,cool headed ,doesn't drink or smoke and he is extremely caring ,I invited him over to where I was staying in London ,he met my aunt and her husband and he told them about his intentions towards me , he also spoke to my mom and siblings in Nigeria.

he invited me over to where he stays to let me know he doesn't have anything to hide and showed me all his recent medical reports to show he doesn't have a problem in case I'm thinking he isn't married cos of a reason .one thing led to the other we kissed and made love (protected sex)and it was explosive . We saw frequently for the 2weeks.I was leaving London few days ago and he brought 2 big bags of stuffs he bought for me and an extra bag full of items for every member of my family. 

He followed us to the airport waited till I checked in before he left with my aunt.I was stunned.He is already drawing out a business plan for me on what I can do (he is ready to foot the whole bill).For the past 1week he calls my mom everyday to check on her and pray for her cos she's been ill for months.He also made me and my family understand that he can't travel out of UK for now if we are to do any wedding preparations but his family will represent him and all the wedding prep can take place.

He says it's my choice if I want something big or small but it doesn't make sense doing something big since he won't be present.He says since I have a valid visa I can always visit him so we can start a family,I have a valid 5years visa .He wanted to order for a car for me when we spoke on phone yesterday cos I'm back in Naija and I said ''wo wo wo slow down oga''.

So instead he told me if he could get me a ticket for December to come spend a month so we can get to know each other more,I'll be staying with my aunt which he is cool with.my aunt's daughter is having her birthday soon and he says he wants to represent me there.My aunt and her husband already like him,i also noticed people seem to like him a lot even with his bad English.

Now my issue is his bad English ,he can hardly express himself in English except he adds a little bit of pidgin or Yoruba,i feel a little bit embarrassed when he talks outside ,funny enough he Writes well and he is a graduate! 

Does good English speaking really matter in choosing a spouse?I've always prayed to God for a good man but this looks too good to be true .And No I'm not desperate for marriage ,I think this is just my season (every lady has their season in case some bvn don't know that) 

I've got other suitors too but this is the two I really like .
Thanks Stella.

*Hmmmm the Canadian guy is indecisive and sounds like a NO NO NO...

The London guy sounds too good to be true so you might as well go for it if you like him and stop double dating cos that alone causes confusion and at the end of the day you might make a wrong choice altogether.

When you are really into someone and fall in love with them,their flaws fade into nothing...forget that his spoken English is bad and begin to see him as your personal comedian ..lol

Hmmm it sounds too perfect,I hope it remains that way if you decide to marry him.All the best with him.....Forget that Canada man abeg!