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A MARRIAGE THAT ENDED ON THE WEDDING NIGHT

This is going to be a long chronicle but please bear with me, I will make it as short as possible.

I sent my WNB that my marriage ended on the wedding night.

 here goes the main gist

I met my ex, Mr. Cee (to identify him ) through his cousin let's call him mr. F. I was in a friend's birthday get together when Mr f came around and sat close to me, my first day of seeing him. We started gisting with other guests, after the party he told me he likes me a lot that I am very calm, respectful and I laugh a lot (truthful observation) .

I said thanks and jokingly said he wants me to be part of their family and that his cousin would like me because himself is married BT we just laughed it off. 

Days later the celebrant called me that Mr. F called to ask for my number, I was sceptical BT the celebrant guaranteed me that Mr. F is a long time friend and a very nice man though the cousin he has not met but has heard about him. So my number was given(i was single) and Mr. F called me, after plenty talk, he said Mr. Cee will come to our state to see me (me and Mr. F live in same state BT Mr Cee lives in a nearby state) . 

One Friday morning my phone rang and one of the sweetest voice I have ever heard with a british accent introduced himself as Mr. Cee and said he's in town now and somewhere close to my house with Mr. F if I could come see them. I went there lol and behold, Mr Cee looked as good as his voice. 

We spoke and right there his father called him to ask if he has seen me, he said yes, na so would be father in law say make dem gimme phone, I talked to him, he sounded excited and wanted to see me.

Fast forward, me and Mr. Cee started talking , Mr. F calls me often to know how far we were going and if everything was perfect. Two weeks later, father in law called to see me, after much excuses which he won't take, Mr Cee came over to pick me to see his dad, the old Man was happy to see me (he's divorced) after much gisting Mr. Cee proposed right there and then, I said yes because I was already liking him, he was gentle, and was acting responsible, he wasn't rich BT he wasn't poor either. After then they started talking marriage this na one month gist oh. 

I said no and delayed for another three months before I finally agreed for introduction and wedding date was fixed for four months time. Simply because he was in another state, we weren't seeing often cos my parents believe not until after marriage you can't be going to stay with a guy, they will say intro no be marriage. So we were always talking on the phone, I visited him few times before the wedding but he was always coming to see me. 

Shortly before wedding I was no longer feeling right about the whole plan, i felt i was being rushed but my parents will not hear of it, they had told everybody their daughter was getting married and I can't disgrace dem. I allowed. 

At this point till my wedding day i can swear Mr. Cee had the best behavior, he would call me first thing in the morning and last thing before he goes to bed telling me what he did for d day and where he went, never got angry with me, he treated me like a queen even when I went to his house, he won't allow me pick a pin. I never cooked for him because he does the cooking,he says cooking before wedding is meant for men, cooking as a women is meant for wives not girlfriends, he can't be suffering another man 's child as a girlfriend, prayed with me, encouraged me to always go to church and also tell me all the sweet nonsense girls like to hear. 

After wedding, a week later little argument , Mr. Cee descended on me and beat me blue and black, injuries and blood everywhere, it took intervention of neighbours to hold him. 

That was when I realized I was in a big mess.

 he apologised,drove me to the hospital for treatment then I started getting the shocking revelations. Mr. Cee takes all the hard drugs you can ever think of, and drinks any kind of alcohol which he knows I detest (I never knew). He became violent, I was not allowed to leave the house if he wasn't going with me, if I had to answer calls and he's there it has to be on speaker claiming he doesn't want anybody advising his wife wrongly. 

I started walking on egg shell in my matrimonial home because any little mistake, he will become violent either physically or verbally. I became a mumu so as to avoid wahala. Its as bad as him telling me when to go to bed.

 he refers to me as "hey you". 

One day I called him and asked him why he married me, he told me he never loved me, women means nothing to him but the pressure from his family was getting too much so he told them to look for a wife for him, whoever they find he will accept that he just needs kids after which I can go if I want to go, he told me all the times he kept quiet and played cool before the wedding, he was actually pretending and laughing at me for believing all the lies and that i could ask his family, if they are truthful they will tel me. 

I couldn't believe my ears.

 He would insult me and my family at the slightest provocation and tell me even if I leave him, am already second hand and no man will marry me. I called his family they will beg and tell me he's been like that but thought he would change after marriage and we should all pray for him, I couldn't tell my family yet because I was ashamed and I also wanted to gather enough evidence to show when I finally come out . 

I started to snoop, looking for evidence and I found out he was gay. 

OMG. 

I don die, no wonder he keeps his friends away, they never come home or come anywhere I might be. On top all these his only sister will be controlling me and him upandan, whatever she says stands. I decided I have to leave before he kills me. 

A good day when he went out, I parked stuffs and I ran away into hiding. Mr. F called me and I told him I can't cope anymore. Then the wahala started, Mr. Cee said I am his wife he won't let me go, I said no wahala, with all my evidence I got, I contacted a rugged lawyer, after the lawyer heard my case, he told me not to worry. 

When Mr, Cee saw all the accusations in the divorce letter, and the evidences against him I had, he started to beg, he loves me, the devil pushed him and his sister told him to ensure he subdued me by force because she feels if I have freedom, I will control him, that's why he did all that, that he got wrong advises the same person that didn't call me when I left his house oh. I said it's over I can't cope. When he saw that water had passed garri he let me be, he refused coming to court oh, reasons best known to him . Na so judge take grant me divorce after all the adjournment and he refused to show up. 

I left the marriage barely one month after it was contracted. My only happy moment as a married girl was my wedding night. My family stood by me all through. My story is like a movie, even me that it happened to is finding it hard to believe, I was broken, I was shattered, I cried and still crying thinking about the divorcee title I now have at this young age, i felt like dying But i still trusted God believing He had a reason why it all happened because I know something is wrong with him spiritually because even though i am not trying to praise myself I can confidently say that I am a very quiet and peaceful girl, I never insulted him, even when he hit me I plead and scream for help, I never raised my hand against him, so his reactions were not provoked.

 I may not be a princess but I still fine, slim, flat tummy, tall, and in my 20's.

 When Mr. F asked him what was his problem, if there was something I was doing that offended him, he said nothing, it was manipulation. I have forgiven him, I have forgiven Mr. F but I have not forgotten, I can't even forget because I am now a DIVORCEE.

I am still very single but I know love will find me soon, a man that will reciprocate my love and respect.

I introduced him to this blog and I hope he still visits here so he can read his story. Attached is my pic as a fine girl that I IS nau and the pics of the injury I still have on my phone, this particular one was less than a week of the wedding, for your eyes only please. 

I am putting this here for people to see how wicked some men are not for any  advice of me giving it a second chance, watch war room or drink coconut oil (lol)because I am already divorced, my life is very precious to me. hailings to queen and boss, ideato , chi exotic, doppelganger, I love your comments.

Stella boo, my village near your own so I be your sis, isoko wadooo. lol


Oniovo,i read your story like five times before posting..my mouth is still hanging loose..dunno what to say!.

Thank you for sharing your story babe!