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Hello Stella and hello to you bvs. Where do I begin with my labour room experience?
I'll start with the pregnancy it was full of drama, found out I had fibroid during pregnancy and turns out I had 5, 2 on my cervix which would prevent normal delivery, so accepted my faith that I'll be having caesarian section.
I remember my first throwing up at exactly 6 weeks I was like yay I'm pregnant and enjoying the symptoms,if only i knew the drama that will come with it lolz, threw up until I was about 25weeks lost a stone, was admitted for being dehydrated.
Fast forward to my last scan I was told the fibroid on my cervix has disappeared and I was excited that at least I can attempt a natural birth( hey nothing wrong with c-s) fast forward to 39 weeks saw my midwife and she promised me a membrane sweep the next week if baby isn't out, by 40.2 weeks I saw blood (apparently the show) went to hospital and they sent me back home saying it's my show, 40.3 went to midwife and she said since I'm bleeding she can't do a sweep anymore but the blood looks more than usual and I should go back to hospital ( by the way labour pain had started to kick in but not frequent enough)
Anyway went back to hospital and they sent me back home saying it's the show and I'm not dilated at all, 40.4 pain has intensified like I'm screaming in my home can't do anything at all, had 3 warm baths at this point pain wasn't easing, rang the non emergency line and I couldn't talk as the pain was hell, hubby takes over the phone and the doctor that was dealing with us could hear me screaming and said I should go back in to hospital and if I have to go 12 times I should keep going.
So packed myself to hospital again they checked me and I was 1cm dilated, darn I was crying at this point, they gave me a canister of gas and air but didn't do shi shi for me, they put me in a room but like a lounge and I was sharing with someone else so it's like a competition who could scream the loudest, the woman came and left chai!
So a midwife checked me again same thing 1cm.. so I begged her and she said the doctor has agreed that they will induce me oh was i happy, hmm 40.5 no doctor or consultant has come to see me, bare in mind i haven't slept or eaten since I came to hospital cause the pain wakes me up so I gave up on sleep, 40.6 still no doctor but they checked to see how dilated I was, erm wait for it...1cm
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I mean my heart was shattered like WTH one stupid doctor came and was having a go saying it's normal to go through all this as per first child but I knew this wasn't normal but no one seem to be listening to me.. I could hardly walk, I kept telling them I feel like my vajaja was going to fall off, by evening I have given up on life, screaming no one gave me attention oh lol!
Eventually my mother said let's go for a walk I'm like me I can't walk oh, eventually I started walking round the ward but as pain comes I'll stop and be screaming haha, eventually a midwife said go to that room let me check you boy was I happy but then she checked and wait for it....1cm
In my head I'm like Jesu. Eventually doctor came and said this has gone on enough let's break your waters n get things going. At this point I'm like thank you Jesus.
Got wheeled in to labour room. Put a catheter in, my waters got broken and epidural was administered and i was able to sleep for the first time for 3 hours oh. Midwife woke me up and they put drip to start labour, With drip nothing happened oh just 1.5cm, didn't feel much pain thanx to epidural, drip finished, they gave me another one and increased the speed, next thing about 5 specialist came in, told me they will come back in 30min to see if any progress, 30min still 1.5cm by the way this is 41week by now oh.
So they decided to check baby to see if he's in distress, in the process of doing that, a senior specialist came in and said no take her in for surgery now because it seem there's an obstruction somewhere!!
Next thing they are taking out drips and wheeling me into surgery, within 20min baby's out. The recovery was crazy I tell you but my joy knows no bound with my child. I pray for anyone who's waiting on the Lord, God will definitely make you smile .
AMEN.
Thanks
So what was blocking?the fibroids or what?...Congrats and AMEN to your prayers for others.
Waoh! God really sad you through.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations dear!
ReplyDeleteThis your LRD is a 'cinematic' movie.
Crazy hospital. Why make you go through all that when you would have gone on for c section immediately??
ReplyDeleteI wonder why they let you go through such excess pain than take in for surgery immediately as was initially planned.
ReplyDeleteI thank God you and your baby made it safe.
Throwing up for such a long time must have been hell! 😨😨😨pensive wondering how mine will be
Chei! Women dey suffer oh
ReplyDeleteCongrats thank God for safe delivery. You had a bad labour the midwives and doctors should have known better. Sometimes the NHS is annoying, but they are trying their best.
ReplyDeleteThey were wonderful after delivery I know NHS tries but it's crazy cause for the midwifes it's their job but the thing is this is ny life chai! I can never forget the experience
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ReplyDeleteWhiteberry, when will you give up? Nobody is willing to assist you.
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DeleteAnon 15:10, you are an idiot.are u sure u re nt same person offering her a job .am sure she rejected ur offer because same thing u have done now, that's same thing you would be done with the information on her CV. I can say for such that u re a Scammer. Only trying to know who whiteberry is.you've got no job offer so plz keep it to itself. Its a good thing she turn ur scammed offer down rubbish
DeleteSeems like you had your baby at a general hospital..after days of suffering they still carried out surgery na wa o..lemme see if i'll send mine sef
ReplyDeleteNope in the uk oh
DeleteLol. Amen to your prayer.
ReplyDeleteSwt thank God for u
ReplyDeleteThank God for you O. Answer Stella' question in the comment section.
ReplyDeleteCongrats dear. I will tell my own gist soon..
ReplyDeleteThank God for you life.
ReplyDeleteThat hospital is bad abeg didn't they remember you have /had fibroid to aatleast perform Cs and thereby removing them or even carrying out scan. Why allow you stay for days before they remember to check if baby was okay. Thank God for you finally.
ReplyDeleteThat your pain was hell. Next time, opt for CS and pick a date.
ReplyDeleteDunno why I don't have patience for prolonged labour... if someone isn't dilating past 1cm for hours, isn't it obvious something is wrong?
ReplyDeleteMust a woman go through enormous pain before they prep her up for surgery?
Nawaooh.
She didn't tell us wat caused d problem
ReplyDeleteMe I didn't understand the 40.1-5. Congrats.
ReplyDeletecongrats dearie, may ur child bring u so much happiness cos u deserve it
ReplyDeleteWonderful.God bless u n your baby.
ReplyDeleteThank God your baby came out strong..
ReplyDeleteBiko follow me and thank God my 15 yrs old kid brother had a fight with one boy yesterday , he hit him with iron rod on his head. He passed out instantly bleeding he was rushed to hospital and Today he has regained consciousness and the scan result also said it didn't affect his brain.
ReplyDeleteThanks God for his life.
DeleteThank God for your delivery..
ReplyDeleteThank God for you.your experience was terrible and it was risky to leave the baby for so long without checking if baby is distressed. Your tried sha being in pain for a wèek. Thank God it ended well.
ReplyDeleteThis is the reason we should always pray for God to give us the best people when it's our time for delivery.
ReplyDeleteWhat's the point in letting you suffer that much and still CS?at even 41weeks? Am just so angry.
ThankGod you and your baby are okay.
Thank you all they never told me what was blocking it at all and I will never know even though I asked! Infact it doesn't matter I'm happy it's over and my boy is doing well he wil be 2 months soon
ReplyDeleteI say a big Amen to your prayers
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