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BEHIND EVERY UNSUCCESSFUL MAN IS HIS WIFE CARRYING THE BLAME.

Stella, please I need advice, suggestion seriously,concerning my husband, because I was just been told that for my husband to be successful depends on me. 

My Dh is a good,honest,dedicated, faithful to God and to me and hardworking man as in a hustler yet nothing to show for it. He was working before he later

joined his brother in his business, the business started booming all BUT 

of a sudden, the brother said he wants to close down the business.

 DH started looking for job everywhere but nothing was forth coming, He was

introduced to somebody that gets work for people, the man started

posting him, today, tomorrow, next week and all that, later he met one

man that owns a company and the man told him to start work, getting

there they met the admin who is the mans brother stated talking to the

man in their dialect that was how the admin said bring CV that they

will call him, up till today no show. 

He has applied and applied still nothing, in fact so many cases which I can't begin to mention. On my own I said ok let me start something maybe that is where open doors will come, I applied to some places still nothing, I later got 17,000 naira job which always leave us in debt because is not enough. Feeding

is a big issue, we are not talking of good food again because basic

food is not there, my children are even at home no school this term,

because last term we did not pay.

I cant go and beg the school again,rent is almost due infact everything is upside down. We have prayed,night, midnight, early morning, morning, nothing, fasted end of the month, beginning of the week,month, middle of the month yet nothing.

Gone to Church programs, mfm all to no avail, he keeps on meeting

people they will be making promises, whenever I come back the first

question I ask is did anybody call you, and the answer which I have

been praying against will come out which is no, dh is a hustler, at

times small money will come out when he helps people do things. In

fact is better imagined than experienced because we are in a very bad

situation.

The main thing that made me write this is that on Sunday 4th

September, one woman was preaching in my Church she said that for your

husband to be successful that it is in your hands the wife, and if he fails

it is also in your hand, many women that their husbands are rich nodded

in agreement.

 Stella I was weak I started thinking what I have I done,or what am I doing that is wrong, that is causing all these I can't think of anything,I know I have prayed all manner of prayers personally,have done thanksgiving prayers, sown seeds and so many others but no result. I have not been able to sleep well and I have

not gone to my church since then.

I am asking please bvs, men that are successful what has your wives

been doing or done to help, women whom their husbands are successful

what did you do to achieve this ? advice me on what to do,Stella your

red pen is needed too because I know your DH is a successful man.

thank you and God bless.

*I am sorry but i do not understand what the woman preacher means.....

What every man needs is encouragement and as long as he has the zeal it will happen.I dont know what else to say but DH wasnt rich when we married but i saw the light behind him and just pushed and encouraged.He was just coming out of University so you can imagine how scared i was thinking if it would work or not.

Maybe you will find answers in the comment section.