WHAT nonsense !!!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BREAK UP ISH
Good day Stella,I'm in a confused state right now,it's a complicated situation but I'll try to make it as simple as......
my younger sister who is 19years old just broke up with her boyfriend not less than 3weeks ago,the guy had engaged her and wanted to marry her by December.he met her while she just came into the university,...but she wanted to study abroad so she applied and gained admission in Canada,tried for visa twice and finally got one,meanwhile she and this dude were barely communicating at the time of her visa procurement.
She was in lagos at the time and mentioned it to the said bf,he Picked interest and started pushing for marriage....time for her travel he booked her flight ticket to and fro,by fro I mean March this year,without the knowledge of my parents guess he had his plans,he gave her a ring of which I didn't know it was for engagement,cus she was not bold enough to let me know but I later found out,he bought her phone,laptop,clothes etc.and for the BTA he provided 1000cad which my parents tried to give him back but he refused...
She travelled by May and he's been sending her money for accommodation and feeding but my parents paid her school fees.i personally wasn't in support of her getting married at such age and then coming back to Nigeria by Xmas for trad,white wedding,and court,I always felt he was up to something...
he'll talk bout he's plans to start doing business in Canada after they had gotten married,how he'll be visiting her four times a year and also she coming back every Yuletide season.i just felt marriage will deter her from concentrating and focusing on developing her life,at such young age,I even told him to let her be for at least two years but he'll prove stubborn!
Meanwhile in all of this he hasn't seen my dad,the couple of times they spoke on phone he'll tell him my daughter isn't getting married now...but I guess he was moving with his plans he had with my sister.my sister called it quits with him recently for some reasons....the story is long!!
he's asking for refunds of all he has spent on her,my sister agreed to pay him back,he asked she returned the phone and laptop....he called my parents and threatened to go diabolical with revenge in his words....here are some of the chat he had with my sister please stella make it anonymous......I just need To know what you guys think on this matter,and Stella please your input will be appreciated.thanks
Oh chikoo
ReplyDeleteSome men sef
Smh
I won't insult this guy till I hear his own side of the story. This narrative is one - sided & there could be more from the man. I mean, u claim ur dad was not in support, yet this same dad allowed the man to pay her rent etc? That doesn't add up o. Abi ur dad paid rent & ur sis still collected 'more rent'? If the guy can afford all these, then he is not a broke ass na, cause I feel u are insinuating that he's an opportunist trying to take advantage of her 'abroad'.
DeleteSha return the man's money & belongings, atleast for the sake of pride. I don't even know why u are asking for opinions on that. I'm really tempted to accuse u of playing the victim when really, the man is. But what do I know.
He's simply a boy. Real Men don't ask for pay back
DeleteThe man is a douche
DeleteThe man is a douche
DeleteYou are the douche mosi
DeleteOrdinary 150 pounds somebody paid for my ticket from Italy to London he he kept me awake to pay back just because I caught him in his game and he knew he will not have a way with me and I did not even ask him to buy it o. Some men are born useless, I don't want to know how much he has spent on the girl, Abingdon he never kiss her before? desperate ppl everywhere.
DeleteHmmm
DeleteHe wants to go diabolical? Pay him his money oooo before una go dey find am later dey beg am to come cure crase or other ailment.
@ mawi
DeleteSome of the things u wrote up there is so right
The guy ain't any broke ass, maybe he wants yur sis to give birth to their children in Canada
Or he wanna catch your sister young
U guyz should his things then n let peace reign
My take,The story is disjointed,your sister has big eyes,what else?😕
DeleteThis is what my dad always drummed in our ears while growing up - ku'da k'sung unyimme owoden ndó ( don't stand on the road and agree to marry any man)
DeleteI was always cautious with any bf...always..no talk of marriage, no collection of ring or such and they always know of my dad's speech of making sole marriage agreement...
Your sis went a long way on her own..it was only when it was obvious that it was getting beyond her that she began to involve y'all..now the whole family has to deal with the matter.
So in the interest of peace, settle the man..I hope she has learnt her lesson!!
Such embarrassment
Poster send in d full convo. Im very very sure ur sister must ve bragged abt paying bk reason hes so upset n askes her 2 pay.
DeleteDude might just say something like "after all ive done 4 u?" Or after all weve been tru? N ur sister goes d ill refund all uve spent on me.
Abeg let them settle their ish but it sound more like ur family used him n hes hurt. Talk true poster.
Story is somewhat vague. Why did your sister dump him? And why was she allowed to collect all that she collected? Your parents obviously led him on jare. Why didn't your parents pay for her accommodation and everything? Why allow the man pay and your parents are forming they wanted to return the things he bought? Haba greed! And you people knew the girl was playing him all the while. Abeg give back everything he has given your sister. Sounds like a very rich ibo trader.
DeleteI no see anything wey point to him being
Deletediabolical anywhere, why lead him on since you know what he wants? Una no try jor, return what you can.
You guys should return his things.
ReplyDeleteWhy did you father accept he pays her rent and all apart from school fees and not ready to give her hand out.
You guys must be greedy.
Though he is Childish, but Refund and return everything
Full refund sef.
DeleteLet's be for real here sha! It's painful na, he made his intentions known from d start and clearly everyth he has done for her was with those intentions @ heart! If ur sis knew she wasn't up for it she shud never have taken anyth from him! Is she tryna display smartness? As per chop clean mouth in dis economy? Come on now! I feel his pain sha... he may jst be venting, she shud return phone n laptop.
Deleteif una fit pay am back d other ones, all d better b4 him go naked stand in front of una house 😂
Very greedy people. That man did all he did because she promised to marry him. They should better return his money. Mtchew
DeleteHe booked her flight ticket without your Parents' knowledge? So how did she travel? Stop making the guy look bad. He is a businessman that wanted to marry and you all encouraged his spending. Now your sister is too young to marry right?
DeleteIt's possible he even paid her school fees and all.
Thank u joor!!! If she even had an inkling of doubt (as she obviously did), she shouldn't have 'graciously' collected all that the guy was offering.
DeletePut yourself in the guy's shoes; he will be feeling like a maga.
Abeg, try to return his 'kaya'
The observer ur head dey dere.
DeleteIf the guy slept with her, then he should return her to the state she was before he slept with her. They are not greedy, in the cause of a relationship spending is allowed and shouldn't be refunded when it crashes. Silly people her trying to act smart. Una dey court sef?
DeleteMadam chronicle stop trying to portray this good man who was only trying to get himself a young wife as an opportunist..did u even read this ur writeup? A man who did all these for ur sister is obviously financially well off..so una wan chop clean mouth abi? Una feel say una don jam mugu bah? Well guess what dat big bone wey una swallow don hook una for throat..so please refund the guy his money and gifts..yelsss..'ur sister broke up with him'..y dint u tell us wat caused the breakup..she thinks she is smart..abeg refund that man before he curses ur sister and ur family.
DeleteReal talk
Delete@Karma...They both slept with each other....Smfh...Only in Africa, and@Poster..your sister being in Canada doesn't mean shit...The guy has a better life than your sister in Canada...Nigerians and their abroad mentality. Bush mentality
DeleteCan he return back the sex if he had any with your sis? If he can then your sister should return all o this things back to him an even her time wasted. To me it's just a threat, and I wounded barking dog, dog, can't bit.
ReplyDeleteIf theyve been having sex, sex is enjoyed by two people.
DeleteNa wa..o, was he sleeping with her for free?
DeleteU make sex sound like it's only one person that's enjoying it. Sigh. Sex involves a man and a woman, u guys shud stop faulting one party when it has to do with sex.
DeleteAnyway, am sure that igbo man is jst paranoid. He thought he was investing in his future. Sigh, but why give a woman gifts and ask them back when things dnt go well? Sigh, she didn't ask u to get them did she?
It's a gudthing ur Sis is willing to do returns and refunds So that there will be peace!! Life isn't that serious mbok.
They did not have sex. Hence his anger and annoyance. He was played obviously. She did not even know his house address.
DeleteReturn what sex? She no enjoy am?
DeleteIf na sex she sef follow enjoy. Haba what was the agreement before? Abeg bo Maga don pay and you collect and Maga don wise you sef must deliver. 14years old with street sense like 50 years! Even your parents should be ashamed. You all are schemers!
DeleteIs she a prostitute that he has to pay for sex? If the guy wanted prostitutes he would have gone to quilox every night and pick different once pay chop and go. She better pay back! Can u paying back for d sex she had with him or you don't know men get paid for sex too. Bush girl
DeleteJust laughing as I read this chronicle, I don't know why I find it funny. The fact is, you people gave that girl too much chance @19, your parents already know this guy and she's collecting gifts from him, SMH. Well, free the guy, he's only lamenting, there's nothing he can do for you people
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Your sister is not wise. From her responses it appears she was taking him for a ride. Accepting the gifts...infact, she had found a MAGA at the time.
DeleteThere are ways of getting out of all this without stress. She obviously did not apply them.
Yes the guy is childish but i blame your sister and your family and the reason is simple. He did all those things based on the perception your sister gave him that she will marry him, its even obvious from the chat cos he said return the things i gave you as my wife.
DeleteYou and your family better return the items and money. Why didnt your parents pay 4 her ticket and all that he was allowed to pay?
Your dad saying on the phone that his daughter isnt ready to marry isnt a way to take responsibility from him. You all are responsible. Why did they break up? Abi your sister now feels hes too low 4 her? Just gv him back his stuff and move on
Mine happened to me in my ss3.the guy was chyking me,then i asked hom for 5k for "waec preparation extra lesson".when he gave me i was overwhelmed.to me it was big money.i and my best friend went to one womans shop and ate pomo tire with 2 bottles of malt.i cant even remember what i used the remaiming money to do.whenever he sees me and ask how far that he is still waiting for my yes or no i will tell him to cool down that am still studying him.omo one day he changed it for me o,that he is tired of waiting,that let us start.i then said no abeg that am still young with a bright future.then he said ok i should give him his money back.small girl like me were i want see money back.even my parents dont give me money when am going to school.just eat breakfast,trek to school then when u come back u eat lunch.I started hidding from him whenever i see him.one day he saw me on top bike this guy drag me down.people nau gathered and was shouting,that he must take me to hospital cos it was a mini accident but I and the bike man were not hurt cos it was in my street and the bike man wasn't speeding.he was still claiming right o.that I chop his money bla bla bla.guys around the scene just changed it for him and warned him seriously.I wasn't still saved o.even when my parents finally got me a phone,I dunno how he got my number.he will be calling me with private number,when I pick he won't talk.I saw him in cold stone last year when I took my kids out.he is now married.he came with his kids.I greeted him he didn't answer me.I was just laughing.
DeleteLMAO@ anon 18:44
Delete😂😂😂😂😂
Is this for real?...
ReplyDeleteWho does this?...the guy must be a Y demon!...
This just reminded me of that blog visitor that collected 100k from a guy he met on SnM that was threatening her life...
Who do men from that part of Nigeria behave this way?...
Na only igbo man fit behave like this. Turning women to investment @ queen and bus
DeleteDon mayor Respect yourself. He might be whichever tribe
DeleteIt can only be my igbo brother Linda Eze. They want to play with my igbo brother brain. Never pay all. Because that is investment.
DeleteWhat kind of man is dis bikonu
DeleteBigot
DeleteYour sister knew his intentions and indulged him.
ReplyDeleteShe wanted to eat and run.
So I don't see how he is childing, men have feelings too and shouldn't be played.
If your parents are so capable why was she going out to get all these little things from a man.
At 19, she is dating and collecting ring. Why did she not reject the ring when it was presented to her.
By the way, it's PTA - personal travel allowance not business travel allowance.
Save your family from insults and return the things to him.
✔💯
DeleteSpot on
DeleteExactly! @ eat and run. It's not fair on d man. Now it seems like he is mean, stingy, childish etc but it's not easy ahn ahn! It's like an investment going wrong, e dey pain!
DeleteChilding?
Delete*childish
DeleteUr head De there Dopelganger.... So they want the guy to forgive and forget. Who does that? Pay him back abeg
DeleteYeso, please return his money, even though I am sometimes inline with chopping a mans money while dating, this is epic. Haba see the kind money way she chop, at 19 she's not even scared that it was too much, and so you know if he goes diabolical it will work. Please return his money, if she likes she can be making mockery of him by saying "yes sir".
DeleteMy thoughts exactly you can't ear your cake and have it
DeleteIt is BTA...Basic Travelling allowance. Don't gv corrections when you aren't sure. Doppelganger thank me later.
Delete@ Dol you get brain
DeleteKisses to you dear
Thank you jare. They want to chop and clean mouth.
DeleteYour parents should refund the money to him, the man is not happy that his investment is about to go down the drain. Thank God your sis didn't marry him, this kind horseband go ask he wife for change wen she come back from market. God forbid bad thing.
ReplyDeleteIt seems the guy wanted to use her to travel out. As plan sooil, he wants his investment. Women open ur eyes o. Not all men who profess love are interested in you
Delete*lights weed*
Use her to travel out how? Listen to yourself.
DeleteAka gum but wait ooo.wot of all d kpekus & affections ur sis gave him?Aradite ojo oo
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteI remember when my younger sis wanted to chop awoof in 2008. Exactly the same thing!! Was like 400k. One Igbo guy like that. Young guy oh. Can't remember his name sef. After she chopped like 200k twice she found out that the guy was bipolar and he was forcing the marriage thing on her. So she called it quits, dude asked for his money back. Stella do you know he kept the deposit slips? From a year back. Now my sis fell ill and had to leave school for a while . She got well like after some months. A year later, He threatened and we called his bluff.
I was home one fine day when my mum called me to come and see something at our gate by 7am. This guy traced our house in Lagos, all the way From Enugu. Started narrating story and saying all sorts to my mum. As I asked him what his name is, he mentioned. My mum said do you know him? I said I've heard the name before. She first gave me a dirty slap.
After this guy said all he could say my mum asked them to give her the tellers and go. My dad was in the US at the time. When my dad came back the next week, see drama. The guy said that money was my sis bride price so we have to return it. Or else this and that....
When the heat was too much, My sis gave 150, I added 50 my other sis added like 50. And we paid into his account. By this time our house was on fire as my parents weren't even answering our greeting. They said we disappointed them.
After we paid in, my dad now called him and told him that his daughters won't pay him any more money And That if he says he paid bride price he should bring proof. And gave him some threats. That's how the guy left.
The next semester, my dad nearly didn't give me pocket money to school oh. See kneeling down. We apologized for This thing for almost one year. Annoying part was that because the guy wasn't sure about our house he went to neighbors house with my sis picture saying she's his wife and he came to look for her cos she's been avoiding him for one year and the family is hiding her after he's paid bride price. Other neighbors kept quiet. But it's one amebor neighbor who finally directed him to our gate. Then that one now circulated the gist to the whole estate that my sis was married 😂😂😂
Since that day, I don't join my younger sisters awoof. Me I chop awoof and rest. Not this one chance awoof. Poster, hmmm.... if he's threatening To go diabolical start by returning his gadgets and $1000. Tell him to give you a figure and Give him a payment plan. I'm very sure he won't hold out so long before his heart gets softened. You can't possibly return every little penny nau. Na all you fit remember??!!No. but return most of it, esp the gadgets. Let him not come and disfigure your sister because of little cheap assistance. My dad let us pay that money to learn our lesson, but in retrospect I thank God. Before someone would have sent madness to my household cos of peanuts.
Chikito, every chronicle u must have a story.
DeleteBabe. @chikito must you always have one personal Life story to share??
DeleteI tire oooooo
This girl! You must be a professional lair!!!! I've been following your comments here. Damn! 😳
DeleteIdeato and two anons- let me address you goats once and for all. Check yesterday's chronicle, did I say anything? Have i even commented on any post today? I only share narratives when I have something to say. When I dont have I ignore. But no, you won't see when I ignore. You very hopelessly come under my comment the day I talk as if you are helping me pay for my wifi. I share my story, problem. I talk about my family, problem. I talk about my job, problem. If you people can't type coherent English and desist from long comments, how is it my problem? The fact that most of you have miserable and uneventful lives doesn't mean all of us have to tow that line. All you do sit here and 'tap' into this and that. Then those of us who aren't 'tapping' become liars.
DeleteAnon 17:32- it's your whole family and generation that are liars. You were born a lie and will always be a lie till you go down to your self-dug grave.
As for you ideato- we are not, can never and will never be on the same class you hear? Im not on your level in ANY way so dont bring your classless attitude near me. With your scratching pussy looking for boyfriend up and down this blog and your scrawny fingers. Local piglet. I'm done keeping quiet for you. If you ever say rubbish under my comment I will shit on you. You won't Continue your street fight with white berry or whatever you want to bring it near me. I don't blame you Shebi na blog we dey blog?
I only comment on chronicles and posts that concern me so I can write as long as I choose to. If you don't like it you scroll off. And the beSt part is you will never know me in real life so I dont have shit to prove to your miserable chicken feet.
And don't ever address me as babe you that ideato idiot! Am I your babe? Better 'babe' your pals on here that you famz. And stay off my back. Only you 3 comments. 2 anonymous. When you people want to beg for job and abuse you come and hide under anonymous. When Chikito says something you like you use your blog ID and be fanning your village.
DeleteAnon 17:05 a.K.a Ideato- every S n M you must drop your number. Na me do you? Every IHN you must beg na me do you? Ramshit!!
DeleteAnon 17:32 a.K.a Ideato- stop following my comments you hear?don't study me you won't graduate. 😂😂😂
DeleteC'mon you all think there is anything new under the sun? Truth is I can relate with 95% of chronicles sent here myself. If I wasn't directly involved, I'd have a friend or family that was.
DeleteReason for stating ones experience IMO is so the poster knows he/she isn't alone and same info could serve as lesson to others out here
MrsBee
You Igbo girls are too money conscious and materialistic.
DeleteYou always want to chop a man's money and run thinking you are smart especially wen the guy is rich and uneducated.
Thank God guys are now getting wiser. No one came to this life to work hard and end up a maga
Igbo girls change ur ways!
MrsBee, nice one 👍.
DeleteI know you must relate.
DeleteLolll!
ReplyDelete*Yawns*
ReplyDeletePls whr are the BVs worth saving?
You sure say no be my igbo brother be that. When woman refuse, they will be calculating everything they spent on the woman. Are you sure, he no calculate pant and brazzier join too, better find out to know how much your sister is going to pay.
ReplyDeleteTell the nigga he can do nothing to your parents. Nobody asked him to support your sister. Foolish man.
Make una self go knack pigeon on his head too if he wants to knack una own. But on a serious note, take his treat serious, this world is full of wickedness. Start doing midnight prayers on the foolish man head. Oya tell us, wetin happen with your sister, why she refused?
I've had first hand experience with an Igbo guy (see comment above). I say I no believe say people dey collect money back. Until that experience
DeleteOya tell us. Our amebo antenna don raise, hehehee
DeleteHmmm...mine refused to collect his money he said he wanted d clothes he gave to me...
DeleteNa waah o
ReplyDeleteAll I could see was "send them in dollar" 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteMorafucking opportunist dude!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteI saw that too.
Hahahahahahaha. Dnt mind that igbo man. Poster tell ur Sis to send the money to ur account, then u transfer the real naira amount to him. Dollar ko ni. Lol
DeleteThe guy don dey eye exchange ratr and thinking how much he will make
DeleteWat could have happened to breakup their engagement n hv him requesting the refund of everytin he spent. This story is incomplete and to come up with something valuable we need to hear from ur sister n the man himself. Some men are petty quite alright bt something must hv definitely gone wrong!!
ReplyDeletePoster,I guess u and ur sister wanted to use and dump the poor guy.She is too young to marry him but not too young to finish his money. Please you people should return all his money to avoid stories that touch the heart.Generosity is not by force.He is not the one that fathered ur sister.
ReplyDeleteToo young wetin!!! How old was Kanu Nwankwo's wife when they married? 18years!!! Na investment o and the man must have bragged to his people and friends about your sister and now this! She must return the things ooo
DeleteBt tell her to return everytin he gave her back to him so that he can leave her alone. This is a serious issue.
ReplyDeleteIt's simple..
ReplyDeleteIf you have the money, return it to him! Let him free una
But I hope your sister didn't intentionally dump the guy for a richer dude over there?
Just saying...
Does it matter the reason for the breakup? The fact is she's willing to return his well spent money. Period. I dnt even see need for this chronicle.
DeletePoster as long as ur Sis is ready to pay back, ur family shudnt even feel pressured or scared. All those threats are jst 'make I for talk as I dey vex' he can't do anything.
Your sister is actually the one that is guilty here
ReplyDeleteWhy accept all the gifts if you think you're too young to get married?
Oh you're not too young to use the latest gadgets and all right?
He wanted marriage that's why he spent a lot on her now you people want to play a fast one on him with an excuse of her being too young? Kolewerk!
You are right. They know his aim was marriage and they collected all those things he bought for her. They just want to play with his brain.
DeleteIts awoof nau! E dey happen. But the guy is a die hard nigga
DeletePoster your sister should return the money but you guys should pay in in N10 notes he go count money he do tire. Ewu
DeleteVery annoying somborri
ReplyDeleteI know many people will rush in to say that this guy is childish bla bla bla. Women should know what they want and how to go about it, many girls married at such age and situation and still succeeded. From the tone of the writer its very obvious that she doesn't like the guy and doesn't want the sister to get married before her, not because she loves her so much as a sister but for the fact that the guy is above her own guy. I am sure of this. The writer was very happy that her sister broke up after all the guy did for her. Why accept his gifts when u aren't serious. We would always hear that they wanted to pay back but the guy refused. Why not pay the bills at first without his help? The guy helped ur sister bcos they planned to marry but ur wickedness broke them, now pay back the guy. Its simple. Wicked sisters everywhere.
ReplyDeleteYou must be a sad fool, see your mouth like she doesn't want her sister to marry b4 her, go and give out your 19 year old sister or child to a man who engaged her because he heard she was going to Canada. Mtcheeew.....This your comment just shows d kind of person you are. Pls alert your friends not to tell you about their progress oh
DeleteWow wow wow! So u deduced all these just by reading this single post frm the 3rd party. Amazeballs
DeleteDidn't Omotola Jolade married at this age?
DeleteDauntless what opportunities? The guy seems richer than her family so what opportunities? He paid her hostel bills, gave her pta money, bought things for her and kept sending her money. How does he look like an opportunist? From all he has done for her, he seems like he van go to any country and come a company.. The poster just wanted to make him sound like an opportunist but failed.. Your parents could afford all and yet they didn't stop their 19yrs old daughter from accepting all this from a man. He even paid her flight ticket to and fro.. Your parents are shameless. My mom would have beat the living day light out of me and returned everything and begged the man not to bring his kobo
DeleteYou people should pay him fast
He wanted to tie her down with the ring and material things, your sister is not even arguing I like that. She is a strong and independent woman.
ReplyDeleteWhich inndepent.... If she was she won't be collecting all those things from from d bros... She's sounding strong cos she probably seen another pay master
DeleteNice lessons for "greedy women" if they will learn. Why receive sponsorship from a man who hasn't married you and not like your parents couldn't do that? Girl, acid attack though evil is real.
ReplyDeleteYour sister was his investment ' ego oyinbo'lol
ReplyDeleteShe should send all his things and money back to him without a penny left and she should quit messaging him altogether and if she has to write or talk him, she should cut to the chase not all this her smiley face. It is enough that the guy is loosing and hurting but being funny around such a man is mockery and a recipe for disaster
MrsBee
I agree.
DeleteI smell acid bath.
ReplyDeleteHe's an Indian giver..
ReplyDeleteStella calling this man childish is an insult to children . This n is simply stupid and mean. And may I add wretched. All I see in this chat is 'send back send back '. Abeg send back his kaya to him, and while at it pls add 1000 naira for him to buy iq tablets. Fool.
ReplyDeleteChronic chronicle!
ReplyDeleteOrishirishi....which one is send it in dollars? did he give your sister dollars? Guy is greedy.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of guy, is better to pat him back and discontinue communication, otherwise he was always be a pest, and with time he will even misquote the amount he spent.
Childish man, yes but your sister has her own faults as well. It is only mostly in Naija, where people use 'lol' and use smileys when discussing a serious issue, it can be infuriating.
ReplyDeleteWhat advice did you give your sister, when she told you she was engaged? I mean she collected money from a man who hadn't even met her father. I am not impressed at how you guys handled the whole stuff. Please refund all that the man has requested for, going diabolical might be an empty threat or NOT, but you guys shouldn't wait to fin out.
Your family needs to have a long talk with your sister. You also need a sisterly long talk with her as well.
Nice comment
DeleteWHICH RETURN...STELLA IF I HEAR..HIS MAD!
ReplyDeleteI WILL ONLY RETURN THE RING....
AFTER WE DON FUCK,MY WASTED YEARS WIV HIM..
We don f**k not he don f**k. Combine action.
DeleteYou never see something.... when you hear how pretty girls suddenly run mad. Na so e dey start. Not everytime stubborness. Sometimes accept defeat and save your head.
Delete@chikito....i agree 100% with u.
DeleteI agree with u Mrs Korkus, she should look for a way and send everything, leaving nothing out. She's still young biko, make this man no use am do yeye and ruin her bright future. The way she's calm and responding is also making the man go crazy.
ReplyDeleteHis plans failed, he is now crying wolf.
ReplyDeleteOshi odaa *in my mum's voice*
The girl is also a gold digger. How can you allow a man to spend so much on u with a deceiving promise to marry him.
DeleteStella abeg bone articulate.
ReplyDeleteShe even dey vex me and d guy with all her smileys and lol.
Its not easy being 'mature' in this kind of situation. No one wants to be proven a fool.
Beg him wit time and see it dt he gets most of d money and all d items hes bought for her. Thanks
Your parents shud be smart wit their replies, if not d 'tea' will be too hot.
Though it is hardly enforceable in Nigeria courts, he has d right to sue for "breach of promise to marry" by then una go vomit all as damages. Becos by d time our judges return from dis burhariDSS shakes, dey will enforce all enforceable.
Take Notice that a GIFT is a GIFT and therefore, non-refundable. Return any1 he didnt state is a gift.
Your sister knew from d onset dt she wud one day break_up with d guy.
Stella abeg bone articulate.
ReplyDeleteShe even dey vex me and d guy with all her smileys and lol.
Its not easy being 'mature' in this kind of situation. No one wants to be proven a fool.
Beg him wit time and see it dt he gets most of d money and all d items hes bought for her. Thanks
Your parents shud be smart wit their replies, if not d 'tea' will be too hot.
Though it is hardly enforceable in Nigeria courts, he has d right to sue for "breach of promise to marry" by then una go vomit all as damages. Becos by d time our judges return from dis burhariDSS shakes, dey will enforce all enforceable.
Take Notice that a GIFT is a GIFT and therefore, non-refundable. Return any1 he didnt state is a gift.
Your sister knew from d onset dt she wud one day break_up with d guy.
He should take a bathe and hug a transformer or jump into the lagoon. Ode! Let your sis return all he ever gave her if she can at once the better.
ReplyDeleteThis story will only be complete when the man in question send in his own part of the story.
ReplyDeleteAnd ladies please and please, if you are dating a man and know you have no plan for the future with him tell him on time so that he will move on.
Poster, why was your sister collecting things from the guy when she know that your father is not in support. You claimed you father is not in support but you said he was only paying school fees and the guy paid for accommodation and other stuffs. Poster make una fear God oooo@.
Tell your sister to go and settle the guy
This story will only be complete when the man in question send in his own part of the story.
ReplyDeleteAnd ladies please and please, if you are dating a man and know you have no plan for the future with him tell him on time so that he will move on.
Poster, why was your sister collecting things from the guy when she know that your father is not in support. You claimed you father is not in support but you said he was only paying school fees and the guy paid for accommodation and other stuffs. Poster make una fear God oooo@.
Tell your sister to go and settle the guy
U guys should return his money n stuff, na person wey die naim lose.
ReplyDeleteIf u spent ur money on a man n he dumps you, you go vex so u guys should return it let him nurse his pains.
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ReplyDeleteHmmmm your sister brought all this upon herself.
ReplyDeleteYou people should pay him back.
There are so many stupid men like this,he is very stupid, was he forced to give what he gave, did she beg her before he gave her? I won't be surprised if he is an mbaise man, stupid idiot. poster if na me be una I won't give him nothing cos no one asked for them, he is only threatening tell him u will take the case to police with his name and all, report to police about his threats, tell him first and u will see him withdrawing,I am an igbo girl and in most cases igbo guys actually do this more.
ReplyDeleteHe must be from aguleri. Yes u are right our igbo men r like this
DeleteWhere you there.... How re u not sure she begged him..... Let's not forget d guy might ve sacrificed a lot for love and future dts y d matter dey pain am.
DeleteWhat sort of a sorry excuse of a man is that
ReplyDeleteYour sister should return every single thing he got and spent for her
Personally I don't like to collect stuffs from some kind of people
I Must have scanned through you and your character
Return everything back to him there's nothing childish here. You no wan marry abi? Then return the ring and the gifts simple to avoid problems.
ReplyDeleteLmao. Lwfmh.
ReplyDeleteBtw,poster you aint that smart,isnt that your sis pic(attached to the voice note) i'm seeing? You just busted her.
Her friends on whatsapp will know she's the one.
Return which thing? Them force am? Involve police in this,he is all shades of wrong cos what if she lost those things?meanwhile he can't do jack he is talking of diabolical things to scare your parents,let him know u guys have told many people, let police officers invite him
ReplyDeleteMadam tell us why she broke up with him..
ReplyDeleteShe knew she wasn't interested in the marriage then why was she collecting things from him?
Abeg make she refund his money and everything.
Some foolish girls will soon start telling her to ask him to
ReplyDelete"pay for all the xex", well what does that make her? A whore of the lowest repute? Can these girls learn? Won't she had had her dignity if she refused to receive money from this leach and closed her legs?
He had a scam underway. It burst. So to him, he feels scammed. That's why he wants everything back.
ReplyDeleteYou have sense.
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Wonder how no one sees it.
From the onset, reading this, with the way the man was planning every for her life,
It's obvious the man was up to no good.
As a nigerian living in canada.
ReplyDeleteFirst and foremost if you have the money to give him back. Give it back to him. If not all at once pay it in portions.
And tell ur sister to change her number. It's very easy to change numbers here.. she doesn't need such communication or interaction..
And hope your sister has learnt from this situation
It is good your sister didn't marry such a man. Rubbish. His "marriage" was for sale.
ReplyDeleteThere are people who do things for other people in life with no strings attached.
This man will certainly be a vindictive man even in other settings..
Unfortunately, a lot of men are wired this way- most especially the Yoruba guys
My advice:-
Let your parents summon him and ask him to write them a list of all the things he is asking back from their daughter.
He shouldn't put the burden of providing what he wants back from her (he keeps asking her in his text messages to say what she will return...very childish...)
He is the one who should provide documented evidence of expenditures he ever made and what he wants their daughter to return to him
And they will gladly do so
This is not the time to hide things from your parents.
You should open up to them. Discuss with your sister first and get her to agree with you that you will discuss with your dad
This kind of childish man is better gotten rid of in a matured way as soon as possible
(Long hiss..)
Why was your sister doing things in secret and collecting expensive gifts from him? Your parents were able to pay her fees so why did she let an ordinary boyfriend foot other bills? Didn't she see signs of this his silly behavior all along? The boy is crazy. He can't do any of the things he's threatening to do. His type is all bark and no bite.
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Oh my goodness. If I were the girl I will send the money equivalent of those things instead of the phones and laptop. will she now send the clothes she had worn back to him? Mtchewwwwwww
ReplyDeleteThis isn't a man, but a brute! The poor girl should return whatever she feels she owes him, then blot him out of her life forever. Na him be the first man to spend for woman? Idiot somborri! I hope your sister wasnt sleeping with him before she left sha? She for ask am to pay for the use of her womanhood.
ReplyDeleteWow, i really dnt noe wat to say, so this is the kind of man your sis was going to get married to, jeez, very childish n immature somebody, biko u people shd return everything to him to avoid stories that tickles d bum bum, n i sure do hope he's going to pay for d sending cost.
ReplyDeleteAzin my dear if i send u the munch of my chat with my ex husband when we broke up u will be shocked. Very vindictive man askin for all he spent as if he wasnt knacking me. Thank God i didnt get pregnant and was able to run.
DeleteNa wao. What kind of man is that? And his English, is he an illiterate? Anyways let your sister quickly return the money to him and delete him from her life. Even as that, she still needs to pray fervently cos this kind of bitter man won't want to see her married and happy. Such a useless man, your sister should be grateful she didn't end up with him. Tufia
ReplyDeleteAbeg poster, your sister too tear eye, 19 year old girl, Abeg she should pay up, prolly guy man took loan as his " investment" that she is. She come they yan okpata, get mind tell grown man that he is nothing. Make una pay the guy, country hot now.
ReplyDeleteWhat a desperate man..... tell your sis to return all he's asking for abeg!
ReplyDeleteIf he has gbenshed your sis, tell him he paid for gbenshing her with those things.. childish idiot.. He
ReplyDeleteThis guy is very disgusting...he just wants to take advantage of your sister cos she is young..he is very stupid..why must she pay na she send the guy to buy..Please report the idiot to the police...haaa Pls we need to be careful..irresponsible men everywhere
ReplyDeleteLet ur sis return his things 2 him.She nids 2 thank God 4 deliverin ha 4rm a 419 guy,wot a disasta d marriage wuld hv bin.
ReplyDeleteWell, hope he has not gbenshed her. If he has, let him RUTURN the vagina to the pre gbenshing state. Anumanu. Did she hold him at gun point to get the money from him? He is very very stupid. Let him go diabolical nauuuu, heeeeediiiioootuuuu.
ReplyDeleteHehehehe...this comment gat me rolling
DeleteThe girl sef is funny. These line cracked me up."I have checked everything","No problem sir", "Give me the total cost of the money"(I'm not understanding the meaning of total cost of the money)
ReplyDeleteRotflmao..Abeg, na laf I de today. Let me just be laughing while I await comments.
He was never upto any good.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm..nawa for some men ooo,ladies becareful of such men..
ReplyDeleteDid the man give those things to her at gun point??? He was just trying to see if he can won her with gifts so he did nothing wrong. Your sis knew she wouldn't marry him so why collect his gifts? Biko your sister is the wrong one here. She should return his gifts he he wants them back. When her mates are reading, she is doing boyfriend at 19
ReplyDeleteWhat a man!
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you guys should try and refund everything if possible.
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Hahahaha, hardly comment on Chronicles posts but this got me laughing. Which kain yeye man is this? If it were me, I'll give back and even add interest to make him feel like the child he is!
ReplyDeleteWat nonsense,who did he consult before spending on her.is she working? Apart frm d laptop and phone,dnt send nada,let him go to court. Infact ur dad shd sue him,for bribing and corrupting hiss daughter with cash gift.
ReplyDeleteNa by force to marry again?
ReplyDeleteHe is not boy not a man!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahaha for stella to write WHAT nonsense I just fling my head open this post,the guy no dey smile and I love the girls response okay sir lol. The guy be real agbaya no be small one.
ReplyDeleteChildish? Maybe. He paid her bills believing she will marry him.
ReplyDeleteA lady in my area was killed (poisoned) for this. The guy poisoned himself too. Not every human is stable. If you can't meet the terms of a relationship stay away from bleeding your bf/gf resources.
A more rational person will move on. Yes he will be hurt.
Cause of sharing garri ( ending the relationship) is too long but telling us his threats and displaying their chats is not too long right....
He was used and dumped. Shit happens...
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For peace to reign she should just please return everything,but returning it doesn't mean he won't harbor any evil plans ooo,just bear in mind.
ReplyDeleteMy advise? Before returning anything,she should pray well,that as soon as he gets his things,he should leave her n forget her.
Your sister has started gbenshing someone in Canada hence the break up. She should return his gifts jare. Olosho
ReplyDeleteLol exactly my ex husband. Thank God its over now and im about marrying the man of my dreams by year ending.
ReplyDeleteShe should return only the ring, if the guy ate from her cookie jar. The laptop, phone and money has entered voicemail. Thanks
ReplyDeleteGood for your sister. Why did she agree to marry the man in the first place when she wasn't sure? The truth is that the man did all those things for her based on their agreement that she would be his wife. Even your mother also supported and she was busy enjoying the man's money. From the chat it seems your sister isn't even taking the matter serious. You guys should better return the man's money since una no wan marry am. Mtchew.
ReplyDeleteI won't send any dime fib were your sister! How many man return all the vaginal enjoyment they took from their girlfriends and fiancées? And all the time wasted! Rubbish!
ReplyDeleteYou people should just return his things to him. He was probably doing all those things for her because he thought there was something serious between him and your sister. I also think your sister led him on about them getting married. Since he's asking for refund please your parents should give it back to him. Why did your parents even agree that he should pay some of her bills when their plans did not go with his.
ReplyDeleteAnyway let me not start scrutinizing this chronicle. Just pay him back because people like him can go diabolical. I known you wouldn't want your sister to finish school and not amount to anything or even remain single forever.
Pay him back so that anything or anywhere he goes to harm your sis will return back to him in million folds.
God knows I wont return a dime!!is this one a man nau??? Mtcheeew as he dey give wasnt he collecting nd gbenshing the babe?? Nd for those saying she brought it upon her self how biko?? CNt deal!!
ReplyDeleteOmotola got married. @ 17 so 19 isn't a kid#
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Dude be wan marry girl for bizness purposes.smh
ReplyDeleteReturn ke?? Dear poster kindly advise ur sis to only return them if She is ditching him for someone else without considering all his investments, but if she is ditching him for something he did which she cannot forgive, then they should both come to a reasonable agreement without involving ur parents..
ReplyDeletethis just reminds me of a certain gerald obinna uche ........ lol
ReplyDeleteThis man really spent on ur Sis according to ur Story and people should learn not commit themselves so much in relationships if they know it is not going to work. Your sister should better pay him off bc the Bible said in Isaiah that a curse cannot come to pass without a reason and if ur Sis accepted to marry him,took things from him without marrying him and he goes diabolical as he says it will come to pass, for her to be free she should pay bk and learn never to commit anyone else to marriage.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, @ poster, you and your family are at fault for allowing a girl of 19 to be collecting things from a man, then speaking to your dad on the phone without even meeting him? SMH
ReplyDeleteSecondly, please don't return nothing to him, he must be a joker, did your sis force his hand to give her those gifts? Didn't he kiss and hug her and possibly fuck her? There is no evidence whatsoever of his giving those things to her, no signed agreement, no witnesses.
SOLUTION: please go to the nearest police station and report this ASAP. Give them his house address to arrest him, make him sign undertaking that if anything should happen to your sister or any of your family members he will be held liable, imagine such threat to life with text evidence sef, then block all means of communication with him and finally put it in prayers so God can make him forget your sister .
Gold digger Oshi, na him type dey make abroad ladies slave upandan cos he sponsored her education. I for send you soldiers make them beat am well put for guard room for like 3 days. Imagine such rubbish no him mates dey buy house for Eko Atlantic City for their babes, he dey here dey talk return laptop and phone with CAD.
Heaven knows i wont return a pin to him
ReplyDeleteThe guy is too childish, asking for refund of what you spent on your suppose fiance, it is better end this way.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahhahaahAahhahahahahahahahhahhahaha.
ReplyDeleteTo avoid unnecessary hiccups, let your sister refund him back, case closed!!!
ReplyDeleteI hardly comment cos Stella stopped posting my comments. Please get involved with Liberation City and every demonic issue will be reversed. It's better the marriage is desolved now.
ReplyDeleteIf he had sex with her, he should equally pay for it.
ReplyDeleteThe story sound funny but shit happens. It reminds me of my experience with my Ex. Broke ass Nigga forming Port-harcourt big boy, bragging round town about his family wealth & properties.
ReplyDeleteWhile we were dating, i moved from a 2 bedroom apartment (which i shared with my flatmate before she got married and moved out) to a Self -contain to save cost in this Buhari regime. So i had excess luggage/ household stuffs (including electrical appliances) that could not all fit into the new apartment.
I innocently asked my Ex to help me keep the excess at his apartment (family compound with enough space) he agreed that i'll pick them up later. Things went South and we broke up. That was how this idiota refused to release my properties; claiming he is taking them as payment for the money he spent on me...
I asked him what money and he said for all the times he took me out on a date plus the 3 pairs of jean and 2 tops he bought for me.
I could not bring myself down to start fighting over material stuffs when there is more to life. I just left him to Karma.
Now i just throw up whenever i remember that i ever dated such a person; i just cringe in disgust...
If its Chikito that wrote now ideato idiot and her crew will come and say I'm lieing or Im makING up stories. Be like say when una never chop you dey find who go join you for frustration street.
DeleteLol. Y should she return the items? Ihe emere nwanyi no get receipt. She paid for them with the collecting na. @ writer ur sister should not return anything.
ReplyDeleteMake I tell una something
ReplyDeleteThe guy been dey invest, Na canadian PR him dey find
You don't need a suitsayer to tell you that plsssssss
He wants his money back because no canadian show again
Chai the mans plans didn't workout hahahaha.he is just useless did they force him to do all the things he did?even when her ppl said no he still went ahead,mtcheews.foolish man,omo aleh,omo jatiti of a man,onye ara,onye beribe
ReplyDeleteWow. I should really be grateful for what my boo has done for me. That guy has spent so much.. if I say how much you people will say I am lying!
ReplyDeletePoster that guy is saying thrash! No juju anything! Your dad said he doesn't want but mr lover man kept doing husband duties. Nothing will happen! In the meantime, tell your sis to send him the ring!
Btw, what is wrong with 19 year olds these days, One wants to marry her Godfather, now this one again.
Kwakwakwakwa please send it in dollars 😂😂
ReplyDeleteOn a serious note d man is very stupid to demand for everything he spent and gave her buh at d same tym u guys knew u didn't want her to get married at dat age nd still allowed d poor guy to be spending ontop ds recession...he even sent ring nd she accepted,dat's bad abeg..mbok return everything in dollars biko😂 Nigga sounds like an onitsha businessman sef
I tink d guy is jst bn vry vindictive and petty!was he not gbenshing ur sister?shey he wld also return d vagina contents he took frm ur sister while dating her?u see 19yr old wey u tink say u go fit take her virtue!bloody ritualist!cheapstake! If I whr ur sister I won't return NADA!let him return all d fuck he fucked out of me before me I go return anytin bk to am! Shameless old fool! Return fire!odiegwu!
ReplyDeleteWait o. Sorry, me I want to look at it critically. This man is betrothed to your sister. Your family knows him and your father speaks with him on the phone. Your sister agreed to marry him and even took a wedding ring from this man. Everything was going on fine until She traveled? So why were they moving from one step to the other progressing as couple until she finally traveled? The guy must realize that all is fair in love and in war. He has no business collecting things he gave when things were going great. He gave them in love. She's too young to be thinking marriage at 19, she had always been too young, but why did it have to take traveling to finally realize that? Better you all should sit and sort this out, there's more to this than you have told us. Why didn't he want to wait for her until she's more matured? What's the hurry? Then why also breaking up barely 4 months after traveling.....More questions than answer.
ReplyDeleteThis guy was simply up to no good!
ReplyDeleteShaking my head at some people's comments.
It's amazing how people(mostly guys) see no big deal about a woman giving you her body.
A man once told me, "a woman's body is precious, spiritual and a big deal. If a man says collecting money/gifts in exchange for sex is whorish talk, then let him go stick his thing in a hole! Or devise a way to get his pleasure, or go sleep with the whores on the streets."
He said that's a cheap trick men use to deceive and confuse women.
"If she can give you her body, what is wrong with giving something back?"
I thought about it deeply, and he made sense.
Now back to the issue, Poster you said your sister has been dating him since she was in school?
Did they have sexual relations? If they did and she spent some years with him - wasted years or even if it's months,
then that guy is a bloody idiot!
And should get nothing back.
It's why women need to pray before getting into relationships.
Fortunately, he has shown his true colors.
Did anyone put a gun to his head to spend on her? He did it of his own will.
Now he's threatening and what not - rubbish.
From your story, you didn't want your sister to get married so early but she didn't listen?
I put it to you people: why will a young lady be so stubborn about the choice of her man if she wasn't serious about marrying him?
She must have seen or discovered something to have broken up with him.
Or she could also have been playing him;
one never knows with girls.
If she was, well this is her repercussion.
Reading the chat, I love the way your sister handled the matter - calm and unperturbed.
For everyone's sakes, let her return whatever the guy thinks she owes him, so she can have peace of mind.
Let everyone answer him papa name.
You told the guy to give it two years as she is young, yet he didn't listen.
Went ahead and was making plans - that guy was desperate and up to something, I repeat.
Na wa!
Why do Nigerian ladies talk as if they are doing guys a favour by having sex with them? Why? don't y'all enjoy sex? Many of you are guilty of this. Y'all should continue looking for guys to rip off, one day you will meet a man that will use acid to design your body. *hiss* It will be nice to hear from that guy.
ReplyDeleteBig sister sending in so called chronicle. Were u there when both parties drafted agreement?
ReplyDeleteIts not even a chronicle cos its not twisted, and ...... U only painted the guy in bad light.
No advise sought, only screenshot of convo.
#returntheloot
just to save your parents the embarrassment and reimburse this hungry man
ReplyDeletePlease return all as he has asked. Since he did it thinking it was for his wife not girlfriend. Its funny your parents allowed him pay ticket, accomodation etc unless your sis collected from both. Cos i know at 19 dem no born me well to tell my father a boyfriend or man did such for me. The man seem childish and your sis comes across as more mature sef but to solve the matter una return his investment biko
ReplyDelete@ Linda Eze,you are so daft,always making stupid comments.Its so obvious it's an Igbo family that use their young daughters for business.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,if your 19 year old sister can collect gifts and air tickets from a suitor without your parents insisting she returns it,that means they were part of the scam too.Dont come here telling us how desperate the man was,if your gold digging family didn't give him green light he won't invest so much on her.i am sure she has met a Canadian citizen and she's upped her game.Return his money and gifts before Gods wrath will destroy you all.Greedy parents and kids.
My sister visited my sister when she was serving and her fiancé (now husband) was asked to book her flight to Lagos and he booked with his money and said its a gift.Mumsy Said if he doesn't collect his money she won't travel with the airline,he wasn't married to my sis yet and anything can happen.He had no choice but to collect his money back.That is what families with dignity do not come here and paint your family as a saint.labake
Sweetheart, ever heard of the principle of causality? A cause always precedes a corresponding effect just like the natural law of sowing and reaping. You have to be extremely careful how you act or treat others, because once an act is set in motion, there's very little you can do to stop the effect. Naturally, the facts as narrated by you will be more favourable to your sister and your family but, please, try to be objective.
ReplyDeleteI find it a tad curious that parents would allow their teenage daughter be involved with a man financially stable enough to contribute, what appears to be the lion's share, in the education and upkeep of their daughter, overseas for that matter, if it wasn't intended as some sort of dowry.
I'm sorry darling, but it's an affront to commonsense for you to say your parents where not aware of said engagement or, at least, his intention to marry your sister. I wonder why your sister accepted all the largesse he offered, since you claim they were barely communicating during the period she was trying to secure a visa? Why wasn't her "suspicion" keen enough to reject his offer since he didn't seem interested until she got the visa? It can be argued that she saw an opportunity to get her bread buttered by him and decided to cash in on it knowing fully well she had conflicting plans.
I also don't think it's fair for you to send their chats since you conveniently classified the reason for their breakup as "the story is long". It can be quite misleading, you know, because one can infer from the chat that your sister seems unfazed and can even laugh about the breakup. Usually, when a guy messes up, a girl who really wanted to get married to him, would still be super pissed! It's the guy who would start begging and trying to make nice. After all, the breakup is only 3 weeks old. She seems to be handling it well for someone who just called off her engagement. You also stated that your sister isn't bold enough to tell you certain things, perhaps there are certain things about the breakup she isn't telling you. Perhaps there's a young stud in the picture, just saying.
I think your family, your sis included, should refund and return all this guy spent on your sister, in the most polite fashion for the sake of causality and decency. If indeed you feel your sister is blameless, then you shouldn't fear any diabolical threat, no? After all the Bible says "a curse without a cause will not stand. If you don't want a dog, you shouldn't hold on to its bone.
#e-bearhugs.