He said the controversy surrounding his death will be investigated and urged the appropriate security agencies to take up the matter.
Just as he was grieving over the death of Maxwell, another of his sons, Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah, has added more sorrow for his father, saying he would rather be a bastard than to be called his son.
Tuoyo had, in the statement sent to his father, a copy of which was made available to newsmen, denounced his father, accusing him of being an attention-seeker in connection with his brother’s death.
But the retired Army officer fired back, imploring his son to retrace his steps and not allow himself to be used by his mother.
Etoromi wrote in his statement to his son: “Eyituoyo, my son, they have misled you. When Omabuwa came home last year, Stella, your mother, told me to call you to come home.
“She gave me your phone number. She said you were in the United States of America and don’t answer calls. All calls to that your phone were not answered. I believe Omabuwa was killed, that is why Stella refused to tell me.
“The stories about how Stella took you away need not be told now. The grief that my son, Omabuwa, who was contacted by your (younger) sister, Valentina Omawumi Etoromi and who came home is dead is too much a pain for me now. Stella should bring our kids home. I want to bury Omabuwa who is now late, and you my lovely son, Eyituoyo, should come home.
“I married Stella traditionally and under Ibo marriage law; every child she has before my dowry is returned belongs to me. It is Stella and not yourself who should tell me that my son, Omabuwa, your (elder) brother is dead”, he said.
Chief Etoromi also wrote that;”You said you offered flight tickets and accommodation to attend the burial and funeral of my son. Burial where? Do you have flight infrastructures at Akili Ozizor now? Is it Ibo culture for a woman whose dowry was paid to take her children’s corpse to her home town?
That is abomination. The controversies surrounding Omabuwa’s death will be investigated.
“My son, do not allow yourself to be dragged into what you do not have knowledge. Could it be that Omabuwa was killed because he came home? This is not the time to talk. May the Almighty God grant us His Mercies, show us light that will make us know the truth. Amen.
“Eyituoyo, I am not Mr Satchie Etoromi. I was commissioned into the Nigerian Army and attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel before Stella came into my life. I was also conferred with a chieftaincy title when she was with me. It is a pity that you were not told my status in life. You will know I am not a nonentity as you were made to believe."
Source: thisdaylive.com
They should just allow this guy's soul to rest in peace
ReplyDeleteWith all the criminal investigations Stella Oduah is going through, I am sure they told her to sacrifice her first son to gather pity to avert the investigations. In the occultic world you have to eventually sacrifice all your kids destinies for riches.
DeleteAnon you're foolish. Keep displaying your foolishness.
DeleteHahahahha this guy just cracked me up......like seriously?? Wonders shall never end
DeleteAbi o! Anon 9:01, you just took the words out of my mouth. Thanks.
Delete9.01 u don talk am finish
DeleteAnonymous 09.01 Shut up. May God have mercy on you.
DeleteHe overdosed on narcortics. The tooth surgery is a cover up story. He's a drug addict.
Delete@Deception I am sure you are a human tool used by the devil to deceive human beings. You have even taken a name that immediately tells people your intention. But through your cuniness you are doing what the devil makes us try to believe, which is thst he makes us believe he does not exist, however, his manifestation are in people like you. @Anonymous 11.01 welcome stella oduah, because of my comment at 9.01 you guys now want to reveal the real cause of death. Be deceiving yourselves. It has been said that when the gods want to destroy you they first make you mad. Your actions are the beginning of your madness and eventual downfall.
DeleteHmm anon.11:00 , kai i trust SDK BVN, no dulling! I knew that somehow the 'real' gist will come here,* shege does a beyonce hand raise for SDK blog*
DeleteThat girl called DECEPTICON, I'm really sorry for your dad...
DeleteWhat sort of watery response is this? Now I know this man is very shameless. Who advised him to respond to this boy yet again?? Jeeezzz.
DeleteHe's even demanding that he be addressed by his numerous titles. Who does that? I smell a deflated ego here. And I know this is because of the woman's status. Would he be demanding all these if they turned out nonentities? Now he's claiming his son's death is questionable?
Na wa o
Can this man go and die already!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteIt is your walking corpse father that will go and die. Why not give this advise to your deadbeat father. Manner less lot.
DeleteAnon I return t back to you
DeleteI return it back to you again.
DeleteIt is your walking corpse father that will go and die. Why not give this advise to your deadbeat father. Manner less lot.
The pains of a father. But why deny him the rights of burying his son. According to igbo native laws n custom, its his right to bury him. Sorry man, I feel ur pains
ReplyDeleteShut up! Which useless father. It's so obvious the man never gave a fuck about his kids and now one dies and he reappears. He is reminding his son he's a lieutenant. Like who gives a fuck about that?? Which igbo custom is he talking about? When he abandoned them with their mom did he remember our customs?? He has no right to receive that's boys body.
DeleteI will do the same if I'm found in such situation
Delete@Deception I am sure you are a human tool used by the devil to deceive human beings. You have even taken a name that immediately tells people your intention. But through your cuniness you are doing what the devil makes us try to believe, which is thst he makes us believe he does not exist, however, his manifestation are in people like you.
DeleteOga face your other wive(s) and free stella n her kids.
ReplyDeleteI tire o.
DeleteEwu!
DeleteI think the son should allow Stella and satchie solve their problems. He doesn't really know what went down between the both of them as they might have been really little then.
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious that is man is an idiot and an attention whore. So Stella killed him cos he came home to visit his father?
DeleteShut up man!
ReplyDeleteWhat foul play?
Stella killed him huh?
All these death beat dad be doing the most.
Don't mind the idiot claiming foul play
DeleteKeep showcasing yourself... You are just in their league
DeleteNa only God fit judge thus case o! Rather sad that someone lost his life.
ReplyDeleteAnything associated with tradition, should be well treaded with caution...
ReplyDeleteWe ain't in any place to cast blames on why or why not the children were taken away... The right thing should be done.
Tradition has put so many in some conditions they ought not to ve been.
Hmm,I believe they should solve this amicably than rushing to internet to say things about themselves.
ReplyDeleteIs it your internet they are rushing to? Idiots forming opinion with their ratchet fingers behind their useless techno And cheap infinix fones.
DeleteStella ehn, you shouldn't be enabling some ppl's comments who do that via all these cheap androids.
Anon expensive android. R ur fonts gold plated? Or platinum studded. Ur self esteem is so low.
DeleteAnon expensive android. R ur fonts gold plated? Or platinum studded. Ur self esteem is so low.
DeleteSee this cheap Ogbete Peace Park slut talking about low self esteem! Ikwakwakwakwakwa.
DeleteGo get a better Android and stop being cheap$
Why does she want to bury her son herself,which Kain thing be that,did she impregnate herself?she shouldn't use the children to fight her ex-husband cos it will backfire,children would always find out the truth last and go wiv d right person,they should talk to her abeg,this drama is uncalled for,som1s body is in the morgue waiting to go and meet his creator fully.
ReplyDeleteLet's say you marry and one day the man abandons you and the kids. After all your struggles one day God forbid something happens to one of the kids and their father finds out and comes to be chatting shit. Would you even cAre about what he has to say?? Put yourself in stellas shoes pls. That man has a wife and some other kids somewhere else and now he's fighting for a dead body when he could have been there when the guy was still living.
Delete@Deception I am sure you are a human tool used by the devil to deceive human beings. You have even taken a name that immediately tells people your intention. But through your cuniness you are doing what the devil makes us try to believe, which is that he makes us believe he does not exist, however, his manifestation are in people like you.
DeleteDECEPTICON you are evil...
DeleteI stand with Deception ..all these MOFO anonymous must be related to this rtd military officer. Ntoor military men be acting like they have platinum plated cocks .Good for him.Stella oduah if thatvman left those kids for you to raise alone eh I say go on your knees and read psalm 35 at 1.30 am to 2.30 am and break every traditional bull covenant then buy a classy befitting coffin and bury your beloved son.Norring dey happen shioor
DeleteYou Are a nonentity. A very big one at that.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm......
ReplyDeleteThis man is wicked!
ReplyDeleteIf he loved his son he would be crushed by grief and work things out underground and stay away from the press!
Your children from Stella want nothing to do with you, isn't it obvious?
If you were the "golden daddy" they why would you resort to the papers to speak to the golden children who you love?
Manipulator- Imagine addressing them "fondly" in the papers?
Idiot let this family mourn in peace DEVIL
Save your theaterics for much later
What are u blabbing? Was it not Stella and her son Dat went to the press first? U don't want him to talk to d press then why did u support Tiwa Savage when she went to d press to counter her husband's accusations? Dis blog is filled with men haters who are bitter with men for one reason or d other..u all don't see any good in men..Even when they are right u won't see it so..
DeleteAlways bitter..D bitter married and suffering women take out their anger over their horsebands on dis blog d same way bitter single ladies take out their bitterness over men that broke their hearts..Tufiakwa!
Stella Oduah has no right to bury her son in her father's land as far as she was married to d man before d kids were born..No matter d bitterness and issues,those kids belongs to their father...And that their senseless mommy's boy son had d gut to call d father to invite him to d burial of his own son in their mother's village as if he is doing him a favour..imagine d abomination..
D kinsmen had to accept it bcos Stella is a senator? See what money can do..tueh!
As for those calling Mr Etoromi a deadbeat dad,how did u know he is a deadbeat dad? Bcos of what his son and Stella said? He has other wives doesn't mean Stella is d first..
Stella could be d second or third wife u know..D man said he was already a Lieutenant colonel before he married Stella which means he already has a wife before Stella came in to intrude into his marreiage..Dont tell me he was single when he married her till u have proof..
When u go into a polygamous home,u don't expect ur marriage to be rosy..It will be from one problem to d other..I guess daz d reason Stella ran with her kids..I'm sure she denied d husband access to d kids which prompted him to abandon them..Their is no smoke without fire..I don't judge a story based on one side of it..
I'm sure when dis man starts talking(spilling) what actually transpired, u all will still call him names cos ur minds have been wired to see no good in men yet u all rush to participate in single and mingle...Why don't u all leave men alone? U hate dem but u don't want to leave them alone...Mtcheeeeeeeeeewwwwwww.
Very wicked man. Useless waste of sperm
DeleteVery wicked man. He wants to revenge by using his late son as an excuse. Stella abeg why the delay? Your son should be buried whether his father is there or not. The man should be punished for being an absentee father
DeleteDo not judge a book by the cover, no one really know what transpired amongst them except the people involved but the truth is that the dead should be buried in the father' house not the other way round.
DeleteMoney makers wife aka Chizoba ala ututu o na ayo gi?
DeleteWetin concern man hater for here? !
You have finally gone cuckoo
Gbamest!!!!!!!!!!!@ Money Maker's Wife. You wrote exactly the TRUTH.
DeleteEveryone screaming 'useless father' 'sperm donor' 'death beat father' etc, as if the man is the 'causer' of your poverty. Stella is being supported because she has enough cash to dole out and make certain questions not to be asked.
I have NEVER heard in Igbo land where a son, that the father acknowledged to be his child and even bearing his name will be buried in the wife/mother's place, it is NEVER done in Igbo land.
I just shake my head as the crop of youth that we have. Keyboard warriors.
Money maker's wife loves Sandra whatever...from ur blog name alone one can tell that u're very immature and childish. That childishness is also echoed in ur comment. Women are evil...man haters...bitter etc. Very shameful coming from a fellow woman. So u've turned to defender of men? Maybe u'r hoping they will see ur retarded ass as 'wife material'.continue defending men while castigating women. Life will teach u some very salient lessons. U're still young, dumb and full of cum.
DeleteChizoba, you made no sense as usual, you just ranted.
DeleteStella is not a saint but the man is not a responsible father and has no right to make demands.
A woman ran away with your kids and you did nothing about it.
Why didn't he cry out to the world 4 years ago through this same social media when the boy was alive?
What efforts did he make to see his children? None because he had plenty other kids and couldn't be bothered.
A man or woman who played no role in a child's life has lost all the rights and privileges to take a decision concerning that child whether alive or dead.
You can only humbly request but not demand for anything.
If the boy died abroad, will he insist the boy is brought to his village to be buried?
All the people that die abroad and are buried there daily, did they fall from the sky or do they not have tradition ?
Nigerians and stupidity, bury me here, bury me there as if a dead person knows where they are buried.
Stella is a whore, couldn't stay with a man but those kids will always love her for not abandoning them. She could have dumped them with their father so she could start afresh.
DECEPTICON I wish your father comes on here to read your comments, he surely would be bittered. He sure would have used a condom if he knew his sperm would turn out to be you
DeleteIdiot anonymous 13:19 leave deception alone!
DeleteYou have almost turned the entire post into your views about deception, littering your cow dung all over the post.
Deception is entitled to her view and opinion you IDIOTIC cyber bully.
Everyone is entitled to their opinions regarding any topic Stella posts here!
You should be solidly ashamed of yourself boo! Quit bullying people online.
Anumpama boo boo
The man went to the media first abeg
DeleteControversies always trail stella...
ReplyDeleteIt saddens me abegi. Please they should leave this press release on top of press releases. So sad. The young is gone, that grief should be enough for each party to sheath their swords. The son should bridle his tongue. That kind of thunder fire outburst in the ho ha, against the man whose waist /seed you came from is so immature. I pray he don't lay a curse you, even if he did not take of you. You are his blood.
ReplyDeleteThen the Senator should be careful not to loose another child. How many remain sef? She should put that young man in check. Let her fight her own battle with her estranged husband.
***Mama Ste Oduah, protect this other son of yours. I pray you don't loose him too. Check your surroundings , check your own people. The human mind is desperately wicked. Who can know it? My answer= only God.
they should allow d poor guy to rest now duo i feel d man pain but i feel now is not d tym to start dis because of their second son
ReplyDeleteWhich pain? Yinmu.
DeleteThis man should shut up already
ReplyDeleteNo matter what has happened btw them, his corpse should lay rest in the husband home, may God give them guidance to settle amicable.
ReplyDeleteStella why you omit the part wey en say,he had other wives before he married stella in addition to his existing wives? That is to say stella eye no good,na em make anoda person husband dey hungry am!and she should cut up that cock and bull story of abuse,my dear she just found a newman and ran away from her husbands house with the kids,na person wey get where to go dey run.after 3 husbands still her leg no fit stay one place!This is what i keep saying,parents should not involve kids in there
ReplyDeletebuhaha,they should learn to coexist.the keep kids no nothing about ur issue dont start fillin there head with hate for the oda parent,some women are found of that.pls release the body to the father dont let money overide tradition
Afi buhaha.
DeleteSome women just wicked!na so when i been wan marry esosa,where is ur fada?he was a useless man,my moda took care of us alone i dont joke with my moda,what about your fathers people?those ones wv changed our names to my modas lga in esaan.bla bla bla.on through investigation i got to find out the story from her fathers side,cos my parents insisted to know more,it was then discovered that her father is still alive and from his explanation,his wife there mother one day parked her things and the children out of the house and moved into her boyfriends house,lived with him and gave birth to oda children,when i asked her for the kids she told me they are not mine nd i should do what ever i pls but not come near her kids,when the boyfriend died she already had 5kids for him and she was suffering on her own.now the children including esosa said i left them to suffer.omo na there my marriage intention end,esosa and her moda are manipulative i wonder wat could happen to me!
ReplyDeleteYour story ...your cross too bear...back to the issue on ground
Delete@anonymous 9.36.. U never loved or cared about Esosa. Thank God she didn't end up with you. Or else I am sure she would have been sending chronicles about her in-laws. Mummy's boy.
DeletePlease be real, whatelse will the Father say? You are a poor investigator. Instead of you to ask neutral people, you went to ask the father. Thank God for Esosa sha because if she had married you, OYO would be her case. Tufiakwa!
DeleteThis man thou...you started this.
ReplyDeleteIf you were that good your children will fight for you ..but no,you are the one ranting on the internet
Hmmmmm n d stupidity continues.
ReplyDeleteHe was a bad man,a bad father and bad sombori ,only you washing your dirty pant in public,your children dont even know your profile ,you have to write it out for them lt col my big booty
ReplyDeleteOga nobody gives a damn about ur military rank or chieftain title. U're a sorry excuse of a man and father. A father that is responsible will make sure he plays his role in his children's lives no matter the obstacles he has to overcome. U abandoned ur wife and sons then started another family. U never cared about their welfare or upkeep. Never made ur presence felt in their lives. Now u want to play the victim and garner public sympathy by airing dirty laundry in public. Claiming rights and stupid tradition. Wen u couldn't play ur role as a father. And some silly women here will be making excuses for the fool. How won't Nigerian men continue misbehaving? After all they'll always get a pass and the woman will ultimately be blamed. I agree wit ur son Mr etoromi. U must be mentally sick.
ReplyDeleteI have come to notice that this blog is filled with frustrated married and single ladies. Who seem the truth and try as much as they can to hide it.
ReplyDeleteLet's call a spade a spade the child ought to be buried in his father's house no matter what. Tradition would always be tradition. Let's not create unnecessary issues where non exist.
As for many who call men sperm donors they are the ones's fasting an praying for boyfriends not to talk of hubbies.
Let's all be happy the world is full of bitterness already....... am out.
All the people that die abroad, where are they buried? Except the family is very rich then the body is flown back home. You people should get lost with your stupidity.
DeleteYou know this.
DeleteTriple ignorant imbecilic comment from a chauvinism inspired angle by a man who was probably abused as a child and who's view about men being deeply superior to woman can never be changed even if his creator came down from above to say so to him.How dare you ignorant twerp say such a generalised thing about the women on this blog? Sperm wey make mistake germinate na him you be.unam ikot mkpo..shege mai chin kashi kawai
DeleteFirstly my husband cannot and would never abandon me because na my husband I go marry not some1 else's so pls if you're her family,what is bad is bad,she should leave her battles to God.
ReplyDeleteMe I don't believe Dese man o,nd at d same time nt supporting Stella.my dad is just like Dese man .hmmn ,u don't knw wat it takes to have a dead beat father, and at d same time,he will want to u to acts d fatherly role wen it comes to issue DAT has to do with ur life.my Dad,don't go there.in fact he is jealous of my mum DAT stood by us.
ReplyDeleteThe man must be mentally unstable.
ReplyDeletewhenever I read a comment from DECEPTICON I always feel like calling her and giving her a medal for her stupidity which she rightfully deserves...
ReplyDeleteCyber bully
DeleteSomeone is in love
DeleteMay God comfort you madam Stella. Please let the boy be buried in his father's village.
ReplyDeleteRIP
ReplyDelete@Deception, you keep showing us on this blog that you are an empty head. Many of you dont even know who Chief Etoromi is and you come online to insult a respected gentleman who some of your fathers cant even look in the eye. This man i question is no riffraff. He is no deadbeat or broke ass as many of you here are thinking. If you have sense and have friends from Delta South, please ask them about Chief Etoromi or better still ask your parents.
ReplyDeleteI don't want to talk bad about Stella, but before she left nnpc or founded SEA petroleum we all know her escapades with other military men.
That man paid her bride price and she has no right to summon him to her community for the burial of his son.
Many of you don't even know these people all you do is sit behind your little keyboard with your dirty fingers to type trash.
The family should sit together and settle this mess out of the public eye.
You have spoken well. Anon.
DeletePeople just come on here and insult someone they know nothing about.
In the previous post where the son replied, one foolish child called "dumb moves" called her father, not mine, a retard.
Just cos I gave my opinion.
Smart moves or whatever you are called, that was a dumb move on your part.
See if the males in your family and the generation to come don't become retards.
In your next life, you'll think before typing.
The truth is,her children are adults. The man had ample opportunities to reach out to his kids. Just like my father, even when we try to reach out,he doesn't send. Meanwhile, I see my mum selling her gold so we can eat. Crying and fasting,praying and working hard to put us through school and provide shelter. Tomorrow now,he will start shouting that he was never a deadbeat dad. This oduah's case should serve as a warning to deadbeat parents. Don't drum up sentiments but love your kids. Reach out to them. There are phones,elders in your village, different avenues to use
DeleteNigeria'sha greatest problem, "status" and we wonder why our motherland cannot progress. God should please help the poor men in our country
DeleteAm sure none of u kno exactly wat happend yet dishing out al manner of insults.too many judges on SDK.
ReplyDeleteI'll just summarise this
ReplyDeleteStella Oduah, pls for peace sake, let the father bury the boy as tradition dictates
Second son, aka Voltron..... I advise u stop attacking ur father openly. Shebi u r a man now, confront him 1-1 and I bet u will hear what u have never wished you hear
Father and Mother, allow the dead rest in Peace, pls
No matter how a woman suffered to bring up the kids after been abandoned by hubby, tradition demands, that the children still belongs to the husband, whether or not dowry is refunded, in Igbo land. Let's be honest in that aspect. Every full fledged igbo man or woman knows that fact. A girl child whose mother is divorced won't be given out in marriage without the presence of the father if alive, In fact, every marriage processes must be done in the father's home and the child if dead can't be buried in his/her mothers home. That's tradition. So Stella and husband should settle this and stop washing their dirty linen in public. Those children do not belong to ndi Atani they are legally Etoromis'.
ReplyDeleteTradition this Tradition that. Who made that chauvinistic and manipulative tradition? Man! They made it to suit them. It is against equity and natural justiceSo go and sit down.
DeleteAnd it is interesting to note that all thru this, Stella has been silent and I give her credit for this. When this man started his drama, I asked why he had to hear from d media about his son, why not from the other children at least. Now it's clear, he has no relationship whatsoever with his children. Men be careful what you sow. Even the Bible says that a man that will not live unto his responsibilities is worse than an infidel..now that he is being treated like an infidel, why complain? You can't eat your cake and have it. I would advise him to find a way to make peace with Stella and his other kids because it's apparent that as a man, he post his role a looong time ago. SMH
ReplyDelete#DramaKing
Sheila Ugochi thank you ...thank you.Nuff said. Stella Oduah silently hurt him so bad that if there's reincarnation he won't try that again .Iden ibak!
Delete“Eyituoyo, I am not Mr Satchie Etoromi. I was commissioned into the Nigerian Army and attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel before Stella came into my life. I was also conferred with a chieftaincy title when she was with me. It is a pity that you were not told my status in life. You will know I am not a nonentity as you were made to believe."
ReplyDeleteWhat is he saying?Meaning his kids don't know him. He's telling his son about himself via the media. He he was ever there for his kids, they wont be seeing him as a stranger. Mr Lieutenant Colonel, go make peace with your family.