Topics like this make me really angry to know that something like this is allowed to happen...How dare you cut her?
Does anyone have a story to tell?Were you cut?hurt?
Some women who were cut will never know what Org*sm feels like and will never understand.
Dem kuku cut me
ReplyDeleteUnto say if dem no cut am I go too like to fuck
But dem cut am and I still love sex😂
So why the cutting
I won't allow it on my daughters
It should be stopped
Story of my life, I tire
DeleteConcentrate on the message and forget the messenger.
ReplyDeleteNice initiative from her
ReplyDeleteI pray 🙏 this post doesn't go south because of the other blogger....
Hmmmmmmmm mouth shut
ReplyDeleteNice move olori. At least she's lending her voice.
ReplyDeleteOne. Quick question: where is ooni's first wife ??
Father Lord, thank you mum for spairing me.
ReplyDeleteANY MOVEMENT AGAINST MALE GENITAL MUTILATION?
ReplyDeleteIT IS SHAMEFUL HOW SEXIST THESE FEMINISTS ARE. THEY WILL MAKE A NOISE ABOUT FGM BUT WILL IGNORE MGM DESPITE BOTH BEING DONE FOR THE SAME REASONS.
YALL SHOULD READ BOOKS!! NOT A BOOK BECAUSE "A BOOK" MAY BE BIASED. READ A LOT OF BOOKS. BOOKS THAT ARE FOR AND AGAINST. THAT WAY YOU WILL LEARN!
You better don't go there. Just go to the north and see a 3years old boy's dick and tell me if you like the way it looks.
DeleteYou're a fool if you don't know male circumcision is biblical... ewu awusa
DeleteBook, chapter and verse please
DeleteNot only is male circumcision biologically logic. The health benefits are vital as well! If you don't circumcise your male child, you are not doing him well
Delete*going anon on this. Yes, I was mutilated and still a virgin @28, I've never masturbabted before and I won't do it. I'm not a saint @all cos I've been kissed many times, but yet I don't even fancy sex. Please help me pray to God to direct my husband to me this very year, I want to taste the sweetness of sex with my husband too
ReplyDeleteModeration is key when circumcising a child. I was circumcised but I still do enjoy sex and organsm a lot!
DeleteA lot of people think clitoral orgasm is the only way a woman can get to cloud 9. False! Some women orgasm through penetration too just like anon 13.02 probably does while some women are just not wired to orgasm at all. My clit is still very much in tact! The only thing that gives me orgasms is my vibrator. I've never orgasmed through sex with a man. My husband doesn't help issues either because he doesn't know the art of foreplay and how to turn a woman on , so different strokes for different pple
DeleteHmmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteThis topic gives me the chills whenever it comes up. And to think some lil Nigerian kid's veejay will be mutilated today is sad.
ReplyDeleteOlori, tenk you o jare
Stella this is culture we are talking about here! We all know what culture is right? It is the people's way of Life!
ReplyDeleteBefore the Europeans came to colonize us, every tribe have their own way of living. And even after colonization, some of these acts are yet to be fully abolished!
In my part of Igbo land then.. they believed 'cutting a girl' will help her remain her pure and chaste. They believe that "uncut" girls are often wayward and spoiled, they thought the girls can't control themselves once the sexual urge comes. Cos according to them... Once the clitoris starts rubbing on their panties, they can't refuse or say No to a man's advance(s). #Na so i take hear am shaa
I love the initiative and i hope it works out, so this abomination called "circumcision in girls" can be stopped!!! It needs to be stopped Asap
Abeg forget...Owerri gals no apply to above
DeleteHmmmnn painful. Let me read comments
ReplyDeleteI finally have a blog ID...........STELLA please post!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhere's the ID?
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Where the ID?
DeleteWhere is the I.d?
DeleteKwakwakwa. Una no good atall.
DeleteHahahahahahaha.
DeleteYeah right...anonymous ID
DeleteLol
hahahahaaaha....na real where d ID...she leave am for hus nah....lol
DeleteI was cut. It really hurt. Sometimes I just hate my parents for cutting me. My last two sisters were not cut, they are lucky to have it all sexualy. OK back to me, I feel so bad that I can't enjoy what other ladies enjoy in sex. I have sorts for all kind of solution but it didn't work. When a guy holds me, I don't even know if he is holding me or not. I don't get aroused. I don't get wet down there. Everything irritates me. The worst is I don't know how to pretend. I lie like a vegetable. Sometimes I press my phone or open my eyes all through the acts because I don't even know what he is doing to my body, I just can't feel it except for pains down there and we just stop right away. Due to all this, I don't get down with a guy. Konji or what is it called no dey hold me. 8 years and still counting I haven't had sex. I'm engaged to be married next year. My fiance is aware. He saw it for himself. He thought he could work on my body but for where? We have not been able to have sex. He reported me to my mom,she was shocked. It's a long story jare, I'm tired of typing. I only pity people cutting their daughters at this age. I've carried my own cross...
ReplyDeleteNa wah oh
DeleteSorry oh!
Penetration on it's own is sweet, u don't need to have a clit to enjoy sex. The banging alone gives me satisfaction. I dont even like my clit being touched(dont need it to be touched, cause I get vaginal orgasms, not clitoral orgasms) cause its way too sensitive. I think what you have is low libido, cause I have friends who were circumcised all the way and still enjoy sex, some of them even cum.
DeleteU might need to work on your mind, dear. Sex isn't just physical, it's mental too, particularly for women. I was circumcised like you but I do get wet and I really really enjoy sex, though I've never reached an orgasm. Hurts hubby that I don't reach orgasm, but then since I've never experienced it, I don't know what (if anything) I'm missing, right? Hubby and I are still exploring and seeing how I can reach orgasm sha. If that works out, fine with me; if not, I'm also fine. I've learnt to make the best of the situation.
DeleteYea, I was circumsized too, but I get vaginal orgasm, it's so brief and sweet, but my boo doesn't understand it yet, how I just enjoy to use his hard erect dick, to rub my labia, is this right or wrong, or strictly for lesbians, who else enjoys this abeg?
DeleteYou have to work on your mind. Your mindset is the reason why u don't enjoy sex, not your clit. There are people in your position who still enjoy sex. If you are physically attracted to your spouse as well, then you should be able to enjoy intimacy with him. If you have problems with wetness, buy a lubricant from the pharmacy and use it everytime you have sex. Relax your mind during intimacy and try not to remember the past. If u go into marriage with this poor sexual habit, you will wreck havoc between you and your spouse because best believe, sex and intimacy is the spice of marriage and if u are not giving it to him frequently, trust and believe that you will be pushing him out to get it from somewhere else. So my dear, work on your mindset before you go into marriage. See a counsellor if possible! Good luck!
DeleteI was circumcised and have been sexually active for almost 8 years now but I started having orgasms like a year ago. I decided to release my body to my hubby and I was surprised the first time I came. I don't come every time I have sex tho. I advice you to try all your best to know ur Gspots and let ur hubby know when you are ready. Its not that bad but l won't allow it on my girls.
DeleteStella, it's still happening in Benin. When I was pregnant, I was gisting with my very good friend. Was telling her that, I'll prefer a baby girl to a baby boy, because there's nothing like circumcision with baby girls. She just gave me this strange look and said, all her sisters were circumcised, including her. I was shocked! Then she went further to say that, when she was expecting her first baby( the scan showed it was a girl), she went looking for a very good place to circumcise her baby girl,pending when she gv birth. My jaw dropped. I love my clitoris oh, can't imagine what life without it. That makes me feel bad for the victims of FGM.
ReplyDeleteIt's true. I have a friend from auchi who circumcised her daughter when she was born. Said its a tradition in their place and she was even proud that the baby didn't even cry. The way I shouted with disgust. She immediately changed topic. Since that day I've been avoiding her cause I don't even want to see the poor lil girl it would make me cry. This is a graduate I'm talking about o! Said they had to circumcise her also immediately after she gave birth. In this modern day and age. Nonsense
DeleteKeep it up Olori...more awareness is what we need.
ReplyDeleteseen.
ReplyDeleteInstagram account managed by staff indeed. Anything for fame, lying pant!
ReplyDeleteHow sad that such barbaric acts still exist in this 21st century.
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Good to know
ReplyDeleteDo people still do the whole genital mutilation in nigeria?
ReplyDeleteLike you cut your baby and hear her blood curdling scream while you watch on?
I can't even wrap my head around that.
Very barbaric act.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, I won't mind to see a cut, am just curious, thinking how it looks?
I was cut.
ReplyDeleteI get horny and wet of course
I love penetration and fingering
But i have never experienced orgasm except once in my life!
The day it happened, i wasn't in the mood to have sex. My man insisted, so i later gave in and let him have his way out of annoyance. He was on top pounding away,while i lay counting minutes till he'll be done.
Then all of a sudden, i felt something sweet and powerful building up, it became so intense i held my man, started kissing him and moaning loudly till it ended. He was surprised, i was more surprised and very happy.
Since that day.. 3years ago till today, i have never felt it again. And yes, we have tried countless times. We broke up and i met a new man, this guy is so sweet, so cute and loving. I told him nobody has given me oral before(not because I'm dirty or anything, just that my ex didn't like it) and he gladly obliged to give me one... I wanted to get an oral so i'll know if i can have an orgasm once again
Yeah yeah, it was sweet having his tongue licking me up, his breath and small beard tickling me.. it was amazing. BUT I Didn't Cum! So we just fucked till he came
I was Circumcised and i was molested at a young age by my cousins! No penetration, just fondling, kissing and all that crap
Now dear BVs what do you think is wrong with me? Do you think i can't have an orgasm because of the circumcision or because of the molestation? Or because i haven't met a good 'head giver'?
*Faithful BV
Thelma is that you?
DeleteAnon 12 :01, Faithful BV? U should familiar
DeleteAnon 12:32 no i am not Thelma. Please don't drag an innocent person into this. Or is Thelma the only faithful Bv we have on here?
Delete*Faithful BV
Thelma, Thelma.. Lol.. Sorry nne, but next time u want to go anonymous, get rid of traces linking back to u earlier like ur sign out. Sorry again ooo
DeleteWow Thelma didnt read before posting and forgot to delete faithful bv! So upon all ur forming sister mary you can be raw and explicit like this???
DeleteHahahahahaha breeze blow fowl yansh don open.
DeleteChai! Sdk bvs I hail una🙌🙌
Taaa you guys should stop it. This person is different from Thelma. U must be new here not to have noticed that her sign out as "faithful BV" is exclusive to her under anonymous.
DeleteNice one
ReplyDeleteThis ooni family must be paying u well for this publicity......I have accepted d fact that I will be reading about them come rain come sun on Sdk
ReplyDeleteSame here @Portable Viv, that's our own Kepping Up with the Kardashians
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*Keeping
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Orgasm won't make me stop cheating, just gimme a good fuck that would tire me out and make me feel good, we ar good to go. Who orgasm epp? Just a great urge running thru ur body like u wanna wee wee. Pls just fuck me long and hard n I'm good.
ReplyDeleteyou've never hard really intense orgasms then...
DeleteWhite man 👨 follow-follow. Even in Russia north, they have known the importance of this practice. Instead of a woman 👩 burning while the husband is not around or not interested in sex, it's better with this practice. Reason for many divorce in Western world and sex drive I satisfaction. The west need sex diehards with big clitoris to satisfy their hearty sex addictions after taking drugs..and Africa is their tool victim I think it's time zafrica think on their own and do things that favor things of their interest instead of been a tool for white man exploitations. Sometimes ago, Africans were been criticized for tattoos but now they took over the whole thing..even in annoying way, even tattooing vagina, anus,eye-white. There many developmental issues and problem they could empower our women but they are not interested in that...but only matter of (Toto) vagina that serves their interests. I think, the queen 👑 should avoid these wrong white elements stain her good mind to help the society and focus on other aspect of issues that is bothering our women ...which financial empowerment and development.
ReplyDeleteHave you eaten?
Delete*Larry was here*
SMH for you
DeleteAnd you are a woman huh 😖?
I'm sure you don't have clitoris, misery loves company, it must really be so painful for you. After typing all these, it doesn't change the fact that you don't have a clitoris. Instead of being so bitter, Why don't you pray to God to give you clitoris? Nothing is impossible with God.
DeleteAll these history on top clit matter.. I know u are *clitless*.. Na y the thing the bite u. Sorry ooo.. But all these won't change the fact that u wish u had a clit.
DeleteNa her uncircumcised clit make all this men wan die untop her toto . Big clit rules mehhn. Glad I have a big one . *stroking it * .
ReplyDeleteBetween a circumcised and an uncircumcised clit? I think I prefer the former. The latter can be quite disgusting to look at.😩😩😩
DeleteI tell you oh, don't know what the fuss is about, nowadays no one uses a knife,I was circumcised but not with a knife ,all mothers do these days is apply dusting powder there and rub and massage it very well,all a little while it will shape up and look beautiful.all these white making noise pays tons of money during their adult life to make their clit look beautiful like our own.yet they will come on the pages of newspaper to be screaming. My baby girl was not cut but massaged with powder,so was I and alot of others i know and that has never stopped me from enjoying sex.
DeleteEyah, anon 12:56 console your self, at least you can sleep better by telling your ‘clitless' self that lie.
DeleteOlori, thanks!!! It's indeed a great move.
ReplyDeleteSo many who xperienced this are already so much depressed.
I am a victim too .. It's just lik a tradition. My grandparents see it as d right thing to do .. It is don for all d women in our family ..!most are married now but dey dnt discuss der sex life soo I dnt knw if dey regret being circumcised.. However for me, I hate it but I can't blame them .. My parents are d best in d world dey just did what others see as d best option to keep ladies from being promiscuous .. I am just 23 now and I am sexually active .. I told my mum I Wil never circumcise my female daughters cos doing it hasn't stop me from having sex .. Although I hardly feel orgasm but when doing it with someone you love.. You enjoy it , u feel Somthing , u shiver.. The bottom line is its not really a death sentence lik ppl take it , some guys dump der grl frnds just bcos of it .. So I am Alwz careful wit d kind of guy I date .. He has to be soo in lov wit me that sex gan is d least of d reason he is wit me .. Am not really bothered about d circumcision cos some are not circumcised and dey hate sex .. I love sex and I do it constantly sef ... But I hate d touch of som1 I care less about .. My daughters will never b circumcised . Never . If my grandma want to kill herself untop my matter .. She's free to go .
ReplyDelete.. My happiness is d key
Why don't u just tie ur legs and pretend to be a mermaid?
DeleteWho pre-marital sex don epp?
I will like to see what a circumcised clit looks like ... *now running to google*
DeleteI was mutilated, I married as a vigine, I never really enjoy sex, I only cum sometimes when I get head. My daughters by the grace of God will never experience it.
ReplyDeleteReminds me of keyanna Moore and her famous clit .
ReplyDeleteI'll give a little lecture on female genital mutilations.
ReplyDeleteits an unhealthy cultural practice.
Some of the types done in Nigeria include:
1) Excision of the prepuce with or without excision of parts of entire clitoris.
2)Excision of the hooded clitoris together with partial or total excision of the labia minora.
3) Excision of part or all of the external genitalia with or without stitching of the raw edge together.
4) unclassified... This includes incision that extends from the vaginal opening either from the front or back with damages to the urinary bladder, rectum E.t.c.
Some of the negative effects include:
Excessive bleeding
Psychological trauma
Recurrent tears (yes, it could tear again when a penis is inserted or during childbirth... Especially the type 3... When the edges are sewn leaving a very tiny hole)
Phobia for sex.... (so many complain they can't get an organsm... Some develop dryness of the vagina at the thought of sex)
The psychological trauma nko..... Some develop mild mental illness(neurosis) as a result of this.
Keloid and cyst formation
Infections
Systematic perforations E.g vvf.... Yes vvf can be gotten..... Especially from the type 4.
Low self esteem.
Death could occur
I forgot to add infertility ( unsterile materials could be used for the procedure, leading to ascending infections..
they could be recurrent.... May may be left untreated......bam! Infertility)
Some of the assumptions to justify this practice include:
Religion
They say it beautified the vagina.
Reduction of libido.
It enhances pleasure in men.
The clitoris poses a challenge and competition to the penis.e.t.c
The truth is: Alot of these things were done out of ignorance .... Since we know better, its best not to endanger the lives of our children. I've seen individuals with it and the harm it has done them. Lets educate others about this... We could end up saving lives...
I'm sure no one wants his/her daughter to go through such. Just imagining it is terrible enough.
Some clitoris are do disgusting to look at that I always feel grateful mine was 'beautified' and yes, I enjoy sex.
ReplyDeleteMISS Jacobs.
i was not circumcised. However, i think sexual satisfaction is not a major worry for those circumcised.
ReplyDeletethe physical and psychological trauma is being underplayed. Ladies circumcised when they are wise is very traumatic. this also excludes possibility of an infection that migh never ill or even lead to death of the girls.
I was never the Queen's fan. But this move has earned my respect. Please lend your voice to this and many more
Yes I was cut there too and I still enjoy sex very much and i get organsm! But no no for my girls.
ReplyDeleteI was also cut but I have no issues at all!
ReplyDeleteI have dis roommate of mine with the longestclitoris.When she is just standing,you wI'll see the clitos very long and dangling.Haba
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