Labour Room Drama - 27 And 28

I have one Innocent question to ask..Why are people so scared of giving birth via CS?Does it make anyone less of a person?Is there shame attached to it?

LRD 27

Hi Mrs dimoko thank you for giving us a platform to share our experiences. I am the lady who sent in her chronicles  about the baby mama that send nudes and still there. ...remember i told you am a single mum........

In 2011 when I found out I was preggy at age 19 of course it wasn't a surprise as I was sexually active. ......but I was devastated ahhh....where will I start from who will I run to were the questions I kept asking myself.....my then boyfriend cajoled me into keeping the baby coz he is an only child with a frail and aged mother....

So I decided to keep the baby .....I was in my 3rd year in school so I registered  for ante natal in ijebu igbo coz I schooled in ago iwoye......fast forward to the delivery date coz my edd was 01/30/2016 I had moved to ibadan at my grannys place to hide my shame.....few days to birthing my daughter I was terribly sick I had tyhphoid fever so I was rushed to the hospital and admitted and my mum had to rush down to ibadan ......at some point I couldnt feel my baby's movement .

doctors came to check her heartbeat but kept mute whenever we asked them what was wrong and we noticed they always wore a worried face afterwards ....few hours later I was booked for a cesearian section 'mogbe' my mother exclaimed and began to roll on the floor wailing .I just laid dumb on the bed too weak to cry or talk ....the doctors  didnt give me the opportunity to  even push  or experience the real Labour ......meanwhile my mum was still rolling on the floor my grandma too was wailing .

Baby daddy was in Lagos maybe on top another girl sef (how I wan know).....to cut my long story short,they inserted a catheter  into my vjay kai the pain entered my head oh.....I was wheeled into the theatre and all I remember was the doctor asking me some questions after the aesthetics  I was offffffffff.....hours later I was out of my long sleeeeep I woke up to see my Angel with blue eyeballs and a very fair skin.....my mum carried her and was in tears ....I woke up with prayers in my mouth for my mother as I was moved when i saw her in tears coz my mama isn't usually moved and to me she was 'Margaret Thatcher young sister '.....  but i saw her softer  side that day ........ later the doctors came in to explain that my baby's heartbeat had totally dropped  and there was no single drop of water in my amniotic sack  as the thypoid had  drained the amnotic fluid therefore the baby cldnt breathe well.....but the pain after the stitches no be here oh.....I thank God for his faithfulness since then.

I have attached a picture of her and myself for you to see...shes got a great sense of humour now....

*Your daughter is so lovely but your beauty and slim frame and height caught my attention...Ever thought of trying to model?you have a kind of unique beauty.hope you have settle your chronicles brouhaha?

Back to your LRD,I didnt know that they put someone to sleep during CS,isnt that dangerous,especially with the fact that you were really sick?

Or you mean you fainted during the CS?

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LRD 28

Greetings to you darling Stella, I just thought I share my labour room experience, so here it goes.......

When I was 40 weeks, labour still hadn't progressed and cervix too wasn't opening, in fact no contractions at all{ in fact then I would jog from the beginning of the park till the end, street to street with my lil niece, nothing still happened], so by 41 +6 days my midwife booked me to be induced so I packed my hospital bag and off we went and there and then the whole process started from the cervical sweep, they used the gel, oxytocin still nothing worked o, meanwhile the midwife was monitoring my son's heartbeat on the screen and making sure everything was OK. 

So hours later o , I still hadn't progressed much, and I was in serious pain, so requested for epidural and that brought down the pain considerably , still few hours nothing happened still. 

Then all of a sudden the monitor was making a loud continuous sound and the midwife rushed out and before I knew it about six surgeons including doctors and nurses came in and tried to explain to us that my baby's heartbeat had dropped and since my cervix wasn't opening like it's supposed to that they would have to wheel me to the theatre and get the baby out fast, Coman see shock and fear written on hubby's face, lol.

 he started crying profusely saying that I'm someone's child and he doesn't want anything to happen to me and they started petting him that nothing will happen that they carry out many Ceasarian operations daily so he has nothing to be scared of, me sef that was seriously tired was begging him that he shouldn't cry and that  they should just get the baby out that I don't want vaginal birth anymore, lol , so they sha gave him uniform just like theirs and they wheeled me down to the theatre, and hubby was reluctant but I could hear them telling him everything would be fine. 

And after 40 mins they brought my son out, lovely boy with a head full of hair, cleaned me up and back to the recovery ward. Well we spent 5days because my son had an infection, blisters on his skin, and they said 'twas because he spent too much time in my belly{41+6days} 

Well the experience taught me when twas time to have my second child and due to my previous record they just didn't wanna take any chances again, I was booked for an induction, still labour didn't progress much and eventually did CS the second time. All thanks be to the almighty , abeg sorry for my long epistle, e ma binu😀,       

Pic for your eye only Stella 😊😅

*Cheiiii i was tempted to include the photo,omg...see small pikin with sexy bulgy eyes,wow!!!..he must have spent too much looking inside...lol