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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
BUSINESS BETRAYAL NUMERO UNO

Stellz

I just have to get this off my chest as it has been weighing me down.

So I have this friend who sometime early this year came and told me her company was laying off people at the end of that month and as such she was scared if her name would be on the list. I advised that this was the right time for her to think of a Plan B. Get another source of income I said. I mapped out something I knew she loved doing and told her to give it a trial. Instead of doing it for free you can now charge a token for it I said. She was very happy and thanked me. Even if you scale this sack at least U now have something to fall back on. At that time I also was running a small "buy and resell " by the side. At the end of that month she didn't make the sack and thus the biz idea died down. 

At around July(i had not been paid where I work then for 3months) I decided to intensify my own biz. Thanks also to Stella who supported me with a sum, my biz started booming gradually. Like a week later my friend said she was ready to start her own biz . I encouraged her and even followed her to the market. Two weeks after she told me she would love to add my line of biz to hers also. She begged that I showed her the ropes and on the Monday of the Sallah public holiday I took her to meet all my suppliers. She jokingly asked me what my next plans was for the biz and I told her. Told her of how I also planned to go about getting more funds so as to expand and other marketing strategies I had in mind.

The next day being Tuesday I fell very sick and had to be hospitalized till Friday‎. By Monday I found out that my so called friend had started working on all the strategies I told her. She had even gone the extra length of telling my suppliers to contact her directly first when goods arrive. As if that was not enough the channel I wanted to get the funds also had been sabotaged by her.

How can someone just decide to take advantage of another person's openness. Was I wrong in any way? Lord knows the only thing I wanted for her was her own good also. Shey they say the sky is big enough for birds to fly without running into each other. She knows I am going to be out of paid employment at the end of this month and that this biz means everything to me but still she chose to act this way.

To add insult to injury she's forming annoyance with me and is even putting up a bold face like nothing happened.

A part of me wants to bone her also while the God fearing side feels I should let go of the hurt and relate with her like nothing happened.

*Let go of the hurt but do not let her in on anything that concerns you or your business again....Loyalty is rare but in these Buhari times,it is hard to find someone whos honesty is 100percent,people be betraying each other for a plate of ofada rice is just another way to capture your story.
Wise up.


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
BOYFRIEND ''IN THE ABROAD'' CHRONICLE..

Hi Stella.Can't believe I'm going to be sending my chronicles.Forgive my typo errors as I'm in a confused state right now.                                             

   I met my boyfriend on Instagram last year January and finally met December though he stays in d US met last year when he came.His loving always laughs at my jokes,checks on me always,doesn't want to see me sad talk more of crying. 

I'm sure he loves me and his the first man I've ever loved note that I'm in my middle '20' and I've dated other guys before but never actually loved them as much as I love this guy .

The problem is  when he came back December I travelled down to see him but before then he was complaining he had problems with his account in Nigeria and I should lend him money but because of the love I have for him I had to lend him,travelled down with my money he couldn't even give me money when I left note that I didn't complain cos I trusted him.

I noticed I was pregnant after one month and told him and by then he was still in Nigeria he asked me if I wanted to keep it and I said yes along the line he started acting,refused to take my calls...

 I cried and cried cos I didn't even know anything about him or his house.I removed the baby and tried to move on but April this year he started calling me and apologizing that I should forgive him that he was in a serious mess ,

now tell me the mess he couldn't say.He kept calling along the line I forgave him and we got back together but I lost all trust in him.

 we weren't talking the way we were but I still loved him.He came into the country last week and I went to see him but I was very careful this time around .Stella u need to see all the gifts he got for me to makeup and gave me plenty money when I was leaving..

   I went to church yesterday and the prophet told me he sees him and that the guy is not a straight forward guy plus he sees other women and still pretends to me like I'm the love of his life and that I shouldn't go on with him that I'm going to regret it in the future and that he sees I really love the guy.

Stella I love this guy seriously not for the money cos obviously I was there for him when he was down but my problem is the prophet said everything right except that I haven't noticed if he sees other women but hes never straight forward but I've been thinking I can manage him like that.

 I'm confused I don't know what to do

     Sorry for the lengthy chronicle it's as it is in my heart I poured it here please bear with me .God bless you    

*Manage him?he will get worse!..I am sorry but you do not even need a prohpet to tell you to pick up your shoes and RUN..you should have kept that baby,why did you take it off?.....

You have seen the signs,act wisely my darling!